The Truth About "Male Status", And The Best Thing You Can Do About It

What you are about to read is so INSANELY powerful for skyrocketing your success with women, and is also so EASY to use, that I am ECSTATIC to share it with you. 

In order for you to get the most out of what I am about to say, it’s important that you understand that I am a man who is not interested in meaningless superficial relationships, and that my passion is about that magical combination of attraction plus a shared sense of values, including an appreciation for spirituality, family, loyalty, and other priceless intangibles.

Please check out this short film I made that is all about this very issue:

In order to GET to that point of having a woman attracted to you, you have to first meet and attract her in the first place, right?

And the greatest single challenge that men have when it comes to making the approach and striking up an effective conversation with women, including women who are total strangers, is an INTERNAL obstacle, and specifically it is a feeling of NOT BEING WORTHY, not being of enough VALUE, including a particular kind of value known as having STATUS.

And it’s really that feeling of having inadequate STATUS that is the real bugger.

This is because, on some level, be it through observation, gut-instinct, or hearing it from other men or women, most men know that having high STATUS tends to get a man respect and a certain amount of “credit” in terms of being a contender in the game of attracting women.

So, for example, if you knew you were the KING of some place, or if you were some top pilot or general or athlete or celebrity, you would probably feel at least SOME kind of status, and even if you didn’t FEEL it, you would know you could USE it.

But here’s the thing: You can get about the SAME IMPACT from simply BEHAVING as if you have status, that you would from actually HAVING the high status, and if you KEEP IT UP, you can actually get MORE impact in terms of attracting women, than you would get if you were some “official high status position” dude who didn’t actually BEHAVE in a high-status way.

And now get ready for this, because here is where it gets REALLY fascinating: 

The whole CONCEPT of status is EXTREMELY MALLEABLE because as human beings, the only reason women CARE about the high-status when it comes to men is because of the FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELING it gives them.  

That feeling is a combination of protection, safety, and feeling feminine in the presence of a man who is extremely SECURE. 

In other words, high status, as far as it being important in attracting a woman, is really just a FEEEEEEEEEEEELING she has for you. 

How you TRIGGER that feeling doesn't change the bottom line- it is a FEELING.  

It really IS all in the mind, or should I say the MINDS, because it’s not just women’s minds that are in this- it’s YOURS as well, because if you want to do this MOST effectively, then you need to start whipping your OWN emotions into SHAPE- you need to start KICKING your weak emotions and your insecurities in the BUTT.

And let me make one thing super-clear- this is NOT about putting on a SHOW, or putting on an ACT, even if at first it FEELS like that because it is so NEW to you because you have been acting in the insecure ways for so long.

If you think about it, all high status behavior really means is behaving in a way where you are EXTREMELY COMFORTABLE and where you feel no need to either be mean OR to kiss up, and you don’t feel a need to APOLOGIZE for approaching a woman, and you don’t feel a need to LIE to say that you are something you aren’t. 

You also don’t feel a need to put others down,  and you are also so secure with yourself that you are in POSITIVE MOOD, which means you can joke around but also that you aren’t obsessed with trying to be a comedian.

You are TRULY COMFORTABLE IN YOUR OWN SKIN, that’s what it means.

It really is THAT simple.

So, you can approach ANY woman, or any GROUP of women, ANYWHERE- but the problem is most guys end up being THROWN OFF COURSE by any of a HUNDRED different possible things.

So, for example, let’s say a woman says to you when you approach her, “So is this your little game you play, you try to see how many women you can get numbers from by approaching them in random places like this?”

Now, by the way, most women DON’T say things are harsh as that, but even if you DID get a woman saying something like that to you, the truth is it DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS NOT INTERESTED, and in fact what she is doing, whether she intended to or not, is giving you a MASSIVE OPPORTUNITY to demonstrate HIGH STATUS BEHAVIOR.

So, for example, rather than BUCKLE under pressure, and rather than starting to apologize or excuse yourself or try to explain in some weak namby-pamby voice that you really genuinely wanted to talk to her, and rather than you becoming defensive and starting to argue with her, you instead ask yourself what would a man who TRULY FEELS ALL IS GOOD AND SECURE would say. 

Well, he might say something like this, with just a hint of a smirk on his face: “Is it working?”

That tells her a bunch of things at once- it says you aren’t threatened by her comment, it says you have a good attitude and a sense of humor, it says you don’t feel a need to apologize for being interested in her or in women in general, and it says you are calm under pressure.

Now that is HIGH STATUS behavior.

And with a little practice, it doesn’t have to be rocket-science.

And just to prove how it’s not some magic words, but the general idea and attitude, I want to give a bunch of other responses that would be equally effective:

“You’re perceptive, and articulate.  I’m curious, what do you do?”

A response like that shows that rather than being thrown off course or unnerved, you were calm enough to notice that she sized up a situation quickly and is quite good with words, and you are curious now about the rest of her personality. 

And it shows how you can take control of a situation, because you now redirected the entire conversation toward a deeper level, rather than accept her terms of the situation, and you did it all calmly- in fact you even managed to give her a genuine compliment in the process.

By adopting a HIGH STATUS PERSPECTIVE, you start to automatically say the right things and you start to adopt the right behaviors.

You become more PRESENT, since you aren’t worried about her approval or not, since you already feel high worth. So, therefore, you are better able to focus on the moment, and you become more mentally and physically resourceful since your mind is calm and you can think better when you are calm.

You stop accepting all the NEGATIVE MESSAGES you hear from various sources, messages that tell you why you are not good enough, not rich enough, not smart enough, not WHATEVER enough- you STOP letting that crap affect you, and you instead start focusing on EXPLORING YOUR FULL POTENTIAL.

So rather than being worried about REJECTION, you are more CURIOUS to see WHAT HAPPENS, and you ENJOY the process, since at the end of the day, you already KNOW your sense of worth does NOT depend on the outcome- in fact, you start to base your sense of identity on taking action.

For example, in my own development, I remember the WORST FEELING was NOT approaching a woman and then regretting it for DAYS sometimes WEEKS.  On the flip side, if I DID take action, then no matter WHAT happened, I would feel ELATED, because to me the feeling of NOT GIVING INTO MY FEARS is what REALLY FELT AWESOME. Not being a slave to one’s fears is the most exhilarating feeling of all.

And of course, that attitude resulted in me making tons of approaches, year in and year out, and learning new things from each approach, which really helped a LOT.

And one of the COOLEST THINGS I learned is that there are NO RULES, you can basically write your own STORY of how you want things to UNFOLD when you approach a woman, and a woman will follow the story as long as YOU are COOL with it.

Whether that means you want to instant-date her right where you met her at the coffee shop, supermarket, or anywhere, or whether that means you want to things to develop slowly or quickly, or whether you are ready for a relationship or just dating, you can do whatever you want- and although not every woman will be on the exact same page with you, I have found that a lot more women are on the same page as you than you might think- as long as YOU know clearly what you want, and you don’t play immature games like being dishonest.   

Your potential with women is truly UNLIMITED, the only LIMITS are the ones your OWN MIND places on yourself.

And if you would like to learn how to GET to that level as QUICKLY as possible, then this is where I come in: In my live, exclusive, in-person, bootcamp program, I do two things. First, I take care of the whole INTERNAL side of things- how to get your inner state of mind to be at PEAK form.

The next thing I do is teach you the best way to actually APPLY ALL THIS in your interactions with women in the form of DIRECT APPROACHES. I actually demonstrate this for you, and then guide you along every step of the way so that you can do it as well.

By "DIRECT APPROACHES" here, I mean you approach women you see ANYWHERE- women who are TOTAL STRANGERS, and you go right up to them and get them attracted and connected on a deep level.

It gets even better- you will learn how to do all this in a way that LASTS.  You will not have to learn any gimmicks, you will not be using any lies, you will not be doing anything that is inconsistent with who you really are. This way, you will be able to USE what you learn and master in bootcamp for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH ALL THE WOMEN YOU MEET.

Congruency is a HUGE priority for me, both in my own approaches and in the way I teach men to acquire these skills and in the way men USE these skills.

Since the things you learn and master will be CONSISTENT WITH YOUR PERSONALITY, you will feel COMFORTABLE using them on women for the rest of your life.  

And of course, the results will be better too, since women can sense the difference in a man who is congruent.

As they say, it’s a free country. You can go to anyone you want to when it comes to your search for someone who can teach you these skills in the most powerful way possible. But if you are looking for the best coach on how to get yourself a woman who is the total package, I am absolutely certain that I am the best coach for you, and here’s how you can be certain as well:

1. My work has been verified by journalists from the largest newspapers in Canada. 

In fact, one of those reports was made over the course of several WEEKS, where the journalist followed the progress of SEVERAL men who took my in-person coaching.  Almost every single report from the men was OVERWHELMINGLY positive, and the men gave their reports directly to her. The men were not paid one cent by me.  In fact, I didn’t even know what they said about me till I read the report myself in the newspaper.

And, also, on top of this, the report was not made by some cherry-picked journalist of my choosing, it was actually written by a woman who had no reason to make me look good.  She was not paid one cent by me, and she was not anyone I knew or had any relationship with whatsoever.

2.  I have never resorted to gimmicks or “sold-out”.

Throughout the years, there have been all kinds of attraction gimmicks, and I have never been a part of it- even though there was quite a bit of money to be made had I done so.

3. You receive EXCLUSIVE coaching in my bootcamp.

I know that every man is DIFFERENT. So I need to focus on ONE man at a time. In an age where everything is about mass-consumption and mass-production to maximize profits, I know the truth- which is that private instruction and private coaching allows me to help you the MOST.

So bootcamp with me is PRIVATE and EXCLUSIVE.  It's only YOU, and that means every second you are  absorbing more and more, getting better and better, and not having one second of your time used on anything BUT making you better.

There is no dividing your time with other students-the entire bootcamp is devoted to you. One client per bootcamp per weekend.

It allows me to take the time and devote it to YOU, to PINPOINT exactly what YOU need to SKYROCKET your success, and it allows YOU to get the results with women AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.

4. I am congruent- the only thing that matters to me is the TRUTH about success with women, and I stick to THAT.  I don’t have a gimmick- my “brand” is one thing only- THE TRUTH IN GETTING SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

To find out more about my bootcamp program, just email me at:

michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

You can also check out my bootcamp page at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

If you would like to learn more about how I can help you get the success you want with women, visit my website at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Do Nice Guys REALLY Finish Last With Women?

Do nice guys REALLY finish last with women?
You are about to get the SOLID EVIDENCE to
answer this question once and for all!

Since day one, the biggest thing to me has
been to stay AWAY from all gimmicks.

In fact, if you read my very first book,
The Dating Wizard, which was published
in 2003, you can see that I was against the
use of all sorts of gimmicks back then, and
that this book teaches how you can truly
BECOME the man that women want instead
of how to put on an "act".

One of the biggest things I have been teaching
throughout the years are things that fly in the
face of "accepted practice", and that is because
"accepted practices" such as smiling at women
and showing them how NICE I could be got me
NOWHERE with women.

On the other hand, as I started to become far
LESS NICE, and did a LOT LESS SMILING, I
noticed way, way, WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY
better results.

This used to drive me nuts, and I could not figure
it out, as I used to think women loved MEAN men.

Then, I finally realized that it was all about a
tiny SUBTLETY; it was about the SUBTLE
messages being given off by all that smiling
and niceness.

The message was:
"I HAVE LOW  VALUE AND STATUS AND WILL
KISS YOUR BUTT JUST FOR THE CHANCE
TO BE WITH YOU."

And women, across ALL cultures and geographic
regions of the PLANET, are not attracted to men
who behave with LOW confidence, men who
behave as if they have no POWER.

In other words, men with no PRIDE.
So, you COULD smile at a woman, but the fact
is, the way MOST men smile at women who
are hot is a SUBMISSIVE smile.

It is not the kind of smile that says YOU want ME.
It is a smile that says the following:

"I want YOU but I don't have the value to be
WORTHY of you. Therefore, I am going to SHOW
you through this smile how much I will SERVE
you, be submissive to you, and do whatever
you want, because I feel that is a fair deal
since YOU have the value and I don't'."

And, ultimately, a woman feels far more DESIRABLE
when the desire is coming from a man who KNOWS
he is wanted and who ALSO wants HER.

After all, if a man feels he has no value, then his
desire for her is NOT as flattering as it would be
if he KNEW and FELT and BEHAVED like he
was the ULTIMATE man.

Yes, women DO want to be lusted after, but it has
to be by a man who isn't behaving as if HE has
no worth.

So, for example, you could even TELL a woman
a compliment IF that compliment is delivered
in a way that shows you BELIEVE she will be
FLATTERED by it, rather than if you believe
you NEED to do those kinds of things to
get her to "agree" to be with you.

And I received an email from a cool guy
with yet even MORE RESEARCH that PROVES
every thing I have been saying.

In fact, not only is PRIDE and CONFIDENCE something
that is viewed as making men MORE attractive, but
it makes women seem LESS attractive, and in fact
when women behave in a somewhat FRIENDLIER
and even slightly SUBMISSIVE way, women are
viewed as MORE attractive.

This is UNIVERSAL across cultures.
So much for what SOME feminists say, i.e. that
"it is just a matter of "culture" and environment that
makes men prefer women who DO smile, who DO
behave friendly."

Men do NOT get turned on by the same behaviors
in women as women get turned on by in MEN.

Men should exhibit PROUD expressions and
women should exhibit FRIENDLY expressions
IF they want to be at their "sexiest".

Here are some quotes from a recent study by
Jessica L. Tracy and Alec T. Beall from the
University of British Columbia concerning
"The Impact of Emotion Expressions on Sexual
Attraction."

"Across two studies using different images
and samples ranging broadly in age (total N _ 1041),
a large gender difference emerged in the sexual
attractiveness of happy displays: happiness was
the most attractive female emotion expression,
and one of the least attractive in males.

In contrast, pride showed the reverse pattern;
it was the most attractive male expression, and
one of the least attractive in women."

The study also goes on to say that while smiling
may be SOCIALLY the right thing to do for
both men and women, it HARMS the initial
attractiveness of men to women, but it INCREASES
the attractiveness of women.

This is why for MEN, not exactly trying to "fit in"
is often PART of what makes a man attractive, even
though it costs him some social points with the
rest of society.

So now you can understand why so many women
LOVE "bad boys" but why most men don't find
"bad girls" to be sexy.

But you do not HAVE to be a "bad boy", you just
have to behave with DOMINANCE.

Going too far with being a "bad boy" will
DESTROY your relationships. Ultimately,
if your behavior makes her feel WORSE
rather than better, then you're going
too far.

And if you haven't yet downloaded my program
"Attraction Accelerators" then definitely do
that NOW.

This program shows you strategies you can
put into use IMMEDIATELY to start attracting
women TODAY.

And of course, you will find this program
is BURSTING WITH TONS OF NEW material that
is not in any of my other programs.  I make
sure that ALL my programs are this way,
they all give you IMPORTANT NEW MATERIAL
for giving you MAXIMUM SUCCESS with women. 

I know you are going to absolutely LOVE this
program.

It's also an INSANE price, seriously.
It is only $19.97 and you can download it
IMMEDIATELY and be using it on women today.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/attraction-accelerators.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks                

Show Dominance When Approaching Women

First things first, here’s an important new video on
the “how to” of approaching and attracting women,
and you can use it right now to TURBOCHARGE your
results with women!



Today, I’m going to share with you a crucial
strategy you can easily apply to successfully
approach women. It’s all based on real world
research and testing and I’ve been using this
for YEARS, including in my live workshops
with guys as we approach women just about
everywhere.

In order to fully understand how to use the
strategy I am about to show you, it is crucial
to understand one thing:

Being a powerful, dominant man is the strongest
force when it comes to attracting women, and in
fact to women, the form of power known as
DOMINANCE is particularly important when
they instinctively and subconsciously size up a man.

Let me go even further to make this even more clear:
Superficial types of attraction, such as a guy having
“good looks” simply doesn’t mean the same thing
to women as a woman being “good looking” means
to men. Sure, great looks do indeed appeal to
women, but the good looks really means FAR LESS
to women than it means to men.

The proof of this is all around us. How many male
models can women name? How many female
models can men name? How many strip clubs
are there for women where men take their clothes
off? How many strip clubs are there for men
where women take their clothes off?

The massive imbalance here tells you something
right away: Women simply aren’t as COMPELLED
to chase a man because he is “good looking” as
MEN are compelled to chase a woman because
she is good looking.

Ahh, but now, let’s flip this around to POWER.
See, good ol Brad Pitt, before he became a
movie star and a famous celebrity and thus
“a power broker”, actually had a HARD TIME
with women, according to his own words in
countless interviews.

In other words, he actually didn’t have it much
different than other guys when he was doing
regular guy things like being a waiter, etc.

And let’s take this even further:
How many men chase women who are powerful?
How man WOMEN chase MEN who are powerful?

This is why women care more about the fact that a
man has POWER, STATUS, and DOMINANCE
than the fact he is super good looking, etc.

And here’s the thing: Just like men can’t help it
but go crazy for women who give off the signs
of beauty, women can’t help it but go crazy for
men who give off the signs of DOMINANCE.

In fact, it’s a bit more complicated than that,
because it’s not exactly like women get immediately
“soaked” by power and status OR by great looks,
it’s more like women immediately feel the primal
need to GET CLOSER with this man and learn
more about him.

Female sexuality takes a little more “warming up”
than male sexuality. Male sexuality is “ready to go”
at any moment. Women become OPEN to the
idea of escalating physically with such a man.

This actually all makes a lot of sense on an
evolutionary level. Women are the ones that
have to carry a baby for nine months, women
are the ones that can only have a limited
amount of children, women have a LOT
invested in making the RIGHT CHOICE
for their reproductive partner.

So that man has to display the traits of power,
status, and dominance in society to show that
his DNA will produce another child that will
ALSO be a survivor and who will thrive in
the crazy jungle of life. Also, this man’s
power and status and dominance probably
also mean he has access to the resources
like food and shelter for survival of the
family unit.

Meanwhile, male sexuality is a little different.
Men, in evolutionary perspectives, didn’t have
as much invested in any ONE woman, and
also could never know for sure if their woman
was faithful, so to ensure that they DID have
their own offspring, they evolved to impregnate
many women, thus increasing the chances for
actually having a child of their own.

By the way, none of this should be taken as
a MORAL imperative for today. I’m simply
speaking about the way attraction works.

So, now that it’s totally clear how important
DOMINANCE and POWER and STATUS is, let me show
you how to convey all these things in the very
FIRST MOMENTS you approach and meet a woman.

DO NOT ALLOW YOUR VOCAL TONALITY TO FLUCTUATE!

Think about how your voice sounds when you
are feeling an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE to
something.

Whether it’s HAPPY, SAD, ANGRY, FEARFUL,
HOPEFULL, or any OTHER emotion!

What happens is your TONALITY changes!

For example, when you are feeling FEARFUL,
your pitch tends to RISE, right? When feeling
depressed, it tends to lower and get faded.
When feeling happy, it gets more energy.

Now, imagine a monitor was TRACKING the
way one’s voice changed if that voice kept on
showing a TON of emotional reactions.

Imagine it looked like a line on a graph, and
the line kept jumping up and down, like an
erratic heartbeat on a monitor.

Well, what you want to do with your tonality
is actually stay on a STRAIGHT LINE.

Unlike the heartbeat monitor, where a straight
line means the worst thing, a straight FLAT
LINE when it comes to your VOCAL TONALITY
when approaching a woman is actually the
BEST thing.

This is because the LACK of fluctuation, the lack
of CHANGING tonalities, the lack of movement
from the STRAIGHT baseline, shows that you
are NOT having ANY emotional reactions to
the conversation.

On a subconscious level, this shows that you
believe that YOU have massive value and
as such, the CONVERSATION WITH THIS
WOMAN is not a big deal to you.

You can ONLY have an emotional reaction
to something if you believe that thing is
IMPORTANT.

Happy, sad, ecstatic, angry, or depressed, you
simply can’t have these emotions and NOT
feel that indeed things are important enough
to either get depressed about, happy about,
angry about, etc.

Now, most guys, when they approach a
woman they like, they tend to have their
voices going all over the place – the voices
FLUCTATE a lot.

So, for example, they may be really HAPPY
the woman is talking to them. Then, they
may be FEARFUL that the woman doesn’t
like them. Or, they may be DISAPPOINTED
if the woman isn’t immediately showing
signs of massive interest.

All these emotions show in the VOICE.

The flip side of all of this is that if you DON’T
HAVE EMOTIONS in your voice, then clearly
NOTHING too important is going on OUTSIDE
of you.

In other words, you don’t feel OUTBALANCED
by the IMPORTANCE of this woman.

Now, from a woman’s standpoint, this makes
you a GIVER, and the holder of HIGHER
value.

Most guys she meets, she can’t help but feel
SHE is the superior value, and that the guy
is an INFERIOR value. After all, this is
the message the guys are giving off in
their TONALITY.

They are REACTING to something very
IMPORTANT, to something that’s a
BIG DEAL—THE WOMAN.

A woman would rather meet a guy who
is a “big deal” to HER! She’s sick and
tired of meeting guys who she ISN’T
interested in but who are all so interested
in HER.

So make no mistake about it, this is not about
making the woman UNIMPORTANT, it’s
about making sure that YOU don’t come
across as YOU being unimportant.

And the way most men behave when they
approach and interact with a woman who is
attractive simply makes the men come
across as UNIMPORTANT because they
are having EMOTIONAL REACTIONS
that are so evident in their TONALITY.

So, the way to ensure this is not happening
is to make sure that your voice tone does
not fluctuate. Each fluctuation is a sign
of an emotional reaction, and each emotional
reaction is a sign that you feel she is so
important compared to you.

This does not mean that you should come across
as a lifeless, boring robot, as your voice tone can
still show resonance, sensuality, and confidence,
all without fluctuating much from the baseline.

And if you want to master the skills of attracting
women, I suggest you take advantage of my
home study programs, and when you’re ready
for the big leagues, sign up for my Real World
Bootcamp, where you will be trained by me
in an exclusive one-on-one program that is
custom made just for you.

The Real World Bootcamp is guaranteed to
take you to the next level of success with
women no matter who you are, and take
you there faster than anything else on
earth. This program combines the best
of all worlds- you are getting trained
in the real world, you are getting the
best coaching instruction LIVE and
custom made for you to ensure your
maximum progress, and you are getting
ALL of my focus and time.

This program truly is ONE-to-ONE.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

To find out about all my home study programs,
go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Each one of my home study programs is the
result of YEARS of real world experience
teaching men how to get the best results with
high quality women, and you owe it to yourself
to check them out right now.

Till next time,

Michael Marks