Do Nice Guys REALLY Finish Last With Women?

Do nice guys REALLY finish last with women?
You are about to get the SOLID EVIDENCE to
answer this question once and for all!

Since day one, the biggest thing to me has
been to stay AWAY from all gimmicks.

In fact, if you read my very first book,
The Dating Wizard, which was published
in 2003, you can see that I was against the
use of all sorts of gimmicks back then, and
that this book teaches how you can truly
BECOME the man that women want instead
of how to put on an "act".

One of the biggest things I have been teaching
throughout the years are things that fly in the
face of "accepted practice", and that is because
"accepted practices" such as smiling at women
and showing them how NICE I could be got me
NOWHERE with women.

On the other hand, as I started to become far
LESS NICE, and did a LOT LESS SMILING, I
noticed way, way, WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY
better results.

This used to drive me nuts, and I could not figure
it out, as I used to think women loved MEAN men.

Then, I finally realized that it was all about a
tiny SUBTLETY; it was about the SUBTLE
messages being given off by all that smiling
and niceness.

The message was:
"I HAVE LOW  VALUE AND STATUS AND WILL
KISS YOUR BUTT JUST FOR THE CHANCE
TO BE WITH YOU."

And women, across ALL cultures and geographic
regions of the PLANET, are not attracted to men
who behave with LOW confidence, men who
behave as if they have no POWER.

In other words, men with no PRIDE.
So, you COULD smile at a woman, but the fact
is, the way MOST men smile at women who
are hot is a SUBMISSIVE smile.

It is not the kind of smile that says YOU want ME.
It is a smile that says the following:

"I want YOU but I don't have the value to be
WORTHY of you. Therefore, I am going to SHOW
you through this smile how much I will SERVE
you, be submissive to you, and do whatever
you want, because I feel that is a fair deal
since YOU have the value and I don't'."

And, ultimately, a woman feels far more DESIRABLE
when the desire is coming from a man who KNOWS
he is wanted and who ALSO wants HER.

After all, if a man feels he has no value, then his
desire for her is NOT as flattering as it would be
if he KNEW and FELT and BEHAVED like he
was the ULTIMATE man.

Yes, women DO want to be lusted after, but it has
to be by a man who isn't behaving as if HE has
no worth.

So, for example, you could even TELL a woman
a compliment IF that compliment is delivered
in a way that shows you BELIEVE she will be
FLATTERED by it, rather than if you believe
you NEED to do those kinds of things to
get her to "agree" to be with you.

And I received an email from a cool guy
with yet even MORE RESEARCH that PROVES
every thing I have been saying.

In fact, not only is PRIDE and CONFIDENCE something
that is viewed as making men MORE attractive, but
it makes women seem LESS attractive, and in fact
when women behave in a somewhat FRIENDLIER
and even slightly SUBMISSIVE way, women are
viewed as MORE attractive.

This is UNIVERSAL across cultures.
So much for what SOME feminists say, i.e. that
"it is just a matter of "culture" and environment that
makes men prefer women who DO smile, who DO
behave friendly."

Men do NOT get turned on by the same behaviors
in women as women get turned on by in MEN.

Men should exhibit PROUD expressions and
women should exhibit FRIENDLY expressions
IF they want to be at their "sexiest".

Here are some quotes from a recent study by
Jessica L. Tracy and Alec T. Beall from the
University of British Columbia concerning
"The Impact of Emotion Expressions on Sexual
Attraction."

"Across two studies using different images
and samples ranging broadly in age (total N _ 1041),
a large gender difference emerged in the sexual
attractiveness of happy displays: happiness was
the most attractive female emotion expression,
and one of the least attractive in males.

In contrast, pride showed the reverse pattern;
it was the most attractive male expression, and
one of the least attractive in women."

The study also goes on to say that while smiling
may be SOCIALLY the right thing to do for
both men and women, it HARMS the initial
attractiveness of men to women, but it INCREASES
the attractiveness of women.

This is why for MEN, not exactly trying to "fit in"
is often PART of what makes a man attractive, even
though it costs him some social points with the
rest of society.

So now you can understand why so many women
LOVE "bad boys" but why most men don't find
"bad girls" to be sexy.

But you do not HAVE to be a "bad boy", you just
have to behave with DOMINANCE.

Going too far with being a "bad boy" will
DESTROY your relationships. Ultimately,
if your behavior makes her feel WORSE
rather than better, then you're going
too far.

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It's at:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks                

To Get A Quality Woman, Be A Real MAN, Not A Bad-BOY

Today, I thought I would just touch on
some MAJORLY important points as a
kind of "refresher" on what is crucial
if you want to not only succeed in
attracting women, but actually
attracting a quality woman, and
in a way where it sets up a strong
foundation for her becoming a great
girlfriend:

1. You Can't be a BADBOY if you
plan to actually have a long-term
relationship with a woman.

This is where many men get messed-up.

The "bad-boy" route might very well
work to INITIALLY attract SOME women,
but it will DEFINITELY screw up things
in the LONG term with a woman.

This is not a problem for men who
are not interested in having a
woman actually BE a girlfriend,
which is why the idea of being
a bad-boy became popular amongst
the seduction community, which is
interested not in love mixed with
sex, but just in sex alone.

If you don't believe me, just try
being a bad-boy in a relationship.

See how far you can go using backhanded
compliments, jealousy tactics, being
completely unreliable, and playing
hard-to-get.

These games are played by PLAYERS.

So here's how it goes:

Players play GAMES that manipulate women.
Nice guys are submissive and desperate for women.

But REAL MEN are ASSERTIVE.

That's why I created "The Assertive Man"
program, which you can download right now at:

Become The Assertive Man

On a related note:

2. 'Getting Women' Is Different Than Getting
A Great Girlfriend.  Quantity Ain't The Same
Thing As Quality. 

This is a fact that goes back to the beginning of time.
From Adam and Eve to Shakespearean times, 
till today, the wrong woman brings a man DOWN,
the right woman helps bring out the BEST in him.

For more details on getting a great woman, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

3. To Get A Great Girl For A Long-Term
Relationship, TRUST Is Paramount

Most quality women know they can't be foolish
if they are going to invest their emotions in a
man, ESPECIALLY if these women are seeking
a long-term relationship.

There is too much at stake, and so therefore
it becomes of PARAMOUNT importance
that a woman feels she can TRUST a man
in every way.
      
For a fantastic video that explore this,
please check this out:

How To Build Trust With A Woman

For my most advanced program on getting
and keeping a great woman go here:

How To Get And Keep A Quality Woman

Till next time,

Michael Marks

*Focused on helping men get a great girlfriend since 2003*

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/

"One of Michael's passions is not only just
how to attract women but also how to find
a great woman who would make a fantastic
girlfriend, and also how to create attraction
in a way that creates and builds trust, rather
than create attraction in a way that hurts trust
which a lot of guys do." -David DeAngelo,
best selling author.