If You Think She's OUT Of Your League................ Or You Think She Is IN Your League............. You're RIGHT Either Way

Today, I want to remind you of one of the most

important PILLARS of attracting women, and

this becomes even more important when

you're trying to attract a woman who you

find to be extraordinarily beautiful.

When it comes to attraction, as men, we can

BUILD attraction in women.  And yet, rather

than building attraction, we often DO THINGS

ON OUR OWN to HARM our own attractiveness.

There's a film, I've mentioned it before, called

"She's Out of My League", where this dude meets

this knockout, and the one thing he has about

himself is that he doesn't try to impress the

woman by being someone ELSE.  That's what

he has going for him.

Also, he has a bit of a sense of humor and he can
OWN his own lack of perfection, he can talk about
his own flaws in a way that takes out the steam
from them because once he's said it, it takes away
the power from that flaw since it's already been
expressed by him himself.   He can speak about
"the elephant in the room" which gets rid of the
POWER of that "elephant".

This is a strong quality, that if you have any flaws
that are massively evident, rather than trying to hide
them, let them be exposed by yourself, it shows
a lot more social intelligence that way, especially
if you aren't going on a rant about it, and you
seem pretty calm about it.

HOWEVER, the one DISASTROUS thing he does,
is that he CAN'T BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN AS
ATTRACTIVE AS HER CAN REALLY WANT TO
BE WITH HIM.

So, based on this belief, he interprets EVERYTHING
as a reason why this girl will not want to be with him.

Your self-concept is CRUCIAL here. So, if you believe
a woman is out of your league, your behaviors that follow
as a result of that belief will ensure she is repulsed.

On the other hand, if you believe a woman is "IN your league"
so to speak, then you will continue to do the behaviors that
keep on attracting her more and more.

Either way, your beliefs will become reality for those
reasons.  

The story in the film is a great illustration of the point.

While the girl is slowly getting more attracted to him
as the movie goes on, there is a point where his FEARS
start to screw things up with her, and one of the biggest
examples is when he SERIOUSLY HOPES she has
some MAJOR FLAW of her own, so that this way
he can feel she will more likely want to stay with him.

Think about that for a second- why on earth would
a man who is attracted to a woman who is treating
him RIGHT, and who is a KNOCKOUT, why
would he WISH that she actually had to have
some kind of DEFECT to her?

The answer is INSECURITY and NEEDINESS.
The insecurity says, "Well, if she has a flaw, then
maybe she will accept my flaws."

The NEEDINESS says that, "I can't feel good without
her, so I must find some way to KEEP her regardless
of what's good for her or not, in fact let's start WISHING
she had some problems, some DEFECT in fact!!
YEAH, that would be perfect!"

And this is not just a movie thing, it's very common
to REAL LIFE.  When feeling insecure and needy,
it's quite HUMAN to almost wish there was SOME
flaw to the "perfectness" of the other person, the
woman who we think is "OUT OF OUR LEAGUE".

Now, think about it from the woman's point of view:
How can she love a man who SERIOUSLY WISHES SHE
HAS OR WILL GET SOME DEFECT????????????????

Just because HE is afraid that he is not good enough for her.

The point of all this, is that INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS
can turn a guy who is slowly growing on a woman into being
a guy who went from being a 5 or 6 into being an 8, 9, or 10,
and then this INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS constantly
CUTS HIM DOWN BY ANOTHER "POINT".

Self-Esteem
She's Out of My League at MOVIECLIPS.com

Each time you RESIST the urge to give into insecurities,
you GAIN a point on the attraction scale.

But in this movie, he does the opposite, and each time he
allows himself to give IN to his insecurities, he LOSES another
point on the attraction scale to the woman.

And THAT is how he ends up as a "5", when he was
at one point more of a 9 on his way to being a TEN.

That is, until near the end of the movie, when he realizes
how SCREWED UP his own thinking has been and
how he IS indeed a "10"!

And here's the OTHER major news:  EVEN THE GUYS
EVERYONE THINKS HAVE IT "ALL" ACTUALLY
VERY OFTEN HAVE MAJOR INSECURITIES AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!

And the movie actually reflects this reality, as the very
guy he is jealous of, who used to date the knockout
in the past, did JUST AS MANY INSECURE THINGS
as well!!!!  He just puts on a show in front of the rest
of the world that he is really secure, but when it came
to being with the knockout, he screwed things up
just as bad, all because he thought the woman
would ultimately dump him.

This happens in real life all the time!!!

It doesn't matter if you're an "A LIST" ACTOR,
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE A MODEL OR
BILLIONAIRE, the bottom line is that EVERYONE
has insecurities, and if you let those insecurites and
neediness affect your ACTIONS, it will harm the
attraction a woman feels for you.

Yet the crucial thing to remember is that if you
RESIST the urge to give in to those insecurities,
you keep on RISING on the bar of attraction.

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Most people say they will “try” to succeed.
That’s not good enough.

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isn’t good either.

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*If a woman contacts you with voice mail, email,
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*I’ll show you one of the most powerful things
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The Most Important Thing To Know About Women In Our Feminist Societies

There is a REASON that in the past decade

there has been an EXPLOSION in growth

when it comes to organizations and companies

devoted to helping MEN with women.

There is a REASON this did not exist as

little as just a couple of decades ago.       

The REASON is because it wasn’t nearly

as NECESSARY.

So, for example, in addition to pick up artists,

there is a powerful movement called M.G.T.O.W.

which stands for Men Go Their Own Way, and

it exists in several countries and is only going to

expand with time.

Now, when you have ALL KINDS of men, TONS

of men, from all over the WORLD, that are finding

it almost IMPOSSIBLE to find success with women

in either dating or relationships, and the NEED for

these organizations and companies, including mine,

is OBVIOUS, it is INSANE to ignore it all as just

some aberration.

The reason for this situation is pretty SIMPLE:

Due to feminism, most women will hold off serious

commitment to any man and will instead engage in

QUESTIONABLE RELATIONSHIPS with men
until their biological clocks are about to time out- and 

some women will continue these quasi-relationships
with other men till their last days on Earth.  

I call these questionable relationships, because while in the

relationship, these women are still flirting with other

guys on the side, still keeping  an eye out for the BBD,

(bigger better deal), and often actually cheating as

well, although it can hardly be called cheating

because any guy with a smidgeon of common sense

should see it coming from a universe away.

Now, in a FEMINIST society, (not a healthy society),

the most powerful pick up artist is either a man

who has given up on women from an EMOTIONAL

(not physical) standpoint, or a man who truly

FEELS ZERO emotion for women besides lust. 

He has no love, no empathy, no feeling of bonding.

No desire for a meaningful connection.

And guess what?

These pick up artists, who are the supposed

enemy of feminists, are actually the PERFECT

BAIT for feminist women, because these guys

ENCOURAGE the women to not be serious!

They will tell a woman EXACTLY what she

wants to hear, they will encourage a woman

to just do whatever she wants with any guy,

because they don’t CARE about the long term,

they just want to have sex with them.

And OF COURSE, this ultimately DOES get

the woman enticed, since these men seem so

“non-controlling”, and then these women fall in

love quite often with these men, only to have

their hearts broken, boo hoo, when the guy is

doing the exact same thing to a dozen other

women.

So feminists actually ATTRACT the very men

they think are “scum”, and feminists REPEL

the very men who actually WANT to treat women

and relationships with RESPECT.

Similarly, PICK UP ARTIST tactics ATTRACT

the BULK MAJORITY OF THE WOMEN out

there.

The power of feminism is EXTREMELY PERVASIVE.

It makes good men feel GUILTY for their NATURAL

desire for women, and it makes good men act TOO

NICE AND APOLOGETIC as if they somehow are

responsible for every non-perfect action taken by

any man at any time in history.  

So, again, the only men who are going to MATE

with these women are the very men who are going

to actually end up REINFORCING what feminists

like to promote- that guys are cheating on them,

and that’s because the ONLY guys who are willing

to be with most of today’s attractive women are

guys that are smart enough to NOT INVEST AN

OUNCE OF THEIR EMOTIONS in these women.

THAT is what is attractive to most women,

because it allows women to be FREE.

The only thing, though, is that once the women

are free, and the men don’t care what the women

do with whoever, suddenly these women then

WANT these men, but the fact is, if these men

CHANGE and become SERIOUS, suddenly

the women will REVERT back to wanting to

have their cake and eat it too.

This is the damn truth.

I’ve been around to several major cities in the world.

I’ve been in this field for over 12 YEARS.

And I’ve seen how it doesn’t matter how RICH

a guy is, it doesn’t matter how SMART a guy

is, it doesn’t matter how GOOD LOOKING

a guy is, it’s all USELESS when it comes to

actually getting RESPECT from any woman

who has been lapping up the feminist Kool-Aid.

I’m not saying that you should NOT do your

best in these areas: By all means, please do

your best to earn a decent income, to get in

shape, to be educated- all good stuff.

It just DOESN’T solve the REAL issue.

You should do those things for YOURSELF,

but not because it will solve the main issue

with women.  Do those things because they

are IMPORTANT IN GENERAL.

They just don’t deal with the consequences

of feminism on women.

And by the way, I don’t mean some formal

definition of feminism, I’m talking about the

CULTURE created by decades of feminism.

It’s really a tragedy because the obvious becomes

impossible to see when you are brainwashed, but

has anybody noticed something about the

SKYROCKETING LEVELS OF VIOLENCE

in our society?

I’m not talking about TERRORISM, I’m talking

about young men who specifically mention their
anxiety and alienation when it comes to women,
who then go BERZERK.

Has anyone noticed the common thread to these

events? They are young men feeling tormented
when it comes to having any success with women.   

OBVIOUSLY, I THINK IT IS WRONG TO

COMMIT VIOLENCE TO INNOCENT PEOPLE.

What I am saying is that there is a SPECTRUM,

and MOST people, including most MEN, would

NOT commit these acts of violence- however it

is an INDICATION that probably MOST YOUNG

MEN ARE NOT EXACTLY THRILLED with the

way their lives are going.  

We should not be so quick to say “Oh well, that

was the action of some INSANE person, and

everyone else is doing just FINE.”

When man after man after man shows the SAME

traits- men who are young, and not getting success

with women, are going BERZERK, we should

WAKE UP.

We should not be so quick to make ourselves feel

so good that these were just the actions of some
“crazy” and that really our society is doing FINE

overall.

If feminists gave a damn about TRUTH, they would

wake up too. Let’s hear a news story about how

MOST MEN are actually feeling about their

dating and relationships and success with women.

If you listen to a lot of news reports, you would

think all men are rapists. The news basically tells us

the AFTERMATH stories, but never examines the

more complex issues, because that might ruffle some

feminist feathers.

So while those on the EXTREME ENDS of the

spectrum will be driven to VIOLENCE as a result

of heartache at the hands of women, the rest of

mankind is not committing violence, but many

of them are BURNING in pain.

It’s important to ACKNOWLEDGE the facts:

Young men are typically experiencing two

emotions very intensely, LUST and AGGRESSION.

This is why we have SPORTS, it is a HEALTHY

outlet for men. 

And, for THOUSANDS of years, we had EARLY

MARRIAGE.  Society KNEW that most young men

needed to have SEX with women, and that DENYING

this was a prescription for disaster.  Also, it was important

to have children for many reasons, ranging from needing

them to work the land, to helping to ensure support for

the parents in their older years, to religious reasons, etc,

etc.

There was also a lot of PHYSICAL work to do,

plus survival was always a battle, and defense

was never easy, so the AGGRESSION part of

man’s nature was satisfied as well.

The truth is that men actually want to have MANY

female partners, but with the RIGHT woman, most

men are willing to make a trade-off and to make the

DECISION to be monogamous and to GROW in love

with the right woman.

Thanks to feminism, though, there is, in many men’s

minds, no OPTION for the “right woman” since the

right woman seems to NOT EXIST.

In fact, the very LUST that men have only gives

attractive young women TOO MUCH POWER,

it CORRUPTS them COMPLETELY, because

these women can’t TURN DOWN THE ATTENTION:

Imagine if you KNEW that every time you just

made EYE CONTACT with a person, ANY person,

that person would give you MONEY.    

Could you STOP at just one?

Two? Three? Four? Five? Five hundred?

Five THOUSAND? 

IT NEVER STOPS, and in fact, the more you

GET, the more you CRAVE.

THIS is why most young women are simply NOT

going to be FREE from corruption if they grew up

in most typical western societies where feminism

HIJACKED the moral code and replaced it with

a perversion.

So OF COURSE, any man who REALIZES this, or

THINKS this, is not going to be MOTIVATED to

COMMIT to any woman unless he is a truly

BRAINWASHED MAN WHO THINKS ALL

THE FEMINIST STUFF ABOUT HOW “PERFECT”

WOMEN ARE IS TRUE.

The real reason that pick up artists are thriving

now is because feminists give men no choice-

it’s the only way to go IF you pursue women

from these societies.

So that brings me to the final part of my message,

which is how to get yourself a GREAT woman

who has not been brainwashed by this evil.

This is a huge topic, and there are a few ways,

but the QUICKEST and most EFFICIENT way

is to find a woman who has NOT been brainwashed

by feminism, and the only way to ensure THAT is

to get a woman from a country where feminism never

got entrenched to BEGIN with.

ALSO, it is important that she GREW UP there.

If she was born there, but grew up here, FORGET IT.

The other choice you have is to SCREEN LIKE CRAZY,

from the women you meet. So there are still some

women who grew up with fathers or mothers or both

that didn’t let feminist insanity into the house, and

who shielded them from the insanity during the formative

years.

Please, please, PLEASE believe me when I say that

I have NO INTEREST in subjugating women; I think

women SHOULD have ALL THE RIGHTS, but I

DON’T THINK THAT WOMEN SHOULD FORCE

MEN TO BE ACCEPT INDIGNITY IN THEIR

RELATIONSHIPS, which is EXACTLY what happens

to 99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999

percent of men in relationships with typical women

from societies where feminism destroyed the morals.

What is SO tragic about all this, is that it all

started with a few philosophical men who

genuinely wanted to HELP women have

equality, but this movement was HIJACKED

into something that ended up wanting to

actually make men INFERIOR to women

in terms of power and status and dignity.

It’s also crazy how you can’t criticize this without

being labeled a fanatic. When I was in university,

there was (and probably still is) actually a feminist

group on campus that FORBADE men from coming

to ANY meeting, EVER.

Can you imagine if any other organization on

campus created such a rule? It would be called

DISCRIMINATORY, and if it was a MEN’S

GROUP, it would be called CHAUVINIST.

I want to also warn you, that you CAN’T judge

a woman just by her WORDS.  You MUST

check out her ACTIONS.

Many women can activate tears like a faucet

pours water.  She can seem sad, she can

seem happy.  She can tell you how faithful

she is, she can talk to you for ten hours

straight about how hard she has been trying

to find a man who is faithful, and how happy

she is to have met you, and then the very next

day be out with some other guy she just met

seconds after talking to you.

Again, think of the money example I gave

above- she can’t help it, it’s too hard to resist.

Also, think about what I have to gain from

writing this- nothing. I would gain far more from

telling you how wonderful everything can

be, then all you have to do is take one of my

tips and instantly you have a wonderful life

with a great woman.

But I DO CARE about truth, and I also feel

I owe it to the FEW women on this planet

who ARE keeping the faith, who are keeping

the torch alive.  These women WANT YOU

to know the TRUTH about most women,

so that you will fully APPRECIATE the

RIGHT woman.

In closing, let me say that I salute all the mens’

organizations in the world that truly seek not to

hurt women, but to create a world where women

respect good men just as much as those men respect

good women. We should all unite to make ourselves

stronger than ever.

If you are serious about solving the “woman” issue

in your life, it might be the best thing to arrange a

personal consultation with me that will allow me to

figure out exactly what is the best solution for you.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

And by the way, if you DO decide to ignore my

advice and just date women in general without

really sifting through them, I urge you to read my

book THE DATING WIZARD- it is absolutely REQUIRED

reading for SURVIVAL with 99.99999 percent of

women in feminist societies.

You won’t need this book for the exceptional women,

(for those women, read my book called Get A Great Girl)

but you will need it for all the rest, should you for

some reason decide to date them anyway.  

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks