How To Approach Women Anytime, Anywhere: Acing The Approach

Almost EVERY MAN, When He Sees A Gorgeous
Woman He Would Like To Approach, Is Asking 
Himself The SAME Questions:  

"What do I do IMMEDIATELY right this SECOND
to be COOL? To SHOW her that I’m not like every
OTHER guy who is just staring at her?”

The fact is, these are GOOD questions.
You DO have to be different.
You DO have to make emotional impact FAST.

She DOES have choices, a LOT of them, when it
comes to men.

It’s for this reason that I created my latest program that
focuses on only ONE thing: ACING THE APPROACH.

If you are going to pursue the women you really want,
you can’t hope to attract a woman by BORING her to
death.  And yet, this is exactly what most men do. 

From the way most men dress, to the way they behave,
the way they talk, the entire interaction most men have
with women has this boring “doldrums” feel that just
spirals down, down, down, into nothingness...

At best, it ends with a mutual, “Well, have a nice day!”
and that disappointing feeling that lasts for hours,
sometimes days and even weeks.

Then, just as soon as the frustrating feeling goes away,
**BOOM!** Another even HOTTER woman suddenly
appears, in the least expected of places, from the
bus seat next to you to the local coin laundromat!

These are all GOLDEN opportunities that no man should allow to slip through his fingers due to being unprepared.

By the way, there are a few guys who KNOW that you can’t
hope to BORE a woman into attraction, and what they do
is they OVERCOMPENSATE with "HIGH ENERGY".

And yet, this "high energy" approach doesn’t work either,
as it comes across as desperate, like a court jester trying
to ENTERTAIN the King, as if the jester’s life depended on
making sure the King was laughing and happy.

Attracting a woman, especially a woman who is a stranger that you are approaching totally randomly, takes SKILL and KNOW-HOW.

Most men are simply too egotistical to LEARN these skills,
they like to THINK they know it all, until of course that moment
of reality kicks in when a woman is right in front of them that
they want to meet.

And then they go home with that frustrated, disappointed feeling.

It doesn’t have to be this way!

In my latest program, called “Acing The Approach”, I show you my absolute LATEST strategies for QUICKLY and SUCCESSFULLY approaching and attracting women ANYWHERE you find them.  

As usual with all my programs, this program is PURE content. 
No “filler”.
No gimmicks.

This audio program is over one hour long, and is JAM-PACKED with hard-hitting, CONCRETE STRATEGIES that you can put to use EASILY and IMMEDIATELY to attract women you see ANYWHERE.

This program is NOT a rehash of my other programs, it contains
TONS and TONS of ALL-NEW material.    

Here Are Just SOME Of The Immediately-Applicable
Strategies For Acing The Skill Of How To Approach
Women Anywhere, Anytime, That You Will Learn
From This Important Audio Program:

Rescuing The Conversation

What to do when you feel you are LOSING momentum
in a conversation with a woman, or even if you feel you
have totally LOST all momentum – in this program you’ll
learn HOW to RE-IGNITE the conversation in a way that
is GUARANTEED to make it COME ALIVE so that
she will be EXCITED to keep on talking to you.

In-Depth Real Life Examples

In this program, I also include my DETAILED answers to
several “approaching women” questions that came from
tons of REAL-LIFE situations where men wrote to me
after they approached women and wanted to know exactly
what they did right, as well as wanting to know where they
went OFF track, and what to do to CORRECT these
situations for future approaches.

Learning from real-life, in-depth examples is 
TREMENDOUSLY useful, because these are 
situations you will find very familiar, and it’s the 
DETAILS that make the difference between
success and failure in attracting women. 

For example, we all know we are SUPPOSED to be
confident, to be playful, to be challenging, to be intriguing,
but the question is HOW EXACTLY, DOWN TO THE
LAST DETAIL, do we SHOW this spontaneously,
especially in all kinds of situations that are ALREADY
tough for having a conversation with a woman?

I also answer how to do all this even when UNEXPECTED
things come up in the conversation between you and a woman. 

In my DETAILED replies, you will be able to apply everything
about these situations to your OWN approaches with women
as well.

You will learn how to FIX conversations with women that
go off track in any way, you will learn how to PREVENT
these interactions from “staling out”, you will learn how to
increase the vibes of sexuality in the conversation and
how to create a stronger level of attraction in the women
you approach.

Plus, you will learn how to take any interaction much
FURTHER with any woman.  Most men quit after a few
minutes, thinking they are lucky if they got an email or
number.

I will show you how to take things further WITHIN the
conversation, so that she will already be thinking much
deeper down the line than just giving you her number.

She will already be considering what it is like to be
sexual with you and to be your girlfriend. 

To make this section of the program even more effective,
I made sure to not only include letters that were all totally
from real life scenarios that all actually happened, but also
they represent the kinds of situations that happen a LOT
to almost ALL men when approaching women.

How To Use Sexual State To Your Advantage

You’ll also learn the RIGHT way to be “turned on” when
approaching women, so that you AMPLIFY her attraction
as well.

It is crucial to do this right, as doing it wrong will BACKFIRE
and will just creep her out.  Do it RIGHT however, and you
create a “STATE TRANSFER” where she starts to ALSO
feel sexual by being around you.

New Insights On "Minimum Energy" Attraction Strategy

You will also learn my latest strategies on applying what
I call “minimum energy”. I will reveal when is the RIGHT time
to go into an interaction with HIGHER energy.

This is a CRUCIAL section of this program.  A lot of men
MISINTERPRET my teachings on “minimum energy”
thinking it’s okay to go into an interaction and be BORING!

Minimum energy is NOT about being boring. 

In this program, you’ll learn how to use minimum energy
to SUPERCHARGE the vibe of the interaction.

Plus, you’ll learn how to do this in away where the vibe
snowballs and keeps getting more and more powerful,
till she is so deep into connecting with you that no one
else exists in her world EXCEPT you.

The One Time To Break A Particularly Crucial Attraction Rule

In this program, you’ll also learn the ONE time I suggest you
temporarily BREAK the rule of “minimum energy” in
order to speed up your attraction skills with women.

Using Color To Intensify Women's Attraction To You

You will also discover the BEST color to wear to attract
women AND to let women know you are the kind of man
that is ultra SEXUAL. It’s NOT what 99% of men THINK.

The great thing about this strategy is it’s so easy to use and
it kicks in to attract women before you even say a WORD.

Redirecting Negative Energy Into Attraction

You’ll also learn how to take any NEGATIVE reaction
from a woman in an initial flirt or approach, and make it work
in your FAVOR.

It’s important to realize that in fact a lot of times, women
are NOT being ‘mean’ when they CHALLENGE your
“pick up”/flirt/teasing/approach and say to you something
like, “You’re so mean!” 

If you don’t know how to best HANDLE this, you will be
LOSING out to women who actually WANT to get to know
you but who are simply trying to show they are not ‘easy’.

What you will learn here is absolutely VITAL, this is
NOT a gimmick, and you are going to learn how to take
a woman’s NEGATIVE response and take all that
intensity and turn it into ATTRACTION.

In fact, this strategy is so powerful that even if a woman was
AUTHENTICALLY upset and angry at you, it will often STILL
turn her around into being attracted to you!

Establishing The "Frame"

How to set the psychological perspective, i.e. the “FRAME”,
as you being a sexual MAN, so that she NEVER considers
you as just “friend” material, and ONLY sees you as desirable
“sexual material”.

How To Get Her To Keep On Thinking About You

How and what to WHISPER to a girl that will totally make
her feel you are EXCITING AND UNPREDICTABLE so that
she is constantly THINKING about you and excitedly trying
to ANTICIPATE what you are going to do with her next!

The Most Effective Way To Communicate For Attracting Women

The most EFFECTIVE way to communicate with a woman to capture her heart, that goes completely “against the grain” and is the opposite of what every OTHER guy uses with women!

The "Prime Rule" To Follow To Ensure Attraction

A powerful “model of reality” you must use when interacting
with women, and the “PRIME RULE” to guide you in your
interactions with women ANYTIME you ever feel CONFUSED
on what to DO!

The Effective Way To USE Sexual Innuendo With Women

How to use SEXUAL INNUENDO with women in a CLASSY
way that gets women turned on and simultaneously also
makes women want to WORK HARD for your attention!

Detecting Women's "Green Light" Signals

DETECTING women’s “GREEN LIGHT” signals, AND
what to DO when you get them!  This is an absolutely
ESSENTIAL skill to have, because when a woman is
interested in you, she will almost ALWAYS be SUBTLE
in the way she lets you KNOW.

At the same time, once you understand how women
give these signals, you will NEVER miss them again.

It’s one of the great tragedies how so often many men
COMPLETELY MISS the signals that women are giving
them, and men go home wishing they could get these
women, when these women are ALREADY interested
and trying to SHOW it in their own way, hoping that
these men will GET the signals!

It is absolutely CRAZY to be allowing ignorance to lead
to losing out on these super-easy opportunities of
women who are already crazy about you. 

Here’s the other side of this as well, which is that if
a woman does give you the signal, and you don’t
realize she is trying to get sexual with you, she will
often TOTALLY SHUT DOWN on you, as it’s
embarrassing for her to have to continually try to
make it clearer, and she becomes unsure if the guy
 is just clueless, which in itself is unattractive, or if the
guy is simply not interested in her.  

Building "Attraction Momentum"

In this program, I also reveal SEVERAL ultra-powerful
actions you can do and things you can SAY (I give you
the exact word-for-word statements of what to say) to
any woman when you DO detect any interest from her,
that will amplify her attraction to you TEN-FOLD. 

I call this process "Attraction Momentum".

You’ll learn how to show you her you SEE her signal, and
you will learn how to set the vibe to “sexual mode”,
plus still KEEP being a playful challenge at the same time!

Again, you will learn this in a way where you can’t make
a mistake, because I will show you what to do and say
WORD FOR WORD, so even if you are a TOTAL beginner
this works PERFECTLY.

Most of the time, when a man finally DOES see that a
woman is attracted to him, he RUINS the “sexual tension”,
ruins all the fun, and ruins all her desire, by doing all the
wrong things, rather than AMPING UP THE SEXUAL
TENSION EVEN FURTHER, which is what women
really want you to do.    

This is NOT about “acting hard to get” as that can
actually make a woman think she is wasting her time
and force her to just leave and forget about you- this
is about how to make her desire even STRONGER.

This is also NOT about “kissing up” either.

I’ll show you the RIGHT things to do and say to make
her want you even more.  

How To Ensure She Wants To Get Physically Intimate

You will learn two powerful strategies to ensure a woman
feels GOOD about escalating to a sexual level with you,
so she doesn’t feel she is behaving in a way that is “cheap”
or “being a slut”.

Plus, you’ll learn how to how to use the words she is saying
to you as a PERFECT BRIDGE to actually transitioning into
easily making physical contact with her in a way that she
really WANTS.

How To Set Yourself Apart As Intriguing

I’ll also share with you an easy way to INSTANTLY set
yourself apart as being INTRIGUING.  The great bonus
to this strategy is that it SIMULTANEOUSLY also sparks
her desire to open up to you and tell you about herself in
a  meaningful way!

When a woman opens up to you about herself, it allows
you to have a MEANINGFUL conversation with her since
you will be dealing with the “real” her on a deep level,
instead of the trivial and forgettable types of conversations
that most men have with her.

This means you can be the man she REMEMBERS
long after that first conversation, the man she can’t 
wait to hear from again!

Detecting Important Details About Her Personality

You will also learn the best way to detect important details
about her personality so that you can give her a meaningful
compliment that she earned, as opposed to “you are so beautiful”
which she has probably heard a million times before.

The Ten Personality Traits Women Are Most Attracted To In Men

These are the ten absolutely CRUCIAL traits that women
can’t HELP but feel attracted to in men, and you’ll learn
how to develop these traits!

These include not only the traits that a woman sees the
MOMENT you approach her, but also traits that she can
detect in you once she is around you a little longer, i.e.
on a first date as well, and definitely in a relationship
as well. 

A lot of men think it’s only confidence and playfulness,
but I SWEAR to you, it’s far MORE than this, and the
great thing about these traits is that they are NOT
complicated for you to SHOW them.

A New, Crucial Key To Determining Her Values And Ethics

You’ll ALSO learn a new KEY to determining a woman’s
MAJOR VALUES and ETHICS or lack of ethics, BEFORE
getting involved with her- the great thing about this strategy
is that it is so subtle, so easy, and so quick, that it doesn’t
ruin the flow of the conversation and does not seem
uncomfortable to her, in fact she will be GLAD you did this!

Intensifying Vibes Of Eroticism And Intimacy

I’ll also show you an easy and powerful way to increase
the vibes of EROTICISM and intimacy between you and
a woman, and SIMULTANEOUSLY physically touch a
woman at once, and the coolest thing about this is that
you can do this within MINUTES of first meeting
ANY woman!

Secrets Of Style For Men

PLUS, I’ll ALSO show you a secret about STYLE and
fashion that 99% of men will NEVER understand, but
that EVERY WOMAN will immediately notice about you
that lets her know you are one of those 1% of men that
she can get SEXUAL with and you will be COOL about it.

This makes her see you as part of the “insider” group of
men who truly UNDERSTAND what women want.

A Secret About What Women Want In Bed

You’ll also discover a secret about what women want in
BED that most men never realize and never apply!

How To Answer "Your History With Women" Questions

How to BEST deal with the question if a woman EVER
asks you about your history with women- most guys mess
this up, I’ll show you how to answer this question in
a way that AMPLIFIES her attraction to you.

How To Change Her State Of Mind Immediately

How to get a woman from a stressed-out state into an
IDEAL mood for being approached and “picked up”!

Often, you will see women who are in situations where
they are stressed out, i.e. a long day at work, and wonder
how to get a woman into the right MOOD. 

In this program, I reveal a super effective and EASY to use
strategy to get a woman into a GREAT state of mind that
is totally calm, upbeat, and warm to your pick up!

In fact, just doing this alone will often overwhelm her with
a feeling of you being MAGICAL, mysterious, intriguing,
and the kind of man she MUST get to know more!

Plus tons, and I do mean TONS more, of FANTASTIC
strategies and insights that will SKYROCKET your
success with women- strategies that you can use
IMMEDIATELY when you see women ANYWHERE.

You Can Be Using This Program In Minutes From Now!

This special audio program is available through
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using it to approach and attract women in just
MINUTES from now.

As you can tell, this program is PACKED with
TONS of absolutely VITAL strategies for making
sure you SUCCESSFULLY approach and attract
the women you want.

And to make this a TOTAL "no brainer", to make it
the EASIEST decision of your life, I’ve also gone
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ONLY $19.97.

Get this program and USE it to successfully approach
and attract the women you want, by going here NOW:           

Successfully Approach And Attract Women With "Acing The Approach"

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth On Meeting Women In "Daytime"

One of the wild things about doing this
for REAL, having to prove it in real life
in the Real World Bootcamp on a regular
basis, is that I can offer you the TRUTH
on what works to actually get women
attracted, and what is plain nonsense.

First of all, there is a common myth
spread intentionally by many of the
"pick up artists" that "attracting
a woman in places that are not clubs
is much easier than attracting a
woman at a club".

For some reason, there is also this fake
distinction between nighttime places
and daytime places, as if bookstores,
coffee shops, drugstores, grocery stores,
and the rest of the world don't exist at night,
and as if the only places open at night are
bars and clubs.

The reason this lie is spread is because
indeed it takes MORE skill to attract a
woman in a place that is not a bar or club,
and because the commercial pick up artist
industry needs to crank out instructors
like hamburgers on an assembly line,
they can't afford to train their instructors
at the highest levels to pull this off
consistently.

So, rather than say the truth, they just
tend to not emphasise the non-club places
by saying "they're so easy, they're not
even worth your time".

Somehow, I bet this is little consolation
when a guy gets REJECTED when he DOES
try to approach a woman in these
everyday places.

Now, I take guys to BOTH places, clubs,
and everyday places like coffee shops,
bookstores, malls, public transit,
supermarkets, you name it.

I get guys results in ALL locations.
I also prefer to get guys results in
places that are NOT clubs, because USUALLY
the most attractive hotties in the clubs
tend to NOT make for great girlfriends,
(that is, unless you yourself drink a lot,
smoke a lot, and aren't looking for loyalty)
whereas the girls that are gorgeous
who ALSO would make for great girlfriends
tend to AVOID the club attention and
can only be met when they are doing
the things that they NEED to do that
get them out in public "everyday places".

So, to review, the FACTS are:

1. Women At Clubs Are ALREADY Relaxed
About Socializing And Meeting New Guys.

That's a huge part of the whole PURPOSE and
VIBE of a club.

It's about SOCIALZING!

The music, the alcohol, the good times,
is all about ENCOURAGING socializing!

2. Women At Clubs Tend To Be SINGLE!

That's USUALLY the case in a club!
If they were in a real serious relationship,
they wouldn't be getting drunk or tipsy in
a CLUB full of GUYS who are there to HIT
on them!!!!

3. The BAR Is LOWER In A Club

You really can't be expected to develop a
SERIOUS connection in a place that is loud,
crowded and boisterous!

So even a much LOWER level of connection
actually comes across as pretty high
because of the low standard!

4. The Club Hotties Who Are Girlfriend Material
Tend To Be Fewer Than The Hotties Who Avoid Clubs

THE SKILL LEVEL FOR 'EVERYDAY' PLACES
NEEDS TO BE HIGHER THAN THE SKILL LEVEL
FOR GETTING WOMEN IN A CLUB:

Meanwhile, in "everyday" locations,
you have NO IDEA if a woman is single
or not, you have NO IDEA if she will
be warm to your approach to her or not,
and you ALSO have to find a way to
TRANSITION into a conversation from
being a TOTAL STRANGER in a smooth way!

In a club, you don't have to worry about
any of this "how to open" thing, since
the whole POINT of the place is to
socialize and have fun!

This tends to put more pressure on a man,
and he needs to be able to access the
right state of mind even MORE so than
in a club, and he is under more pressure
than in a club to not seem "wierd" for
approaching her!

MYTH BUSTER:
THE OPENER ADVICE OF “SAY ANYTHING RANDOM”.

Now, what a lot of “wannabe dating gurus”
tell guys is to open up the conversation with
ANYTHING RANDOM.

Now, while it IS true that if you are in the PERFECT
STATE of MIND, that you can get away with this,
the fact that this “say anything random” advice is
the BEST they can offer suggests they don’t know
how to CUSTOMIZE what they say for the
particular woman in front of them. Again, this
is the “hamburger assembly line” approach that
comes from IGNORANCE.

Once you are at a high level, you can GET
AWAY with "random", but that doesn't mean
it's the BEST way to get results.

The truth is, there is an INFINITE WEALTH of
perfect things you can say for each situation,
that make it really CUSTOM-MADE for that
woman in that environment at that time, and
being able to do THIS really SKYROCKETS
your results with women!

For example, if you see a woman in a supermarket,
there are so many perfect ways to USE that
environment to your advantage, COMBINED
with using whatever you detect about HER
AS WELL.

I can say all this, because I LIVE it ALL THE
TIME. And not just with myself, but with
PROVING it and getting results for men in
PERSON.

Now, allow me to share with you SIX CRUCIAL
PRINCIPLES for HOW to go about making the
kind of successful approach and interaction
that results in actually getting a woman to
WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!

THE SIX PRINCIPLES FOR THE APPROACH:

Number One:
Assess The Situation Quickly And Elevate The Mood

Number Two:
Gradually Shift Toward "Real Conversation"
And Set Up The Sexual Vibes

Number Three:
With Genuine EMPATHY, Learn More About Her

Number Four:
Allow Her To Earn Your Respect, And Then Validate Her


Number Five:
Demonstrate Unique Elements Of YOUR Personality


Number Six:
Demonstrate YOUR Passion, And Introduce Your Name

Click here to learn EXACTLY HOW TO APPLY these
six principles, which includes a DETAILED audio
demonstration of a chat with a knockout hottie
that just stepped off a train!

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Approaching Women: Clubs Vs. "Daytime" Places

Today, I'm going to share with you a ton of  crucial
points on the differences between meeting women
in clubs and normal everyday places like bookstores
and coffee shops.

The most important distinction to understand is that
bars and clubs are DESIGNED for singles to MEET
each other.

This is really the whole POINT of these places.
It's not some kind of secret or conspiracy.

Women who go out to these places usually WANT
to meet men.

Factor in the alcohol, the music, the atmosphere,
and the fact it's the weekend, and you have a
FANTASTIC opportunity to meet women
VERY easily.

The women are HOPING that men will approach them,
if the men have their basic act together.

So, when you approach a woman, or a group of women,
at a bar or night club, it makes SENSE to go in with
a very fun attitude, with your vocal projection loud
to overpower the music, and it also makes sense
that you can establish a lot more physical contact
as well.

WHAT ABOUT THE ONE NIGHT STAND?

I'm not into the one night stand myself, for a
vast amount of reasons, including the fact
that there is no way to know if a woman is
free of STD's and STI's no matter WHAT
she says, and condoms aren't perfect.

On top of that, there are enough ways to
meet a lot of women, and get to know them
over time, so that you indeed have a huge
pool of women at your fingertips at any
time if this is what you really desire.

And on top of all that, I honestly don't
enjoy getting physical with a woman
if I don't also know she is a really
cool person as well.

I don't like rewarding beauty if it has no character.

But I know that this is still an area that a lot
of men are curious about, or want to know
about, so I'll just answer it right here,
as IGNORANCE is never bliss, and
KNOWING the reality actually makes
people less needy for it:

There is a CERTAIN percentage of women
at a nightclub or bar on any given night, that
indeed ARE looking for a one night stand.

The exact percentage depends on the place
and the time, but let's just give a very rough
estimate of 15%-30% of the women at the
bar or nightclub.

They aren't usually going to have a HUGE
SIGN on their shirt or face that SAYS they
are looking for a one night stand, or that
SAYS they want to go home with some guy
that night, but you can find out pretty fast how
receptive a woman IS to a one night stand or
to go home with you that night, by escalating
to the physical level of kissing and making out
relatively quickly in the pick-up.

And if she isn't up for that, you would be
wise to move on to the NEXT woman
who IS- IF you are into that sort of thing.

Now, even the women who ARE looking for
a one night stand, usually aren't going to just
JUMP into your car or cab the moment you
make it clear that you are up for it.

Not at all.

It's pretty normal even for the women who are
indeed up for a one night stand to basically
slow you down. She might stop the making
out, she might decline the suggestion to
go home with you right then and there-
but at the same time she will make it
clear that she is really into you and
she is not leaving your side.

And to ALL of this, if you just permanently
stop, you will not get anywhere.

Instead, you just chill out with her, then
attempt to escalate again with her a few
minutes later, and see if she is up for it
that time. 

And this process can repeat itself several
times till she is totally up for it and she is
smiling about it and nodding and gesturing
to get with you right then and there.

Also, this physical escalation may not happen
in the actual club.  It might happen when you
both leave the club for a bite to eat, at the
cafe/fallafel/pizza joint, for example.

It might happen as you are walking to your
place, which, if you want a one night stand,
better be close by the club or bar, as driving
for three hours in your car or in a cab makes
it a lot harder for a woman to stay in the state
of mind that is conducive to the one night
stand thing or the same-night sex thing.

The hard-core physical escalation might not
happen till you are both alone in your place
or her place.

But the main thing, if a guy wants to have
sex with a woman the same night he met
her at the club, he is going to have to
escalate and progress the interaction at
every opportunity, since there is no time
to just let the pickup stay in "one stage"
for too long, as there are only so many
hours till the night is over.

So you have to keep progressing the
interaction forward as much as possible
and not STALL out of fear of rejection
at ALL. 

And you have to sense if SHE is into it as well,
so that you are not wasting your time. And if
she IS, you may STILL have to be persistent.
And for the love of humanity, at the very least,
MAKE SURE TO USE A CONDOM and
use it PROPERLY.

So that's the women who want to get physical
and want to sleep with a guy on the same night
they met him at the club.

BUT THAT'S NOT ALL WOMEN IN THE CLUB!

So, from my perspective, the one night stand
thing is a lot of work, for very little reward,
and in fact you are opening yourself up to
a host of potential problems as well.

Plus, like I said, I don't like the idea of
rewarding a woman just because she is
beautiful.  I find it contributes to the
problem of certain women thinking
that they can get by just on their
looks alone.

Plus, you can get to know a lot of QUALITY
women over time, who are attractive and have
the character as well, so that if getting physical is
what you want, you will have plenty of options
at any given moment.  

So, that's where the other women come into context.

Some of the women in the club/bar/lounge/pub
really are there to meet men, but not to
neccessarily go home with them that night.

And in fact, if a guy keeps on trying to
escalate with a woman who clearly is
NOT into that, he rightfully deserves
to get his ass thrown out the door.

There's a lot of women, just like a lot of men,
who want to actually MEET the right person,
and since the regular ways of meeting haven't
worked out, they are trying the clubs avenue.

By and large, in clubs, you don't have to worry
about how to CALIBRATE your OPENING.

You can open up a conversation with almost
ANYTHING fun.

BUT HOW ABOUT MEETING IN "REGULAR" PLACES?

Meeting women in "normal" places like bookstores and
coffee shops and even on the city bus or city commuter
train, and right on the street, require MORES calibration
than a club.

So you might be asking, "Then why bother with
"normal" places?"

And the answer is that, unfortunately, usually in the
clubs, the most attractive women tend to be smokers,
drinkers, and wannabe actresses/singers/dancers.

Now, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be
an actress, singer, or dancer.  And a drink now
and then can be healthy.

HOWEVER, it's not a COINCIDENCE that
so often, the ATTRACTIVE girls decide they
want to become actresses, etc.

It seems to them to be the "easy way" to get
by and to get what they want in life.

"I'm hot, so therefore I will leverage THAT
and will not bother with hard work, developing
my mind, developing my character."

Now, obviously, there ARE some really hard
working actresses who are massively talented,
like Meryl Streep.  But I can assure you that
most of the wannabe actresses at clubs who
are smoking it up and drinking it up and dressing
to the nines aren't USUALLY going to be
"girlfriend" material.

Seriously, a lot of these women WILL sleep with
any guy who can get them ahead, and will cheat
on any guy at the slightest chance of hooking up
with some other guy who they think will get
them ahead.

I also left one other reason why some women
go to clubs: BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST
HORNY, JUST LIKE GUYS!

So, meeting these women, is very different from
meeting women who have potential to be an actual
girlfriend.

Now, this doesn't mean that all the women you
meet in the REGULAR places in life are going
to have great potential for being a girlfriend.

It just means that the fantastic women who ARE
great girlfriend potential have to get out and about
and do all the things that everyone has to do,
like getting groceries, going shopping, getting
a Starbucks, and enjoying the weather.

In addition, the attractive women who also have
the OTHER quality traits of CHARACTER tend
to not be too addicted to the clubs, because
they already KNOW that clubs tend to bring
out the wrong guys to them, and these women
certainly don't need to go to clubs in order
to get ATTENTION from men.

They get plenty of attention ANYWHERE they
go anyway, so the last thing they need to do
is spend the night in a place full of guys who
are drunk and who think they have a license
to now do anything they want.

This is why, I think clubs might be a good place
to PRACTICE for beginners, but the "real world"
is the better place to actually meet the kinds of
women that are the "total package".

And, getting back to my original point, meeting women
in regular places requires MORE CALIBRATION
of your skills.

For example, if a woman is reading a book in the
aisles of a bookstore, and you just go right up
to her head-on, without warning, you will often
catch her off-guard in a way that is NOT cool
and will seem a little creepy.

However, if you first establish your presence there
so she can see you with her peripheral vision,
and you allow a moment or two for her
subconscious or her conscious mind to
detect that you are there, and THEN
you approach her, this is much wiser.

Also, you would be wise to GRADUALLY
build up the proximity and the body language,
and this is NOT because you are trying to
play a "game" on women, but because it
could CREEP her out if you come on too
strong in an environment that is not ESPECIALLY
about socializing.  It's a bookstore, not a club.

So, for example, you might be facing the books
yourself, and she would be to your side.

And rather than turning your whole body to
face her, you would just turn your face toward
her.  Your chest and the rest of your body
would still be facing the stacks of books.

When you start talking to her, she will turn
to see you, and subconsciously she will
feel that you are not some wierdo who
spends his whole day just barging up
on women everywhere.

On top of this, you also want to make your
approach and interaction as LOW-KEY as
possible.  And what I mean by this, is that
you want to ELIMINATE anything from
the interaction that can make it seem in
any way NOT NORMAL.

So, you should be acting as if what you are
doing is the most NORMAL thing in the
world.  If you overcompensate for nerves
with talking too quietly (because you
don't want anyone to hear you do
this 'pick-up') or if you speak too loudly
because you are overcompensating out
of the fear of not seeming manly enough,
all that will do is make it all seem
NOT NORMAL.

If you come into the conversation with
too much of a party attitude, that will
seem out of place as well.

You have to not only calibrate for your environment,
(i.e. a bookstore being quiet and calm, versus
meeting on a loud train) but you have to also calibrate
your "pick-up" around the fact that this is NOT a club,
this is NOT a place designed for meeting.

So since she is not particularly expecting to be
approached at the bookstore, her GUARD is
a bit more on.

At the same time, however, if you DO calibrate
properly and you don't trip her "CREEPY GUY
WARNING ALARMS", well then now you
actually have a much STRONGER chance of
actually getting this woman than you would
at a club, because of the very fact that meeting
at a club is EASIER, and women may be
much more OPEN to chatting, but not
neccessarily that much more open to
ACTUALLY HOOKING UP WITH
A GUY THEY MEET A CLUB.

Things balance out:
In a club, because it's normal to socialize there,
women will be OPEN to chatting.

However, they also give you LESS credit for
the mere fact you approached them to chat,
because that's what all the guys are doing
in the club. 

Mind you, most of the guys in the club are doing
it wrong, but most of them ARE trying to meet
women there.

So there's a bit of "inflation" when it comes to
making the approach in a club.  In a club,
you better do a REAL GOOD JOB because
there's a lot of guys doing the clubs.

Getting back to the bookstore example, you
would only turn to actually FACE her fully
once SHE is really facing you fully first.

This way, she feels more COMFORTABLE
and NOT creeped out by you, since you
are NOT coming on strong, and are thus
NOT putting her under any pressure.

By removing the pressure, you remove the
need for her to have to RESIST your
interaction with her.

In both cases though, whether you meet
a club or in a bookstore or cafe or anywhere
else that is "normal", it's crucial that you
LISTEN to whatever she says in her
response to what you said.

THIS gives you something to PING-PONG
off of, and to reply back to her based on
what SHE said.

By focusing on the PROCESS, and by
LISTENING to her, you become more
RELAXED plus you get to actually
get more INSIGHT into who she is,
so you can have better communication
with her.

And ultimately, the highest compliment
you can give a woman is when you
really understand her and you can
QUALIFY her for a particular character
trait or accomplishment of hers.

So if for example, she is courageous to
go into a field that is dominated by men,
or she is working on making the world
a better place, or even if she is just
the kind of person that is at peace with
herself and the world, all these things
are cool things to compliment her on-
IF you can back it up with evidence
based on what you have learned
about her.

SPONTANEOUS "SITUATIONAL" OPENER,
OR MEMORIZED "CANNED" OPENER?

A lot of guys want to know what's better,
to use a "canned" memorized opener to
start the conversation, or to just actually
find something SITUATIONAL, i.e.
about the SITUATION, the context
of the situation, i.e. if she is in the bookstore
reading in the international relations and
politics section, and you comment to her
how unusual it is to find a woman in
this section.

The truth is that it IS better to use a SPONTANEOUS
conversation starter that is about the SITUATION,
i.e. something she is doing, or something else
about her or even about the immediate environment
around her, this is always better because it
shows you are not using the same line on
every woman you meet.

Plus, because it IS real about the situation, you
actually WILL sound congruent to it, you won't
sound like a liar because you aren't lying.

Now, at the same time, I realize that sometimes
the act of approaching a woman who is a stranger
can seem OVERWHELMING.

So, it's FINE to use something MEMORIZED.
Use a real true story that actually happened to
you, something interesting and hopefully upbeat,
or at least intriguing, to tell her, and then comment
on whatever SHE says as her REACTION to your
story.

This gets the ball rolling in the right direction,
and you can playfully tease her on anything
she says back to you.

Just make sure to STOP the memorized speech
as soon as possible in the interaction.  Once she
is commenting on it to you, you really have the
conversation started and you don't really need
it anymore.

Plus, you will see as you go along that if you
keep on approaching women, using the
memorized story, you will be so calm
because you already KNOW what to
say to get things started, that you now
will finally be in the state of mind to
actually REALIZE AND NOTICE
all the SPONTANEOUS AND
"SITUATIONAL" openers that you
could use instead as your conversation
starters.

TONALITY VS. CONTENT

Obviously, what you SAY does matter to a
degree. If it's interesting, captivating, etc.

But HOW you say it matters a TON.

Now, I'm especially talking about the very
OPENER, as once you are both in a deep
conversation, then you naturally tend to
speak about things in the right tonality
since you are so comfortable.

But the OPENER is a different story.
It's just an OPENER, so what you are
REALLY trying to get across is that
there is POTENTIAL here.

The most important things, therefore, are that
you are not a creep, that you are confident,
that you are in a good state of mind, that
you are masculine, that you are playful,
etc.

So, technically, you can EASILY get away
with even the supposedly "nice-guy" words
of "you are beautiful", if your voice tonality
suggested that you were stating this as a
matter of FACT rather than as a DESPERATE
HOPE SHE WILL LIKE YOU because
you said those words.

In fact, you can say the words "you are
beautiful" in such a way to show flirtyness,
a sense of playfulness, confidence, and
even dominance. Dominance, because
you can say the words in such a way
that it is implied that because YOU
said the words, YOU feel that it is
a GREAT COMPLIMENT because
it comes from YOU, a person of
MASSIVE VALUE.

Tonality is a MAJOR influencing factor,
and in fact, the use of tonality can allow
you to say something very HONEST
and even "nice" and make you NOT
come across as "needy" but rather
as a man who is CONFIDENT,
who is GENUINE, and who she
can let her own guard down with,
and she can let such a man IN.

Now, what you've just read, as detailed
as it is, is just the TIP of the ICEBERG.

I want to show you how to do all this MASTERFULLY,
by coaching you IN PERSON, in real time, on real women.

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on women who have no clue that you are
on bootcamp.

This is all the absolute real thing, at all times.

I would have given ANYTHING to learn these
skills back in the days when I used to hopelessly
PRAY, often for YEARS on end, that some girl
that I was all obsessed about would reciprocate
my feelings.

ALL that came from NOT knowing the MASSIVE
ABUNDANCE of women that can be at one's fingertips,
if he just masters the SKILLS of how to meet and
attract women.

I was coming from a scarcity mentality, that really
DISTORTS not only one's emotions and perspectives,
but really RUINS one's life.

It's time to STOP the wasted energy, the wasted
time, the wasted emotions, and time to start getting
the ABUNDANCE with women into your life.

What's amazing also, is that once this area of your
life is taken care of, you tend to suddenly also
improve all your OTHER areas as well, because
now that you have broken through this barrier,
it makes you so confident that you know you
can take on the WORLD and that you will WIN.

Get yourself signed up for bootcamp TODAY.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

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