In a sea of dating advice out there, I'd like to
make it clear what makes "Get A Great Girl"
different.
1. AN ORIGINAL
I've been doing this since 2003 officially, and
had been practicing for myself years before.
There are tons of media reports that can prove
all this. For example, the Globe and Mail feature
story on my teachings, way back in October 2003,
by journalist Claire Gagne.
Then, there are also my actual posts on popular
"pick up artist" forums back then, where I tried
to explain how many of the pick up artist tactics
were destructive for meeting and keeping a
quality woman.
This was YEARS before the book "The Game"
came out, a book that made being a pick up
artist a popular "fad" for a while.
At the time NO ONE else was around who was
actually PROVING IN PERSON in bootcamps
for men how they could meet and attract quality
women, all WITHOUT using destructive tactics.
Instead, things like arrogant behavior, insults
to women, memorized pick up lines, jealousy
tactics, and other sleazy strategies were
all the rage, even though of course these
destructive ideas would never work to get
a quality woman for a relationship.
Today, however, because of my work, it's
becoming VERY CLEAR that what I teach
is a NECESSITY if a man wants to get
a woman for a great relationship.
Get A Great Girl is the original source for how to
actually get a quality woman for a great relationship,
that INCLUDES the actual live training on how to
actually GET the woman in the FIRST place.
Get A Great Girl is not just "repackaged" pick
up artist advice. Rather, it is a fundamental shift
away from all destructive tactics.
A lot of folks are trying to imitate me and my programs.
However, one immediate DIFFERENCE from me
is that they are obsessed with sex more
than they are with trust. Without trust,
(and trust must be earned) there is NOTHING.
A quality woman looking for a great relationship
will stay FAR away from a man she feels she
cannot TRUST.
A man who is obsessed with sex is in itself a
"red flag" warning to any woman who is
looking for a real connection.
Tactics such as backhanded compliments
to lower a woman's self-esteem, as well as
the use of jealousy to try to get a woman to
do what you want, and many other negative
tactics, DESTROY trust, and you can never
get a great girlfriend and a great relationship
without being able to have mutual trust.
2: I FOCUS ON TRUTH, NOT HYPE.
Most of the dating advice out there
is willing to sacrifice truth in the
name of getting your attention.
So they will say ANYTHING.
It's very similar to those fad diets, where
you will hear "AVOID ALL CARBS AND EAT
ALL THE FAT YOU WANT!" or my favorite
of them all: "JUST EAST GRAPEFRUITS!"
The REAL truth of course, is never in the fads.
Sure, what they say may have 1% truth, but
it's also 99% a lie, just like it's true that only
eating grapefruits will help a person lose weight,
UNTIL they get so hungry that they end up eating
TONS OF THE WRONG FOODS.
And when it comes to the "attracting women"
field, the fads are even MORE extreme!
But here's the good news for you:
The information you learn from my programs will
give you the full detailed insights on attracting
a quality woman, and it will ALSO ensure that
you have ZERO "competition" from other men!
This is because VERY FEW MEN WILL EVER
LEARN WHAT YOU LEARN HERE!
Most men WANT gimmicks because gimmicks seem
so EASY.
Most men simply will never find their way
here, they will instead be lured into the
false promise of "ease" given by the "fads".
3: YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN
WHILE BUILDING TRUST INSTEAD OF
DESTROYING TRUST.
I'm not satisfied with giving you "the best"
strategies on the topic of meeting and
attracting quality women.
I insist on RAISING THE BAR.
It's what has made Get A Great Girl the LEADER
in the field of dating advice for men who are
serious about getting a great girlfriend.
In fact, I've revolutionized the ENTIRE field
of attraction advice.
What you will learn in my programs is the
“real thing”.
It’s not about how to "knock a woman down a
few notches off her confidence".
It’s not about how to act "hard to get".
In particular, the "damage her confidence and
self-esteem" tactics spread by many "experts"
are counter-productive when trying to attract
a quality woman for a real relationship.
Those tactics will DESTROY a good woman's trust
in you, and certainly if continued will destroy the
possibility of a smooth relationship.
So, this is another area where Get A Great Girl
is very different.
In an EFFECTIVE interaction where you are chatting
with a woman, you are actually creating attraction
at the SAME time you are creating trust, from the
entire DEMEANOR you are using from the very get-go.
This is the superior way to attract quality women.
If you're just looking for a "one night stand" with a
woman who is looking for the same thing, then
deep levels of trust are not that important- but
if you ARE looking for a real girlfriend and a
fantastic relationship, then deep levels of trust
are MASSIVELY important.
And this brings me to the next point:
4. THE STRATEGIES YOU LEARN AT
GET A GREAT GIRL ARE DESIGNED
FOR GETTING A GREAT GIRLFRIEND!
If you want a woman who is the "total package"-
a woman that would make for a fun, TRUSTWORTHY,
and FAITHFUL girlfriend, then the material that
you will learn in my programs is of EXTREME
importance.
A woman who is looking for a real relationship is
putting a lot more on the line than just one evening
("one night stand") of her life.
She's putting her emotions, her time, and her TRUST
on the line, so she will not jump into bed so fast with
ANY guy, no matter who he is.
At Get A Great Girl, you're learning to master the
full picture of interaction with women, including
but also much more than just the initial words you
are going say to her.
5. EVIDENCE COUNTS, NOT OPINIONS.
My programs are a product of rigorous TESTING
in the real world.
Before any program gets made, I spend months
and often YEARS of real world testing and
research, to make sure the strategies you
learn are VERIFIED and proven to work.
These programs are verified not only by my own
experiences, and not only by the experiences of
thousands of men who have gone through my
programs, (including live bootcamps where these
men prove it on real women) but these programs
are ALSO verified by internationally respected
reports in the field of psychology.
Meanwhile, EVIDENCE and proof count for just
about NOTHING with most of the dating advice
you see out there, the same way "Grapefruit Diets"
don't have any evidence to them either, but the
various wacky diets still keep on coming.
6. GET A GREAT GIRL PROGRAMS ARE LOADED
WITH TONS OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE NEW
CONCEPTS AND INSIGHTS.
Another cool thing here at Get A Great Girl,
is that clients who order all my programs are
astonished at how each program is jam-packed
with NEW CONCEPTS AND NEW MATERIAL
rather than rehashing the same things over and
over again.
You will keep on INCREASING in your success
with each of my programs. That's because a
MASSIVE amount of time goes into making
sure each program is crammed with EFFECTIVE,
POWERFUL, NEW MATERIAL that you can
immediately use.
And, I haven't even mentioned ALL the ways
Get A Great Girl is different yet!
There's a lot MORE as well:
7. I MADE SURE NOT TO "THROW OUT
THE BABY WITH THE BATHWATER".
And at the same time, I haven't thrown out the
baby with the bathwater, as they say.
I ALSO believe that there are SOME principles
that are popular in the dating community that
ARE effective, if used properly, so what I've
done is TAKEN OUT the harmful strategies, and
KEPT the PRODUCTIVE ones, and even
IMPROVED them.
8. ADDING NEW MATERIAL AND CONCEPTS
COMPLETELY OUTSIDE THE "DATING GURU/
PICK UP ARTIST" WORLD - NEW MATERIAL
THAT IS ACTUALLY BACKED UP BY DIRECTLY
APPLICABLE RESEARCH INTO PSYCHOLOGY.
So, to make these programs as effective as
possible, I've gone BEYOND the typical
"attraction advice" feeding grounds that just
recycle the same material over and over again.
I have BROUGHT IN the very best psychological
research on how to create attraction, as backed
up by the most respected REAL WORLD research
in this area.
9. I VALUE MATURITY AND INTEGRITY
What this means, is that I don't go around filming
women without their permission. To me, there are
more important things than inflating my ego and
getting a "thumbs up" on YouTube.
I also know that mature men realize that if
"reality tv" is not real, then, perhaps many
YouTube videos don’t indicate reality either.
Here's another element of the maturity and
integrity: I don't think any of this is FUNNY.
I think that if a man is coming to me for help, it's
something that I should take damn SERIOUSLY,
as serious as I took this issue for my OWN self
when I first needed to learn these skills.
I was never interested in being promiscuous.
I knew great women were rare, and I wanted
one great woman, that's it.
You can also read up in the news reports section
of the site, what men who have taken my programs
have to say about them. These reports are not
written by me on my site, but rather were directly
reported by these men to the newspaper journalists.
So unless I have some magical way of controlling
every single journalist and every single report
and every single person who has ever taken any
of my programs, this simply is too strong a form
of evidence to be a lie.
Here's something else that is a sign of maturity
and integrity: When you really know what you
are doing, it stops being a big deal.
I'm passionate about helping YOU.
That feels rewarding for me.
But I do NOT get all giggly and babyish about anyone's
"victory" in getting a woman's phone number or anything
else from her.
The whole "victory" attitude of that just smacks
of immaturity. It's like the pathetic characters in
that movie "American Pie".
Acting like that is just not the way of a real MAN.
There's another thing that we all need to realize here:
We also owe a great deal of our success to the actual
women themselves.
It's wise to be humble and give good women some
credit for being cool enough to appreciate us.
I think if we all strive to stay humble, we'll all
appreciate the humanity of each other.
I also don't think women are the only thing in life.
I just think that a great woman is an important part
of having that balance in life, and that a great woman
adds a lot of passion in your life.
10. GETTING MEN QUALITY WOMEN IS ALL I DO.
I don't give advice on how to get the
female "players" by becoming a male
"player".
I just do one thing- help men get great women
who would also make for great girlfriends and
fantastic relationships.
So, at Get A Great Girl, you are going to get the
very BEST programs on the PLANET for meeting
and attracting a fantastic woman who would make
for a great girlfriend and an awesome relationship.
Plus, you'll also learn how to KEEP a fantastic
woman attracted to you LONG-TERM.
If you want to meet and attract a fantastic
woman who is "the total package", I suggest
you go here immediately:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
I also offer personal consultations, and live bootcamps.
For a personal consultation with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
For bootcamp with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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The Greatest SECRET On Getting A Quality Woman
This is one of the most important
newsletters I have ever written on
the topic of getting a truly great
girlfriend who is the total package
inside and out.
In order to get a great woman, it is
imperative that a man become the
greatest version of himself as well.
The CHALLENGE, however, is that
almost the exact INSTANT that you
make the commitment to improving
yourself, you will be faced with a
barrage of situations that TEST your
COMMITMENT to truly improving
yourself.
And the single GREATEST source of these
tests will usually come from SOCIAL PRESSURE.
So, for example, let’s say you decide to spend your
time NOT gossiping, and you happen to be having
dinner with friends one evening and one of them
or all of them are really going HEAVY on the
juicy gossip stuff.
Now, by the way, I am not judging people, as
people in general are only trying to do what
they think makes sense, and not everyone is
fortunate to have the right leadership and
guidance.
Back to our example above, in this situation
you will feel the pressure to JOIN IN and
be gossipy and to start focusing on other
people’s lives rather than how to improve
your own.
Or, let’s say, you decide to start exercising,
and the current group of friends you have
never exercise, they will for example invite
you out to watch TV, eat junk food, or something
during the time you wanted to go exercise.
And the above examples are not even where
people INTENTIONALLY are trying to
screw you up because they are jealous
of you or they are feeling insecure because
they are too lazy to change and they want
you to be on the same “level” as them.
Then, of course, there is the general social
pressure to just “fit in” with society rather
than EXCEED the “average”, because
in general, people only like the average
person, since the person above average
raises jealousies and the person below
is someone people either feel sorry for
or sometimes mocked.
The SECOND you want to actually IMPROVE
yourself, you will be BOMBARDED with
these situations, and MOST PEOPLE will
then FAIL, because it is so damn HARD
to CHANGE one’s path because of the
power of MOMENTUM.
As humans, we just don’t like to CHANGE.
And if we decide to change, it doesn’t take
MUCH for most people’s commitment to
be SHATTERED.
And, as I said above, the greatest CULPRIT
is the power of SOCIAL PROOF to make
sure you don’t rise much above or below
the SOCIAL or societal average.
We are affected by SOCIAL PROOF because
of our HARD-WIRING. This is BIOLOGY
and EVOLUTION in FULL EFFECT.
It is important to understand that social proof
DOES have its uses. For example, very often
in life, and in human history, making decisions
based on what the GROUP believed helped
individuals save TIME.
So if for example, in ancient times, there was
a PATHWAY through the jungle that was
considered efficient or safe by the majority
of people, then it might very well save an
individual time to take that path rather than
search out every path or try to create a new
one.
So over the course of human history, feeling
INFLUENCED by social proof usually was
a GOOD thing.
However, social proof can BACKFIRE, as
if the social group is WRONG about something,
an individual will still feel very INFLUENCED
and sometimes emotionally compelled to follow
the suggestion of the GROUP.
This is ONE of the reasons that taking a bootcamp
with me is SO powerful. It is because you are
truly being taken into a completely different
SOCIAL FORCE than the ones you tend to
meet in regular life.
Since I have dedicated YEARS of my life
toward the training of men in how to attract
and keep quality women, I am EXTREMELY
CONGRUENT to this in every way.
When someone else is truly CONGRUENT to something,
you FEEL the social pressure effect of that trait on a
DEEP level and you can more easily INTERNALIZE
that trait for yourself.
It’s not just a cerebral event; it is EMOTIONALLY
COMPELLING AND OVERWHELMING in a
POSITIVE WAY.
It sinks in DEEP and becomes INTERNALIZED.
You become CONFIDENT about the new behaviors.
Make no mistake about it, CONGRUENCY is
EVERYTHING.
Congruency is so powerful, that you can go up
to a woman and tell her something like
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and actually have
it WORK if you are truly FEELING her
beauty in a way that is EMPOWERING
and ENERGIZING for you.
So the woman feels that you are not FAKING.
The woman can tell you mean BUSINESS.
Similarly, when you are in my Bootcamp, the
things I am telling you and teaching you
suddenly take on a whole new level of
MEANING and of EMOTIONAL IMPACT.
That means that you are now being influenced
in a POSITIVE way through the POSITIVE
“social pressure” that you feel from me.
I myself experienced this a few times in my life,
when I met some rare individuals who were
true EXCEPTIONS in a POSITIVE way to the
GENERAL NORMS of society.
The mere experience of BEING IN THAT
ENVIRONMENT had an even GREATER
effect on me than ALL the specific strategies
that they taught me, put all together! And
they taught me some GREAT strategies,
it is just that the EFFECT of INTERACTING
with these people was even GREATER than
the actual awesome strategies that they taught.
The power of SOCIAL PRESSURE is so great,
that every powerful group, company, or organization
on EARTH uses it to MASSIVE extremes.
If you want to CHANGE yourself for the BETTER,
be prepared to BATTLE against the social forces
that want to INFLUENCE you to NOT improve
yourself mentally, physically, financially, etc.
Most people give UP and give IN.
Will you?
And here’s where it all comes full circle.
Most men want a woman who will treat them
RIGHT.
A woman who is INTELLIGENT but who is
not arrogant or spoiled.
A woman who works HARD but who is not
selfish.
A woman who is FAITHFUL but is not insecure.
A woman who is health conscious but not
addicted to the gym.
A woman who is fun in bed but who is not
promiscuous.
A woman who is friendly but not naïve.
If a woman is all these things, she is DAMN RARE.
She has REBELLED, so to speak, against the
social norms.
She can RESIST social proof, and probably in
fact has formed a POSITIVE social group of her
OWN, where the groups fuels each other with
POSITIVE social pressure, where they socially
proof healthy ideals and values.
And LIKE attracts LIKE.
The right kind of quality woman can DETECT
the INCONSISTENCIES in a man who is just
PRETENDING to be similar to her in order
to get her into bed.
She knows what the right values LOOK like
because she HAS them in HERSELF.
The first thing you can do to change yourself
into the kind of man that quality women want
is to start choosing the RIGHT way to spend
your time, the RIGHT way to behave, the
RIGHT goals in your life.
I am not a preacher so I cannot tell you
what these RIGHT goals are for you, but
I can tell you that usually LAZINESS
make most people actually THINK that
the goals that take LESS work, the values
that take LESS discipline are the RIGHT
ones, when in fact they are usually the
WRONG ones.
Develop an attitude that does NOT look
for the easy way out. Learn to see the
POSITIVE side of INTELLIGENT
and HARD work. Learn to appreciate
the result of SWEATING it out to
IMPROVE yourself. Learn to enjoy
the PROCESS of self-improvement.
Be HAPPY to learn from good people
who are KIND when they want to teach
you something rather than just being
arrogant.
Learn to try to UNDERSTAND people
rather than dismiss them right away.
You will notice that even though I have
standards that are higher than the average
in society, I do not BLAME people so fast,
because blaming is very easy and it ignores
the reality that most people aren’t TRYING
to do the wrong thing.
However, UNDERSTANDING people does
not mean LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS.
It does not mean accepting a woman who
mistreats you.
When you INTERNALIZE these IMPROVED
attitudes, when you SHOW on the EXTERNAL
side as well that you are LIVING these ideals,
you will notice a MASSIVE improvement in
your ability to detect the RIGHT kinds of
women QUICKLY as well as how to detect
and avoid the wrong types of women, AND
you will also start to attract the right kinds
of women with far greater ease than before.
This is because you will be CONVEYING
all these things through all the subtle
nuances in your tonality, your body language,
your vocabulary, the expressions on your
face, the way you are able to listen and
understand and connect and inspire, etc.
Now, this newsletter has drawn some of the
BROAD STROKES that are ESSENTIAL
for your success.
It’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty and
put it all into ACTION.
The FASTEST way to get it all into action
is through BOOTCAMP, where I will
instruct you live as you approach women
EVERYWHERE.
Keep in mind BOOTCAMP is not only about
gaining CONFIDENCE, it is also about
MASTERING the TECHNICAL skills and
gaining the know-how regarding how to
take action and approach women even in
all those "hard to approach" situations.
Learn more about what Bootcamp is and
when the next sessions are being held by
going HERE immediately:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
You will LOVE what you GAIN from Bootcamp.
The experience is PRICELESS and it is
something most men will NEVER do, because
it requires the internal MOTIVATION to
get success BEYOND what is the average
social NORM for a man when it comes to
his success with women.
Most men GIVE IN to the desire to just
FIT IN and be AVERAGE.
You can REBEL against the FORCE of that
social pressure and EXCEED what is
the AVERAGE for most men.
And if you are still not SERIOUSLY
approaching women yet, you MUST download
my “Acing the Approach” program now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html
And to learn the FULL PICTURE on how to
get yourself a FANTASTIC quality woman
for a great relationship, go HERE:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
newsletters I have ever written on
the topic of getting a truly great
girlfriend who is the total package
inside and out.
In order to get a great woman, it is
imperative that a man become the
greatest version of himself as well.
The CHALLENGE, however, is that
almost the exact INSTANT that you
make the commitment to improving
yourself, you will be faced with a
barrage of situations that TEST your
COMMITMENT to truly improving
yourself.
And the single GREATEST source of these
tests will usually come from SOCIAL PRESSURE.
So, for example, let’s say you decide to spend your
time NOT gossiping, and you happen to be having
dinner with friends one evening and one of them
or all of them are really going HEAVY on the
juicy gossip stuff.
Now, by the way, I am not judging people, as
people in general are only trying to do what
they think makes sense, and not everyone is
fortunate to have the right leadership and
guidance.
Back to our example above, in this situation
you will feel the pressure to JOIN IN and
be gossipy and to start focusing on other
people’s lives rather than how to improve
your own.
Or, let’s say, you decide to start exercising,
and the current group of friends you have
never exercise, they will for example invite
you out to watch TV, eat junk food, or something
during the time you wanted to go exercise.
And the above examples are not even where
people INTENTIONALLY are trying to
screw you up because they are jealous
of you or they are feeling insecure because
they are too lazy to change and they want
you to be on the same “level” as them.
Then, of course, there is the general social
pressure to just “fit in” with society rather
than EXCEED the “average”, because
in general, people only like the average
person, since the person above average
raises jealousies and the person below
is someone people either feel sorry for
or sometimes mocked.
The SECOND you want to actually IMPROVE
yourself, you will be BOMBARDED with
these situations, and MOST PEOPLE will
then FAIL, because it is so damn HARD
to CHANGE one’s path because of the
power of MOMENTUM.
As humans, we just don’t like to CHANGE.
And if we decide to change, it doesn’t take
MUCH for most people’s commitment to
be SHATTERED.
And, as I said above, the greatest CULPRIT
is the power of SOCIAL PROOF to make
sure you don’t rise much above or below
the SOCIAL or societal average.
We are affected by SOCIAL PROOF because
of our HARD-WIRING. This is BIOLOGY
and EVOLUTION in FULL EFFECT.
It is important to understand that social proof
DOES have its uses. For example, very often
in life, and in human history, making decisions
based on what the GROUP believed helped
individuals save TIME.
So if for example, in ancient times, there was
a PATHWAY through the jungle that was
considered efficient or safe by the majority
of people, then it might very well save an
individual time to take that path rather than
search out every path or try to create a new
one.
So over the course of human history, feeling
INFLUENCED by social proof usually was
a GOOD thing.
However, social proof can BACKFIRE, as
if the social group is WRONG about something,
an individual will still feel very INFLUENCED
and sometimes emotionally compelled to follow
the suggestion of the GROUP.
This is ONE of the reasons that taking a bootcamp
with me is SO powerful. It is because you are
truly being taken into a completely different
SOCIAL FORCE than the ones you tend to
meet in regular life.
Since I have dedicated YEARS of my life
toward the training of men in how to attract
and keep quality women, I am EXTREMELY
CONGRUENT to this in every way.
When someone else is truly CONGRUENT to something,
you FEEL the social pressure effect of that trait on a
DEEP level and you can more easily INTERNALIZE
that trait for yourself.
It’s not just a cerebral event; it is EMOTIONALLY
COMPELLING AND OVERWHELMING in a
POSITIVE WAY.
It sinks in DEEP and becomes INTERNALIZED.
You become CONFIDENT about the new behaviors.
Make no mistake about it, CONGRUENCY is
EVERYTHING.
Congruency is so powerful, that you can go up
to a woman and tell her something like
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and actually have
it WORK if you are truly FEELING her
beauty in a way that is EMPOWERING
and ENERGIZING for you.
So the woman feels that you are not FAKING.
The woman can tell you mean BUSINESS.
Similarly, when you are in my Bootcamp, the
things I am telling you and teaching you
suddenly take on a whole new level of
MEANING and of EMOTIONAL IMPACT.
That means that you are now being influenced
in a POSITIVE way through the POSITIVE
“social pressure” that you feel from me.
I myself experienced this a few times in my life,
when I met some rare individuals who were
true EXCEPTIONS in a POSITIVE way to the
GENERAL NORMS of society.
The mere experience of BEING IN THAT
ENVIRONMENT had an even GREATER
effect on me than ALL the specific strategies
that they taught me, put all together! And
they taught me some GREAT strategies,
it is just that the EFFECT of INTERACTING
with these people was even GREATER than
the actual awesome strategies that they taught.
The power of SOCIAL PRESSURE is so great,
that every powerful group, company, or organization
on EARTH uses it to MASSIVE extremes.
If you want to CHANGE yourself for the BETTER,
be prepared to BATTLE against the social forces
that want to INFLUENCE you to NOT improve
yourself mentally, physically, financially, etc.
Most people give UP and give IN.
Will you?
And here’s where it all comes full circle.
Most men want a woman who will treat them
RIGHT.
A woman who is INTELLIGENT but who is
not arrogant or spoiled.
A woman who works HARD but who is not
selfish.
A woman who is FAITHFUL but is not insecure.
A woman who is health conscious but not
addicted to the gym.
A woman who is fun in bed but who is not
promiscuous.
A woman who is friendly but not naïve.
If a woman is all these things, she is DAMN RARE.
She has REBELLED, so to speak, against the
social norms.
She can RESIST social proof, and probably in
fact has formed a POSITIVE social group of her
OWN, where the groups fuels each other with
POSITIVE social pressure, where they socially
proof healthy ideals and values.
And LIKE attracts LIKE.
The right kind of quality woman can DETECT
the INCONSISTENCIES in a man who is just
PRETENDING to be similar to her in order
to get her into bed.
She knows what the right values LOOK like
because she HAS them in HERSELF.
The first thing you can do to change yourself
into the kind of man that quality women want
is to start choosing the RIGHT way to spend
your time, the RIGHT way to behave, the
RIGHT goals in your life.
I am not a preacher so I cannot tell you
what these RIGHT goals are for you, but
I can tell you that usually LAZINESS
make most people actually THINK that
the goals that take LESS work, the values
that take LESS discipline are the RIGHT
ones, when in fact they are usually the
WRONG ones.
Develop an attitude that does NOT look
for the easy way out. Learn to see the
POSITIVE side of INTELLIGENT
and HARD work. Learn to appreciate
the result of SWEATING it out to
IMPROVE yourself. Learn to enjoy
the PROCESS of self-improvement.
Be HAPPY to learn from good people
who are KIND when they want to teach
you something rather than just being
arrogant.
Learn to try to UNDERSTAND people
rather than dismiss them right away.
You will notice that even though I have
standards that are higher than the average
in society, I do not BLAME people so fast,
because blaming is very easy and it ignores
the reality that most people aren’t TRYING
to do the wrong thing.
However, UNDERSTANDING people does
not mean LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS.
It does not mean accepting a woman who
mistreats you.
When you INTERNALIZE these IMPROVED
attitudes, when you SHOW on the EXTERNAL
side as well that you are LIVING these ideals,
you will notice a MASSIVE improvement in
your ability to detect the RIGHT kinds of
women QUICKLY as well as how to detect
and avoid the wrong types of women, AND
you will also start to attract the right kinds
of women with far greater ease than before.
This is because you will be CONVEYING
all these things through all the subtle
nuances in your tonality, your body language,
your vocabulary, the expressions on your
face, the way you are able to listen and
understand and connect and inspire, etc.
Now, this newsletter has drawn some of the
BROAD STROKES that are ESSENTIAL
for your success.
It’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty and
put it all into ACTION.
The FASTEST way to get it all into action
is through BOOTCAMP, where I will
instruct you live as you approach women
EVERYWHERE.
Keep in mind BOOTCAMP is not only about
gaining CONFIDENCE, it is also about
MASTERING the TECHNICAL skills and
gaining the know-how regarding how to
take action and approach women even in
all those "hard to approach" situations.
Learn more about what Bootcamp is and
when the next sessions are being held by
going HERE immediately:
http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html
You will LOVE what you GAIN from Bootcamp.
The experience is PRICELESS and it is
something most men will NEVER do, because
it requires the internal MOTIVATION to
get success BEYOND what is the average
social NORM for a man when it comes to
his success with women.
Most men GIVE IN to the desire to just
FIT IN and be AVERAGE.
You can REBEL against the FORCE of that
social pressure and EXCEED what is
the AVERAGE for most men.
And if you are still not SERIOUSLY
approaching women yet, you MUST download
my “Acing the Approach” program now at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html
And to learn the FULL PICTURE on how to
get yourself a FANTASTIC quality woman
for a great relationship, go HERE:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Monday, October 8, 2012
Deep Insights Into Finding, Approaching, Attracting, And Keeping A Quality Woman
Alright, so there are a few important things
I need to tell you about getting quality women.
I’ve been really busy lately so this has
been on my mind and it’s cool to finally
be able to tell you.
The first thing is that, as you know,
"Get A Great Girl" is really about that,
how to get a GREAT woman, a woman
who is that total package of being
faithful, beautiful, fun to be around,
health conscious, and woman who
helps you be your best, even if it
means challenging you sometimes
so that you can BE your best because
she BELIEVES in you.
So one question a lot of guys want to
know is where to even MEET such
a woman. Well, here’s one example,
and that is at a Yoga class. That doesn’t
mean that every woman at the Yoga
class is going to be that woman, but
there’s a lot higher chance of meeting
a woman that has an open mind, that
has a great personality, that is into
improving herself not only physically
but also appreciates the importance
of being in the right state of mind,
and a woman who is not only about
the material things in life, at a yoga
class than at a really smoky deafeningly
loud club.
At the same time, in my Warrior Within
program, you will learn how to QUICKLY
detect a woman’s personality through her
behaviors. And when I say quickly, I mean
usually in just SECONDS, not days or weeks.
So you can easily be hopping on the bus,
sit next to a woman, strike up a chat with
her and find out VERY quickly if she has
the characteristics you are looking for.
By the way, ONE of the keys to determining
a woman’s personality very quickly is through
realizing that people give away their picture
of the world and of their perception of what
is right and what is wrong ALL THE TIME.
They do this because this is how they genuinely
feel. So a woman who enjoys manipulating
other people is often PROUD OF IT.
As long as you are careful not to make her
feel judged, she will reveal EVERYTHING
about herself to you.
So that’s another key: When meeting a
new woman, do NOT give away YOUR
values right away, this way she can feel
free to convey HER values.
This leads me to my next point:
I got into this whole field to help the good guys.
I saw how so many JERKS were successful
with women, and it took me many years
to realize that it’s not that women are truly
attracted to jerky behavior, it’s that they
are attracted to confidence, to sexuality,
to men who don’t get brainwashed by
stupid social conventions that say
only “bad” people are sexual and only
“bad” people are flirty and only “bad”
people don’t follow all the stupid rules
of society such as being boring to make
sure you don’t offend anyone.
In FACT, the whole reason so many good
guys act boring when they chat up women
is BECAUSE they have been taught that
being GOOD means FITTING IN, and
the only way to ENSURE you fit IN
is by making sure to NOT SHAKE
THE BOAT, to NOT stand out, to
NOT offend anyone even by accident.
And so, this PLAYING IT SAFE
style of behavior ends up making
sure that most men do NOTHING.
The SAFEST way to NOT OFFEND
is to do NOTHING. That way, you
for sure won’t offend anyone.
Meanwhile, the truth is that inside of
every good guy is an INFINITE fire
of creativity, of spark, of sexuality,
of so much awesome stuff that women
would love if they were just SHOWN
that instead of the “play it safe” stuff.
At the SAME TIME THOUGH, there
is something that GOOD GUYS tend
to do that is a HORRIBLE mistake,
and it truly is BECAUSE they are
so good.
The mistake is FALLING FOR A
MANIPULATIVE AND CRUEL
WOMAN and not even realizing
that she indeed is a terrible person.
The reason so many good guys don’t
realize it when they are with a horribly
behaved woman is because as human
beings, we tend to see OTHERS through
the same perspective which we see
OURSELVES.
So, if we treat others fairly, if we are good
to others, if we have empathy, if we believe
in justice, then we tend to think that OTHERS
do as well.
And so it’s not the FIRST INSTINCT to
think that a woman can possibly be so
horrible. Instead, we tend to think that
there must be SOMETHING ELSE wrong
with the picture. i.e. Maybe you feel YOU
did something wrong. Maybe you feel that
it is YOUR responsibility to “fix” the
situation with a woman. Maybe you feel
“she must just be having a bad day”.
Of course, this is HORRIFYING MISTAKE
to make, because you now start to justify
all the bad behavior that a woman does to you.
And THEN, you start to backwards rationalize
all the EFFORT you are pouring into her.
You start to think, “Well, she MUST be worth
all this pain, or there is no way I would be
doing all this for her!”
You start to think that this woman is MORE
special BECAUSE of the very fact you are
SUFFERING for her, when in reality you
are suffering BECAUSE of her.
Then, the next horrifying thing happens:
You start to FEAR the idea of LOSING her.
Oh man, this is the final disaster, because
then there is no LIMIT to the abuse you
will be willing to take. And of course,
since she is a terrible woman she indeed
WILL abuse you as far as she can take it.
And of course, all this suffering will be
backwards rationalized in your mind as
being MORE OF A REASON why she
must be so special, you will think that
the reason you are taking all this pain
is because she is “so hot” or “so special”
or that “you will never find such a woman”
as if she is somehow a GOOD CATCH.
Your mind will come up with the weirdest
reasons, like finding ONE GOOD THING
about her and then exaggerating that thing
to somehow make her seem noble.
So, I want to make it clear here that
getting a “great girl” is not only about
what you say and do, it’s also about
being able to see how your OWN mind
is communicating with you and what it
is telling you about a woman, and being
able to know when your own mind is
actually making a MISTAKE.
So, as a good guy, it's important to understand
that if a woman is constantly doing things that
make you feel BAD, then you need to slap
yourself awake out of your trance and
determine if she is REALLY so special
to begin with, and if she’s not, then you
must rip the cord, you must pull away,
you must wean yourself off of her no
matter how much you think you can’t
live without her, because she has become
an ADDICTION for you, she is a harmful
substance that you THINK you need to
survive.
Now, at the SAME TIME, I also am
not on some kind of RANT against
all women. There are MANY good
women out there, and there are even
some GREAT ones out there, that’s
the whole reason I made “Get A Great
Girl”.
So, my next point is, that if you are in
general finding that you think ALL
women are nasty, or that all attractive
women are nasty, or that all attractive
women do not want to be approached,
then I suggest you consider RE-EXAMINING
the facts to see if it’s possible that you
are allowing your own emotions to
negatively filter the truth into something
much worse than it really is with women.
Because even the greatest woman on earth
can’t be expected to JUMP into the arms
of a man who is a total stranger who just
approached her, even if she DOES want
to meet the right man.
People aren’t so quick to trust ANYONE
anymore, and I don’t blame them. All
you hear about in the news are scandals
about people you are supposed to trust
or people you used to look up to, including
even the NEWS organizations themselves.
Now, if you’re a woman, you ALSO have
to deal with the constant barrage on the
news about rapists, psychos and other
types like that, even if they don’t represent
the majority of the population, it’s a little
frightening to say the least.
And by the way, THIS is PART of why
giving women COMPLIMENTS as a
way to “pick them up” does NOT work.
Not only does it seem like it’s too easy
for any guy to say that because so many
guys use the same approach of the compliment,
but it has almost come to be synonymous
with SELFISHNESS.
In fact, if you were an attractive woman,
and you got a COMPLIMENT from a
man, the TRUTH is, the FIRST thing
you would be thinking is, “OK, NOW
COMES THE PART WHERE HE
WANTS SOMETHING FROM ME.”
In other words, the compliment is not
a form of giving at all.
It is almost like Pavlov’s dogs where
a bell would ring, and THEN the dogs
would be given food.
It got to the point that just THE BELL
would cause the dogs to SALIVATE.
Well, with women, it’s the exact
OPPOSITE feeling when most men
give the compliment, because most
men will give the compliment and
immediately be showing the verbal
and non verbal signs of “I WANT TO
TAKE FROM YOU”.
I know this is hard to understand as being
a bad thing, because I myself as a man
used to fantasize about what it would
be like to have women “chase” and
give compliments and try to “get” me.
But it’s not exactly a great feeling when
every single time a guy starts a conversation
with a woman with something like, “Nice
day today, isn’t it”, she KNOWS it’s really leading
up to, “Can I go out with you?”.
Women DO want to meet men.
They just need to feel NON-PRESSURED
and SAFE doing it.
Now, the TRUTH also is, that body language
and tonality says the majority of your message.
Here’s an experiment for you:
Go up to a woman today and give her a
COMPLIMENT, but DO NOT EVEN
TRY TO TAKE THE CONVERSATION
ANYWHERE.
Do not try to get her number.
Do not try to GET anything.
In fact, do this at the most “creepy” time
and location you can think of.
Perhaps late at night in a store that is
not busy.
Go RIGHT UP TO A WOMAN and tell
her a stereotypical compliment.
Don’t even worry about walking up to
her in some special way. Just go right
up to her, and tell her she is beautiful.
You will notice two things usually:
She will be a BIT freaked out initially,
and then as she SEES you are totally
not trying to take anything or do anything,
she will actually SMILE and be a bit
speechless looking at you with wonder
and curiosity and INTEREST.
This ONLY works if your MINDSET
is FOCUSED on the fact you are NOT
taking ANYTHING from her, and is
focused on the fact you are totally
just GIVING.
This is an important experiment to
PROVE to you that most women are
in fact NOT “beeeyotches” and if they
just had a chance to KNOW that you
are NOT going to be the guy who
pressures them into feeling they need
to do something right then and there
like becoming your girlfriend without
even knowing you, they would be
MUCH MORE OPEN to actually
in fact doing that very thing- becoming
your girlfriend!
And if you are reading this right now
and would like to know how to MEET,
how to ATTRACT, and how to KEEP
a fantastic quality girlfriend that is
the “total package” of inner and outer
beauty, I seriously suggest you get my
program “Warrior Within”.
This program goes DEEP. It’s not a
“Band-Aid” superficial solution. Rather,
it transforms you for real on the deepest
level to make you the kind of man that
the most fantastic women on earth can’t
help but fall in love with.
It’s at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
I need to tell you about getting quality women.
I’ve been really busy lately so this has
been on my mind and it’s cool to finally
be able to tell you.
The first thing is that, as you know,
"Get A Great Girl" is really about that,
how to get a GREAT woman, a woman
who is that total package of being
faithful, beautiful, fun to be around,
health conscious, and woman who
helps you be your best, even if it
means challenging you sometimes
so that you can BE your best because
she BELIEVES in you.
So one question a lot of guys want to
know is where to even MEET such
a woman. Well, here’s one example,
and that is at a Yoga class. That doesn’t
mean that every woman at the Yoga
class is going to be that woman, but
there’s a lot higher chance of meeting
a woman that has an open mind, that
has a great personality, that is into
improving herself not only physically
but also appreciates the importance
of being in the right state of mind,
and a woman who is not only about
the material things in life, at a yoga
class than at a really smoky deafeningly
loud club.
At the same time, in my Warrior Within
program, you will learn how to QUICKLY
detect a woman’s personality through her
behaviors. And when I say quickly, I mean
usually in just SECONDS, not days or weeks.
So you can easily be hopping on the bus,
sit next to a woman, strike up a chat with
her and find out VERY quickly if she has
the characteristics you are looking for.
By the way, ONE of the keys to determining
a woman’s personality very quickly is through
realizing that people give away their picture
of the world and of their perception of what
is right and what is wrong ALL THE TIME.
They do this because this is how they genuinely
feel. So a woman who enjoys manipulating
other people is often PROUD OF IT.
As long as you are careful not to make her
feel judged, she will reveal EVERYTHING
about herself to you.
So that’s another key: When meeting a
new woman, do NOT give away YOUR
values right away, this way she can feel
free to convey HER values.
This leads me to my next point:
I got into this whole field to help the good guys.
I saw how so many JERKS were successful
with women, and it took me many years
to realize that it’s not that women are truly
attracted to jerky behavior, it’s that they
are attracted to confidence, to sexuality,
to men who don’t get brainwashed by
stupid social conventions that say
only “bad” people are sexual and only
“bad” people are flirty and only “bad”
people don’t follow all the stupid rules
of society such as being boring to make
sure you don’t offend anyone.
In FACT, the whole reason so many good
guys act boring when they chat up women
is BECAUSE they have been taught that
being GOOD means FITTING IN, and
the only way to ENSURE you fit IN
is by making sure to NOT SHAKE
THE BOAT, to NOT stand out, to
NOT offend anyone even by accident.
And so, this PLAYING IT SAFE
style of behavior ends up making
sure that most men do NOTHING.
The SAFEST way to NOT OFFEND
is to do NOTHING. That way, you
for sure won’t offend anyone.
Meanwhile, the truth is that inside of
every good guy is an INFINITE fire
of creativity, of spark, of sexuality,
of so much awesome stuff that women
would love if they were just SHOWN
that instead of the “play it safe” stuff.
At the SAME TIME THOUGH, there
is something that GOOD GUYS tend
to do that is a HORRIBLE mistake,
and it truly is BECAUSE they are
so good.
The mistake is FALLING FOR A
MANIPULATIVE AND CRUEL
WOMAN and not even realizing
that she indeed is a terrible person.
The reason so many good guys don’t
realize it when they are with a horribly
behaved woman is because as human
beings, we tend to see OTHERS through
the same perspective which we see
OURSELVES.
So, if we treat others fairly, if we are good
to others, if we have empathy, if we believe
in justice, then we tend to think that OTHERS
do as well.
And so it’s not the FIRST INSTINCT to
think that a woman can possibly be so
horrible. Instead, we tend to think that
there must be SOMETHING ELSE wrong
with the picture. i.e. Maybe you feel YOU
did something wrong. Maybe you feel that
it is YOUR responsibility to “fix” the
situation with a woman. Maybe you feel
“she must just be having a bad day”.
Of course, this is HORRIFYING MISTAKE
to make, because you now start to justify
all the bad behavior that a woman does to you.
And THEN, you start to backwards rationalize
all the EFFORT you are pouring into her.
You start to think, “Well, she MUST be worth
all this pain, or there is no way I would be
doing all this for her!”
You start to think that this woman is MORE
special BECAUSE of the very fact you are
SUFFERING for her, when in reality you
are suffering BECAUSE of her.
Then, the next horrifying thing happens:
You start to FEAR the idea of LOSING her.
Oh man, this is the final disaster, because
then there is no LIMIT to the abuse you
will be willing to take. And of course,
since she is a terrible woman she indeed
WILL abuse you as far as she can take it.
And of course, all this suffering will be
backwards rationalized in your mind as
being MORE OF A REASON why she
must be so special, you will think that
the reason you are taking all this pain
is because she is “so hot” or “so special”
or that “you will never find such a woman”
as if she is somehow a GOOD CATCH.
Your mind will come up with the weirdest
reasons, like finding ONE GOOD THING
about her and then exaggerating that thing
to somehow make her seem noble.
So, I want to make it clear here that
getting a “great girl” is not only about
what you say and do, it’s also about
being able to see how your OWN mind
is communicating with you and what it
is telling you about a woman, and being
able to know when your own mind is
actually making a MISTAKE.
So, as a good guy, it's important to understand
that if a woman is constantly doing things that
make you feel BAD, then you need to slap
yourself awake out of your trance and
determine if she is REALLY so special
to begin with, and if she’s not, then you
must rip the cord, you must pull away,
you must wean yourself off of her no
matter how much you think you can’t
live without her, because she has become
an ADDICTION for you, she is a harmful
substance that you THINK you need to
survive.
Now, at the SAME TIME, I also am
not on some kind of RANT against
all women. There are MANY good
women out there, and there are even
some GREAT ones out there, that’s
the whole reason I made “Get A Great
Girl”.
So, my next point is, that if you are in
general finding that you think ALL
women are nasty, or that all attractive
women are nasty, or that all attractive
women do not want to be approached,
then I suggest you consider RE-EXAMINING
the facts to see if it’s possible that you
are allowing your own emotions to
negatively filter the truth into something
much worse than it really is with women.
Because even the greatest woman on earth
can’t be expected to JUMP into the arms
of a man who is a total stranger who just
approached her, even if she DOES want
to meet the right man.
People aren’t so quick to trust ANYONE
anymore, and I don’t blame them. All
you hear about in the news are scandals
about people you are supposed to trust
or people you used to look up to, including
even the NEWS organizations themselves.
Now, if you’re a woman, you ALSO have
to deal with the constant barrage on the
news about rapists, psychos and other
types like that, even if they don’t represent
the majority of the population, it’s a little
frightening to say the least.
And by the way, THIS is PART of why
giving women COMPLIMENTS as a
way to “pick them up” does NOT work.
Not only does it seem like it’s too easy
for any guy to say that because so many
guys use the same approach of the compliment,
but it has almost come to be synonymous
with SELFISHNESS.
In fact, if you were an attractive woman,
and you got a COMPLIMENT from a
man, the TRUTH is, the FIRST thing
you would be thinking is, “OK, NOW
COMES THE PART WHERE HE
WANTS SOMETHING FROM ME.”
In other words, the compliment is not
a form of giving at all.
It is almost like Pavlov’s dogs where
a bell would ring, and THEN the dogs
would be given food.
It got to the point that just THE BELL
would cause the dogs to SALIVATE.
Well, with women, it’s the exact
OPPOSITE feeling when most men
give the compliment, because most
men will give the compliment and
immediately be showing the verbal
and non verbal signs of “I WANT TO
TAKE FROM YOU”.
I know this is hard to understand as being
a bad thing, because I myself as a man
used to fantasize about what it would
be like to have women “chase” and
give compliments and try to “get” me.
But it’s not exactly a great feeling when
every single time a guy starts a conversation
with a woman with something like, “Nice
day today, isn’t it”, she KNOWS it’s really leading
up to, “Can I go out with you?”.
Women DO want to meet men.
They just need to feel NON-PRESSURED
and SAFE doing it.
Now, the TRUTH also is, that body language
and tonality says the majority of your message.
Here’s an experiment for you:
Go up to a woman today and give her a
COMPLIMENT, but DO NOT EVEN
TRY TO TAKE THE CONVERSATION
ANYWHERE.
Do not try to get her number.
Do not try to GET anything.
In fact, do this at the most “creepy” time
and location you can think of.
Perhaps late at night in a store that is
not busy.
Go RIGHT UP TO A WOMAN and tell
her a stereotypical compliment.
Don’t even worry about walking up to
her in some special way. Just go right
up to her, and tell her she is beautiful.
You will notice two things usually:
She will be a BIT freaked out initially,
and then as she SEES you are totally
not trying to take anything or do anything,
she will actually SMILE and be a bit
speechless looking at you with wonder
and curiosity and INTEREST.
This ONLY works if your MINDSET
is FOCUSED on the fact you are NOT
taking ANYTHING from her, and is
focused on the fact you are totally
just GIVING.
This is an important experiment to
PROVE to you that most women are
in fact NOT “beeeyotches” and if they
just had a chance to KNOW that you
are NOT going to be the guy who
pressures them into feeling they need
to do something right then and there
like becoming your girlfriend without
even knowing you, they would be
MUCH MORE OPEN to actually
in fact doing that very thing- becoming
your girlfriend!
And if you are reading this right now
and would like to know how to MEET,
how to ATTRACT, and how to KEEP
a fantastic quality girlfriend that is
the “total package” of inner and outer
beauty, I seriously suggest you get my
program “Warrior Within”.
This program goes DEEP. It’s not a
“Band-Aid” superficial solution. Rather,
it transforms you for real on the deepest
level to make you the kind of man that
the most fantastic women on earth can’t
help but fall in love with.
It’s at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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