How To Be The Man Women Fantasize About

The only path to ultimate attraction when it comes
to a woman is to open the floodgates of her imagination
and fantasy and then help her live that fairy tale. 

This might sound impossible, but it's
not, because once you have sparked
her fantasies, she will do HER best to
go along with the fantasy version of you,
because we are all starving to get out
of this mundane existence and we will
suspend our disbelief to EXPERIENCE
a more intoxicating and higher
emotional plane of existence. 

So if you do YOUR part, a woman
will GLADLY do her part, and this
allows her to, for all intents and
purposes, LIVE her fantasy, for the
mind does not distinguish between
an emotion that is experienced
through fantasy or through reality,
as long as it is EXPERIENCED.

That is why, right now, if you recall a
specific happy memory in explicit and
full detail, you will EXPERIENCE the
emotion. It is not "fake". The emotional
experience is REAL.

The thing about all this, is that some
of these fantasies and types of
personalities are extremely powerful
and are not necessary nor always even
smart for attracting a woman for a
casual sexual relationship or a one-night
stand kind of thing. 

This stuff is about massive attraction, and
you don't want to hurt a girl by creating
this level of attraction and then jumping
ship.  In fact, a girl that's looking for
something casual might get emotionally
freaked out by this stuff since she knows
it will lead to HER feeling massive intense
emotions, and she's obviously not ready
for that or she wouldn't be only looking
for the casual thing. 

If you just want the one night stand
thing, go in there, tease the girl, get
her laughing, then lean back some
more and chill out and make small talk
and physically escalate.

And in fact, that is solid game for
starting off with just about any
woman. You can often also escalate
to this other stuff as she gets to
find out more about you.

Okay, so more on this whole
other DIMENSION of attraction.

How do you open up the floodgates
to her sexual fantasies and imagination?

The best thing to first do is realize that not
every woman is the SAME in this department.

You're better off to first figure out which
type of fantasy your REAL character
would most naturally fall into, and then
CULTIVATE that.  And then BE that
person always, and the women who are
INTO that will certainly be drawn to you.

For example, if you are a brooding,
tormented soul, that might not be the
best match for being the wild bad boy. 
And if you are a wild party guy at heart,
then trying to turn yourself into the
tormented artistic soul might not be
the best match.

The dark soul, the brooding artist, attracts
many women because he is UNAFFECTED
by her beauty since he is so far beyond
that into his OWN world, his own emotional
creations, etc.

Also, when he DOES connect with her
emotionally, his passion is INTENSE and
he also has an uncanny ability to pace
her emotional reality, so he knows
EXACTLY what to do when, because
he is brilliant at understanding
emotion. He can be in sexual sync
both physically and mentally with her
at a level that no other guy has ever
done.

You have to choose your identity, who you
are going to be, and it makes sense to choose
who you most closely fall into and POLISH
that. It's far more natural that way, and far
less work for you as well.

Are you the Donald Trump type? The
go getter who THRIVES in that environment?

Are you more the passionate artist type?
Distant, brooding, moody, yet emotionally
brilliant and on FIRE in that environment?

Are you the adrenaline junkie, the race car
driver skydiving bad boy type?

The party animal who just breathes that
and loves that scene?

An adventurer, outdoor type who builds
his own cabin, does his own hunting, etc.?

And so many more.

These categories can sometimes overlap, but
can also totally cancel each other out, so
common sense prevails here.

One thing though about ANY of these
identities, you can still never break any
of the "laws of physics" of attraction.
Giving her the EMOTIONAL sensation of
you as BEING EXCELLENT, as being COOL,
is still PARAMOUNT, and so is the
importance of you creating that connection
so that when she DOES get the pay-off
of your validation she feels BOOSTED
by it. 

Think about which type of identity you most
closely resemble personality-wise, and then
polish it up.  Dress the part. 

Look, the reality is that we are ALL constantly
just PLAYING different roles.  The question is, is the
role you are playing serving YOU?

We play the role of a father, son, brother,
employee, supervisor, boss, citizen, and we
act different in all these roles.  We don't
behave the same with our friends as we
do with our parents, as we do with
grandma or with the bus driver or your
brother or sister or the police etc. And
yet these are all still TRUE dimensions
of ourselves.

So why not choose the ROLE that turns
women on the MOST, and that most
closely suits YOU anyway, and
cultivate it?

If you're not sure of who you are, think
of what your passions are. Develop yourself
in that direction.

I could write infinite material on this, but let
me just state right here, that clearly, the different
identities I outlined briefly above in terms of
attractive identities that capture a woman's
imagination, each persona speaks differently,
dresses differently, spends their free time
differently, etc.

I'm going to now transition to a slightly different
topic now, but it's still related. 

In 1971, a Stanford university professor
conducted an experiment observing the
effects of prisoner and guard behavior and
the effect of taking on these roles.

15 students took part, and a section of
the basement of the university was
turned into a prison, complete will
cells. 7 students took on the role of
guards, 7 took on the role of prisoners.

One student was the warden. The guards
were not  allowed to physically harm the
prisoners, but were allowed to do just
about anything else to show them who
was "in charge".

The experiment was supposed to
last 2 weeks.

They had to end the experiment after

6 DAYS, because the guards had become

outright PSYCHO and cruel beyond belief.

And every student, before the experiment

was started, was checked out to make sure

they were mentally and emotionally sound

and fine.

Also, virtually NO ONE challenged the
ethics of the experiment. Not the parents,
not the minister who visited them, no one.

They all SIMPLY ACCEPTED THEIR
"ROLES" and the thought that this was
just "not real" was not even existent anymore.

What does this have to do with your success
with women?        

Plenty.

If PRETENDING to be a role for only SIX

DAYS is enough to get you to change your

concept of REALITY, how MASSIVE do

you think the impact would be to you if

you REDEFINED your OWN "role", your

own identity? 

For example, instead of taking on the role 
of the guy who does NOT approach
women, take on the role of a guy who
does.  You will BELIEVE you ARE
what you CONTINUOUSLY do.

Second, another point I need to bring up

is the fact that WOMEN have been given

a massive ROLE in society to act HARD

to get. But it's just a ROLE!  A role,

however that is RARELY challenged,

because MOST GUYS TAKE ON

the ROLE of the SUBMISSIVE!

They kiss up, buy women things for
no good reason except out of hope
the woman will stay with them because
of it, etc.  I can honestly say that it's
been SEVERAL YEARS since I
ever bought a woman ANYTHING
in the hope that she would like
me more because of it.  The only
time I buy a woman anything is
AFTER it's clear she is into me
with no money-strings attached.

There have been times when this ROLE
that I took on was challenged by some
women, but I TRULY believe it is
crazy for a guy to BUY a woman's
affection, it's absurd and an insult,
so I REALLY AM CONGRUENT
with my role. 

And THAT leads to me giving the woman
I am with a NEW role, the role of RESPECTING
a guy who doesn't take b.s. 

Most people have weak mindsets, and so they
just follow the masses.  They take on any role
they are given if it comes from "the matrix"
i.e. "it's what you are SUPPOSED to do"
EVEN if it makes no sense.  But by the
same token, if they meet someone who
has a STRONGER frame of reality, and
who will give them a DIFFERENT role
and totally believe that it is the right thing,
then people will ACCEPT the NEW role.

i.e. If YOU have a strong enough frame
of YOUR REALITY, you can then give
a woman a DIFFERENT role with YOU
than the one she has with OTHER guys.

YOU are the guy that she RESPECTS.
The OTHER guys are the guys that she
plays for money, favors, and emotional
abuse.

I'm being a little harsh here, because not
all women are like that, and in fact "Get
a GREAT Girl" is all about being very
SELECTIVE in which woman you go
out with.  However, definitely, most
women are USED to the role that society
has given them of getting gifts and being
the ones to screen the guy, and not the
other way around.

This was a joke back in the day 50 years ago,
because men had infinitely more power than
women then.

Not now though, now with women's equality,
which is a cool thing, it only makes sense
that if men kiss ass, men are actually now
in an INFERIOR position.  Before, it was
charming, now it's self-destructive.

Finally, I'd like to answer another email.

Before we start the letter, I just want to
make it clear that the "look-up" mentioned
below was something I was doing without
REALIZING it, until a reader who was
generous enough wrote in about it, and
shared it with everyone.  In brief, the
"look-up" is where you calmly look a
girl's entire body up and down, but don't
make it clear right away what you think. 
You are sizing her up, and it's a turn on
for her. Nice sexual tension.  

>>>LETTER<<<
  
Hi Michael,

I was hoping you can enlighten me with
your wizardry...

You probably hear this allot but I'm sure it
doesn't bother you to hear it again :)  

I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO WITHOUT
your e-BOOK and NEWSLETTERS and soon your
Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program!!!

I won't get too much into details but I really just
wanted to get your opinion on this situation. 
My friends and I got together at somebody's
house to do some pre-drinking and these
3 girls were invited to join, when the girls
came in I noticed this one girl who I just
wanted to get to know...

I used your famous stare up and down move
and look away - it worked like a charm!!
She came over and introduced herself to me,
we got pretty close at the club and then one of
my friends came to me and told me to watch
out for her she's a 'gold digger and a tease'
(I wanted to find out for myself). 

The next day she got her girlfriend to get my
number and called me to set up a date with
me (I thought it was so sexy when girls do
that) I still wanted to test her by wearing so
so clothes and driving a whatever car to see
if she has a weird reaction to it. 

Throughout the date I kept the conv. light
and very easy going, when the bill came for
like $10 she reached to her purse but I said
don't worry about it (at least she reached). 

The next day she text' me all day and then all
of a sudden she stops!  I didn't think much of
it so the next day I decided to give her a call
and ask her out for that same night she agreed
and we went out to a bar and grabbed some
drinks, again, I kept the facial expression
to a min. and I played it as cool as possible
using teasing and getting her to the 'right' state. 

The bill came and she decided to go to the
bathroom (how convenient)...so I ended
paying for the bill, that kind of bothered
me specially when I don't really remember
her thanking me either.  I get to the car
and I turn her around and plant a nice soft
one on her then I drop her off at home and
through another kiss at her and goodnight.  

As of today I am a little confused at what
I should do next....should I keep pursuing
her even though I have other prospects I
am looking at? should I wait until she text/call
me or should I do it after a certain number
of days?  how should I handle a woman like
that?? should I even bother?

You can post this if you wish....maybe
somebody else out there is going through
the same s*&%$

Regards,

Brett T..

>>>MY REPLY<<<

Thanks for the props on the programs
and these newsletters, it's kinda cool
to hear from guys that are out there
USING it and taking action. So props
to you, and you're going to LOVE
the new killer stuff in the Mastery
program.
 
Sounds like you were damn CONGRUENT
off the bat with the look up, as she responded
immediately and came to YOU.  Nice.

You were sexual, confident, playful,
and chilled out.

It also sounds to me that your friend(s) might
be a bit of a party pooper, no offense.  I
could be wrong.  But when a bunch of guys
are DRINKING, and 3 CHICKS come in,
and one of the chicks is damn into you,
it's not like this is a marriage proposal
going on.  So why ruin the fun? Gold
digger, shmold digger! She's into you
and you are a smart guy who knows
not to give your gold away so fast, right?

Methinks maybe your friends were
perhaps feeling that frustrating feeling
known as "wanting to shag the living
daylights out of her, but also not having
a clue how to get there".  But this doesn't
mean your friend are bad, they might
just be typical guys locked into the
matrix, it's all good.  

The problem might just be that you
let them ruin your entire INNER
game and your vibe. 

You went from the fun sexual guy
who attracted her, to the worried guy
focused on not losing.  Stop focusing
on NOT LOSING and get back into
the ORIGINAL vibe you had, of
being a MAN who LOVES women
and goes for it, focused on the
GOOD stuff.

That other vibe, that these guys were
giving you, is all wrong.  Even if the
chick IS a gold digger,  you can easily
find out yourself, and if she's NOT
a gold digger, your negative vibes
about this whole thing will turn her
off.  So taking the negative route will
sabotage even the best of possibilities.

So, the whole thing was wrong after that.

She got her girl to get your number, and she
set up a date with you.

No reason for you to try to act less than you
are.

You can always find out damn fast if she's
a gold digger anyway.  Especially since you
are already IN THE KNOW from all the
cool stuff you got from the book and
the newsletter!

The negative focus changed the entire
emotional dynamic, the entire atmosphere,
the air between you two.

And still, she did reach for her purse.
I would have playfully got her to split the bill
and turned it into how I'm all for women's
independence.  This actually sets up a
great sexual dynamic, because the woman
then KNOWS she certainly isn't going
to get free dinners out of this, so she
may as well get some awesome and
serious sex.  That's all you're good for!
   
Anyway, it wasn't over  yet, as SHE
texted you ALL day the next day.

Methinks you continued to act a bit
suspicious and overly hard to get.

Now, a girl isn't crazy.
She was seriously ATTRACTED to you,
so she even PUT HERSELF OUT THERE,
waaaaaaaaaaaaaay out there.

When she got the negative vibes, she still
gave you a chance.  She even texts you
the next day. A lot.  But all the time, she
keeps getting INSECURE vibes that
TOTALLY contradict the sexy fun
guy she THOUGHT she met.

You made a GREAT first impression,
but then made a total reverse, thanks
to your "friends". Now, don't get all
angry at your friends. Maybe they
meant well, maybe she is a gold digger,
but seems to me that most guys who
go round saying this to guys who
HAVE "game", i.e. a guy like you
who HAS "game", are just trying
to vent out their OWN insecurities
and they hope that if YOU accept
their version of reality, then it's
a good excuse for them to also
be in that miserable insecure
reality.  Rather than stepping out
and GOING for what you want
in life.

And then she STILL agreed to go out
again. But from the negative vibes your
friends gave you, it sounds like you were still
in the negative vibe, that the "facial expression
to a min" was not being used to show
RELAXED STATE but rather to show
her you that are not going to get USED.
And that's again focusing on insecurities.

So she goes to the bathroom.  Yes, maybe
she is avoiding the bill, but many women
do this because they're so brainwashed
for the man to pay. Which is why I stay
away from any places that cost money
on the initial first meetings. Or I do
go, but the chick still splits the cost.
It's not something that makes a girl
particularly bad by going off to the
bathroom, you can deal with that
stuff and give her the scoop on how
you don't pay for any chicks' company.

You're now in the damage control zone.
I recommend going for other chicks and
forgetting her for a while.  If you really
want to call her, do it and tell her, with
a NON-"APOLOGETIC" VOICE, (in other
words, say it like a STATEMENT rather
than a plea, or a question for her
forgiveness, you catch my drift?)
that you were being a bit of a jerk lately
because your cat died or something.
Then immediately get her laughing
about something i.e. tease her,
and meet her up again, and get
into some PRIVATE location
asap with her, and SERIOUSLY
get physical, man! 

And FORGET ANY advice that comes from
guys who aren't getting TEN TIMES better
results than you with women.

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Till next time,

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How To Be DOMINANT With Women

If you're a guy, maybe you've heard
that DOMINANCE is important for
attraction. But the problem is,
most guys tend to make one of
two mistakes with dominance-
either they think it's about being
controlling, or they think that
being dominance is the "wrong"
thing to be with a woman.

Both those ideas are misguided.
The following letter from a reader
represents the problem most
guys have, and also actually
shows the mistake most guys
are making:  

**LETTER**

Hey Michael,

I've been reading your articles and finding that
I can get a girl's number or email after chatting
a bit with her and using some humor, but I notice
that things fizzle out after a date or two.

Suddenly, they have other plans, or they tell me
they met someone, etc. I get the feeling that
I must be something wrong from the time of
getting a girl's number to the actual dates,
because this keeps happening to me over and
over again. I try to keep things going smoothly
on the dates, I try to keep the conversation going,
etc. I really don't give the women any reason to
not want to go out with me again. Any ideas to
help me out?

Terence,

Vancouver

****MY FEEDBACK****

I'm glad that you're putting the advice into action,
but there is something very, very important that
you are missing here: You mention how you
"try to keep things going smoothly", trying to
"keep the conversation going" and how "you
don't give the women any reason" to not want
to go out with you again.

Ironically, you have already actually
HIT THE NAIL ON THE PROVERBIAL HEAD.

You have just stated what you are doing WRONG.

What is this thing that you are doing to SABOTAGE
(albeit unknowingly) your success?
I'll tell you: You are trying to "FIT IN" with HER.
In other words, she gets the feeling SHE is leading
the show here. She feels SHE is dominant.

I'm not saying to try to start arguments, but
I get the sense you are trying TOO hard, as
if the paradigm was that she was the SUN
and you were the planets orbiting around.
As if SHE is the CENTRE.

Again, I want to prevent confusion:
It's not that you should act like some
big-shot, it's that you need to be
CENTRED, you need to develop
a stronger and more fleshed out
self-concept, so that you are not
internally feeling that you are
revolving around her or that you
NEED to revolve around her.   

Get ready for this: If there is one thing
that turns women OFF more than anything
else, it's a man with a lack of DOMINANCE.

And an attractive woman can smell a lack of
dominance like a shark smells blood.

This is one of those unspoken truths that
should be explained to all males on the planet
earth as part of their formal education.

Again, I want to prevent problems in being
misinterpreted here. Most guys totally misunderstand
what dominance really is. It's not about being a
tight-ass or an insecure control freak.

Dominance is about taking control because you
already feel COMFORTABLE making a decision.
Whether it's where to sit, where to go, etc.
You make DECISIONS rather than wait for
her to make them for you.

And the way to do this is from a POSITIVE standpoint,
not from a standpoint of "I am in charge" but rather
because you know she enjoys the fact that you are a
MAN and not afraid to LEAD the show.

Also, there is another dimension to this:
When you are ALREADY pretty damn happy
about your life, you are feeling so good, that
you aren't even WORRIED about "what if" she
doesn't "like" what you're doing. If she doesn't
like something, you can relax, she can always
TELL you! 

And you see, people are naturally attracted to
those who are already happy and content, because
everyone wants more of that in their own life.

This is why it's so important to have a REAL LIFE,
things BESIDES women.  In fact, they should be
even MORE important than women.

And, it's REALLY powerful if you are in an
ENVIROMENT of people who share your passions. 

Even though the wizardry is a major passion for me,
the reality is that I have other creative areas that I am
JUST as passionate about, and I wouldn't give up for
a BILLION dollars.  These things totally immerse
my mind and enhance me personally and actually help
me understand all human beings better. 

So when I walk away from these things, and I happen to
meet a woman, I actually am not coming from a place
of need.  I really AM coming from a place of curiosity,
and a place of wanting to GIVE awesome emotions to.
I feel an insane amount of awesome emotions in me,
and I want OTHERS to feel it too.
(I'm human of course, sometimes negative
emotions slip up on anyone, but I try to redirect
my focus on something more productive and
important and fun.)

When I chat up a woman, I really am NOT looking
for anything in return.  Sure, I am thinking it would
be FUN, but I am not NEEDY for it, or even
consciously thinking "how do I GET her".

SERIOUSLY!
The fact that people are INTERESTED in the
topic is ALREADY GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME! 
So if woman is giving me good convo and vibes,
that's really the point, and everything else is
just a logical by-product.  After all, I'm a guy,
she's a girl, we like each other, so it just
makes sense to continue things.

See, I REALLY AM about VIBING.
I LIKE VIBING.
So from there, if there really is something that I feel
is a cool connection as well, then I will go for it
AUTHENTICALLY, and it will WORK.

Keep in mind, that I am a pretty damn curious guy,
so I can make almost ANY person, ANY woman,
an AUTHENTIC CONNECTION.

Please, if you don't believe me, come out
to a BOOTCAMP, and have proof before
your very eyes.

This stuff is not about controlling women at all.
DOMINANCE is about DOMINANCE over
your own life. 

Do you know what you CARE about?
Do you know what is IMPORTANT to you?
Are you getting PASSION out of your own life?
Are you giving into WEAKNESS AND NEEDINESS?
Every time you give in to a "needy" emotion, you
only make the neediness STRONGER.

When you get control over yourself this way,
you are able to be a lot more dominant with
women in a POSITIVE sense.  You can
make decisions quicker, because they are
GOOD decisions.  You can choose places
to go, because you have a sense of
TASTE, a taste for things that are
cool.

You've developed this side of yourself.

You have to have a PATH that MATTERS
to you.  And STICK to it.  And CARE
about it. THAT'S attractive. When you
have that, you can be a lot more dominant,
because you don't have time to WASTE
in life, since YOUR life is meaningful
to YOU.

And this NATURALLY shows "VALUE"
to her EMOTIONAL SENSORS, not just
her cerebral sensors, which are useless
for attraction.  EMOTION counts, logic
is USELESS when it comes to this stuff.
    
All this gets CONVEYED through SUBTLETIES
in your gestures, movements, voice tone, language,
and facial expressions. I state "subtleties" because
it's all in the DETAILS....

It's an ATTITUDE.

Being dominant with women isn't easy
when you grow up being told for most
of your life that women want a man who
is WEAK and overly "SENSITIVE",
who is so obsessed with being considerate
of her wants and desires that HE himself
gets ERASED in the process.

It ain't easy when you grow up being told
that women want "equality", as if you were
supposed to **NOT** BE AS COOL AND AS
POWERFUL AS POSSIBLE -- AND AS
COOL AS YOU REALLY WANTED TO
BE IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!!!!!!! 

WHAT HOGWASH.
And it ain't easy when you're told that only
"jerks" disregard women's desire for total equality.
This is a huge topic, but let me give you some
examples of things you might see in a dominant
man: Men who are dominant tend to smile at a
woman at very DIFFERENT times and for very
DIFFERENT reasons than men who aren't dominant.

Men who are NOT dominant will smile in a way
that shows they are "trying to fit in" with a woman.

In other words, agreeing to everything she is
saying for the SOLE PURPOSE OF AGREEING.

Or nodding a lot, WITH A SMILE.
And laughing at all her jokes, even if they're
not funny.
And just smiling sometimes for NO REASON,
other than the fact the guy is SO HAPPY to be
with this beautiful woman in front of him.

I'm NOT saying that you shouldn't smile or
laugh with a woman, but only do it if you
would smile and laugh at the same things
she is doing even if she was also 300 POUNDS.

Because otherwise, you are really just
kissing her ass. A guy who is dominant might
smile at a woman in a SLY WAY if he just
busted on her big time. And even then, he
might not.

Because for him, he is so USED TO
getting the responses he wants, that it
takes a little more to make him react.
He's not angry, he's just not reacting,
because it's not such a big deal. In
fact, he's just chilled out, he's not
being MEAN to her.

It's like "Of course she is enjoying
being with me- what's the big deal."
A guy who is dominant makes decisions
with women. He does NOT say
"Honey, it doesn't matter to me, where
would YOU like to go?"

He does not get steered off course when
women test him on his commitment to
those decisions. I know many women who
have confidentially told me that when a guy
asks for their number, they will purposely
say they don't give out their number,
JUST TO SEE IF HE IS DOMINANT
ENOUGH TO NOT TAKE ONE "NO"
for an answer.

In other words, they want to see, "Is this
the kind of guy who means BUSINESS,
or is he wishy washy?" Women don't
mind giving out their numbers, emails,
etc, but they want a man WHO ISN'T
A PUSHOVER.

If he doesn't mean business about THEM,
he probably doesn't mean ANYTHING
with anyone, including his commitments
to HIMSELF.

Subconsciously, THAT'S what she's thinking.

Now, I think that some guys may have a
bit of a dilemma: They really are just
happy-go-lucky guys who smile a lot.
My advice for them is to hold back a bit
when they first meet a new woman or
the smiling behavior will be misinterpreted
as weakness.

Dominance also means NOT LISTENING
to every complaint that women give you,
since half the time, women are complaining
only to see if you will kiss their ass! If you
ever sense that a woman's complaint is
sounding like an attempt for control, you
better make sure to stick to your guns
(unless she points out a valid criticism, etc)
or you will find that she will start to nag you
even MORE....all to see if you are losing
your touch as THE MAN.

Your BODY LANGUAGE also conveys
your dominance or lack of it. If you tell a
woman "I will not accept x behavior",
but you are at the same time looking down
at the floor, or are fidgeting your hands
it's like you've destroyed any impact your
words could have had. If you are speaking
with a woman, if you are nervous, your
facial muscles will often clench, your
forehead will wrinkle, your eyebrows
will be raised in alarm, etc.

Now, by consciously CHANGING your
PHYSIOLOGY, and by RELAXING those
facial muscles, you will ACTUALLY
CHANGE YOUR PSYCHOLOGY as well,
and truly start to feel more relaxed.

So watch your facial expressions and
consciously relax them, and soon you will
actually feel more calm and confident in
front of her.

Listen, if you think I am exaggerating,
think about this: The CIA has special
agents trained in lie detection. They
don't look only at a person's WORDS
to tell if he is lying. The behaviors that
give away someone as a liar may be as
simple as a person tapping his foot against
the floor. Such "evidence" is known as
a LEAK, since the truth is LEAKING...

These experts look at everything from
body language to body temperature to
heart rate.

Now, attractive women are SO
EXPERIENCED WITH DATING,
and have gone out with SO MANY
MEN, that these women have "seen it all"
and are pretty darn good at telling which
men are full of it and which men are the
real deal. These women can see the "leaks".

They KNOW when a man is confident
and when he is just acting, because they
have seen the "signs" a million times.
These women look at your body language,
your facial expressions, your nose and
forehead as they wrinkle in tension.
They hear your rising submissive tonality.

So pay very, very careful attention to being
TOTALLY CONGRUENT in your facial
expressions and body language.

Being dominant also means not willing to
compromise on your principles. One thing
I notice: The more compromises you make
regarding your own values in order to
"keep a woman happy", the GREATER are
the chances she will grow MORE irritated
and bored and not sexually interested.

On the other hand, the greater your standards,
the less you compromise, the more control
you take, the BETTER a woman will treat you,
appreciate you, and feel sexual desire for you.

Here's another thing about men who are
dominant: They don't feel the need to talk too
much, they don't need to become chatterboxes
to "sell" themselves. They don't need to qualify
themselves to a woman, these men behave as
if it's the woman who must qualify herself.

It's about being the type of man who is in control
of his own emotions and his own life.

He who conquers his own heart, who is in control
of his own emotions, is the real victor in life.
Women can't stand a man who is always
complaining and whining about his problems.
Not only is it a bore, but it's a sign of him being
UNABLE TO COPE, and the most important
sexual criteria for a man has been his ability to
survive and pass that ability on to his children.

I know a lot of guys who feel that part of being
with a woman is to be able to share your sorrows
and your triumphs with her- well, save the
sorrows till after you have already celebrated
your 1 year anniversary, because otherwise
you'll never get to that point. (and even then,
keep the whining to a bare minimum).

This goes back to forces beyond our conscious
control. It stems from what was from an
evolutionary point of view, the mark of a man
who could SURVIVE and provide SURVIVAL
for his family.

DOMINANCE was part of that sign of such
a man, and for a man, was far more sexy
(read: useful for survival and hence an
element of adaptation) than the notion of
"being considerate" or "sensitive".

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Michael Marks