Attract A Woman FIRST, "Logic" Her SECOND

One of the most important things I can

tell you about attracting a woman is   

something that flies completely in

the face of commonly accepted advice

on how to attract women.

The common advice is to focus on

giving a woman all the LOGICAL

reasons for why she should be with you.

For example, pointing out to a woman

that you both have common interests

and passions.

Now, I’m not saying that there is NO

POINT in doing that at all, and in fact

doing a LITTLE bit of that may very

well be NECESSARY to sometimes

get the ball rolling.

But there is a TERRIBLE DANGER

present when you start to tell a woman

or convey to a woman why you two

SHOULD be together.  For example,

telling a woman that you both have

a similar interest in a certain hobby

or activity or topic.

The PROBLEM with doing too much of that

is that it not only has NOTHING to do with

PRIMAL ATTRACTION, it actually sends

a message to a woman’s subconscious that

actually the LOGICAL REASONS are the

ONLY reasons to be with you, and that there

is no REAL PRIMAL ATTRACTION going

on, and that these so called logical reasons

are a COMPENSATION PRIZE for being
willing to go out with a guy that she does
NOT feel intense attraction for.

In FACT, what you REALLY want to be doing is

actually looking to convey to her a powerful reason
for why she should "LOGICALLY" NOT BE WITH YOU,
(because there are so many obstacles/sacrifices/
inconveniences/efforts that have to be made to be
with you) but for ILLOGICAL reasons that are solely
to do with HER PASSION for you, she SHOULD be
with you.

This way, in her mind, it becomes VERY CLEAR THAT
HER INTEREST IN YOU IS SOLELY THE PRODUCT
OF "ANIMAL ATTRACTION", which is, of course, the
most powerful of all forms of attraction, and ultimately
is the ONLY "logical" strategy to pursue if you want to
attract a woman in the most powerful way.

Will this work on every woman? No, but this is the
ONLY method to go on, because any woman who will
ONLY be with you because of logical reasons is going
to be giving you a very WEAK love, a very WEAK
attraction, a very WEAK connection, a very WEAK
everything.

You WANT a woman who is CRAZY for you, who
doesn't CARE what it TAKES to be with you, who
will go through HELL and HIGH WATER to be
with you.

THAT, my friends, is the WAY IT SHOULD BE
AND THE WAY IT HAS TO BE IF YOU WANT
LONG-TERM PASSION WITH A WOMAN.
 
Any other kind of "love" is B.S. once you have
experienced a woman who is WILD for you. 

This is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE

LESSON for any man, especially a good man who

only has the best interests of a woman in mind.

What so often happens is that good men want to

make it clear to women that there is so much more

than just animal attraction going on; they want to

make it clear to these women that things will work

long term for all the logical reasons, but the PROBLEM

with this is that ANIMAL ATTRACTION will just

about ALWAYS trump BORING LOGIC when it

comes to a woman’s decision to be with a man.

Again, by "logical reasons", I mean reasons that
sound like good rational reasons for being with
someone but don't really have to do with INTENSE
ATTRACTION. 

This is the reason, of course, that the most successful

romantic stories of all time (think of Romeo and Juliet,

and the movies Titanic and The Notebook) always had
massive "logical" reasons for why the woman and man
in the story should NOT be with each other, and only
ONE reason for why they should: RAW, OVERWHELMING,
ANIMAL ATTRACTION.

Starting off with having too many "robot logic"
reasons on one’s mind (i.e. "we get along so well" or
"we both love literature" or "we both work out a lot"
or any other "logical" reason that is not about RAW
ATTRACTION) for why one should be with someone,
actually DISPLACES the RAW SEXUAL ATTRACTION
one feels for that person.

Instead, you want to establish yourself in HER mind as

the man she feels RAW, ANIMAL, INTENSE,and
UNCONTROLLABLE ATTRACTION for.

However, you will PREVENT this if you try to make things
TOO SMOOTH on the "LOGICAL FRONT"!

I know it sounds crazy, but it is true.  Think about

it for your OWN attraction to various women over

the years.  Have you ever noticed women that you

felt MASSIVE attraction for, at least initially, and

also noticed that there were many PROBLEMS

or CHALLENGES that would be involved in actually

BEING with her?

In other words, plenty of logical reasons to NOT
be with her?

Whether it was family or friends who would not

approve, whether it was barriers put up by physical

long distances, or whether it was any of a trillion

other reasons, these things only ENHANCED your

attraction to these women.

The reason for this is because all this only made it

CLEARER to you that in fact your ANIMAL

ATTRACTION was so strong that all these things

that were barriers were STILL not enough to stop

your attraction for these women.

(There are also other reasons for this that go beyond
the scope of this newsletter, that have to do with
how to allow her to fully and deeply experience you
as the perfect fantasy man in her mind, so that even
when she meets the reality, the fantasy concept will
 work to your advantage to cast everything about you
in the best possible light.)   
 

In fact, sometimes, this phenomenon is SO powerful,

that the very ELEMENT of CHALLENGES AND

OBSTACLES and all the other logical reasons for

NOT being with someone END UP BEING THE

VERY FORCES THAT ATTRACT ONE TO THE

OTHER!

Now, I’m not saying that you should MAKE UP

false problems or false reasons for why she
should not be with you, but you SHOULD

playfully push women AWAY so that they can

experience the JOY of REALIZING THAT

WHAT THEY FEEL FOR YOU IS ACTUALLY

ATTRACTION and is not just some kind of

boring logical reason to be with you.   

Playfully push women AWAY by telling them

things like  you are a very hard to get guy,

that it takes a lot to impress you, that you

hate breaking women’s hearts, but that you

might end up breaking hers, etc, etc, etc.

PLAYFULLY, not MALICIOUSLY.

Give a woman a chance to have to FIGHT for you,
so she can FULLY EXPERIENCE her OWN desire
for her to get you, as opposed to her seeing this
as just being about YOUR desire to get HER.

The more confident a woman is about herself,

the MORE you can push this in a way where

she will ENJOY IT in terms of feeling MORE

attraction.

By pushing a woman "away" in this sense, by making
her NOT have the easiest time in getting to be with you,
her mind is FORCED to focus on the following thoughts:

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY? IT'S NOT LIKE
IT IS GOING TO BE EASY TO GET HIM."

"WHY AM I PURSUING THIS GUY IF THERE ARE SO FEW 
LOGICAL REASONS TO BE WITH HIM, AND IF IT'S SO 
INCONVENIENT FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM?" 

"IT MUST BE BECAUSE MY ATTRACTION TO HIM IS SO STRONG!"

Also, if there are INDEED REAL CHALLENGES

involved in her being with you, rather than getting

DISCOURAGED from attracting her, this should

actually encourage you.

Now, by the way, this does not mean that similarities
don't attract.  Often, similarities DO attract, but
you should let those similarities NATURALLY
show themselves and work their magic, as opposed
to you trying to ACTIVELY USE THEM AS
"SELLING POINTS".

Trying to "sell yourself" always does the OPPOSITE
when it comes to attracting women, because it conveys
that there is not already the most important ingredient
present: RAW ATTRACTION.    

It's so crazy, that you can take a woman who WAS
attracted naturally, and actually DIMINISH that
attraction by trying to "sell yourself" and by trying
to convince her of all the "logical reasons" she
should be with you!

And it's not like women are CONSCIOUSLY making
the decision to be attracted or to not feel attraction
when you do these things.  Rather, it's all happening
on a subconscious level.    
   

Now, ONCE a woman is showing you MASSIVE

ATTRACTION, guess what?  THEN you can

let her know some "LOGICAL" reasons for her to

be with you, (do not overdo it), because THEN

she will ONLY interpret these logical reasons

in a POSITIVE way, i.e. that it is FATE or

DESTINY, or she will interpret those positive

logical reasons for being with you as FURTHER

JUSTIFICATION FOR BEING WITH YOU,

in terms of making her feel good that she is not

ONLY with you because of ANIMAL attraction,

she can feel PERFECT about being with you

since she feels you are the one she has ANIMAL

attraction for, AND the one she can also see

a long-term future with.

Now, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do NOT

abuse what I am teaching you, and also remember
that this "gift" works for yourself as well, because
if you get a woman that you feel is super easy to get,
you will probably NOT feel the same chemistry
for her as you would for a woman that you felt you
had to overcome obstacles for in order to get.

The only thing is that we are living in a world where
for the most part, it already IS hard for most men,
because men are not taught these important things
on how to attract women, but women are taught
EVERYTHING on how to attract men. (It's part of
the subculture of men and women, that men don't
talk much with each other about how to attract
women, but women talk with each other like
crazy on how to attract men).

Also, a long time ago, men had so much power in any
relationship with women, compared to the power
that women had in relationships with men, that men
were ALREADY considered "hard to get" in general
by women, and therefore women APPRECIATED
men more and felt more attraction as well.

But nowadays, it's almost reversed, when it comes to most
of the attractive women anyway, so that women really don't
need to focus on showing that they are hard to get.

There is also absolutely no need to OVERDO things.

The idea here is to SPICE UP THE CHEMISTRY

so that a woman is having a FANTASTIC TIME   

being with you, and of course so that you are having

the time of your life being with a woman who is

all over you and totally into you and totally treating

you with the FULL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU

DESERVE.

And believe me, there is NOTHING ON EARTH

like the feeling of a woman really being NUTS

about you and treating you AMAZINGLY.

The WHOLE REASON I created Get A Great Girl

is because I could not STAND the way MOST WOMEN

treat good guys.  I was (and I think I still am) a VERY

decent person, I am the kind of person who will never

hurt someone, who will not abuse people, etc.  And

meanwhile, all this got for me and for the good men

I knew, when it came to women, was MASSIVE

ABUSE by any woman who seemed attractive.

I thought, for a long while, that women were

CRAZY.

Now, I don’t think that women are crazy anymore,

but I do think that there is something VERY WRONG

with the way most women are being taught on how

to TREAT a good man.

And LOGICAL DISCUSSIONS won’t work to

change anything.    

There is only ONE solution, which is a combination

of being VERY SELECTIVE with women so that

you immediately SCREEN OUT the wrong women

and don’t waste time on the wrong women, which

allows you to spend your time only on the RIGHT

women, and the OTHER thing you must learn is

how to ATTRACT women.

In my DVD program Warrior Within, I go into

FULL DETAIL on BOTH, I teach you how to

DETECT the right women (and how to know

if a woman is the WRONG woman, IMMEDIATELY)

and of course I also teach you how to ATTRACT

that right woman as well.

It’s not just about DETECTING the right woman,

as important as that is.  It’s also about ATTRACTING

that woman.  I teach you BOTH.

To get this important program, go here IMMEDIATELY.

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

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http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Get A Woman To Chase You

If you get a woman to chase you, you know
she's attracted to you.

On the other hand, if you start to chase HER,
you usually tend to LOSE the woman, as she
loses the attraction she felt for you.

The question though, a question I spent YEARS
figuring out the hard way, is:

How do you START a conversation with a woman
WITHOUT making it obvious that you are “chasing her”?

After all, the fact you started talking to her
makes it clear you have at least some interest
in her. 

Well, some people like to think the answer is
to give women a series of backhanded
compliments, which is really a series of subtle
insults.  For example, the guy will say something
nice to the woman, like, “nice smile” and then say
something like. “but you have weird hair” or
whatever other insult they could come up with.

The idea behind all this, is that this way supposedly
you don’t validate her, so now she will pursue you in
her quest to get validated.     

Unfortunately, this is NOT ENOUGH, for the simple
reason that a woman has to feel some ATTRACTION
to begin with, before she will care about whether you
are validating her or not.

So the REAL ANSWER to, “How do I approach
a woman without making it seem that I am chasing her?”
is to get her MESMERIZED with you as fast
as possible so that she stops THINKING about
the fact you approached her, and is instead more
more concerned with her OWN interest in YOU
and how to ensure that she gets YOU!

In her mind, the fact you approached her
only means that you are CONSIDERING her,
not necessarily CHASING her.

Now, at that point, of course you can lean back and
chill out and let her chase you. 

If she's attractive, you can be sure she will
enjoy chasing you, (don't go overboard, and
don't get abusive, ever, of course) since she
usually gets things too easily and that bores her. 

So, instead of looking at value from a negative standpoint,
and giving women insults and then hoping they
will want to get validated by you,  the best way to
go is to actually CONVEY REAL VALUE –
so that she WANTS to chase you.

By “real value” I mean getting her FEELING
A SERIES OF INTOXICATING EMOTIONS
THAT GET HER HEART PUMPING.

That’s the highest form of value you can give
a woman.

So now, I’m going to give you some of the WAYS
to convey value and attract her, all of which have
nothing to do with slamming her self-esteem or
any other negative stuff.

ONE:  THE PARTY IS WITH YOU

This was one of the first “holy *&^%” moments
when I discovered this.  Basically, what this is,
is that you adopt the mentality that there IS
a party going on, a GREAT PARTY in fact, and
that you are the CENTER of this party!

And you do this no matter what the heck is
“really” going on- you behave like everyone
around you is VISITING this party or has
just arrived, and as if they are all
super-friendly and admirers of you- wishing
that you would chat them up too, in addition
to all the other cool people who you were
chatting to before them.

This means ANYWHERE you are, you now
have the LICENSE to do all kinds of fun
playful and even risqué stuff, because it’s
all perfectly fine in the name of the PARTY.

You could get away with more sexual comments,
you could make fun of anything, you could make
any joke, you could SAY anything, if you are really
FEEELING THIS PARTY VIBE.

The key to making this work, is to not even
leave your ROOM or the house or building
until you have gotten yourself into this PARTY
state of mind.

You need to do whatever it takes to get the
PARTY inspiration, but don’t use alcohol
or drugs obviously as that is not only not
healthy but will screw up your performance –
so I suggest you listen to PARTY MUSIC
that you love instead.

The other thing to making this work is that
you have to anticipate BEFOREHAND that
you might meet a woman ANYWHERE
and so this way you are READY for the
moment when the moment comes- whether
it be in the coffee shop, bookstore, elevator,
bus, or school, ANYWHERE.

You have to be ready BEFORE it happens,
not just when it happens, or it’s too late.

Say you’re getting off the elevator and a
gorgeous creature happens to be right in
front of you- you can do something like this:

Give her this look, up and down, and
DON’T DO IT WITH SHAME, do it
like a MAN, and then give her a bit of
a nod, as if you’ve just given her your
stamp that she qualifies, and you could
even say, “The party is this way”, and
gesture toward where you’re going,
or you could even say, "The party is
HERE", and point to yourself.

Again, this stuff requires you to be
in FULL party state, the reason it works
is because since YOU are in that state
and showing it, it makes it EASY for her
to join this state as well, because the reality
is that EVERYONE wants to be having
MORE FUN, no one wants to get more
depressed and formal and official, and
here you are having a great time ALREADY
and just inviting her to playfully join.

Again, the key is that you are ALREADY
in this state of mind BEFORE you meet her,
so this way she gets to actually feel MORE
comfortable to join your “party” since she
doesn’t have to feel it’s all about HER,
rather it’s about the chance to FEEL GOOD.

And guess what?
If a woman is feeling good and sexual around
you, and feeling bored and depressed around   
everyone ELSE, guess who she’s going to
BE with? YOU.

This feeling GOOD stuff is so powerful, and
yet 99% of people prevent themselves from
feeling this by getting caught up in all kinds
of horse-crap, because as long as you are alive,
there’s really nothing you can control, so you
might as well have FUN!!!!

Make yourself the one guy on earth who IS
her drug, the source of feeling intoxicatingly
awesome.

And the irony is that you will do this best by
NOT doing it for HER, but by already being
In this state yourself. 

You don’t have to be in this state 24/7, but you
definitely want to be in this state if you are out
trying to meet and attract the women of your choice.

TWO: CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE

Clothing is something we all have to wear most
of the time – and it covers us from almost head
to toe- it’s LIKE AN ADVERTISING BILLBOARD,
but the “ad” that most guys are wearing is saying
“I’m boring and not social and not looking to
have any fun, ever.”

So you should definitely be pushing the envelope
to find clothing that has STYLE, and that reflects
some of your OWN personality as well- whether
it’s leather with some shiny metallic on it,
whether it’s an unusual but cool denim,
you want to be STANDING OUT and not
wearing the thing that makes you blend in
as one of a billion other guys.

This is a huge topic in itself, but the key
Is to remember that no matter what your
environment, whether it’s work or a club
or a party, you can always find the thing
that you can get away with that pushes
the envelope without being ridiculous
in each environment.

Another thing to remember is that most guys
tend to avoid upbeat colors, and it’s a good idea
to incorporate some more color, even if it’s just
a BIT of bright color to offset what is mostly
dark colors.  This was the hardest thing for me
to do at first, because I actually felt so gloomy
and angry, I liked dressing like Batman, so it
took a while for me to have some more range
with some color as well. No one is saying you
have to wear pink and yellow, or look “gay”,
there are a lot of other options besides that.

You may want to ask the most attractive female
clerk at the clothing store for her help, and while
you’re at it, go for her number as well.

THREE: USE YOUR VOICE

Start things off RIGHT.

When you initially say the first WORD (and after
as well, but especially when you start, to get her
attention the first time) to a woman who is a total
stranger, it’s important that you don’t come across
as weak or without conviction in your decision to
talk to her.

Say it with FULL AUTHORITY in your voice,
whether it’s “Hi” or “Hey” or “I’m on my
way to the King Tut exhibit at the museum”-
SAY IT WITH TOTAL AUTHORITY.

This way she won’t question WHY you are
talking to her and it will also get her
attention in a receptive way, so that
now you can actually get into the more
juicy fun or interesting stuff you were
going to talk about to her.

FOUR: SET THE RIGHT TONE FROM THE GET-GO,
AND HAVE IT STAY THAT WAY

Now, it’s important to realize regarding the above
things, that whatever you do in the beginning will
set up the DYNAMIC of how things will go till the
END.

If you set up the dynamic as highly sexual but without
any deeper connection going on, then your relationship
will likely become sexual but then explode and self-destruct
quickly.

If you tease a woman too much, she will end up
teasing you back hardcore as well, and this might
get out of hand and become annoying after a while.

If you keep the dynamic too “anti-septic” and safe
and free of sexual vibe, you will end up as friends only,
and you don’t want that.

If you play games too much in the beginning, the relationship
will end as a result of these games as well.

So you must strike the right BALANCE in your
interactions with women, and you must do this
right especially at the BEGINNING, so that
things are established immediately and flow
in the direction you want.

What you have read is just the tip of the
iceberg of ALL the things you can do to increase
your actual ATTRACTIVE POWER.

If you would like to take your success
with women to an even HIGHER level, then
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Till next time,

Michael Marks