Hitting the 'THE SWEET SPOT' To Attract Women

Today I need to explain something called THE SWEET SPOT.

It is MASSIVELY IMPORTANT for attracting women.

I wrote about this in the past, but it's been a long time so I have a feeling most guys have forgotten how ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT this is for success in attracting women.

The only thing I CARE about when it comes to this thing called “how to attract women” is getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo, no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some of the GREATEST points of all time regarding how to attract women.

Obviously, these are going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it would be impossible to put every detail in one newsletter and that is the reason I have my actual programs.

So let’s begin.

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

 







If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says, “You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know”- THAT shows confidence.

If you then pull her into you and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the "Death Star".
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”





Miss the target, however, and the "Death Star" is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH and FOOD or SHELTER, I can’t think of anything MORE rewarding.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.

Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching women, it is important to realize that the approaches themselves are PART of the excitement.

Also, when you have the skill that comes from doing a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that you have options, because you actually SUBCONSCIOUSLY behave differently, and they pick up on those signals.

Women can often TELL that you have options by sizing up your confidence which shows up in all kinds of subtle subconscious ways when you interact with women.

And  when a woman knows you have OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say:

“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about meeting the right one.”


TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy who was a real rock star who really WAS great with attracting women, and who then traded lives with a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT good at all at attracting women.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with women, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT attract women beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS. 

You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are gorgeous, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.

As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in the real world of approaching women.  You can save YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can DRAIN your motivation from going through infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION in the world of approaching women who are totalstrangers, with a very special twist: You're getting expert coaching, the result of over ten years experience from someone who has been getting men RESULTS with women for all that time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY.


It can also create negative emotional associations 
in your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those opportunities that are available everyday when you see women ANYWHERE, including at the mall, cafe, park, library, post office or grocery store, or just walking on the sidewalk or while riding the bus or train - it could absolutely ANYWHERE.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my CRUCIAL
book for any man looking for a QUALITY woman,
called The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today,
then do that IMMEDIATELY by going HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful with women.

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attracting Women: Hitting "The Sweet Spot"

The only thing I CARE about when it comes
to this thing called “how to attract women” is
getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo,
no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some
of the GREATEST points of all time regarding
how to attract women. Obviously, these are
going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it
would be impossible to put every detail in
one newsletter and that is the reason I have
my actual programs.

So let’s begin:

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND
of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says
“You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know” that
shows confidence.  If you then pull her into you
and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the
confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that
is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the death star.
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”

Miss the target, and the Death Star is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH
and FOOD/SHELTER, I can’t think of anything
MORE rewarding than WOMEN.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean
that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.
Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew
you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL
his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is
the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  
but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take
guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching
women, it is important to realize that the
approaches themselves are PART of the
excitement.

Also, I’ve personally noticed that when I do
a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that
I have options.  And my clients report this
as well.  Women can often TELL that you
have options by sizing up your confidence
which shows up in all kinds of subtle
subconscious ways when you interact
with women.

And  when a woman knows you have
OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say
“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s
all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about
meeting the right one.”

TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy
who was a real rock star who really WAS great
with attracting chicks, he traded lives with
a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT
good at all at attracting chicks.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with chicks, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT pull chicks beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS.
You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are hot, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.  
  
As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here
comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in
the real world of approaching women.  You can save
YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because
I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you
taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with
women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can
DRAIN your motivation from going through
infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp
because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING
you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

That means the women you are approaching and
attracting have NO CLUE you are about to
approach them.  These are all real women who
are going about their day in their actual lives,
who are about to have their day ROCK because
of YOU.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION
in the world of approaching women who are total
strangers, with a very special twist:
You're getting expert coaching, the result of
over ten years experience from someone who has
been getting men RESULTS with women for all that
time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY, plus it
can create negative emotional associations in
your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those
opportunities that are available everyday when you
see women ANYWHERE, including the mall, the bus,
the cafe, the train, the park, the sidewalk, the library,
the post office, the grocery store, and absolutely
ANYWHERE else.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

For my most powerful HOME study program
on how to approach and attract women who
are total strangers, ANYWHERE, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful
with women. The program above covers all of them.

However, of all the elements for success with women,
mastering your INNER GAME is the SINGLE MOST
important element.

To FOCUS on this single greatest element to success
with women, on the most ADVANCED level, I created
a program specializing on INNER GAME, and it is called
"WARRIOR WITHIN".

INNER GAME is also absolutely vital for attracting
quality women for a LONG TERM relationship
as well, and for DETECTING a woman's character
IMMEDIATELY.

WARRIOR WITHIN is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, including my "specialization"
series, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Attracting Women: Hit The "Sweet Spot" And More

The only thing I CARE about when it comes
to this thing called “how to attract women” is
getting guys RESULTS.  No mumbo-jumbo,
no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some
of the GREATEST points of all time regarding
how to attract women. Obviously, these are
going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it
would be impossible to put every detail in
one newsletter and that is the reason I have
my actual programs.

So let’s begin:

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND
of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.  

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says
“You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know” that
shows confidence.  If you then pull her into you
and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the
confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that
is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target.  They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that  results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the death star.
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”

Miss the target, and the Death Star is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.   
      
But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO:  THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH
and FOOD/SHELTER, I can’t think of anything
MORE rewarding than WOMEN.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean
that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.
Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew
you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL
his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother 
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”. 

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE.  And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is
the only way to MEET her as a stranger,  
but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take
guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching
women, it is important to realize that the
approaches themselves are PART of the
excitement.

Also, I’ve personally noticed that when I do
a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that
I have options.  And my clients report this
as well.  Women can often TELL that you
have options by sizing up your confidence
which shows up in all kinds of subtle
subconscious ways when you interact
with women.

And  when a woman knows you have
OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.
 
She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself. 

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her.  Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say
“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s
all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about
meeting the right one.”

TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy
who was a real rock star who really WAS great
with attracting chicks, he traded lives with
a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT
good at all at attracting chicks.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with chicks, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT pull chicks beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS.
You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are hot, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.  
  
As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here
comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in
the real world of approaching women.  You can save
YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because
I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you
taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with
women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can
DRAIN your motivation from going through
infinite FRUSTRATION.   

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp
because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING
you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

That means the women you are approaching and
attracting have NO CLUE you are about to
approach them.  These are all real women who
are going about their day in their actual lives,
who are about to have their day ROCK because
of YOU.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION
in the world of approaching women who are total
strangers, with a very special twist:
You're getting expert coaching, the result of
over ten years experience from someone who has
been getting men RESULTS with women for all that
time, every step of the way. 

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows 
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert  instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY, plus it
can create negative emotional associations in
your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those
opportunities that are available everyday when you
see women ANYWHERE, including the mall, the bus,
the cafe, the train, the park, the sidewalk, the library,
the post office, the grocery store, and absolutely
ANYWHERE else.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html

For my most powerful HOME study program
on how to approach and attract women who
are total strangers, ANYWHERE, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful
with women. The program above covers all of them.

However, of all the elements for success with women,
mastering your INNER GAME is the SINGLE MOST
important element.

To FOCUS on this single greatest element to success
with women, on the most ADVANCED level, I created
a program specializing on INNER GAME, and it is called
"WARRIOR WITHIN".

INNER GAME is also absolutely vital for attracting
quality women for a LONG TERM relationship
as well.

WARRIOR WITHIN is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing
your success with women, including my "specialization"
series, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks

An Unknown Secret For Attracting Women

Today I want to get to a concept that has
proven itself to be IMMENSELY helpful
in my interactions with women over the
years, ESPECIALLY in getting over that
initial hump from “total stranger she has
NO CLUE about” to “I want to see you again”.

And this concept is:

GIVE THE MOST, TAKE THE LEAST.

Ahhh, if only I had realized the full power
of this when I first started getting interested
in women, but YOU get to take advantage
of what I paid for so dearly in time.

What do I mean by “give the most, take the least”?
What I mean is, for example, do the BEST
approach possible, absolutely, use everything
I teach you, and then JUST ASK FOR HER EMAIL.

This is an example of “give the most, take the least”.

So, let’s say you approach a woman, you get her
laughing, you intrigue her, you lead the interaction,
your tonality shows masculinity and dominance
and sensuality, and she is so into you that she is
putty in your hands…

Well, if she’s THAT crazy about you, sure, you
can ask for more than just an email, but the fact
of the matter is, is that you can’t LOSE by asking
for less, AS LONG AS YOU CONVEYED
MAXIMUM VALUE about yourself. (Or at least
you did your best in your interaction with her.)

See, there’s no trickery involved here.
There’s just GOOD VALUE.

What do I mean by value?
I mean that she is having a BLAST with you,
and that she is experiencing all the awesome
emotions with you, from fun to sexuality to
intrigue.

She may very well DEMAND that you TAKE
her number, if you do all this.

However, let’s say that you are new at this,
and that you did a DECENT job in the
“approach”. You didn't do a BAD job, and
you didn't do the all-time-BEST interaction
either.

So now, by just asking for the EMAIL, you
are not putting her under the same pressure
as asking for a NUMBER.

Plus, she can check her email at any time that’s
GOOD for her. Plus, email gives you the chance
to think about what you are writing so that you
can do yourself some justice in expressing
yourself. That email can now save you and
help you get back to "full power" even
if you didn't do perfectly before that
point.

Also, let’s just say she gave you her actual
HOME address after just two minutes
of talking to her.

So what?
Does anyone actually think this somehow
would mean a guy can now skip all the
STEPS?

The steps would still have to happen!
Rather than trying to be "mr. mack daddy",
with a grand introduction, just get it done,
and move on to the next step.

This kind of reminds me a bit of how
Larry Bird was not the most flashy
basketball player ever, but he sure
was damn good. He just made sure
to get all those lay-ups, pardon
the pun.

See, ALL of the process of going from zero
to having wild monkey-sex with a woman to
having deeply intimate connections, can
SEEM at first like it's hard, or like it's
a LOT to do.

However, if you just break down each step
of the process into little steps, EACH step
on its own is EASY.

To just approach a woman and beat the
“approach anxiety” is something you can
easily learn to do.

To just get her laughing a bit so she is
disarmed and open to chatting to you,
is easily learned.

To show the right tonalities in your voice
is not that hard.

To just build a little connection…
To just go a little deeper.
To just get that first date.
To just get a little physical.
To just start to bond a little deeper.

All these things are just individual STEPS
that can be MASTERED.

It’s not that hard.

So don’t WORRY if you don’t do a
PERFECT initial approach.

Don’t worry if you don’t do any of these
steps PERFECTLY.

Just do it well enough to get to the NEXT
‘baby’ step.

And trust me, each step, on it’s own,
is something you can easily master.

And THIS is the reason I come back to
“give the MOST for the LEAST”.

So you do your BEST, and even if that’s
not PERFECT, you don’t have to worry,
because you are only asking her for the
LEAST.

So, subconsciously, from her perspective,
YOU are still the “better catch”.

At each stage, you are asking for the least.

So, for example, obviously, you don’t ask:
“Can I have wild sex with you?”.

Instead, when making out, you kiss, you
caress, and then STOP. You are not the
starving man here, you are the well fed
man, who doesn’t NEED it.

Ahh, guess what?
You wanted so little?
Now she wants it MORE.

She can tell it’s not all about YOU, so now
she wants MORE of it, because it’s good
for HER.

And of COURSE, giving the most for the least,
means that when it comes time to go all out,
you indeed go all out in bed too, which is
what you probably want anyway.

But at ALL times, for example, when LISTENING,
you become the best LISTENER, and you are
able to show her that you understand her, and yet
you aren’t expecting some immediate reward.

ALL THESE THINGS END UP ACTUALLY
GIVING YOU WAY MORE OF WHAT YOU
WANTED FROM HER...

...MUCH MORE THAN IF YOU CONSTANTLY
TRIED TO TAKE THE MOST.

This is a hard lesson for most men to learn.
Everyone seems ‘hardwired’ to want to take.
As if this is the ‘primal’ survival mechanism.

However, it’s actually NOT the primal
survival mechanism. For example, even
the top male Lion, who seems to do very
little and sleeps a lot and has the woman
doing a lot of the work, well the bottom
line is that he provides MASSIVE VALUE.

He is one hell of a hunter, and protector.
All the other lions know it, so the truth is,
for the value he’s giving, he should get
even MORE!

But he’s pretty happy because he knows
he’s getting plenty of action from the
female lion(s).

My point is, you can’t fool anyone when
it comes to a basic sense of giving vs.
taking.

So, if a woman WANTS to give you more,
she WILL. And trying to FORCE her only
makes her RESIST and want to give you
LESS.

On the other hand, when you give your most,
and ask for the least, you tend to spark a
frenzy of ACTION from her part toward
YOU.

Now let’s go a little DEEPER.
Let’s say you are already going out with this
new woman who really is into you.

And you are starting to feel NEEDY because
she’s so hot, and you’re starting to wonder
if you could ever get a girl like her again,
so now you want to speak to her all the
time.

Well, now you are involved in a very MASSIVE
form of TAKING, even though it is INVISIBLE.

The NEEDINESS is just a FEELING, it is
INTANGIBLE, but it is a VAMPIRE of
ATTRACTION, it slowly SUCKS out all
the attraction she can feel for you.

A vicious never-ending cycle begins, where
you need more and more of her “emotional
validation assurance”, the same way a
drug addict needs a hit of cocaine.

She becomes your “pusher”.
She is the dealer, you are the taker.
And the more you need to take from her,
the less she feels your value is, and the
more she feels that she was cut out for
someone better.

You want to be the OPPOSITE:
You want to DESTROY neediness.
So this way, she can FEEL that you are secure,
strong, and that you feel ABUNDANCE in
your life when it comes to everything, and
doing this makes HER feel good around you,
it make her feel everything will be okay
as long as she is around YOU.

Now, at this point, I need to remind you
of something:

If you are FEELING like “awww, I don’t
LIKE the idea of giving a LOT and taking
the LEAST” then guess what?

This is a SIGN that you need to take this
advice even MORE. It is the INSECURITY
that is afraid of getting “screwed” in a bad
way, of getting into a situation that is unfair.

I was the WORST offender of this wrong
kind of thinking, by the way. And that’s
because when it comes to insecurity, I
think I probably held the all time record
for most insecure guy about women on
earth.

THAT’S why I know how wrong this thinking is.

Go for the OPPOSITE.
I learned to slap myself like a pro wrestler any
time I start to veer away from this principle.
It works. So does pouring cold water over
yourself outside in the snow wearing just
a bathing suit, but ask your doctor before
attempting that one.

Give the MOST.
Ask for the LEAST.

This way, you will QUICKLY advance from
step to step, from walking up to her to make
the approach, to the interaction, to the
connection, to the getting physical, and
so on.

And here’s another COOL thing:
By the time a woman IS getting physical with
you, and has obviously passed through all the
previous steps with you, she will backwards
rationalize that since she put in all these steps
to get to this point, she wants to “claim her prize”
and that prize is you!

So, in fact, the more chilled out you are with
getting physical, and the more steps SHE
has to take in order to get physical with
YOU, the more she will want to get
physical with you.

PLUS, this also allows you the time to really
develop a powerful connection so you yourself
will actually get to know her so much better and
it will make everything far more meaningful
for you as well.

It truly is win-win for both you and her.

So, let the other guys who talk a big ‘game’
go on and on and try to be ‘mack-daddies’
while you end up actually GETTING THE
GIRL you really WANT and they go home
to visit the Palm Sisters.

What you have just read is an example of
how your ‘INNER GAME’ is CRUCIAL
for having the greatest degree of success
with women. ‘Inner Game’ refers to all
the things that are happening INTERNALLY
inside of you regarding the ways you are
thinking and feeling, which ends up massively
affecting your DECISIONS and BEHAVIORS
with women.

Having a super-strong ‘Inner Game’ is CRUCIAL
for having the HIGHEST degree of success
with women and especially for attracting a great
woman long term.

For the BEST program on attracting a fantastic
woman long term and for skyrocketing your
“Inner Game”, I suggest you get my program
‘Warrior Within’, now available on DVD.

This program will BLOW YOUR MIND
and absolutely take you to the next level
of success with women. It will show you
how to apply your "inner game" for all
the different steps of attracting women.   

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my
program, ‘Chats From Scratch’, then do
that now. It will show you powerful,
easy-to-apply strategies for chatting
to women and attracting them
ANYWHERE you see them!

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/chats.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks