The Closest Thing To MAGIC For Attracting Women

Are you ready for the closest thing to MAGIC for attracting women? Something MASSIVELY HELPFUL and MASSIVELY EASY when it comes to knowing HOW to approach and attract women ANYWHERE?

Now, what you are about to read is SIMPLE, and EXTREMELY EFFECTIVE, yet don’t mistake that for thinking it was EASY to discover this. It  took YEARS, and you are getting it NOW, handed to you on a “silver platter” so to speak. 

 

I do this because I have a passion for this field, and because I want
good guys to succeed with women, and what you are about to read is
ESPECIALLY helpful for guys that are already the kind of people who
CARE about others.

Believe it or not, having EMPATHY is a GREAT thing, and caring about
a woman is also a great thing,  when it is PART of the following
‘MAGICAL FORMULA’:

Here it is:
It involves TWO behaviors, and you must COMBINE them:

ONE:
FIRST OF ALL, you must get yourself into the most OPTIMISTIC, UPBEAT, POSITIVE, EMPOWERED, and SEXUAL state of mind.

So the first part is all about that STATE OF MIND.
But then, the second part is this:

TWO:
DO NOT SMILE WHILE YOU ARE DOING ALL THIS. 
(Or at least, try to keep it to a minimum.)

And that is the magical combo. 

You see, you hear a lot of guys talking about being positive, and yes being positive is great, but when talking to a woman who you find to be GORGEOUS, and you are also SMILING as you approach her, it’s too EASY to just LOSE IT internally, to start feeling SO good and SO excited, that you just are getting too ahead of yourself in your mind and not being present in the moment.

Without going into ALL of the details of the reasons why, this smiling changes your state of mind from dominant and masculine and feeling aroused as a man, to feeling a little too much like a KID who just found himself for the first time in a candy store, and it happens to also be the biggest and best candy shop of all time.

But you can't act like a kid here. This is real life; it's not a cartoon.

The smiling can not only make you lose your cool internally in terms of your own state of mind, but the look can also come across as immature. 

After all, to the woman, you are still a stranger, so why are you smiling THAT much? It’s not like you have both made love yet or something. Also, it can come across as pretentious, as if you expect her to be so easy that of course this is going to result in getting physical before you’ve even both had a chance to vibe together at all.

And then, on top of ALL these reasons, is also the plain old fact
that women actually rate a man as looking more attractive when he is
not smiling than when he is.

And YET, do NOT make the mistake of thinking that women WANT a guy who is UPSET or who is BITTER- NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH!

Women DEFINITELY do respond better to you being in the "good vibes" state of mind.

Internally, you should be EXPLODING with good vibes, like the SUN’S RAYS, you should be feeling AWESOME, and you should take on the most OPTIMISTIC AND POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON EVERYTHING, INCLUDING ON HER PERSONALITY, ON THE WORLD, ON EVERYTHING, INCLUDING ON YOURSELF.

Just don’t go SMILING about it at this point in the interaction- save
that for AFTER the lovemaking if you want, which ironically, you will
probably be so much calmer then that your smile will be a much more
relaxed one anyway.

Please do not make the mistake of thinking that you can do just one
and not the other. If you just do the “NOT SMILING” part, it’s too
easy to start thinking negatively and to come across as unsociable
and miserable-and if you just do the optimism/positivity/sexual state
stuff, then you can easily come across as way too “over the top” and
it will seem immature and pretentious.

That’s IT for today, I don’t want to OVER-COMPLICATE things. 

This is all about those initial moments when it comes to you walking up to women who are total strangers, and especially in places that are not nightclubs (in nightclubs you can do any playful thing and it will work), and how to GET her initial interest in the first place without
getting BLOWN OUT where she finds some excuse to leave.

You want to GET the knock-out (that's a term for a hottie), not get blown out (that's a term for getting shut down) by the knock-out. 

That combo is pure MAGIC. It allows you to say virtually ANYTHING and it WILL WORK.  You can make the most trivial comment or observation, and it WILL WORK.

The reason it WORKS is because human beings are MASSIVELY affected by the STATES OF MIND of those around them. 

The way we feel generally DOES show in our body language, tonality, and facial expressions whether we like that fact or not. 

So, the more POSITIVE your emotional state, the BETTER you make everyone around you feel- unless that person is truly miserable, in which case misery tends to want company- but most women are not like that, and sometimes even people who feel down want to be uplifted. 

It's impossible for a woman to dislike you if you are truly bringing her to a better state of mind. If your interaction leaves her smiling, you know you are in a good place with her.

And the most effective way to change someone’s state is to LEAD BY
EXAMPLE.  So that’s why this has nothing to do with kissing up to a
woman, but rather with YOU BEING IN AN AMAZING STATE.

That state of mind then makes the woman feel calmer around you, better around you, more positive around you, safer around you, happier around you, and yes, more AROUSED around you, since arousal is actually a state of mind that most humans have access to feeling year round, unlike many animals and other species.

And this is where you also feeling turned ON helps too, because again, you end up  manifesting this state of mind to her through your tonality, facial expressions, body language, etc., all without you even trying, it will happen instinctively when you are already in this state of mind.

States of mind are CATCHY- so she will also feel more AROUSED as well because of YOUR state. 

Now, what you’ve just read here is ALREADY MORE VALUABLE than what most other guys get in ENTIRE BOOT CAMPS by other companies. 

So you might ask, why do I give away such INSANELY POWERFUL CONTENT for free?

The answer is because as AMAZING as this stuff is, I have MORE, a LOT more, of PURE GOLD for you.

The reason I have so much PURE GOLD for you when it comes to success with women is because I spend my time focused on WHAT MATTERS- which is constantly discovering and developing BETTER AND BETTER WAYS on how HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN, and on how to TRAIN MEN so they can LEARN as effectively as possible.

I do NOT SPEND my time on marketing gimmicks, deceptive and fraudulent pick-up videos and endless other B.S. 

Instead I agreed to have my work with men followed by a journalist from the largest newspaper in the country in a process that lasted several WEEKS.  She wrote about the results of ALL THE MEN that I coached, and the response was a MASSIVE SUCCESS from the overwhelming majority of the men. Clips from the featured article are on my website.

And because of that FOCUS on what truly MATTERS, men travel from all over the WORLD to my boot camp program.

In my boot camp program, YOU are my ONLY focus. The program is EXCLUSIVE AND PRIVATE.  That means NO OTHER STUDENTS except YOU. 

That allows me to truly CUSTOMIZE your training- and make no mistake about it, I don’t throw around that word “customize” lightly. 

What “customize” means is that I create a PERSONALIZED boot camp that takes into account YOUR PERSONALITY and YOUR NEEDS- so this way, you are not wasting time on learning things that aren’t RELEVANT for you.

You are ONLY learning the specific elements that MATTER for you-which means you actually have LESS to learn before you start GETTING SUCCESS when you approach  women ANYWHERE, doing whatever they may be doing. 

And you will get to see that success right before your eyes.

This is a MASSIVE PLUS of customized coaching.  You start getting SUCCESS much earlier in the boot camp, which means I can then take you to the NEXT levels up EARLIER in the boot camp, and that means you graduate boot camp LIGHT YEARS AHEAD in terms of your skill with women compared to where you would be in any other boot camp.

Keep in mind, I have been helping men in this way for well over TEN YEARS.  

Plus, it’s a personal passion of mine as well.  And through all that time, I never wasted time on the various gimmicks and sleaze-bag marketing tactics that unfortunately give this field a bit of bad name - when learning how to be successful with women SHOULD be a part of EVERY man’s education, especially in TODAY’S society.

My boot camp program is also completely PRIVATE so you get the added benefit of it being totally discrete.

To me, training you to learn these skills is a sacred trust, and it is a responsibility that I take with an enormous respect. Allow me to be your coach in this important area of every man’s life, and you will not be disappointed.    

To contact me about boot camp, send me an email at: michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com

To find out more about boot camp, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you have any approaching women, dating, or relationship questions that you would like SOLVED or ANSWERED, you can also arrange a private consultation with me in person or over the phone.  

For this consultation service, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

I look forward to hearing from you and helping you achieve all your goals in this important part of life.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Ultra-Important Traits For "The One"

Today there are some ULTRA-IMPORTANT
things I want to share with you about getting
a fantastic quality woman- "the one" if you will.

In particular, there are FIVE traits that you
should be searching for in a woman, and
ALL FIVE are super-important.

These five traits are:

EMPATHY.

HIGH SELF-ESTEEM.

SELF-DISCIPLINE.

A BELIEF THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE SACRED.

INFINITE FIDELITY.  

And obviously, it goes without saying that
as men, these are just as important for US
to have as well, if we are seeking a woman
that is truly "the one".

What is mind-boggling to me, is how many guys
out there actually DO have these qualities and
have no idea how PRECIOUS they are.

This is where good guys have no clue how
awesome they are, and instead they allow
themselves to be abused by women like
CRAZY, all the while not realizing that
they don't have to be in these abusive
situations, and that in fact there are
some incredible women out there who
would REALLY jump on the opportunity
to be with these guys.

So, let's begin:

1: EMPATHY

Empathy might sound so simple, so obvious,
that you might not even think you have to
make sure a woman HAS this trait.

Nothing could be further from the truth,
however.  A powerful sense of empathy is
not something to take for granted as being
a trait that everyone, or in this case, that
every woman, has. NOT every woman
has it at all.

A lot of people know that it is important, so
they attempt to FAKE having empathy.

If a woman does not have a powerful sense
of empathy, she simply won’t be able to
UNDERSTAND you or CARE about you.

Empathy is greater than sympathy. Empathy
is, to quote “Psychology Today”, “the experience
of understanding another person's condition
from their perspective. You place yourself
in their shoes and feel what they are feeling.”

There is no way to live with a woman long-term
and enjoy the experience of being with her if
she simply does not have the ability, or if she
does not truly make the effort, to feel what you
are feeling.

People talk all day about wanting a partner with
intelligence, but they don’t talk that much about
EMPATHY, and yet the truth is, most people
don’t need an EINSTEIN for a partner, but they
do need someone who has great empathy.

2: HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
 
It is essential that a woman also have high
self-esteem.  I know a lot of guys think
the opposite, that if a woman has high
self-esteem, she will think too highly
of herself and therefore not appreciate
the guy.

But it doesn’t work that way, as high-self
esteem has nothing, in itself, to do with
ARROGANCE or haughtiness, and in
fact, sometimes when someone is feeling
low self-esteem, they feel the need to
overcompensate with arrogance and
haughtiness.

The more high self-esteem a woman feels,
the less likely she feels a need to put YOU
down, IF she ALSO has a great sense of
EMPATHY, which is why I mentioned
EMPATHY first.

So, she has empathy, and therefore does not
want you to feel pain, because if you feel
pain, she feels your pain- and when you
feel good, she feels good, she WANTS you
to feel good.

But when a woman feels LOW SELF-ESTEEM,
she feels THREATENED, she may feel that that
men don’t like her, she may feel that you don’t
like her, she may feel stupid, etc, etc.

And, if a woman feels that men don’t like her,
or that you don’t like her,  she is far more likely
to feel the need to cause you PAIN.  She will
try to make you JEALOUS in order to get you
to like her. She will try to put you DOWN in
order for you to feel like you are LUCKY to
be with her.

She will do all sorts of horrifying things all
because SHE is insecure and feels the need
to make OTHERS including YOU feel LOW
so that they should feel SHE is relatively
HIGH next to them on the totem pole of
being a person who is appreciated by others
for her beauty, intelligence, etc.

Again, the combination of EMPATHY
and high self-esteem is important.  

Someone who JUST feels high self esteem might
feel they are GREAT, and have no particular need
to be mean to you, but also no particular need to
care one way or another, and so to a woman without
empathy who has high self esteem, you might just
not be all that important at all.

But again, if she JUST has high self-esteem,
and she feels she can GAIN somehow by
being cruel to you, she might still engage
in that cruelty because she has no EMPATHY
for you, and she feels SUPERIOR to everyone
else since she has no empathy but she does have
high self esteem, so she figures why not just be
totally selfish.

And if she JUST has empathy, she might care
about you, but be no FUN to hang around with,
since she feels so low about herself she just feels
like moping, she feels kind of dead inside, and
this is really tragic by the way.

Plus, if she has low self-esteem, then even if she
has empathy, she might still refuse to believe that
you really like her, that you really are interested
in her, and she might still feel the need to make
you jealous or do other things in order to try to
placate her sense of inferiority.

So you want that magical combo of empathy
AND high self-esteem in a woman.

3: SELF-DISCIPLINE.

It takes self-discipline to find a better solution to
problems than resorting to drug or alcohol abuse.

It takes self-discipline to live by a moral code and
never fool around on the man she is with.

It takes self-discipline for her to hit the gym,
keep in shape, and follow a healthy diet and
lifestyle.

It takes self-discipline to WORK HARD rather
than sit on the couch and Twitter all day or
Facebook all day (especially when it’s with
other guys!) and flirt with other men (or women)
behind your back all day, or be obsessed with
thoughts of sex with others all day rather than
thinking of how she can help you raise a family
together and how she can help INSPIRE you to
be at your best.

And, just like before, self-discipline ALONE
is not enough. It must ALSO come with the
other traits that I am mentioning.

So, for example, self-discipline alone in a woman
might just mean she is disciplined to do whatever
it takes to just make money or do whatever other
selfish thing she wants to do.

Self-discipline ALONE is not enough to make
a woman worthy of a good man who has the
most pure and long-term intentions.

The FOURTH trait that is VITAL that you should
be seeking in a woman is:

4: A BELIEF THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE SACRED

The bottom line is that making a life together,
especially if you plan to raise a family with
a woman, involves GREAT, MASSIVE HURDLES.

And we are living in a time when NO ONE
is putting the social pressure on anyone to
really give a damn about family values anymore
compared to the past.

So the only force that will keep the relationship
going is the force that is created by the two    
people in that relationship.

And that means that you both must feel that
a relationship is not just something nice or
fun or a way to kill time.

It must be the DEFINING feature of your life.
The love that you two share must be CHERISHED.
The idea of raising a family together must be
something that inspires both of you to be your
best in every way to each other.

And the only way that inspiration can be strong
enough to last a lifetime is if that inspiration is
driven by a belief that what you two are creating
together in your bond is something of DIVINE
significance that can affect the universe.

And when it comes to this issue, people either
FEEL THIS WAY or they DON’T.

So don’t try to teach a woman how to feel this way.

If she thinks this is just about screwing,
or just about having fun, or just about sharing
a pleasant time together, then it is going to
CRASH.

Every DAY has to be inspired, and that can
ONLY happen when she and you realize this
is about MORE than just you and her, it is
about something SACRED.

Finally, the FIFTH trait she must have is:

5: INFINITE FIDELITY

This actually IS something that women need
to learn MORE than men these days, because
in olden days, women would be shunned by
society completely and never get married if they
were seen as even REMOTELY being unfaithful.

This has its roots in our history, because
men had no clue if a woman was pregnant with their
own child or some other guy's kid- i.e. if she was
disloyal. 

This is where the rage, the jealousy, the ZERO
tolerance emotion that men have for women
who cheat, came from. It makes total sense,
because NOT having such strong emotions
on this issue could mean the difference between
having their own DNA wiped OUT from the
gene pool, or having their own DNA continue
by fathering children- their OWN children.

And even though today DNA testing can prove this,
our BRAINS as men are still hardwired the same way
as they were in ancient days, meaning that a man has
absolutely no TOLERANCE for a woman that might
even in the SLIGHTEST way be unfaithful.

It is not like men consciously think about the
evolution/paternity issue at all, it is the fact
that we are HARDWIRED to have very
STRONG emotions about this issue, as men.

Most women today don't understand this issue,
because political correctness has made it so that
any mention of this issue is deemed somehow to
be a form of trying to control a woman, when
in reality it is women who control men by sheer
virtue of biology:

Only women give birth, and only women know
for sure who is the father, unless scientific
testing gets in the way, and only women have
the power over men's emotions in this way.

In fact, the ONLY evolutionary counter
for men would be to literally shack up
with HUNDREDS if not THOUSANDS of other
women, which, in the ABSENCE of a special
faithful woman, is MEN'S actual nature anyway.

So until we live in a culture where it is politically
correct for men to sleep with thousands of women,
there will be no force to make women think of how
important it is that THEY show men how faithful
that they as women can be, by steering CLEAR
AWAY from all forms of behavior that can raise
EVEN THE SUSPICION of infidelity.

This includes hanging out alone with some dude
she says is just a friend.  99.99% of straight men
have better things to do than just "hang out in
their free time" with some woman they are NOT
SEXUALLY INTERESTED in, in private.

A wise woman who REALLY wants a man
to love her forever will think twice before joining
her fellow "mainstream society women" who
think it is cute to flirt with other men or to play
even the TINIEST games on the side with
other men.

So, do NOT go for any woman who doesn't
understand this TO THE DEEPEST FIBERS
of her SOUL.

And if you are reading this right now and
would like to know more about getting a
truly fantastic woman, then I suggest you
get my book, called Get A Great Girl,
immediately.

This book is packed with how to do things
DIFFERENTLY if you are looking to meet
and keep a truly fantastic woman compared
to just picking up women.

It’s at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

If you have any questions about women, dating,
or relationships, and you would like a personal
consultation with me, just email me directly
at michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com and I will
be in touch with you on the same day.

You should probably also check out my full
line of programs for success with women at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks  

3 Key Strategies You Must Pursue To Attract Women

Do you care about TRUTH when it comes
to dating advice on how to attract women? 

Great, because that’s what you’re about to get.

ONE: PICK-UPS THAT ARE NOT PICK-UPS

There are plenty of times when a guy gets a
phone number from a woman he approached
but it means nothing, and there are plenty of
times a guy doesn’t get a phone number but
she was attracted.

So, for example, if a woman is drunk, desperate,
confused, unfamiliar with local customs, or just
plain promiscuous, she may very well give a guy
her phone number, but this could hardly be called
the product of a special “skill-set” of a man.  

The internet is FULL of these kinds of “video-recorded”
situations that are supposed to be “proof” of attraction.

On the other hand, a woman might genuinely feel
attraction for a man based on his perfect approach,
his perfect conversation,  his perfect ability to connect
with her, even the way he looks, etc., but she may be
an extra-cautious woman when it comes to giving out
her number, and she may need more time to feel comfortable,
she may be the kind of woman who is very careful and the
complete opposite of promiscuous.

A video of this, of course, would not be “popular” even
though it would have shown a lot MORE of what to
do RIGHT .

But how would you know if she was attracted, if you
were the guy in the situation?

The fact is, you can’t know for sure. All you can
do is use that experience now, which has POLISHED
your skills even further, on the NEXT woman you
meet, to attract HER.

So, if you want to be good at this skill, you must
be more focused on doing the best job you can every
time, rather than just being obsessed about the
outcome.

TWO: SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE

This means your ability to get along with people,
including of course the WOMAN you just
APPROACHED.

Just to get to the point on this one, some people have 
lots of this naturally, some people have very little.

Unless you are only looking for a one night stand with
a woman who is drunk out of her mind, emotional
intelligence is crucial to develop.

To improve your social intelligence, start focusing
your thoughts on how SHE might be perceiving the
situation of your approach.

Although I do NOT suggest asking her a bunch
of QUESTIONS, (this would come across as
interrogative, boring, or creepy), I DO suggest
making HER the focus of the conversation, but
in a non ass-kissing way.  For example, you
can playfully make a comment about her,
whether it is what she is reading, wearing,
eating, etc.

You can then take what she says back to your
playful comment as the MATERIAL for your
NEXT comment about her.

So if you tell her, for example, that she looks
REALLLY hungry as she’s eating, and then
she tells you that she IS, you can tell her that
you like it when a woman isn’t afraid to eat,
or you can tell her that you love how when
a woman is hungry, all the etiquette rules
go out the window, etc.

The fact is, the conversation is about HER,
rather than yourself, although the very fact
you are being PLAYFUL says TONS about
YOU as well, which is very cool.

You can then slowly lead the conversation
toward a more “meaningful” connection,
because as she talks to you she will reveal
some information that you can compliment
her on and THEN you can ask her a related
question about herself, as long as it’s not TOO
deep yet and not too prying, because at that point
you are already well into a conversation.

So for example, if she tells you she is a huge fan
of the particular food she is eating and that she
first tried it when she was vacationing in a certain
part of the world, you can then ask her what her
favorite place to visit in the world is, and why,
and this would then give you MORE information
about her that would help you learn about her
character and provide more fuel for the conversation.

The key is to find the right BALANCE between
humor, connection, sensitivity, showing your confidence
and masculinity, etc.

Finding the right BALANCE is part of social intelligence.

A big part of social intelligence is EMPATHY.
You are socializing with her, and she is a total stranger. 
So be attentive to her.       
     
You can also improve your social intelligence by
learning how to UNDERSTAND the signals she is
giving you. 

This is essential for creating that awesome situation
where the conversation FLOWS. 

In order to do this, pay attention to her
facial expressions, to the actual vocabulary
and tone she is using, and to any other relevant
factors such as her background, her culture,
even her ethnicity. 

All these things help you UNDERSTAND what
she is really trying to convey to you.

A lot of guys UNINTENTIONALLY end up offending
the women they want to attract, and of course
vice-versa as well, but I am here dealing with
how to attract women.

By learning to pay attention to all the cues,
you will be able to understand women better
and make them much more likely to want to
open up to you and get to know you.

Another thing you can do is learn to be
AWARE of your own conditioning or habits
in terms of how you react to things
women say or do. If you have a habit
of blurting things out that are
inappropriate, then learn to pause
and think first.

THREE: CUT PAST THE RED TAPE

One of my favorite things to do when meeting
a new woman is to actually LIBERATE her from
all the conventional “fake” behavior that
people often engage in when they meet someone
new.

I will often tell a woman something like this:
“Okay, let’s cut past all this stuff.  A lot of times
people are always trying to put their best foot
forward when they meet someone new, which
seems nice, but I would rather they put their
best foot forward ALWAYS, so if this is not the
real you, or the real me, we are wasting our time.

So what are your greatest flaws? I have no problem
talking about mine, I’m an open book.”

MANY times, women are so RELIEVED and
happy to hear this from me.  It allows them to
TOTALLY relax and actually open up and I
have no problem doing the same.

Within moments, we go from being strangers to
truly communicating on an intimate level, and
once things are on this level, it is VERY easy
to escalate to physical intimacy if you WANT to,
if you have still been “manly” since the beginning
by initiating the meeting/approach, leading the way,
etc.

It makes total sense because it is so unusual for
a woman to experience that level of sexuality,
trust, and intimacy so FAST.

So while other guys are trying to impress her
with all sorts of superficial stuff, you are actually
getting to the CORE of what gets her going on
the deepest level. 

And if you appreciate the truth of what you have
been reading, I promise you this is just the tip of
the iceberg of what you will find in my programs. 

I have been dedicated to truth in this field since
I started, which was over 12 YEARS ago. Every week 
I receive heartfelt and thankful emails, and they come from
all types of guys in all types of situations. 

They range from guys who are just getting into dating
and who have used my programs to learn how to approach
women who are total strangers and who have used my materials
to get their first girlfriends, to guys who have been using
my materials for years and who have met amazing  women, and
who have even gotten married to fantastic women and have
started families, which is inspiring for me to read as well. 

I don’t like to be arrogant, and I’m not. 
It is a simple fact, however, that my programs
and services are the best on this Earth, period.
They’ve stood the test of time. 

My programs cost more, and they are worth it.
  
If you’d like to learn about my home study programs,
go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Some of you would like private one-on-one coaching.
Please understand that I am extremely busy with coaching,
as I currently am providing coaching services for three
corporations, which means that there will likely be
a small waiting period for any private consultation
request.

For private coaching, go here:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Thanks for reading, and I’ll see you again soon.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Judge A Woman's Character

When it comes to getting a quality woman
as a girlfriend, there are two separate areas
that are crucial to MASTER.

The first is all about YOURSELF.

By this, I mean developing yourself in all
the attractive ways, from conquering fears,
to mastering social skills, to honing your
listening skills, to developing the ability to
spontaneously start compelling conversations
with women who are total strangers, etc, etc.

The SECOND area is all about your ability
to quickly detect all you need to learn about
a WOMAN’S character.

It’s vital to be able to quickly see what kind
of person a particular woman IS.

There are TONS of different KINDS of women
out there, just like there are tons of different kinds
of men out there.

Some women you meet might be good people
but just not compatible. For example, she might
love adrenaline activities like sky-diving while
you might prefer a peaceful hike.

Unfortunately, just like with some men, SOME
women are downright cruel and deceptive.

So I’d like to take this opportunity to give you
a few RED FLAGS to be aware of. Some of
these are things you may notice INSTANTLY
in a conversation, others might only creep up
once you are already dating, but you should
definitely be alert to all of them.

Most importantly, it is the overall PATTERN

that she is exhibiting, so the MORE of the

following traits she demonstrates, the more

likely she indeed is a woman you want to

RUN from.

Many of the following RED FLAGS are documented by
Dr. Robert Hare’s Psychopathy checklist, which has
been further investigated recently by author Jon Ronson.

So this is not just stuff that SOUNDS interesting,
but rather is CRUCIAL if you want to stay away
from the kind of women who can RUIN you, and
instead allow for a TRULY GREAT WOMAN
to be in your life.

1. SHE’S TOO SLICK/ARROGANT

She has an overly simple answer to EVERYTHING,
and it often involves everyone else being inferior
to her.

She has ZERO shyness, even from the first moment.

She cuts off your statements when she thinks what
she has to say is more important, and has no remorse
for it. (And she is not doing this out of enthusiasm
for the conversation, but out of desire to control it.)

Some men mistake arrogance for confidence, and
end up regretting this error massively.

2. SHE GETS BORED QUICK/
(NEEDS CONSTANT NOVELTY)

A woman like this starts new books, never finishes
them. Or she signs up for new classes all the time,
never finishes them.

Women like this don’t work at the same job for long.

I’ll give you one guess why this is a RED FLAG
for any woman if you are seeking a relationship.

That’s right, she’ll get bored of the relationship as well,

no matter HOW exciting you are.

3. PATHOLOGICAL LYING/MANIPULATION

This means she will lie, and truly not feel any remorse.

She lies because it serves her, and she thinks she can
get away with it.

These lies might be quick easy lies, or massively 

complex ones that are designed to make you feel

unwarranted guilt or to lessen your self-esteem so 

that you will think you are not worthy of better 

treatment.

The bottom line is, if you detect a liar in even small
ways at the beginning, you better get off that ship
before it sinks.

By the way, here are some cues for evidence she is
LYING. Keep in mind, that one of these cues might
not be proof, but a combination of SEVERAL of these
cues is STRONG evidence.

These tips are based on information about liars from 
Bill Brown, retired FBI agent (Please feel free to
look him up online for more details!):

*While speaking to you, her tonality SHIFTS

suddenly.

*Her eyes are shifty, looking back and forth when

talking to you.

*After she says something that you think she might

be lying about, she suddenly looks at your eyes,

to see if you have been fooled.

4. LACK OF EMPATHY FOR OTHERS

If a woman has little empathy for others, not only
is this a turn-off in itself, but chances are, she will
have little empathy for you either.

Whether she is making fun of a woman who is

overweight, or she is blaming homeless people for

being homeless, I can assure you that when it

comes time for her to show you understanding,

she WON’T have the slightest empathy for you.

For example, let’s say you are going on a date
with a woman at night in middle of the frigid winter.
A homeless person is resting on the floor inside a
bank that is closed, but the area to the automated
banking machines is open, and providing warmth
from the cold.

This woman blames him, saying that these people
are lazy.

Well, although you could TRY to have a conversation
with her afterward, explaining that there are issues of
mental health and many other issues that are far more
complex than simply being lazy or hard-working,
chances are this is all going to be USELESS, since
you can’t make a cold woman into a warm one.

Here’s what’s even worse: When the woman is
not only attractive, but also very INTELLIGENT
and a high achiever.

Then you get the double ‘halo effect’ of thinking
that somehow this woman is more virtuous than
she is. (It's double, because of her looks AND
intelligence.)

You might start to give excuses for her behavior.

You might think this was just an innocent mistake
on her part, possibly she was the product of poor
parenting and misguided teachings given to her.

You might give her the benefit of the doubt because
this woman is EXTREMELY intelligent, has super-
high grades, and seems to have very civilized and
cultured FRIENDS.

Well, guess what?

HIGH ACHIEVEMENT has NOTHING to do

with GOOD CHARACTER.

In fact, studies show that there is a higher rate
of PSYCHOPATHS among CEOs than among
the general population.

If you think about it, it makes sense:
Most organizations are not smart enough to make
in-depth CHARACTER assessments among personnel,
even though the truth is that without people who know
how to get along with others, a company will implode.

So, the “most selfish” person wins in such an
environment.

Similarly, women who are selfish may very well
be doctors, lawyers, and even Nobel prize winners.

I’m NOT saying that all women who are doctors,
lawyers, CEO’s or Nobel prize winners or millionaires
are cold-hearted beeyotches!

What I AM saying is that you must not allow yourself

to think that this is a sign of KINDNESS or HUMILITY

or EMPATHY.

It has nothing to do with it, and in some cases might
even be the opposite and just another example of
women who are only in a profession for the money.

The same woman who couldn’t care less about
that homeless man won’t care less about your
stomach ache if you are both together out at
some show or event, she will think only about
how you are RUINING her fun and how you
should just suffer as long as she continues to
do what is important to her.

5. SHALLOW EMOTIONAL DEPTH

This is HUGE!
 

Very often, the most COLD women will on the 

SURFACE try to show they are SUPER SOCIAL, 

with tons of friends on Facebook and BIG parties 
with tons of people in attendance.

Guess what? These same women will often have
ZERO depth of feeling for anyone.

You may notice her being cruel or disloyal to her
‘friends’ when her friends aren’t in sight, and this
is another giant red flag.

And if her excuse is, “Trust me, my friends are
doing the same thing to me” well that just tells
you that either ALL her friends are sleaze-bags
and that she has terrible choices for friends,
or they are innocent and she is one heck of
a mean person to them!

Either way, it reflects poorly on her. 

And if you ask her, “Then why do you keep them
as friends?” you will get an equally SHALLOW
answer, such as “Because I need people to
show up to my parties!”

The fact she is having a PARTY is more important
than whether she CARES about anyone at the party
or even whether they care about her!

It’s the PARTY itself that counts, because it is
a “social-proof” to others that SHE must be
popular!

THAT’S the only thing that has emotional power
for her, the thought of having POWER over others,
through every form of power, including ‘social proof’.

6. EXPLOITING OTHERS RATHER THAN 
    WORKING ON IT HERSELF

This is a simple one: If you notice she has a lifestyle
that is based on exploiting other people’s work,
whether it is through using her looks to get ‘favors’
from guys, or using her popularity to get other
women do work for her in exchange for glowing
in the bask of her “social status”, it’s all exploitation.

Gold-diggers are obviously under this one too.

7. EASILY ABUSIVE/CRITICAL

Does she easily spit out abusive words?

Does she get pissed off very quick?

General lack of patience?

Then get the HECK out of there, immediately!

8. PROMISCUITY

Okay, I thought a lot about this. Just because someone
is promiscuous does not mean they are a bad person.

What it does mean, is that they probably have a tough

time forming deep emotional connections.

Therefore, a woman who has several ex-boyfriends
that she all met within the past year, is not a good
sign if you are looking for a stable relationship.

I’m reminded a bit of the Saturday Night Live
skit, where there is a fake commercial for woman
who is wearing RED FLAG perfume, and the
voice-over of a man says:

“…And all her friends are DUDES.”

And then we hear the whispering female voice say:

“RED FLAG!”

9. TOO IMPULSIVE

Does she tend to make impulsive purchases?
Does she often talk about the things she bought but
realizes she doesn’t want and wants to return?

A woman who is too impulsive may indicate a

woman who cannot resist temptation, and that

is a MASSIVE red flag if you are looking for

a LOYAL woman.

10. REFUSES TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

Does she never apologize when she does something

wrong or hurtful?

Does she deny doing her hurtful or wrongful actions?
Does she try to manipulate others through shirking
off any responsibility for her wrong actions?

RED FLAG!

11. PRIDE IN BEING A CLEVER BEE-YOTCH

This is yet another massive RED FLAG.

Very often, an abusive woman does not only

show zero remorse, but is PROUD of how she

has gotten AWAY with doing something selfish 
that hurt other people.

She might be telling you a story of something mean
she did at work or school to other people, and how
she managed to totally get away with it.

In her mind, this is something to be PROUD of.

As you can probably tell, to me, it has NEVER
just been about “how to get a girlfriend”.

Trust me, it’s EASY to get the WRONG woman.

The WRONG woman will DESTROY you, FAST.

On the FLIP SIDE, the RIGHT woman will ENHANCE
every PART of your life. In fact, it will be as if you were
living your entire life before that point in black and white,
and for the very first time seeing everything in COLOR.

That's what it's like when you get a GREAT girl.

So, it’s not about 'how to get a girlfriend'.
It’s about 'how to get a GREAT girl'.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks