The Power Of "No" To A Woman

I need to make something clear about the power
of saying "NO" to a woman and what this has
to do with how to attract a quality girlfriend.

We all know that YES is a great word, it's
a positive thing, and we should be positive, etc.

However, in a world that kisses up to the
superficial, and in a world that kisses up to
beautiful women JUST because they are
beautiful, it's crucial to understand that
saying NO is not only important for your
own self-respect, but it's also an integral
part of attraction.

HOWEVER, this has nothing to do with being
a hard-ass or being "hard to get" or playing
games like the dating gurus and pick up artists
preach with acting arrogant and giving subtle
back-handed compliments that are disguised
as jokes but really are subtle insults designed
to lower a woman's self-esteem.

In fact, the ONLY way that saying NO works,
is when you are actually DEFENDING and saying
YES to your MORALS AND VALUES.

So you must say NO to a woman when she
is going against your moral code or if you
sense that your dignity is not being respected,
but this has NOTHING to do with the
"I'm playing hard to get" game.

And so it's kind of vomit-inducing to hear
pick up artist and typical dating gurus give
advice to men telling them to say NO to
women, when it has no counterbalancing
force of what actual GOOD things are
being defended and being said YES to.

It's just another 'TRICK' style mentality
designed to get "all the penthouse babes"
which of course is 100% superficial based,
and of course is inconsistent with real
confidence, as it's not GENUINELY
flowing from one's real beliefs about
what they say "YES" vs "NO" to,
it's still "playing the game"  and a
quality woman who is truly faithful
and beautiful both on the outside and
in and who is intelligent and looking
for a real man for her long term future,
she will SEE THROUGH THE GAMES
IN AN INSTANT and also be REPULSED
by them.

To get a quality girlfriend the REAL way,
the ONLY way that works, maybe it makes
sense to go to someone who focuses on
JUST THAT.

And that's what Get A Great Girl is all about,
not all the women, just a GREAT ONE.

To get a GREAT girl, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/ActionsForAttraction.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my book,
go here immediately:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

For now, and for always, be the one thing I
have kept on saying to be since my first book
"The Dating Wizard" in 2003:

Be...THE MAN.

Michael Marks

Step Up 3-D

If you're looking for a great movie to see with a woman,
or if you just want some positive entertainment,then
step up to "Step Up 3-D".



Recently, with chick flick movies like "Sex and the City 2"
and "Eat Pray Love", that in my opinion teach women the
wrong message, ("you don't need a man", and "go fly away
somewhere rather than address your real issues") it's a
rare occassion when a movie comes along that makes for
a great night out for both you and the woman.

And the name for this special occasion is "Step Up 3-D".

Fantastic movie in terms of the positive energy
and the fun factor, this movie also captures the
spirit of what a great connection between a guy
and girl is all about.

It's not just sexual, it's also that feeling of you being
the best person you can be as a result of this other
person, and vice versa.

Even though usually I'm into more "serious" stuff, and
obviously I loved Avatar, the use of 3-D here is also
a perfect match, because the visuals and the dance moves
truly warrant the 3-D treatment.

Also, it's cool how the girl in the movie ends up becoming
a better person BECAUSE of the guy, and she's already
a pretty good person.

It's also unusual in that the male lead in this movie
is not some arrogant jerk that reforms himself
in some total B.S. fashion that seems to happen
so often in typical chick-flicks.

Maybe because this movie is not a "chick flick",
but women will love this movie anyway.

In this movie, it's not the guy who needs to learn
from the girl about how to be a better person.
And it's not really the girl who needs the guy
to learn how to be a better person.

The woman is already a pretty good woman.
And the guy is already a pretty good man.

What he does though, is bring out the best in her
and she learns who SHE really is in a great way
from him, plus she of course also inspires him as well
to be all that he can be.

This movie is colourful, it's CHARGED with an upbeat
dynamic visual as well as a story that is not just "fluff".

The film feels like a PARTY in the very best sense of that word.

And obviously, because of all the dancing, 99% of women
will like it too. But this isn't some kind of sissy movie, it's
FUN, and the acting is better than you expect for these
kinds of things.

This is a movie you and the girl will leave feeling
better about and feeling enriched.