Breaking Past The "Stranger Factor"

Today’s newsletter really should come with
a huge orchestra to introduce it, because it’s
THAT monumental, it’s THAT crucial to
your success with women, ESPECIALLY
when it comes to approaching and attracting
women who are total strangers that you
might happen to see ANYWHERE.

One of the reasons I don’t write so many
newsletters is because I’d much rather be
doing the real thing myself or helping guys
IN PERSON do this for real.  And by “for
real”, I mean on tons of random gorgeous
women ANYWHERE and EVERYWHERE,
and teaching this to men LIVE, till they get
these skills for themselves.

The good thing for you from all this is that
what you read here comes from the real world,
where something either WORKS or DOESN’T,
and I only give you what has been tested to
WORK.

So here is the first thing for today:

When Approaching Women Who Are Strangers
In Places That Are NOT Clubs, Lounges, Or
Otherwise “Officially” For Socializing, You
Can BREAK THROUGH The “Stranger-Barrier”
By Starting With ULTRA SERIOUSNESS.

The EXCEPTION to this is if you KNOW you
have something to say that is a SURE-FIRE way
to get her LAUGHING.

So why is this the case?
The reason starting off ULTRA SERIOUS in your
TONE is important, is because the fact is that women
are subconsciously a bit WEARY of talking to total
strangers in places that are not especially “APPROVED”
as places for socializing with strangers, i.e. a club
or lounge or whatever i.e. a party somewhere.

So her MIND-SET is “watch out for strangers”.
Is this the case EVERY SINGLE time?
No, but it OFTEN is, and even when it ISN’T,
this “caution alarm” can STILL go off even
AFTER you’re already in a conversation if
you seem untrustworthy or creepy in some way
which is usually the product of somehow seeming
as if you are not telling her the truth.

But back to the very FIRST MOMENT, the first
thing you say to her.  Her “caution” alarm is ON.

So, by starting the conversation with ULTRA-SERIOUS
voice tonality and facial expression, you are subconsciously
sending the message to her that this is URGENT, and you
bypass the “caution alarm”.

This has to be done right.  Don’t start with a huge long
speech that is serious. 

Keep it BRIEF.
If you've studied my "Chats From Scratch"
program, you know that I teach that LESS is more.
You should always do the MINIMUM that needs to
be done to get the job done.      
   
So even if you were to start with the words:
“Excuse me”, this would be FINE, even though
I’m not the biggest fan of having to excuse yourself
with anything, but the fact of the matter is that your
TONALITY is more important than the words
when it comes to this especially.

So it’s not like you are saying these words in
some kind of weak, submissive way, but rather
you are saying them with AUTHORITY and
GRIM SERIOUSNESS.

“But Michael, don’t you talk about being upbeat
and all those other things”?  I can hear you saying
this possibly right about now.

And the answer is YES, because your MINDSET
WHEN YOU SAY i.e. “Excuse me” to her in fact
is NOT bitter, upset, or depressed.  You CAN feel
good about all this.

Plus, this entire SKILL of approaching and attracting
women really has different PARTS to it, and in those
first few MILLISECONDS a LOT  happens just from
your TONALITY alone.

This is why I LOVE teaching guys this IN PERSON on
REAL WOMEN, so they can SEE IT to BELIEVE IT.
It all is very subtle and happens very fast, so it helps
to see it AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN.

Plus, since I’ve been teaching this for over ten YEARS,
I understand not only how to do it, but how to TEACH
it, I have sifted through the THOUSANDS of action-reactions
to see which ACTIONS are actually the ones that get
the results with women, and which actions are superfluous
and are simply wasting your energy or time so that you
ONLY do what works.

So in that first INSTANT, your tonality is GRIM
serious, it’s authoritative, it may even be almost
ACCUSATORY. (I said ALMOST, remember.)

THIS is what’s important to BREAK through her
“shield”.

Now, PLEASE get me right here, when I say that I think
women SHOULD INDEED HAVE A SHIELD!

I do NOT think that most women are bi*&^es!!!!
They MUST protect themselves, otherwise they
will spend every friggen’ SECOND of their day
dealing with the WRONG guys.

From THERE, you can then go on with whatever
you were going to say, whether it’s getting her
perspective on some recent topic in popular culture
from rock stars to movie stars to some other
fun entertainment news, or you could be even
just tell her anything really interesting that
just happened to you or even that you read
in a magazine or book lately.

So this leads to part TWO:

The idea here in part TWO is REALLY to build toward
getting FEEDBACK from her.

And, more importantly, not just getting FEEDBACK,
but LISTENING so damn, damn WELL to her that
you start to learn a lot about HER.
And this leads to part THREE:

Part THREE is about finding something that you
truly RESPECT and/or ADMIRE in her deepest
sense of IDENTITY, and then VALIDATING
that identity.

One thing I can’t understand is laziness when it comes
to getting something AMAZING.

To me, personally, women that I find attractive is
really not just “nice”, it’s FREAKIN' AMAZING.

I freaking LOVE it.

And whether people want to admit it or not, the
truth is, sex, love, and connection COMBINED
are what make the world go ROUND.

When it comes right down to it, most people
couldn't give a rat’s ass about money for it’s
own sake of the "things" it could buy for
themselves. 

If a guy thought he could have a thousand of the
most gorgeous women on earth including the one
he loved the most, ALL of whom were all totally
IN LOVE with him and couldn’t get enough of him,
and who all TRULY FELT THAT HE WAS 
"THE MAN", would he really be feeling "down in
the gutter" because he didn’t wear a Rolex or live in
a castle?

I mean, the fact is, these women are with him,
and think that HE is the man, not anyone ELSE.

Most men want power simply because they want
to REASSURE themselves that THEY are “the man”,
and of course getting the WOMEN is the ultimate
way for most men to know they are the man.

I’m not saying whether this is HEALTHY, I’m
just saying what actually IS for the most part.
 
So, if a guy doesn’t want to LEARN how to do
this stuff, that is FINE, it simply means that
either he doesn’t believe it will work, or he
simply doesn’t REALLY want to get good
when it comes to attracting women.

And as far as believing, the proof is as simple
as SEEING it with his own eyes.  And to be
honest, I have had clients in the past who
were blind who ALSO did amazing with
women, so FEELING that woman on you
is probably the ULTIMATE proof, or having
that woman communicate her passion for you
is the ultimate proof.

So, the proof is there.  The only thing that
remains is whether you really WANT to
get good at this skill or not.

Now, back to the point about VALIDATING
her identity.

Obviously, this is a HUGE topic, that I get
into deeper in my Warrior Within DVD Set,
but let me just say that the idea of validating
her identity means not just complimenting her
on what she feels is not an INTEGRAL part
of who she is.

This is why it’s so important to LISTEN to
what she is saying, and to PROPERLY read
between the lines as well. 

The truth is, you ALREADY do this kind of
thing with your BEST friends, you understand
them beyond just what they are SAYING, you
also understand what they MEAN from every
slight detail in their tonality, expression, etc.

But with your friends, it’s EASY, because you
already have become an EXPERT over time
at the art of UNDERSTANDING THEM.

That’s why you are friends!!!

You’ve spent a great deal of time getting good
at knowing THEM.

Now, you have to learn to get to know a woman
who is a total stranger in just a few MINUTES.

The good news is that if you are listening
CAREFULLY, you will often get right to her
CORE in just a few MOMENTS.

And women will NOT be creeped out by this,
they will instead by APPRECIATIVE on the
most POWERFUL level.

PLUS, doing this also allows YOU to figure out
if a woman is the RIGHT match for you or if
would be better off spending your time on
ANOTHER woman.

Many men spend MONTHS or even YEARS
with a woman until they find out she was
the WRONG match.

These skills will allow you to SAVE all that
energy, emotion, and TIME.
    
But again, I want to stick to the MAIN point
of this newsletter, which is the SUCCESSFUL
start of the chat with a TOTAL stranger.

Just because a woman who is a stranger doesn’t tell
you to get out of her sight right away, does not mean
you are doing the approach RIGHT.

She could be just tolerating it out of courtesy,
but the ticking on the countdown has already
begun as she looks for a way out, IF you
are doing it WRONG.

So starting it off serious, allows you to immediately
bypass her “Guy who is a goofball” ALARMS.

A lot of men start conversations with women in
ways that are PURPOSELY “goofy” and laughable
but not really funny.  The reason for being intentionally
goofy is because this way, there is now an EXCUSE
for “rejection”.

Being GOOFY, a guy can say to himself:

“Well, I was OBVIOUSLY being goofy, that was not 

really ME she rejected, she doesn’t know the REAL me,
she rejected me because I WANTED to get rejected
by acting GOOFY and just having “fun”.

This is, obviously, all the product of INSECURITY.

And insecurity always ends up looking much worse
than just insecurity.  It looks DUMBASS.  It looks
JUVENILE.  It looks UNCOOL and reeks of being
a boy, and NOT of being a MAN.

So that’s ANOTHER reason for the grim serious
opening to the chat.

Plus, by delivering it with AUTHORITY, you also
command more immediate respect and attention.

The key is to then SMOOTHLY shift gears a bit,
to a SLIGHTLY more laid back “normal” state
of mind, because at THIS point, you have already
BROKEN through the STRANGER-FACTOR,
but you have to still exude confidence, and some
fun or at least some intrigue.   

Now, if you remember, earlier in this article I did
say that if you have something that is guaranteed
to get her LAUGHING IMMEDIATELY, that is
cool too.

The reason this works is because emotions are
more powerful than logic,  and if she is laughing,
she is NOT holding up her “SHIELD”, and she
is automatically going to be RECEPTIVE to some
chatting. 

The thing is, that I know from experience that you
won’t ALWAYS have something perfect to say
for every situation, that is always funny.

And that’s why I developed the ULTRA-SERIOUS
opening style for places that are NOT clubs, lounges,
etc.

Please keep in mind, that this is ONE part of a larger
skill set for attracting women, but it is DEFINITELY
a part of that set of skills that deserves RESPECT
AND ATTENTION to do it RIGHT.

Think of how a race car driver of the Indy 500 or Formula 1
who is racing at about 200 miles per hour, and how every
TINY little movement on the steering, on the accelerator
is actually ULTRA refined, and the result of MASSIVE skill.

SUBTLETIES are where it’s all at, otherwise every
idiot would be AMAZING at this stuff, whether it’s
racing cars or attracting women.

Now, I want to slightly change topics, but it’s still
related quite a bit: BEING CONGRUENT is KEY.

What do I mean by congruent?
You’ve heard me say this before, right?
But I KNOW it needs to be said again,
and I want to take it further this time:

Congruent means that ALL your behaviors, mannerisms,
tonalities, expressions, etc., are all CONSISTENT in
your approach, in your interaction with her.

You often hear the advice of “be yourself” when
it comes to women, but most guys THINK they
are being themselves and then they wonder why
they are NOT getting the results they want.

This is because being YOURSELF actually takes
PRACTICE and INSIGHT when it comes to anytime
you are NOT alone, and this goes QUADRUPLE 
when it comes to interacting with and attracting women.

This is NOT a joke.
When it comes to wanting to attract women, we
ALL start out thinking that maybe we are NOT
good enough. So we start to try to DO things
to MAKE us SEEM COOLER.

You’ll notice that in my teachings, when it comes to
your actual CONNECTION with a woman, it’s
all about developing the skills to get to know the
REAL her, and to help communicate to HER
who is the REAL YOU, and how to do this
QUICKLY.

It’s not about memorizing pick up lines from
someone else to make you SEEM to be cool.

Plus, it’s about actually developing your
INNER CONCEPT to make it unbreakable.

And, on top of all that, I ALSO teach you the
strategies for BREAKING THROUGH the  
REAL LIES, which is the LIE that we are
NOT SUPPOSED TO TALK TO WOMEN
UNLESS GIVEN SPECIAL PERMISSION
FROM SOCIETY.

The REAL lie, the REAL fakery, is the EVERYDAY
SO CALLED ‘NORM’ of SEEING WOMEN
EVERYWHERE AND PRETENDING THEY
ARE NOT THERE!!!!

And vice-versa as well, women have to put on an
ACT of not being interested, in order to protect
themselves from all the dumbasses out there.

Women will actually APPRECIATE the fact that
you learned a way PAST all this b.s. because you
are actually a great guy.

So back to my main point here, which is how not
feeling good enough about our own value to women
makes us either SABOTAGE our results with women,
or makes us give into insecurity which makes us act
in all kinds of ways that destroy attraction, or whether
not feeling good enough about ourselves makes us
put on an ACT because we don’t think we are good
enough, all this stuff is one MAJOR issue. 

Even SUPER COOL people, like Billy Bob Thornton,
have struggled with this issue when it comes to women.
 Billy recently has mentioned that the reason his marriage to Angelina Jolie failed was because initially he was more famous than she was, and then she started to become a superstar, and he felt  he wasn't good enough.

By the way, a true story that is related:
Many years ago, before I got into this field,
I had a conversation with Billy Bob Thornton,
before he was really famous.

I didn’t even KNOW that I was talking to Billy
Bob Thornton, I thought I was talking to a
member of the film crew, and he made sure
to not tell me who he was. 

What was intriguing was that he mentioned two
things that I remember:

ONE:
He ASKED me what I thought about Billy Bob Thornton
as an actor.

I told him that I thought Billy Bob Thornton was a
GREAT actor, and that he had won an Oscar for
being a great actor.

TWO:
So he nodded his head, and then he said something
Like this: “You know who his girlfriend is, right?

And I said: “Yeah, Angelina Jolie!”.

Billy THEN went on with something like:
“SHE’S hot, right?”

And I said, “Yeah, of course!”

And we both smiled and chuckled a bit, all this time
I had no clue I was actually talking to Thornton.

Anyway, what was interesting about all this is that
even men who are MOVIE STARS experience the
same issues as all of us men when it comes to women.

It wasn't as if being with her was somehow all
"routine" to him since he was a movie star.

This was before I started on my own journey
when it came to women and when I used to feel
INFINITELY needy and insecure around any
woman who I really wanted. 

All I thought to myself was "Man, ANGELINA JOLIE".
It was as if women of that level of beauty were somehow
IMPOSSIBLE.

The feelings of self-validation, security, and being
“good enough” are HUGELY important, and NO ONE 
is immune to feelings of needing validation and feelings of
insecurity i.e. feeling "not being good enough".

We all need to work on them if we are going to
be GREAT with women.

By the way, Thornton recently said these words
about his time with Angelina Jolie, (in an interview 

on the program called "Nightline"): 

“I blew it because I didn't think
I was good enough for her."

So there you have it, it doesn’t matter WHO
you are, you could be a Hollywood movie
star,  you could be a billionaire, you could
be a male model, all that stuff has very little
to do with being able to really ATTRACT
and KEEP a woman.

Being great with women involves mastering
a UNIQUE set of skills as well as a unique
form of self-development.

And the IRONY is that most men on Earth
only WISH for those other things so they
can GET the women of their dreams!

If you want to get great with women, then it’s time to
master the REAL SKILLS and self-development
that actually WORKS for attracting women.

I strongly urge you, if you can, to take a
real LIVE BOOTCAMP with me. 

That’s two full days of TOTAL IMMERSION
and PRIVATE instruction, one to one, where
I will teach you EVERYTHING, from how to
APPROACH, to how to ignite ATTRACTION,
to developing a powerful connection on the
deepest level, and you will learn how to do
this all QUICKLY, because many times there
is very little TIME, i.e. she might be on her
way to work, or she might be on the train
and getting off at the next stop.

You will learn how to come up with the
right things to say, you will learn how
to quickly convey the essence of YOUR
identity to her so that there is no FAKING
going on.  You will learn how to take your
STYLE to the next level and do it all in
a way that is CONGRUENT to your real
identity.  And much, much more.

Remember, I don't just do this for myself,
I've been teaching this SPECIFIC set of
skills and this unique form of self-development
to men for over TEN YEARS.

What men learn in my bootcamps is so powerful,
that even PICK UP ARTIST INSTRUCTORS
are taking my bootcamps because they know that
what I teach is something that is massive, long-lasting,
and not some kind of "pick up lines" gimmick.

They want to make sure that THEY are
not left out!

Anyone who really wants to be the BEST
with women when it comes to actually
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The blunt truth here is that there is nobody else
on the PLANET who has spent as much time
on the art of approaching and attracting women
who are total strangers, and turning them into
great GIRLFRIENDS, than me.

In other words, this is not just about learning
how to become a pick-up artist.  It’s about
learning how to also CONNECT on a level that
is ABSOLUTELY REQUIRED if you want to attract
the kind of women who are the TOTAL PACKAGE.

I’m talking the kind of women who are that
awesome blend of BODY-MIND-SOUL.

And by “soul” I don’t mean to get airy-fairy
with you, I mean that she also has the kind of
INCREDIBLE PERSONALITY that you
really WANT to be around.

Women that have this combination are not
going to just settle for some guy who can
ONLY get physical with them.

Make the most out of this life, sign up for
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I know that you will find ALL of these
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resources on the planet for attracting
women of the highest quality.   

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Build A Connection With A Woman

One of the important things to me is to constantly
be in touch with “the real thing” of going out
to approach and attract women who are total
strangers, so that I am never just speaking from
the comfort of a computer, but from actually
experiencing it in the real world.

Even more importantly, seeing in real life in
my bootcamps how these tips work not just
for me, but for all kinds of men from all
over the world, week after week.

What I want to focus on today is the power of
CONNECTING to a woman.

There are many important areas when it comes
to approaching and attracting women, such as
humor, wit, and style, but CONNECTION is
one of those areas that is CRUCIAL and yet
is most MISUNDERSTOOD.

A lot of men think that developing a connection

with a woman is the same thing as being a “nice

guy”. As if connection is all about trying to

MAKE yourself GET ALONG with a woman,

so that she will feel that you both connect.

But that is NOT what connection is.

In fact, when a typical guy goes up to a woman
and just tries to get her with compliments and
when he tries to do favors for her, he is actually
HARMING the connection.

This is because women can tell RIGHT AWAY
that the guy is not trying to connect, he is just
trying to get into her pants in this indirect way!

So when a guy acts like that, she will just put
UP an invisible barrier to him, because she will
not WANT to connect with him.

In fact, this is even why some guys think that
“jerks” do better with women.

The “jerk” does not try to HIDE the FLIRTATIOUS
nature of his approach to her.

For example, the “jerk” might jokingly tell a woman
to stop staring at him like he is a piece of meat, and
he might jokingly say that he expects to be taken
to dinner and to be respected for his mind and
not just his body.

Now, although that is not a deep connection, as a
FIRST statement, it is not HIDING the flirtatious
GENUINE sexual tone of his interaction, even if
that sexuality is being expressed PLAYFULLY.

So far, the “jerk” hasn’t done anything that is
“jerky” at all.

In fact, because SHE is a woman with a sexual
side to her personality, the fact that he has shown
he is COMFORTABLE with his sexuality, allows
HER to feel comfortable to ALSO get a little flirty
without fear of being labeled as “cheap”.

So, in a way, he HAS connected already to her in
a much more GENUINE and effective way than
the supposedly “nice” guy has!

In fact, now that the “jerk” has clearly made this
interaction a SEXUAL one in it’s tone, he can,
if he is SMART, then continue to BUILD the
connection with her in OTHER ways as well,
including the MENTAL, the EMOTIONAL,
the SPIRITUAL, etc.

I’m going to stop using the word “jerk” here,
since as you can see, none of this so far is
JERKY.

CONNECT THROUGH INTELLIGENT LISTENING

After flirting with her a bit, the key is to REALLY
LISTEN WELL to anything she says to you,
so that you are detecting and LEARNING things
about her personality that can FURTHER help
you CONNECT to her in a genuine way.

Yes, a genuine way.
If you DON’T find anything about her that you
feel you can genuinely connect with, i.e. that you
can genuinely appreciate, respect, or admire, then
why the heck would you want to BE with such
a woman unless you were NEEDY?

And if you are feeling needy, you need to slap
yourself silly to snap out of that!

The art and skill of connecting to a woman is
something that will help you not only attract
a woman in the first place, but also as you
build deeper and deeper connections, it will
KEEP her attracted to you long term and
it will INCREASE the intimacy between
you and any woman.

Never underestimate the power of LISTENING.
Even if she says something as simple to you
like the fact she is cooking CHICKEN for
dinner, can be a great window into a deeper
connection.

For example, you can find out if she enjoys

cooking, and if she does, you can find out if

it is because she is creative, or if it’s because

she is health-conscious, or if it’s just a form

of relaxation for her because it is one of the

few things that humans can still do slowly

that resembles our ancient past the way things

were meant to be, instead of ordering it all

instantly via fast food.

Whatever her answer IS, it tells you MORE about
her actual PERSONALITY, and this gives you
more opportunities to discover if there are things
about her that you genuinely CONNECT with.

For example, maybe you've never cooked at all,

but you also have your own hobby that is

all about you escaping from the modern

world of rush and hustle-bustle and allows

you to slow it down and enjoy life in

a more 'present' state of mind instead

of always worrying about the future.

This might lead to a common appreciation for
enjoying the moment and making the most out
of life's little pleasures, and you might
even give her a relaxation exercise right
then and there in the store, perhaps
describing a winding staircase that goes
down, down, down, and you tell her to
visualize the staircase, and how as
she visualizes each descending, winding
layer of stairs, she is getting more
and more relaxed.

Or perhaps have her visualize a candle,
that is slowly burning, and as the wax
slowly melts, so too are her thoughts,
and concerns, just melting away....

By doing this together with her, you
have just BONDED as well, since you
both SHARED an activity together,
PLUS you connected on this shared
VALUE of escape from the mundane
worries or the hustle-bustle of life.

THE ARTIFICIAL BARRIERS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN

One of the great tragedies of our time is that many
men and women have made ARTIFICIAL BARRIERS
between the genders in a way that causes men and
women to see each other as the enemy, or even as
just “too different”.

Yes, men and women are DIFFERENT.

That is part of the whole attraction!

The being different is part of why men and women 

were also meant to be TOGETHER.

The difference is what provides the BALANCE.

So whether it is extreme feminists who go around
trying to make men feel guilty for even LOOKING
or ADMIRING the beauty of a woman, (even though
women look at men as well), or whether it’s some
pick up artists who go around trying to tell men
they must NOT connect their REAL SELVES
to women but rather must use pick up lines
or memorized routines or manipulative tactics,
all this serves to SEPARATE men and women
in a very UNHEALTHY WAY.

It’s enough to make any GOOD man so self-conscious
that when he sees a woman he’d LIKE to approach,
he ends up doing NOTHING, for fear of doing the
WRONG thing.

The extreme feminists make him worry he might
be committing some form of sexual harassment.

The sleazy cheesy pick up artists make a man feel
that he didn’t learn enough “control” tactics to
make sure a woman gives him the desired response.

And all a man wants is to just be a man!
No desire to harass her, no desire to control her
with sleazy tactics, etc.

The GOOD NEWS is that just because millions
of people are ‘brainwashed’ and victims of
‘GROUP THINK’, (which is the effect of being
particularly INFLUENCED by an idea if one
sees that many OTHER people believe) you
don’t have to be a victim of this brainwashing!

If you are reading this right now, then WAKE UP

from the spell!!!!

The TRUTH does not change just because millions

of people subscribe to a LIE.

No matter how many people subscribe to the
extreme feminists OR the sleaze promoted by
some men, the TRUTH is that men and women
were made to be to TOGETHER!!!

So the great news is that a lot of the work has
already been DONE for you by NATURE!

This is why even some of the biggest feminists
of all time ended up getting married to some
of the most traditional and masculine MEN.

And it’s why even the biggest players of all
time like Hugh Hefner have gotten married,
often again and again and again!

Obviously, men and women WERE made to
CONNECT, and not just in superficial one
night stands, but in deeper connections,
mentally, spiritually, physically, and yes
sexually as well, because there are different
levels of sexual intimacy that stem from
different levels of connection.

This is one of the reasons I try to wean guys
OFF of pick-up lines, because I want men
to learn the best ways to connect with women,
and it’s impossible to connect your real self
to her if you are pretending to be someone else
or saying words that are not consistent with
your core personality.

THE DISTORTION OF THE TERM "ALPHA MALE"  

I want to make it clear that all these matters
of CONNECTION don’t make you a “nice
guy” in that “nice guys finish last” sense
or “weak” sense, but rather it makes you
the STRONGEST ‘ALPHA’ THERE IS.

You’ll notice over the years, I have almost
NEVER used the term “Alpha Male”.

It’s because the term has been so MISUNDERSTOOD.

Some people think the man who gets the

woman or his choice of women is the man

who goes around bossing everyone else

around and basically being in charge of

everything.

Well guess what?

This is B.S.!!

The real truth is that in order to GET to be
in such a position of power, one must actually
BE SERVING the rest of the community.

Just being SELFISH doesn’t work long-term,
unless you want to become EXTINCT.

Deer, for example, when they must go for
water, are making a complex set of decisions.
Go to early, or go to fast, and some deer
get left behind or don’t need water yet and
won’t drink much and will then die later
when they DO need water but there is
none around. Go to late, and similar
disasters happen.

And do you want to know who decides
when the herd of deer should go to the
watering area?

It’s NOT the big bad “Alpha Deer”.

Nope.
Rather, it’s a GROUP decision, a
democratic process!

Yup.
Similar democratic GROUP decision making
processes happen among fish and birds.

Even in human society, it’s a known fact that
corporations that focus on making their employees
happy and giving them what they need are the
ones who tend to flourish.

In other words, if you want to SUCCEED, you must CONNECT.

If you want to FAIL and become EXTINCT, then become an Alpha Jackass.

THE FREAKY CONNECTION TO CONNECTION

The importance of CONNECTION goes even FURTHER,
and here’s where it gets a bit FREAKY.

It seems that not only does it “feel good” and SERVE
our own interests when we CONNECT, but even down
to our most SUBATOMIC PARTICLES, science is
showing us that the entire UNIVERSE is connected
in the most POWERFUL and MIND-BOGGLING ways:

Subatomic particles possess a trait called 'spin'. 

When two particles are separated, even by TRILLIONS of kilometers, determining the spin of one SIMULTANEOUSLY and INSTANTLY sets the exact SAME spin of the other! 

This is true, INSTANTLY, even if the distance is way too far for the SPEED OF LIGHT to reach instantly!

And CERTAINLY, men and women were DESIGNED
TO CONNECT, and I don’t just mean physically,
but we ENJOY each other’s company as well.

YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT WOMEN AND ATTRACTION

So the next time you see a woman you want to approach,
don’t think, “She’s DIFFERENT. She lives in ANOTHER
reality. She is so attractive she doesn’t even realize
what it’s like to have challenges.”

The BELIEFS you have will affect the ACTIONS you take.

So it's CRUCIAL that you have the RIGHT beliefs, the RIGHT perspectives about approaching and attracting women.

The truth is that no matter how beautiful she is,
she HAS her own challenges. She still needs
that connection- remember this is NOT THE
SAME THING as compliments, kissing up,
or just ‘getting along’ and agreeing with
everything she says.

In fact, to think that any person has no problems,
is to DEHUMANIZE that person and SEPARATE
that person, and it’s not even TRUE. Every human
being has some challenges, it’s part of BEING
human. New challenges step in with every good
thing in life as well.

Beautiful women sometimes wonder if anyone
really digs the REAL version of themselves,
and beautiful women are BOMBARDED
by the WRONG guys, and beautiful women
often wish they could meet a guy who was
CHALLENGING in all the RIGHT ways
and none of the wrong ones. In other words,
a man who can stimulate her and challenge
her to be her best, a man who also has high
standards and is a challenge himself, a
man who is not needy and yet is a man who
can also be intimate, honest, and open with her.

So the next time you see a woman, see her
as another part of you that you don't know
yet, but that you would like to FIND OUT
about, because you know that there IS a
connection, it's just up to you to find it.


Feel free to use the tips, insights, and examples
in this newsletter for MAKING that connection!

And remember, just because you make that
connection and a woman likes you, doesn't mean
that you have to turn her into your girlfriend.

You might decide that you want a woman with an
even stronger connection to you.     

And if you’re reading this right now, I can
assure you this is just the TIP of the iceberg.

You can MASTER the ENTIRE art and skill
of approaching and attracting women of
particularly high quality inside and out,
by taking my real life BOOTCAMP.

In Bootcamp, you will learn and be coached
one-on-one by me in real time on tons of different
women, for two days of TOTAL IMMERSION.

Ten years of experience has allowed me to
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results: In just TWO DAYS, you will have
the skill to successfully approach and attract
women ANYWHERE.

Does this mean you will get EVERY SINGLE
WOMAN????

Only a liar would tell you that.
What it DOES mean, is that with these skills,
you could get up at any time, anywhere, and
get yourself a new girlfriend in ONE DAY.

So let’s just say you completed Bootcamp on Saturday.
That means by Sunday night you could EASILY get
yourself a brand-new fantastic girlfriend by going
out and approaching women for ONE day, and
applying what you learned in Bootcamp.

To a lot of guys who haven’t seen this in real life,
this sounds IMPOSSIBLE.

But I can tell you, and SHOW you, that it’s absolutely
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Most men will NEVER learn these skills.
They will spend their ENTIRE LIFE just HOPING
to somehow MAGICALLY meet the right woman.

And I can tell you, life doesn't work that way
for the vast majority of men.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks