So, What's The Whole Deal With "Get A Great Girl"?

As you may know, I'm pretty passionate about
those rare women who are truly great women,
especially inside, and when they have it going
on outside as well, it's really remarkable.

I say this today because more than ever,
it seems that dating gurus tend to put
all women in one box.

The truth is, however, that it's not about
just "getting" a woman, it's about getting
the RIGHT woman.

The wrong woman will destroy a man
faster than anything else. 

And yet, most men are so concerned about
"how do I GET a woman" before even
finding out if this is the kind of woman
they really WANT!

The media does not tend to report on the truth
about how many women abuse men, so it's
no wonder that guys think the focus should
all be on just GETTING a woman, when
in reality the focus should be on SCREENING
a woman, and finding out if she IS a quality
woman in the first place.

The irony is that most women are actually
CAREFULLY checking you to see if you
are seriously thinking about what kind of
person she is, and so the biggest irony of
all is that part of attracting a woman is the
very ACTION of NOT trying to get her
so fast, and rather to focus on finding out
if she IS even a good woman or not.

THAT is actually part of what attracts a
woman to a guy- the action of QUALIFYING
her!  But it has to be real, it can't be just
a game played to try to impress.

And if there are any doubts as to just how
much ABUSE is going on by women to men,
and how important it is to SCREEN a woman
and to make sure you are getting a GREAT
woman as opposed to an ABUSIVE woman,
just check out this article that is based on
legitimate psychological research and not on
sensationalism like the National Enquirer.

http://tinyurl.com/3tw2wze

And when you're done there, you'll
probably want to to know how to
get a GREAT girl, and to do that,
I suggest you get my Warrior Within
program IMMEDIATELY, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth About Women No One Tells You

The truth about women is the one
thing I have been obsessed about
for over two decades.

The  most important thing to me is
truth. I don't want to hear that
things are better than they really
are, and I don't want to hear that
things are worse than they really
are.

I just want the truth.

Unfortunately, the truth is very
hard to find, because everyone
is trying to bend the truth in
order to promote their own
self-interest, and that includes
the dating gurus and pick up
artists, etc.

So how do you know if I am telling
you the truth?

Well, I think for one thing, you
can see over the years that I've
tried to give you a balanced picture,
it's not "men vs. women", it's not
like all men or all women are all
good or all bad, etc, etc. I've
been saying this since day one.

I've also never pandered to easy
money by getting on the bandwagon
of the "get LAID with my special
magic tactics" pick up artist gimmicks
craze even when it was at it's zenith.

Truth really does matter to me.

That's what I've devoted my work
to in this field as well- the truth
about women and attracting them.

Some of the guys in the dating field
like to make it seem like if you don't
learn their stuff, every woman will
cheat on you, as if women are programmed
to be more unfaithful than men are!

On the other hand, certain women's groups
like to make it seem like the situation
for WOMEN is worse than it is, they
say things like "1 in every 3 women
will be a victim of rape or attempted
rape". Hearing these kind of FALSE
statistics, growing up, made me think
along the following lines:

"HOLY SMOKES, MOST MEN MUST REALLY BE
TERRIBLE, AND WOMEN MUST REALLY THINK
THAT MEN ARE PSYCHOTIC, so I WILL
GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH TO
SHOW A WOMAN HOW NICE AND GOOD I AM,
AND I WILL TAKE TONS OF ABUSE JUST
TO SHOW A WOMAN THAT I AM A GOOD
PERSON, UNLIKE THOSE "EVIL MAJORITY
OF MEN".

Well, the REALITY is that even though
of COURSE even ONE rape is EVIL, the
truth is that the real statistics are
more like 1 in every 8 women, not
1 in every 3 women, will be a victim
of rape. That's almost 3 TIMES less
"evil" of a situation than most men
were informed of - or, put another way,
growing up as a kid, I was told by
all kinds of "experts" on tv and
newspaper that the situation for women
was THREE HUNDRED PERCENT WORSE THAN
IT ACTUALLY WAS!

No wonder so many of us men at one
point became "nice guys", as we
probably felt that it was CRUCIAL
to be this way in order to show
that we are sensitive to this
catastrophic situation that women
were facing because of "all those
evil men."

However, of course, if you go around
saying that the women's rights movement
was INCORRECT in their stats, you
suddenly become seen as some evil
monstrosity who is against women's rights.
Even though that is not true at all.

I am for HUMAN RIGHTS AND HUMAN HONESTY!

What makes the problem even worse,
is that when MEN are PSYCHOLOGICALLY
abused BY WOMEN, it goes UNDER-REPORTED.

This is because it's just not the kind of thing that
anyone is likely to BELIEVE, plus ON TOP OF
THIS, it's not considered "manly" to report these
kinds of things, so people end up thinking that
no men get abused by women, when of course
in fact they DO just as much as vice-versa.

Now, of course, all this is part of why I created
Get A Great Girl, because it's not about attracting
"A" woman, it's about getting the RIGHT woman,
the kind of woman WORTHY of a good man.

At the same time, though, I think it's crucial to
understand the big picture of attraction as well,
and toward that end, I suggest you check out
my article over here:

http://tinyurl.com/4dt2ydu

Till next time,

Michael Marks