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Ever since feminism started, there has
been a gradual EROSION of morality
amongst the masses of women.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I DO believe
ABSOLUTELY that women should be
treated with FULL RESPECT, and be
given things like the vote, and all that.
To think otherwise, is immoral, or plain
ludicrous to think that women are not
deserving of all the respect that men
deserve.
HOWEVER, the problem is that feminism did not really preach EQUALITY only, what ENDED UP HAPPENING is that in addition to honest good things like equality, it ALSO ended up becoming ABUSED- it ended up misguided and it celebrated the idea of women emulating the very WORST characteristics of men, as opposed to the very BEST.
So, for example, promiscuity amongst women
is often CELEBRATED by women as a form
of “empowerment” and “equality”, as if all
MEN were like this and somehow women
were “evening the score”.
Otherwise, how do you explain the CELEBRATION
of people like Kim Kardashian who grew to fame
as the result of a SEX-TAPE?
Of course, many men are to blame for all this
as well, but it takes two to tango.
What REALLY PROVES HOW EVIL AND INSANE all this is, is that even when there are GLOBAL repurcussions, that have nothing to do with the MORAL, but simply to do with LIFE and SAVING life, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the feminists refuse to budge. So even with AIDS, and even with things like HPV that is NOT EVEN DETECTABLE, STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL you won't find the feminists telling women to possibly be less promiscuous. The feminists would much rather see men and women DIE than POSSIBLY admit that just MAYBE the feminists f-ed up.
Here’s where things get REALLY screwed-up:
In nature, without the tempering forces of
culture and morals, man is designed to want
to mate with as many females as possible.
The MALE strategy is actually QUANTITY
over QUALITY, to be honest.
Of course, quality matters too, and men have
evolved to a DEGREE to be turned OFF by
women who exhibit either behavioral traits
that show they would be bad mothers, or
physical traits that imply they would bear
unhealthy children.
But still, the desire for QUANTITY of women is
a HUGE part of the PRIMAL male desire.
Now, science, history, and the study of evolution
has proven that women are not as sugar and spice as
Disney films would have us believe, and the truth
is that women are far from naturally monogamous,
but they are still NOT as primal driven for
QUANTITY as men are.
For women, the emphasis is STILL greater on
LESS QUANTITY and GREATER QUALITY.
All this makes sense, again, from an evolutionary
point of view. For millions of years, there was
no way for a man to know if the children born
to the woman he mated with were actually HIS
children or someone ELSE’S, so he was best
off by mating with TONS of women.
All this by the way is all subconscious, men
of course did not actively THINK about any
of these reasons. Evolution does not work
that way, it just eliminates that which does
not work from the gene pool.
But for women, although it's important that a man is faithful, the BIGGER thing to them is that the man does not ABANDON the woman and the child, because for nine months she will CARRY a child, and she will need HELP raising the child that came literally from her body.
These evolutionary differences between men and women have created differences in what is MOST important to each gender regarding their SEXUAL MATE. So although men and women may be very similar in things that have NOTHING to do with sexual mating (i.e. for example, enjoying things that taste SWEET), WE ARE DIFFERENT in what is OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE in a partner.
And before feminism, men and women UNDERSTOOD these differences because it was OBVIOUS and there was no politically correct bullshit telling women lies.
So why do I bring all this up?
It is because TODAY, men are being TOLD
that they must be FAITHFUL to a woman,
and stick to the QUALITY strategy rather
than the QUANTITY strategy they are
BORN to want to follow, and meanwhile
there is LESS INCENTIVE than ever to do so!
At least, before feminism, men were getting
a greater REWARD for being loyal and
faithful to one woman, they were getting
a woman who was not sleeping with
the entire planet of men, and they were
getting great RESPECT and FIDELITY
AND LOYALTY from women.
So, a man’s PRIMAL need to ensure his
child was indeed his own was being
ADDRESSED.
Today, however, a woman who is TRULY
not hanging out with men all the time,
a woman who is truly prepared to GIVE
HERSELF OVER TO ONE MAN, is
a RARITY.
Instead, what we get are INFINITE women
who want to have “back ups” of many men
while they are in relationships. So a typical
young woman (in other words, a woman who
is fertile and can produce children) will
NEVER give herself over FULLY to one man,
instead she keeps a few ‘MALE FRIENDS’
around, which she always claims are just
friends, but usually she knows full well
that if she attractive, these men want much
more than friendship.
And we get women who are hitting the club
circuit well into their 30’s, sometimes 40’s,
even as they are on the last vestiges of fertility,
and they are drinking and getting drunk and
being promiscuous, and they WONDER
why the GOOD MEN don’t want to
get SERIOUS with them.
And the most evil part of it all, is that the
FEW GOOD WOMEN who do exist
have to constantly DEFEND themselves
against the majority of women they know,
who all seem to think that the good woman
is “crazy” or nuts for wanting to truly
give herself over to a real man who won’t
take any b.s.
So I would not tell you all this if I didn’t think
there was any GOOD NEWS that I could offer
you.
The GOOD NEWS is that indeed there ARE
some good women still left on this planet.
But I can tell you one thing: They are the
EXCEPTIONS rather than the RULE.
They often come from backgrounds where
feminism did NOT take off very well.
And it’s just so tragic that good men who
FOUGHT for women to have equal rights,
were ultimately rewarded with a society
where women make MOCKERIES of
good men who are truly loyal.
As the world GLOBALIZES and becomes
a smaller planet, cultures are colliding and
crashing, but what is also happening is that
men are LEARNING from other men, and
the men who grew up with feminism are
seeing that indeed there IS another way
to live, a way where things are compatible
with the way men and women are REALLY
hardwired to think and feel.
One of the insane things about feminism is that
it has told women LIES about what most men
REALLY want besides feeling attracted.
Aside from feeling attracted to a woman,
most men want NOTHING other than
LOYALTY, WISDOM, and GOOD CHARACTER
in a woman. We don’t care about all
the rest. We aren’t impressed because
a woman has a trillion degrees. There’s a big
difference between wisdom and having
degrees. We aren’t impressed that a woman
travelled all over the world. And we
don’t think that pseudo-science is the
same thing as science.
What you MUST do, if you truly want a
GREAT woman for a great relationship,
is search for the women who have not
been brainwashed by extreme feminism.
AND you must be STRONG, and not
APOLOGETIC for your beliefs.
The RIGHT woman will WANT YOU even
MORE for these strong beliefs.
And you must be prepared to LOSE a lot
of the WRONG women who like to preach
that screwing every guy in town, and never
giving loyalty to a good man, and having
tons of “platonic male friends” is the way to
live and to be “equal” to men.
Most women really don’t even REALIZE
how PRIMAL of a desire/need it is in men
to make sure their woman is not getting
“too close” figuratively speaking, with other
men. So women think that men are like
women, and WOMEN tend to feel a greater
need to know NOT that a man is not screwing
other women, but that he is not feeling
EMOTIONS for other women.
Women are bigger on wanting the
EMOTIONAL closeness, but MEN
are bigger on wanting to ensure there
is PHYSICAL exclusivity.
And men also KNOW that women are
very emotional, and that having guys
around them who pretend to just be
friends, is something that can be
exploited by those men to indeed
push the right emotional buttons
and indeed have physical relations
with those women.
All this was SUPER OBVIOUS to women
before feminism came along. No man in his
right mind would marry any woman who
gave off any indications of being CONFUSED
about these things.
Don’t even argue with the wrong women. Don’t
waste your time on them.
There ARE a few good women left.
THOSE are the ones men must search for,
if they are looking for happiness and
a successful relationship long-term.
If you are serious about getting the RIGHT
woman, go HERE now:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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Saturday, January 25, 2014
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Women Who Have "Guy Friends"
If you are looking for a real, long-term,
exclusive, serious relationship, you
need to find out if the woman you
are dating thinks it is okay for her to
have "guy friends" even when she is in
a relationship.
And to make a long story short, if she
DOES think it is okay for her to have
"guy friends" even when she in a relationship,
then she will be a DISASTER if you choose
her to be your girlfriend.
Does this mean that a woman in a relationship
with you cannot have any association with
any man besides you?
OF COURSE NOT.
She may have male colleagues at work.
She may have male relatives.
She may have some rare emergency situation
that requires her to have some guy call
her or to meet some guy.
But in GENERAL, if a woman is having men
calling who are her "friends" who call her
up, who email her, who text her, it is
ultimately going to be DISASTROUS for the
relationship.
Now, here is the BIG thing to understand.
A lot of women will defend this "friendship"
B.S. by saying that if someone, be it a guy
or a girl, will not accept their partner
having an opposite-sex friend, then it must
be a sign of JEALOUSY.
This statement is not only wrong, it is actually,
in some (not all) cases, quite devious and disrespectful.
The bottom line is that human beings have
REASONS for doing things. They don't do
things for NO REASON. They might not always
be CONSCIOUS of the reasons, but they damn
well do have reasons.
There's a saying that "nobody does anything for free."
Well, I agree, but I also think nobody SHOULD.
It's irrational. Even if the thing that motivates
someone is simply a FEELING, that too is a thing.
So, when a guy calls a woman, he WANTS something
from her.
And the vast, VAST, VAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAST
majority of guys are NOT looking for FRIENDSHIPS
from women, ESPECIALLY not super attractive women,
and especially not as their ORIGINAL reason for
wanting to get to know the woman.
So it MIGHT be that a guy tried to get a woman
interested in him, and it did not work out,
so he sort of remained FRIENDS with her, but
this is ONLY as a result of REALLY being interested
in her for a very PHYSICAL reason, which still has
some vestiges of that desire whether or not he
admits it in his "friendship" stage with that woman.
It's important to remember a study made on a university
campus, where basically a guy went up to a TON of women,
and propositioned them for sex, and the vast VAST
majority of the women said a clear NO.
The study also reversed the roles, and had a woman
go up to a bunch of men, and TONS of men said YES.
Now, of course, both men and women have very
strong physical desires, but men are ready
to get physical IMMEDIATELY with almost
ANY attractive woman, and sometimes she
does not even have to be attractive.
So, just on that level alone, any woman who
thinks that some guy is JUST calling her for
friendship, is actually DENYING THE PHYSICAL
REALITY that the guy would JUMP into bed
with her given the chance.
So, again, just on that level alone, the very fact
a woman will think it is OKAY to have guys who
are "friends" in her life while she is in a
relationship with another guy, is being
DISRESPECTFUL to that guy who is her boyfriend,
even if she NEVER plans to sleep with that guy
friend.
She is basically encouraging the "guy friend"
to keep on trying.
The whole "friend" thing when it comes to
women having "guy friends" is a crock of
horseypoo.
It assumes that, unlike a situation at work,
where a woman may have a male boss or employee
or co-worker, where there is a REASON for
having an association with that person within
the limits of the workplace, there is almost
NO legitimate reason for having a "friendship"
with some guy JUST FOR THE SAKE OF BEING
FRIENDS--WHEN ALSO IN AN ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP
WITH A BOYFRIEND.
It is one thing when a woman is single, and
just trying to meet guys. In that situation,
she may very well have guy friends because
even though she knows the guy friends may
very well be interested in her, at least
she is not disrespecting her boyfriend
since she does not HAVE a boyfriend.
But in a relationship, it is different.
Noboby does anything for no reason.
There HAS to be something they are
getting out of it, and the VAST majority
of guys are NOT trying to get FRIENDSHIP
from some attractive woman.
It is FAR, FAR easier to get a genuine friendship
with a member of the SAME sex, because you share
so many more commonalities by the very fact you
are NOT interested physically in another guy.
The ONLY things left to be interested in, are the
COMMONALITIES, including of course, the common
interest in WOMEN.
And even in the ODD chance that a woman has
some MALE FRIEND who really has so much in
common with her, it STILL is not a good enough
reason to KEEP THE SAME LEVEL OF INTENSITY
IN THE FRIENDSHIP once that woman is in a
serious relationship with a guy.
And the REASON for this is because if you
TRULY AND MASSIVELY VALUE a relationship, you
do not do things to COMPROMISE that relationship.
And one of the BIGGEST compromising things
a man or woman can do to a relationship is
to FOSTER intimate friendships with members
of the opposite sex that have the SERIOUS
potential of turning into something romantic.
So, this is why the LESS ACTUAL reasons
that are NOT friendship are part of the
equation, i.e. relatives, work, emergency,
the GREATER the potential for damage.
So, for example, someone who is a WORK
colleague may very well be limited to
only interacting in a way that is directly
tied to WORK. So the interactions are all
WORK-RELATED, in the WORK-ENVIRONMENT, unless
of course the person decides to intentionally
betray that understanding and actually turn
it into a cheating situation.
But that would at least mean it was CLEAR
AND INTENTIONAL cheating.
What makes the "friendship" stuff much
more dangerous is that it is NOT regulated
by any other force, it has nothing to do
with work, nothing to do with being a
relative, etc. It is this airy undefined
b.s. called "we're just friends" which
really means it could be ANYTHING.
And, because MEN understand other MEN,
any man who RESPECTS another man will
NOT call that man's girlfriend up to
be "good friends" with her without
FULLY REALIZING how disrespectful that
is to the GUY.
And, any woman who RESPECTS her boyfriend
will not allow that to happen, so she will
mostly SHUT DOWN the "friendship" with that
guy who is "just a friend".
Sure, she might SEE the friend by sheer
ACCIDENT somewhere, and say hello to him,
but she will not FOSTER some kind of regular
ongoing "friendship" with that guy.
But allow me to get to the MOST IMPORTANT
part of all of this.
The real truth is, that I do believe
that most women who have this "guy friend"
thing going on while still being in a relationship
with another guy, are not TRYING to cheat.
However, every relationship will have its
ups and downs over the course of its duration,
which, hopefully, lasts a lifetime and is a
happy one.
But during those DOWNS, the relationship is
more VULNERABLE. Just like NOTHING in life
is always PERFECT and at its BEST, so too
relationships are not always PERFECT and
at their BEST.
But just because something is not always
PERFECT does not mean that we don't value it.
We don't all just go and KILL OURSELVES
because life is not perfect, right?
No, instead, we TRY to fix situations,
we try to PREVENT problems.
We don't THROW out our TV sets because
we don't always get PERFECT reception, right?
And we don't PLAN on disaster, but we
DO buy INSURANCE, right?
And we tend to put ON seat-belts even though
we are not EXPECTING disaster, right?
In fact, ALL of the things that we DO
value, we put in an EFFORT to protect
those things against situations where
things might not go perfectly.
So, too, with RELATIONSHIPS, we VALUE
them, so SMART people try to PROTECT
them, long term, by NOT putting themselves
in situations that may COMPROMISE the
relationships.
So even if 99 times the "platonic" interaction
is safe, is it worth it if the 100th time
she meets that "platonic" friend, something
fishy happens that DOES screw up the relationship?
Of course it is then not worth it.
And over the span of a LONG TERM relationship,
if a woman thinks it's fine for her to have
these "platonic friendships with guys" there
will then be HUNDREDS if not THOUSANDS of
such interactions with those guys, which
actually makes the chance of something bad
eventually happening a mathematical and
ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY.
If a woman VALUES her relationship,
her marriage, her children, and having
her children raised in a cohesive family,
she will GLADLY turn down the DIAL on
the B.S. "platonic friendships" from
other guys.
And if she CAN'T do this, it is a message
she is saying LOUD AND CLEAR, and the
message is THIS:
"RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT SACRED TO ME."
And that is all you need to know about her
in order to DUMP her IMMEDIATELY.
Also, I must remind you, that the STRONGER
you become in your convictions about this,
the MORE a woman will pursue you, and you
will start to DOUBT yourself when a beautiful
woman tries to convince you why you should
be okay with all her platonic guy friends.
It won't be easy as you see her gorgeous
body, and you drink in the scent of her
perfume, and you gaze at her beautiful
lips.
YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG.
Do NOT give in to the LOW-HANGING fruit
just because it is there.
CONTINUE THE SEARCH and get yourself
a GREAT woman who already UNDERSTANDS
every last word of this message.
And if you're serious about finding and
keeping the RIGHT woman, I suggest you get
my WARRIOR WITHIN program immediately at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html
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with me, go here:
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Till next time,
Michael Marks
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