The Opposing Forces Of Attraction

Today, I just want to focus on ONE absolutely OVERWHELMINGLY important aspect of attracting women that most guys STILL DO NOT KNOW-and this is even in a digital age when information is supposedly informing people better. 

STILL TO THIS DAY, what I am about to show you is something that MOST MEN STILL DON’T KNOW ABOUT AND WILL NEVER KNOW THEIR ENTIRE LIVES.

And just this ONE thing would make the most MASSIVE difference to SKYROCKETING their success with women. What I am talking about is this:

MASTERING THE OPPOSING FORCES THAT IGNITE ATTRACTION IN WOMEN

This is a topic I cover in more detail in my new book, and it’s one that most men NEVER even REALIZE, much less ever MASTER. The hardest part of understanding how to attract women is that success is a combination of so many OPPOSING forces that must be carefully balanced all at once.  

One on hand, there is the force, for example, of a woman’s BURNING desire to completely LET GO of all her sexual inhibitions and all her fears of danger from being with the wrong man or men, this desire to just GO WILD sexually.

This includes her most TABOO desires, and her most TORRID and SHOCKING fantasies, and her feeling TOTAL FREEDOM TO NOT BE JUDGED for having these fantasies. The freedom to let her MIND go into TOTAL “SLUT-LAND”.

Men have been misinformed about women, on both conscious and unconscious levels, regarding female sexuality. For the longest time, men were told that women only had sex for the pleasure of men, that women had no real carnal desires of their own. 

Then, on the other end of the spectrum, came certain pick up artists who liked to pretend that women were just interested in being promiscuous, and that is not true either.  

But make no mistake about it, women are just as intensely sexual as men, in their own ways.

On the OTHER hand, in addition to a woman's intense sexuality, there are her own internal opposing forces she must deal with, including her desire to avoid any possible NEGATIVE FALLOUT from all of this, such as getting hurt emotionally or physically. 

It includes not wanting to be perceived as promiscuous by others and even by HERSELF.  Yes, she also has a desire to retain a certain self-image in her own mind that she is NOT promiscuous, vulgar, or “dirty”.

If you learn to master BOTH sides, you put yourself into a category where you have NO COMPETITION from other men. 

And it can be SUPER-EASY to actually DO this as a man. It’s just one of many VITAL things I explain in my book The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Now, I’ve noticed over the past few days that a lot of people out there have been making “Black Friday” sales.  

I’m not doing that, for one very important reason that I’ve become aware of.

If you’re looking for ENTERTAINMENT, like a big-screen TV, some music, or a sofa or something like that, I GET IT, I understand. Those things can be pretty costly, and they are also not VITAL for your quality of life. So a SALE makes sense.

But when it comes to a MAN getting a WOMAN, especially a GOOD woman, a woman who will treat her man right, a woman who that man also finds ATTRACTIVE and DESIRABLE, and especially in OUR SOCIETY TODAY, this goes way beyond ENTERTAINMENT. 

This isn’t the SAME thing as getting a stereo, TV, or sofa. 

And frankly, my programs don’t even cost that much, ESPECIALLY considering they help you with the most important thing that affects your OVERALL experience in this world- and make no mistake it, being with the right woman absolutely gives your life more ENERGY, more FUN, more MEANING.

How much is it WORTH to you, to CHANGE YOUR LIFE? To STOP the SUFFERING? To get what you WANT in a woman? For getting the woman you WANT?


Frankly, if it’s not WORTH a few bucks to you, then there is NOT ENOUGH DRIVE IN YOU to get the girl in the first place, and NO PROGRAM on EARTH will help you. 

I’ve taken this subject seriously, devoted YEARS of my life to finding out what WORKS to attract women, and ALSO how to detect, find, and attract the BEST women on the PLANET.  

So, here are just a few of my TOP recommendations:

First, get my LATEST book, this is absolutely CRUCIAL. 

It’s called The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today- download it IMMEDIATELY at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

I also suggest you get my program on unleashing the FUN side of your personality, because being a guy who MAKES LIFE FUN is INFINITELY important to attracting women as well. 

The key is to make it a part of your REAL personality instead of trying to be a ‘clown’ for women. 

This program is called The Skill of Confident Humor, and you should download it NOW at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html

And of course, the ULTIMATE step is taking my LIVE BOOTCAMP where I show you and teach you on real women EVERYWHERE, and where YOU LEARN “hands-on” as I coach you through all the skills you need to be able to attract women AT WILL.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

My materials are being used by men in over 30 countries, and on every continent, and men from all over the world have taken my LIVE BOOTCAMP program, going on to get the girlfriends and wives of their choices after gaining the skills they learned from me. 

I look forward to hearing about YOUR success next.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Show CONFIDENCE To Women

I have some MAJOR points on how to IMMEDIATELY skyrocket your success with women that I want to share with you today, especially regarding how to show CONFIDENCE to women, which is of PARAMOUNT importance.

First of all, by the way, if you haven’t yet downloaded my brand-spanking new “mini-book” on how to be successful with women today, then DO THAT NOW- DO IT IMMEDIATELY. 

This book CUTS PAST ALL THE BULLSHIT, and gets straight to what you actually need to DO and KNOW to start getting IMMEDIATE SUCCESS with women.

Don’t be insane, download this book NOW, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Next, I want to REMIND you of something that is EARTH-SHATTERINGLY important when it comes to women, and that is the following:

YOU MUST MAKE THE MOST POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION POSSIBLE IMMEDIATELY THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE AND TONALITY.

When it comes to feeling attraction for you, WOMEN INTERPRET EVERYTHING YOU DO THROUGH A FILTER THAT IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.

Their interpretation of your behaviors will either IGNITE their attraction or EXTINGUISH it.

And, this is of even more SUPREME importance in making a FIRST IMPRESSION.

So let me be SPECIFIC.

When you are talking to a woman, or meeting her for the first time, or on the first date, she is actually being MASSIVELY INFLUENCED by the things you are DOING, often subconsciously, such as:

• Making fidgety movements. 
• Touching your face.
• Squinting.
• Speaking too fast.
• Not speaking clearly.
• Speaking in too quiet a voice tone, almost being inaudible.
• Eyes darting around rather than looking at her straight in the eyes.
• And so on and so forth.

Notice how all this so far has NOTHING to do with even the actual WORDS you are SAYING. 

And what REALLY used to drive me NUTS, to the point of my blood boiling, is how the GOOD GUYS, who so often CARE ABOUT WOMEN, who are NOT the rapists, who are NOT the abusers, who are the ones who actually LOVE women, and would not harm a FLY---

---Well, it’s THOSE GOOD GUYS who get SHAFTED, because since they CARE SO MUCH, they tend to EXHIBIT the signs of being nervous through behaviors like the ones I listed ABOVE.

And there is NO MERCY in this world when it comes to this stuff.

Most of the time, you only get ONE chance with a new woman who is a stranger, and FIRST impressions are the MOST powerful anyway.

The good guys get EATEN ALIVE and THROWN TO THE DOGS, while the most ABUSIVE MEN who are SUPER SELFISH and couldn’t give a RAT’S ASS ABOUT ANYONE, well they end up coming across as SUPER CONFIDENT, and of course this ATTRACTS women- initially. (In the end, no relationship can last when someone doesn't care about the other.)

It all works on a very PRIMAL level. 

THIS is why I get so pissed off at things like third wave feminism that have spent generations trying to BRAINWASH men into becoming MORE AND MORE SENSITIVE, LESS POWERFUL EMOTIONALLY, LESS POWERFUL FINANCIALLY, LESS POWERFUL ACADEMICALLY, LESS POWERFUL IN EVERY WAY....

...While at the SAME time INCREASING WOMEN’S POWER to the point of having a society where women are dominating the men, and then the women COMPLAINING that there are no men around who are interesting to them except the jerks. 

Do you feel me here?

I am SWEARING to you that this is no joke, and that women ARE attracted, and ONLY attracted, on that primal level, to men who behave like PRIMAL MEN. 

So, the FIRST THING you can do this SECOND is to start PAYING ATTENTION to your body language and STOP any of the behaviors mentioned above. 

You WILL ABSOLUTELY notice an IMMEDIATE and MASSIVE improvement in your interactions with women, and THIS is the reason why. 

And please, don’t BOTHER ASKING women about this, because if they have to tell you, then they won’t feel attracted to you. They want a man who already KNOWS all this.

Now, here’s something to REMEMBER.

As SIMPLE as this sounds, as SIMPLE as the above advice is, to, for example, NOT make fidgety movements, to NOT touch your face or dart your eyes, or any of the other examples of wrong behavior, the fact is, MOST GUYS will ABSOLUTELY STILL engage in some of those wrong behaviors. 

This is because it is UNCONSCIOUS. 

And it all stems from one thing- PLACING TOO MUCH WEIGHT ON THE WOMAN’S IMPORTANCE RATHER THAN YOUR OWN. 

And guys try ALL KINDS OF THINGS to escape this problem, but usually what happens is OVERCOMPENSATION, so they will act MEAN or act COLD, and that is NOT effective either, and actually shows the SAME problem, because it STILL stems from placing too much importance on the woman on an instinctive level inside you.

So you have to be RUTHLESS with yourself. 

WATCH your voice tonality.

MONITOR yourself for how your voice pitch is rising out of nervousness.

STOP yourself from making the fidgety movements. 

And the greatest thing about all this is that it will end up CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL as well.

The body and mind are INTER-CONNECTED, so changing the way you use your body and voice tone actually CHANGES the way you FEEL, to the point that you STOP placing more importance on HER value and you actually genuinely DO feel more important, more valuable, more worthy, than HER.

And lest this sound “mean” against women, allow me to remind you it is NOT, because actually, the IRONY is that women DESIRE men who are confident and FUN so much that MANY, MANY, MANY WOMEN would rather, and I am not exaggerating here, they would RATHER have a man who is TRULY CONFIDENT and who MIGHT cheat on them than have a man who is SO CAREFUL AND NICE and would absolutely NEVER cheat on them.

You MUST remember this, because in our FEMINIST culture that BOMBARDS you with bullshit advice and bullshit propaganda about how all they want is a NICE MAN who gives THEM the power, it then becomes IMPOSSIBLE for most men to EVER exude the confidence and power that women actually FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN.

Now, what you have just read here, as IMPORTANT AND POWERFUL as it is, is just SCRATCHING THE SURFACE of an entire UNIVERSE of important truth that you must know if you want to be successful with women. 

If you want MAXIMUM success with women, including how to find and attract the kind of woman that won’t BULLSHIT you with feminist nonsense, then you MUST get my LATEST book NOW. 

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

And to learn how to approach and attract women IN PERSON from me, as I coach you in real life on women in all sorts of venues from cafes to supermarkets and everywhere else, go HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks