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I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends.
First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive.
If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men. So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course. But it's not PLATONIC.
The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife? The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?
And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.
I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more.
I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.
So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.
This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.
Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.
Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE. Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?
GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.
It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.
So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.
So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend". It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.
It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.
So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in?
We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.
It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.
However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.
For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!
Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.
It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."
Do you see what I am getting at?
A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.
Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS. And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.
So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.
So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are.
I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.
What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.
And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.
Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.
Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD.
There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well. It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her.
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I want to make a few VITAL things clear today regarding how to attract women.
The first is that ATTRACTING a woman is all about unleashing the positive PRIMAL emotions in yourself, which helps brings those SAME emotions out in her.
The more YOU are feeling sexual, confident, dominant, upbeat, and playful, as OPPOSED to feeling like a robot, or feeling worried about the outcome of the interaction, or feeling serious, the better your results will be.
Now the thing is, some guys will read that and take it out of CONTEXT.
They will go too far, or they won’t be intense enough.
It is important to OBSERVE the situation accurately, not only so you can GENERATE attraction, but also so that you can REALIZE an opportunity when you SEE it!
What is required for success is the proper CALIBRATION of those states of minds and actions, which means the proper amount and intensity of those things, depending on the situation and the woman, and depending on where you are at in the conversation.
So, for example, let’s say you are at a major mall and you see a woman carrying a bunch of shopping bags and she looks tired as she is plodding her feet along. You approach her and make a playful comment teasing her on how it seems she has done some real “work” today. Perhaps she smiles at you and chuckles and she says she’s done a lot of “damage” (i.e. to her finances from all the purchases).
Well, now that she is clearly OPENING UP TO YOU, you have to CALIBRATE properly. Do you decide to tease her FURTHER? And if so, how intense should the tease be, so that it doesn’t come across as mean-spirited?
A comment like, "You’re going to really regret it" is just MEAN and NOT FUNNY- unless you reallllly deliver it with the right tonality and expression.
A better comment from you in response to her mentioning how she has damaged her finances might be: "Hey, is the stuff you bought for you?"
This might be better, because let’s say she says that it is, you might then reply with, “Well that’s cool, you know that charity begins at home!”
And now she may smile AGAIN.
So now you have a woman that was a total stranger just moments ago, who has opened up to you, and revealed that she has possibly done something she lightly regrets, (and as such has now engaged in a subtle form of disclosure with you, which is an element you can use to build greater connection as you do the same as well to follow up), and you have gotten her to smile or laugh- all IN SECONDS from meeting her.
By saying something positive like that, you are keeping the conversation upbeat and rewarding her for talking to you, a total stranger. She might smile in response to the “charity begins at home” comment, or she might laugh, but no matter what she says, chances are it will be a positive reaction because you CALIBRATED properly.
But now at THIS POINT, now that you have got her a little more INVESTED in the interaction by mere fact that she is actually speaking with you, you might want to add a bit of SPICE to the conversation by introducing a touch of “positive/playful tension” i.e. not making it too easy for her to get you, otherwise she will likely feel the whole interaction went TOO FAST, and is thus somehow “not right”—this is because women are conditioned to expect there to be a certain amount of “the dance” (figuratively speaking) before she will actually escalate to the next stage with you.
It can happen pretty darn fast, but not TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fast, or it actually LOSES the very feeling of chemistry, of fun, of romance.
This is why, the IRONY of learning to attract women, once you get some experience at it, is actually about learning to SLOW THINGS DOWN, and NOT speed things UP.
I know that probably sounds strange, right? After all, most guys want to know how to SUCCEED, not how to SLOW THINGS DOWN EVEN FURTHER, right?
But yet success requires just a LITTLE BIT OF SLOWING DOWN for what actually is going to be a FAR MORE EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT result.
Think about it- what do most guys do?
They basically SKIP all the FUN, the vibing, the playful, the connection, and just want to get to “So, do you wanna go out sometime?” or they say something like, “Hey, you’re beautiful, what’s your number?” if they say anything at all.
This SKIPS the entire possibility for creating CHEMISTRY, for creating that VIBE where it’s all about building up the sexual tension, the playful ‘ping-pong’ of energy going back and forth between the two of you as you both engage in repartee, also known as “banter”.
Women UNDERSTAND THIS, WANT THIS, AND CRAVE THIS.
THIS is why a woman, if she LIKES you, will actually try even HARDER to slow it down, so that you actually DO have a chance, ironically.
She needs you to make it feel RIGHT to her- and it's really not hard to do, plus if you think about it, it's more fun for you as well, since it gives you a chance to feel out her personality before going further. Good things in life are never rushed.
All YOU have to do is UNDERSTAND this “mating dance before the mating dance” if you will.
Slow it DOWN, have some FUN, and yet also be AUTHENTIC.
Okay, but you probably are wondering how the heck can you do this when you are feeling NERVOUS about making the approach, right? How can you be PLAYFUL and all the other good stuff when you feel your heart is going to explode?
Well guess what? If your heart feels like it’s going to EXPLODE, that can actually be a GOOD thing as well, because it means you have PASSION, it means that you really LOVE women, it means that you have a lot of ENERGY in you that just needs to be TAPPED properly- and let me tell you something- PASSION is attractive to women.
Passion for love, for music, for art, for your hobbies, for learning, for sports, PASSION itself is attractive.
You can use that passion to MOTIVATE you.
Also, your passion for HER is something she may very well DETECT, and that is NOT a bad thing, it can be a very good thing.
And guess what? It’s OKAY to not be PERFECT in your approach, especially as a beginner, as every single guy HAS to start off LESS THAN PERFECT!!! Your first approaches might very well SOUND nervous, stammered, and you might not be able to keep the conversation going for more than a few seconds- THAT’S OKAY!
You will get BETTER with PRACTICE, you will get better at CALIBRATION.
And also, as I said before, if you are being AUTHENTIC at all times, and not telling her lies, and genuinely trying to connect, she will SENSE that, and it will HELP you.
In fact, this is something I realized that came out of something painful. Personally, I see no point to being with a woman unless there is an intense personal connection that is mutual, but I understand that not everyone is like this.
However, because connection really IS everything to me, it resulted in many relationships where I just felt the connection wasn’t strong enough, and so it wasn’t meaningful enough to me.
I used to think everyone else was crazy, but then I realized that actually I have this innate burning obsession for connection that goes far beyond what most people require or are even capable of- so although it made me feel super alone with almost every woman I ever met because the connection wasn’t strong enough, my burning obsession for intense connection DID result in me creating a connection that the WOMEN felt was super strong, and it wasn’t their fault that THEY couldn’t create the SAME feeling of connection- not most of them.
But my point to you is that connection and authenticity are VERY powerful, so powerful in fact that you will find it is the most important part of the interaction in terms of what you are doing actively. The rest- i.e. you being in the positive state of mind, takes care of most of the other aspects of the attraction.
If you have the connection part down, the rest is simply more about NOT RUINING a woman's natural attraction to you by doing something to WRECK the moment, than it is some major thing you have to actively do aside from the connection. Again, this is because a woman picks up on your state of mind subconsciously from your body language, tonality, facial expressions, all which flow from your state of mind.
The more you genuinely care about these things the better you will do with women. Of course, learning under my coaching from my books and programs, and learning even FASTER by learning from me in PERSON, will get you to a HIGHER LEVEL OF MASTERY MUCH SOONER, but you can start right NOW with whatever level you are currently at this moment.
One of the KEYS is to realize that the conversation has to KEEP GOING for a certain amount of time, before enough minutes have gone by that you actually pass the “stranger zone” and are now someone she feels she actually HAS a real INTEREST in, whether that is because you managed to attract her so powerfully, or even if you just made a really damn good impression in general through your wit, your connection skills, and your general sense of control over yourself where you give off an air of masculinity and positivity and you make her feel safe and secure.
But TIME IS IMPORTANT, the conversation does have to continue for at least a few minutes, and I have found statistically from experience myself and the experience of the clients I’ve coached, that this is usually about 7 minutes to about 20 minutes.
Past 20 minutes, and you are usually reaching a point of diminishing returns, meaning that it’s not BAD to continue it, but you are not really attracting her much MORE beyond what you already did, nor are you enhancing the connection further, it tends to PEAK at about 20 minutes when everything is done right.
So, that means typically that she has been smiling, laughing, perhaps also moments of looking really seriously into your eyes, and just moment of chilling out being COMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENCE, as well as moments where you two are connecting over something shared that is meaningful, whether it is a shared experience, a shared value, a shared element of childhood, etc.
Also, during the interaction, it is important that indeed there IS a time when you are actually doing nothing but just having a nice quiet moment together, where she just feels good being with you, she as a woman with a man, and you just feeling that awesome feeling of being with a woman you like-no words need to be spoken.
So, ALL these things are important elements of a successful interaction, and yet they have one COMMON THREAD- and that is that they all HAPPEN VERY EASILY from you WHEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT STATES OF MIND.
And this is why when you put too much pressure on yourself to GO ATTRACT WOMEN, you actually end up often coming across as awkward and not natural at all. And it’s harder to be playful, and to truly be indifferent to the outcome.
And during these situations, it’s easy to end up OVERCOMPENSATING for feelings of anxiety or insecurity by going TOO far with the teasing so that it ends up coming across as hurtful and not playful, or you end up going TOO FAR with the connection stuff and it seems like you are desperately trying to grab at straws for something to share in common.
So here are some things to help you chill out and improve your success when you approach women:
1. Don’t make it the only focus of your activity.
This is why I suggest you include meeting women as part of your OTHER activities, like shopping, playing sports, going to the bookstore, getting a coffee, etc.
Just make sure these other activities are RELAXED or POSITIVE, so that you are ALREADY in state when the moment of opportunity rises.
This way, your mind was already occupied with something else positive, and now that you are seeing a woman you find attractive, you are ALREADY in state, and you haven’t had time to freak yourself out. You are psychologically ready to take IMMEDIATE action.
2. Regarding finding a connection, let’s start with the basics- MAN AND WOMAN.
So if you have started the conversation with an observational comment about something, (keep it positive), or you have playfully teased her, or even if you just went right up and gave her a meaningful compliment that was authentic, the fact is there IS ALREADY one connection you both have.
She is a woman, you are a man.
That’s enough of a reason to already BUILD something together, because as long as you are exuding positive energy and good vibes and you are in a good state, there is the PULL of sexual attraction, and the shared desire to be with each other on a very primal level, even though of course as a modern society we don’t have to ACT upon these feelings at all- but the fact of the matter is they are THERE.
If they weren’t there, there wouldn’t be a society at all!
So in the back of your mind, know this, to help you relax.
And when your mind is FREE to feel RELAXED, your CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS are now UNLEASHED.
THIS IS A SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT. It is BIOLOGY.
When you are feeling PANICKED, your brain shuts down all the NON-ESSENTIAL skills for survival, and puts your body and mind into “FIGHT OR FLIGHT” mode.
This is where you get your heart beating fast, adrenaline pumping, and you are ready to fight, flee, or freeze.
Unfortunately, that is very BAD state to be in when you actually need your MIND to be FULLY AWAKE so that you can PROCESS all the data that flows from her in a conversation.
You want your mind in the most RESOURCEFUL state, where it can LISTEN well, PERCEIVE well, be able to be playful, witty, observe patterns in things she is saying or simply understanding her words, her body language, her tonality so that you can give her meaningful feedback, etc.
So chill out by knowing that it you already have something going for you—the fact that she is a woman who has been HARDWIRED and that you are a man who has been HARDWIRED to feel a certain way about the opposite gender.
THAT is a connection, whether it is SAID or not.
Also, realize that most people could use an ENERGY LIFT in their day, and the GREATEST BOOST in our emotions tends to come from our INTERACTIONS with others, and here YOU ARE, actually putting some POSITIVE ENERGY into HER DAY, making it more fun, sexual, and interesting.
That means there is a very GOOD CHANCE she will be RECEPTIVE to you.
The most AMAZING thing to me is that we are living in a society where you really CAN meet almost INFINITE women, all you need is to have the KNOW-HOW, and it can actually be EASY.
Now, there is a whole OTHER side, which is about how to work on yourself and how to SCREEN the women you meet so that you both are able to enjoy having an AWESOME relationship together long term, but that is a whole other discussion, one that I also teach and that is super-important as well.
But for now, let’s get the FIRST PART handled, shall we? How to GET the girl in the first place.
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That means when you ask me a question, you are not getting a robotic answer, you are getting the answer from a man who has devoted his LIFE to helping men deal with the CRISIS inflicted upon them from a world where women have been brainwashed, men have been brainwashed, and where men are often made to feel BAD about even feeling DESIRE for a woman!
I understand just how much TORTURE it can be to feel HELPLESS in this area, to feel ALONE, to feel OVERWHELMED.
I truly GET IT.
And when you learn from me, you will learn not only how to attract women, but how to go about the entire endeavor in a way that is consistent with a holistic approach to life in general- you will learn to do it all in a way that is SUM-SUM. You win, the woman wins, and it LASTS.
One of the greatest sources of POWER you
must draw from when you see a woman you’d like to approach, is the power of
your INNER CHARM that has unfortunately been REPRESSED by environmental
forces.
What I mean is that, most guys actually
ALREADY have tons of great aspects to their personality, but the problem is
that they suddenly are unable to SHOW theses side of themselves at WILL, like
for example when they suddenly see a woman they would like to approach.
Suddenly, what happens is that they
freeze up and the right actions or words seem so hard to find, and even if a
guy TELLS THEM some great line to say to a woman, it STILL feels too awkward and
weird and in fact sometimes scary to actually do the approach.
So it’s not ONLY a question of having
guts and no fear, it’s also a question of having the ABILITY to actually tap
into that fun side of your personality, or that super-social side of your
personality, when you need to in the moment.
This comes from social conditioning- we
are slowly conditioned from childhood to CONFORM and to not rock the
boat. Also, as men we are taught that it’s not RIGHT to approach women.
Women and some men promote the lie that all women are these victims and fragile
creatures who are terrified of a man approaching them. Plus, we also
don’t want to look like fools and we don’t want to embarrass ourselves,
etc.
The SOLUTION to this requires more than
just watching some other guy approach women successfully. This is helpful, but
it’s not the full solution, because the fact is, SO MUCH of the success a guy
has in attracting a woman is NOT about being this amazingly funny guy with
genius funny comments, or about being the most cool guy with the most
absolutely genius or super-witty things to say- it’s about a very SUBTLE THING
instead.
So, YES, if you ARE super-funny, or
super witty, or super interesting, that’s GREAT and that WILL help, but you
don’t NEED to be those things.
What you DO need is an incredibly strong
sense of being COMFORTABLE letting your REAL personality OUT.
But instead of doing that, we repress
ourselves for reasons described above.
The solution is to gradually keep
pushing yourself to let a little MORE of your personality out with every
approach you make, instead of passing your personality through the CENSORSHIP
FILTERS OF FEAR, WORRY, NEED FOR APPROVAL, ETC.
These censorship filters are SELF
imposed- the only one keeping these filters on is YOU, even though the original
source for them were from places outside of yourself- but now you know that it
is up to YOU to let go of them.
At first, this might seem scary. You
might think that what you are about to say will sound stupid, or boring, or
strange.
But as you keep on doing this, you will
start to feel more and more COMFORTABLE, allowing more and more of your real
personality to shine through, and women will DETECT that you are feeling
COMFORTABLE, and because states are catchy, they too will feel comfortable
around you, and of course since you are comfortable, you will not freeze up,
and you will suddenly find you have so much more to say and that you are able
to keep the conversation going.
And since your brain is not diverting
all its energy into panic, it has all that extra energy to be way more
interesting, funny, witty, and sexual.
All of which HELP you massively to
attract the woman in front of you.
And on this note, I want to bring to
your attention a very special interview I did with a man who was featured in a
New York Times best-selling book, I man I met in person several times and who we
even together used to combine our skills in teaching men how to approach and
attract women.
His name is Barry. There are many
positive traits of this man, but the ones I to focus on here are his sense of
HUMOR and his sense of being AUTHENTIC no matter what- and of course it goes
without saying his RESULTS with women. Barry and I got along so well we
even taught at bootcamps together.
These two things helped us bond
immediately, as I myself hate the idea of putting on an ACT to attract a woman,
and I hate the idea of faking.
Also, what made Barry’s sense of humor so
powerful to me was that NONE of the things he did were artificial to his personality-
all his humor came from his own actual perception and feelings about things.
And one of the BIGGEST things I saw in
Barry was how he learned to UNLEASH his personality by UNREPRESSING his
thoughts, feelings, and perceptions- and this ALSO SKYROCKETED his sense of
humor to the point that he was the equal of any professional comedian.
Now, let me warn you, Barry goes WAY
FARTHER in unrepressing himself than most guys will ever do in a THOUSAND
lifetimes, but I think that sometimes when you want to learn how to do
something, it HELPS to see somebody do it in a very MASSIVE WAY.
It illustrates the point CLEARLY, and it
is also INSPIRING.
And I recorded a very special interview
with Barry, where he not only speaks about his own development, but he is
actually FUNNY to the level of making people ‘ROLL ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING’ – all
WITHOUT putting on an ACT, without making up jokes or making up funny
lines. He is just UNLEASHING his personality.
The lessons from this are INFINITE- not
only of course will it make you FUNNIER, and being able to get a woman laughing
right away is a FANTASTIC way to get her to open up to you, but ALSO the same
way unrepressing your personality allows you to be way more HUMOROUS with women,
it ALSO allows you to feel comfortable being more SEXUAL with women, being more
ASSERTIVE with women, being more DOMINANT with women, and all these things are
MASSIVELY attractive to women.
So don’t just stand around watching guys
approach women, but actually BECOME the kind of man that MAKES THE APPROACHES
AND FEELS SUPER COMFORTABLE DOING THEM---and this interview is a FANTASTIC WAY
TO HELP YOURSELF BECOME THAT KIND OF MAN.
I’ve made this special interview program
available as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD.
That means you can be benefiting from it
in MINUTES from now- and getting BETTER with women in the process.
Getting better with women isn’t about an
ACT.
It’s about who you BECOME.
This is why just watching OTHER guys
approaching women isn’t enough.
You need to learn how to do the INTERNAL
work as well, to UNLEASH the attractive elements currently REPRESSED in you.
There is a secret that the vast majority of attractive women won't tell you. I'm referring to attractive women in societies where things changed drastically since feminism became something very DIFFERENT than striving for justice and equality for women. I also realize there are exceptions to every rule, and that there are indeed pockets of amazing and gorgeous women in society who belong to subcultures that stand apart from the dominant culture. With that being said, there are five KEY POINTS regarding the secret that I think every man who is looking to meet, attract, and keep a woman needs to know. The first one is the issue of PROMISCUITY. If you’ve ever wondered how the heck it is possible to approach gorgeous women and have them get physical all the way with you in the blink of an eye, the answer is SIMPLE. More than at any other time in history, attractive women (not all, but far more than you can possibly imagine if you are unaware of the truth) change boyfriends with just a bit less frequency than most people change underwear. THIS is just ONE of the reasons that attractive women actually respond quite POSITIVELY to being approached. The other reason is that they also have the confidence to know that when a guy is approaching them, they could get just about any guy to want to be in a relationship with them- so attractive women are very calm, very relaxed, and very much feel a sense of control in these situations. When you combine these factors with the sky-high levels of promiscuity of so many attractive women, it becomes very easy to see how it all works. You see, as far as these women are concerned, there is almost NO downside to a guy approaching them- since the women know they are in the driver’s seat, and they also know they don’t have to offer any kind of actual commitment or long-term thinking. Now the thing is though, and this is where a lot of men who are interested in these women go wrong, that doesn’t mean that female sexuality is the same as male sexuality. Female sexuality, whether it is a result of culture or just nature, usually requires a bit of a warm-up before going into full intensity, which is very different from male sexuality which is either on or off and very little in-between and usually very little warm-up. So, even though they are very promiscuous, that doesn’t mean they want to be approached immediately directly with the proposition of getting physical. Women tend to want to feel out your personality a bit more, especially the aspect of you being positive, leading the way, etc., etc. A little bit of a positive attitude and a little persistence in the initial approach and conversation goes a LONG LONG WAY since the bar is set so LOW because these women really aren’t investing anything into the interaction- the guy is doing all the work, the attractive women know they are the ones in demand, they can make the decisions---EXCEPT FOR ONE DECISION- they can’t make a guy NOT be attracted to them!!! And this is not a joke- the reason it’s so important to understand is because since so many attractive women are promiscuous and DO NOT WANT TO COMMIT SERIOUSLY TO A GUY, one of the few things they ARE looking for in a man is a guy, who, ironically, is NOT looking to get serious! A guy who will be COOL with keeping things very CASUAL, and THIS is one of the reasons SO MANY WOMEN say they want to have a friendship that blossoms into a romance- part of this is also their own social conditioning to make them feel that they are not promiscuous, and part of it is also female psychology that tends to mix many things emotionally together, so friendship and romance all becomes this theoretical and attractive concept in their minds even though it rarely ever works that way in reality. The point is, one of the few things that IS important for a guy to remember if he IS interested in these women, is to NEVER EVER EVER mention the idea of serious relationships, raising children, fidelity, or anything like that to the vast majority of attractive women- UNLESS you are raising the issue because you WANT to find out if she is the RIGHT kind of woman- and her negative reaction will tell you your answer right away. Those topics are DEATH TO SUCCESS with these women because they involve THINKING LONG TERM, USING LOGIC, AND EXERCISING SELF-DISCIPLINE IN THE HARDEST AREA TO DO THAT- the hardest area to do that is in the most tempting area- sex. Think about it: When people get corrupted, it’s usually by power and by too much luxury and pleasure- and sex is the biggest pleasure of all. Now imagine an attractive woman who is being BOMBARDED BY MEN OFFERING HER SEX at all times. It’s TOO MUCH EMOTION for her to resist- and things like LOGIC and THINKING about her future with men and her family and possible potential children are A MILLION MILES AWAY IN HER MIND- FAR OFF IN THAT FOGGY PLACE CALLED THE FUTURE. And even FURTHER away are any wise thoughts regarding preventing STIs and STDs. All forms of logic go out the window when enough emotion is stirred. And sex is the most powerful emotion of all. If you seriously try to talk about this with these women, it will destroy any possible chemistry. Remember, emotions are stronger than logic, so she will NOT understand a word you say regarding this topic. She won't understand because emotions have a way of warping one's perspective. By the way, ANY PICK UP ARTIST WHO IS HONEST WILL TELL YOU AND ADMIT THAT WHAT I AM SAYING IS TRUE. I like to give the SUPERMAN example. Superman’s powers don’t come from WORKING OUT, they come from the YELLOW sun of the EARTH. Back on Krypton before it exploded, Kryptonians couldn’t fly or have special powers. Yes, I know Superman is science-fiction or fantasy, but my point is that getting the typical attractive woman to get physical with you is less a matter of a guy doing hard things, and more a matter of simply living near a YELLOW SUN- that yellow sun is PROMISCUOUS WOMEN. If you are looking for girlfriend who is not going to be flirting with other guys, who is not going to cheat on you, who is going to be loyal and supportive and stick with you through good and bad times, then I can assure you that the vast, vast, vaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaast majority of attractive women you meet are NOT going to meet your standards. But if you ONLY want to get physical with some attractive woman or women, then you really don’t need to learn ANYTHING except the following: 1. That most attractive women are promiscuous. 2. That therefore what they want in a man is just fun, sex, and no serious talk about the future. 3. That even though they are promiscuous, they still don’t want to be LABELLED as promiscuous, so you must NEVER bring this issue up, and you should pretend that they aren’t promiscuous at ALL. This won’t be easy if you stick around for long enough, because it’s human biology for a man to have a negative reaction when he sees a woman he is sleeping with behaving in ways with men that will lead to her sleeping with another guy. 4. Because of number 3 above, this is why long-term relationships almost never work out with these women. That is really all you need to know if that is all you want when it comes to a woman or women. Once you know that, the rest is pretty self-explanatory. See a woman you want to approach? Then just do it. Yes, just do it. If you are concerned about how to keep a conversation going, the main thing is to realize the bar is LOW. So there we go, let’s add one more to the roster: 5. THE BAR IS LOW They aren’t looking for you to be a NOBEL PRIZE winner or some kind of doctor trying to save the world or ANYTHING like that. They really are just looking for a good time, honestly, I know it sounds crazy, but if they were looking for more serious things, they wouldn’t live the way they do. You can fumble the ball, you can do so much WRONG, as long as you keep it POSITIVE and you TOTALLY DON’T BRING UP THE PROMISCUITY ISSUE. Now, don’t get me wrong, because if you flash a lot of money around, then of COURSE they will want THAT too, and that might even make them suddenly want to ESCALATE the relationship into SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP territory, and I don’t think that is the kind of serious relationship that men really want. But if you are looking for MORE than that, for a woman who understands that the idea is for a man and woman to be PARTNERS in life, to grow together, and if you are looking for a woman who still understands the importance of the BIG PICTURE, of loyalty, of fidelity, and of how easy it is for the years to slip BY and for her to find herself with NO OPTIONS, well then you need to really have a HIGHER level of skill. You need to TRULY become effective at starting MEANINGFUL conversations, and you need to become highly skilled at SCREENING out the wrong women QUICKLY so you can focus your time and energy on the right women. You need to know what you SHOULD be looking for in a woman. You also need to learn how to banish the internal demons and weaknesses that plague all human beings, such as the desire to have EVERYTHING- human greed is a weakness, it must be harnessed PROPERLY. So, for example, being with the same woman, even if she is a GREAT WOMAN, requires some work if you are going to KEEP UP THE CHEMISTRY over time. But it is WORTH THE INVESTMENT, because of what that MEANS IN THE BIG PICTURE. A life with total chaos and no order is NOT going to be productive or rewarding- regardless of what the promiscuous crowd likes to say. They tend to only say that while they are in their 20s, but somehow that argument NEVER MAKES IT into their maturing years- which speaks volumes about how misguided the thinking of youth often is- especially when it exists in a culture bombarding it with false promises of endless pleasure- when in reality the higher level of pleasure comes from MEANING and ACCOMPLISHMENT. And you won’t be able to get ANY sense of meaning and you won’t be able to get any ACCOMPLISHMENT when you are a WRECK BECAUSE of a woman. And if you are reading this right now and you would like to know ANYTHING about meeting and keeping women, the most powerful step you can take is LIVE coaching with me. If you want to learn the HOW TO of the actual APPROACH, I’d be thrilled to show you all this in person on real women. You can learn how to do this in my exclusive bootcamp program at http://www.getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html And if you would like to consult with me on ANY matter regarding women, whether you want coaching on how to improve your state of mind, what to do regarding a dating situation you are currently in, how to know if a woman is being honest with you or not, or ANY other matter, you can book a private consultation with me by going here: http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html Before ending this newsletter, I would like to salute those courageous women who continue to uphold and champion the virtues of honor, fidelity, and loyalty. Not only in action, but in spirit as well. Till next time, Michael Marks
