If you’ve been following my work
for any amount of time, you know
that I am obsessed with truth and
accuracy. I describe the specifics
of what you need to know with
almost surgical-like precision.
Now, if a guy just wants to “get physical”
with some kind of woman, and does not
care about whether this woman is going
to be a faithful woman who is going to
cheat on him or not, then obviously it’s
not that important that a guy be as careful
to do things RIGHT.
In fact, the WRONG kind of women will
be ATTRACTED to behavior that echoes
“SODOM AND GOMORRAH” type values
wrapped in a veneer of ethics.
What I mean by this is, appealing to the
base desires, but wrapping it up by also
paying lip service to things like showing
that you respect her, that it’s important
that she respects you, etc.
LIP SERVICE instead of the real thing.
You see, even men and women who
don’t have ethics, they still want to feel
good about themselves, so this is why
they like to pay lip service in their conversations
to things like “I don’t do one night stands”
or “I’m looking for something meaningful”
or “I’m looking for an authentic connection”
but then at the same time there are inconsistencies
in their conversation/behavior, etc.
Everyone wants to feel good about themselves,
including the people who are fooling themselves.
But, when a man wants to get a truly
rare catch, the kind of woman that is
going to be faithful and respect him,
the kind of woman that is BRAVE
enough to defy the screwed-up morals
of society, the kind of woman that is
truly a WOMAN OF VALOR, then
ALL THE THINGS I TEACH become
SUPER IMPORTANT.
For example, being able to DETECT
immediately whether a woman is a
potential candidate for being a faithful
woman is IMPORTANT.
And, if she IS such a woman, then it becomes
of PARAMOUNT significance that you
set up the initial interaction on a SOLID
FOUNDATION that includes “proof of
ethics”.
Now, it can’t be limited to ONLY this
“good stuff”, because there have to also
be components of ATTRACTION and
sexuality, but there must ALSO be an
exchange of “proof of ethics” between
each other.
“Proof of ethics” is not a simple thing to
see or convey. It has to do with a lot more
than what you or she says. It has to do with
the CONGRUENCY in which you both show
RESPECT, and even the SLIGHTEST shift
OFF of that congruency, the slightest
INCONSISTENCY can tell you a LOT about
someone.
So, for example, if a woman tells you how hard
it is to find a good guy, and how hard she has
been trying to find a good man, but you notice
that she displays signs of promiscuity, then you
have to ask yourself just how careful she is
with screening the men she is with.
If a woman tells you how important respect is,
but she doesn’t actually SHOW it to you, or to
anyone else around her who is innocent, you
already know she is OUT of the running.
In this world, there is a LOT of FAKING
going on. There is a lot of CHEATING
going on. And, by the way, the cheating
and other blights of character are not limited
to any economic class, any religion, race, or
gender. It is a HUMAN flaw, and so the ONLY
solution is to inspect the INDIVIDUAL.
Finding and attracting the RIGHT kind of
woman is a BIG DEAL. It is a very big
deal.
The right woman becomes not only a great
source of PASSION in your life, but also
becomes a PARTNER in your life.
But the wrong woman will cost you your
energy, your finances, your emotions, and
your HEALTH.
And if you have children, it can be really
messy as well if you have to split up.
Now, on the OTHER HAND, let’s say you
meet a truly fantastic woman that you are
crazy about, and she treats you with total
respect, well then it becomes super important
that YOU don’t screw things up as a result
of MISREADING her or the situation.
It becomes ESSENTIAL that you are able
to SEPARATE distortion from fact. This is
easier said than done, because the more we
get EMOTIONAL about something and the
more we value something, the harder it is
to see things as they REALLY ARE.
So this does not just mean when you really
don’t like a woman, it also means when you
really do like a woman as well.
If you don’t want to LOSE a great woman,
you MUST be able to see the full truth of
any situation you are in with her.
This is another area why my expertise comes in.
I can assess a situation for you so that you know
the TRUTH about her and whatever situation it
is regarding her that you are trying to figure out.
Sometimes this also includes seeing where you
may have made an error as well.
Quality women, just like quality men, are RARE.
A woman that knows better than to hang around
other men under the guise that they are all “friends”
is RARE.
A woman that knows that a man cares more about
being RESPECTED than just about anything else
in a relationship, is RARE.
A woman that has not been brainwashed by
horrifying female role models in the media
is RARE.
A woman that understands a man’s sexuality is RARE.
A woman that works hard together WITH you
for a shared future WITH you, is RARE.
A woman that respects truth, (just as a man that respects
truth) is RARE.
So, when you DO meet such a woman, you
REALLY do NOT want to screw it up.
This is where I come in. You can consult with me
directly in a private phone consultation or a private
in-person consultation.
I have made it my life’s work to help good men
and women meet each other, and to keep them
attracted and THRIVING together.
This is not “pick up artist” information.
This is about ensuring your success with the kind
of woman that will have an ENORMOUS positive
impact on your LIFE, and this is also about preventing
you from making a mistake and getting with the
wrong kind of woman who will DESTROY your life.
There is no single area of greater impact on
a man’s life than the type of woman he is with.
Let me help you SUCCEED in this area.
For full details on a consultation with me, go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html
If you’re not with a woman right now, and you want
to get my LATEST proven strategies for meeting and
attracting women in the first place, then DEFINITELY
go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/instant-attraction.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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Saturday, March 1, 2014
The ONE Thing A Woman Is Looking For In You
The most important thing in attracting
a woman who is truly the “total package”
of being not only beautiful, but also a
great person inside as well, is conveying
to her the following VIBE:
That with you, no matter how crazy life
gets, she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.
In fact, if there was just ONE word you
could remember, when approaching women,
seeing women, trying to attract women,
etc., it would be this:
CALM.
It’s a universally powerful step toward
attracting women, for many reasons.
First of all, staying calm allows YOU yourself
to think straight, it allows you easier access
to your subconscious mind that has a ton of
humorous/intriguing/ interesting things to
say in whatever particular moment you find
yourself in with a woman.
So if she’s in the snacks aisle in the grocery
store with you, and you see her grabbing a
party-size bag of chips, and you are feeling
calm, you are more likely to instinctively
come up with something like, “I hope those
aren’t all for you!” or “That’s what I like,
a girl who isn’t afraid to enjoy life”, etc.
Plus, of course, the TONE of your voice when
calm will CONVEY that you are calm more
effectively than just about anything else, as
voice tonality says a BILLION things about
what you are feeling internally, and a woman
subconsciously registers all that in her mind
and will, in response to YOUR CALM, she
will ALSO feel calm, which is a great thing
when you want a woman talking to you.
You don’t want her to be getting more nervous,
when you as a stranger approach her, you want
her to be getting more calm.
So that’s the second thing, not only does it
help YOU say and do the right things, it also
helps CALM DOWN A WOMAN in what might
be a slightly awkward moment, but is of course
WELL WORTH IT if you do it right.
Here’s another reason being calm is so
important: The more a woman is the kind
of woman who is looking for STABILITY
and a LONG TERM HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP,
the more she is the kind of person who values
CALM WATERS, PEACE, SERENITY, rather than
CHAOS AND INSTABILITY.
A lot of the “pick up artist” approaches a few
years ago when being a “pick up artist” was
trendy in many circles, the emphasis was on
getting women from night-clubs and trying to
get one night stands. A lot of the women in
these places, and a lot of the women who are
more into promiscuity, tend to be ATTRACTED
to the CHAOS rather than the SERENITY.
This is why I said even years ago, when I created "Get A Great Girl", that if you want to attract a quality woman for a great relationship, you can't use typical pick up artist strategies, and that in fact those strategies will PUSH HER AWAY.
Like attracts like. Chaos attracts Chaos. Calm attracts Calm. Personally, my passion was for the kind of woman who would make for a great long-term relationship.
There are also, to be honest, SOME women who
are not good for long-term relationships who
ALSO seem to be attracted to men who are CALM
and who give off vibes of stability, because
these women are sometimes looking for SOMETHING
CALM to help balance off the chaotic feelings
in their mind.
But these women will quickly do EVERYTHING
in their power to destroy yours sense of calm.
Sometimes, they do this because they believe
that EVERYTHING is chaos, and they will
believe that you cannot be trusted to be the
good guy you say you are, so they TRY to
bring out the worst in you, so they can DEAL
with it now, at a time of THEIR choosing, rather
than WAIT for you to be mean to them later.
(This is what they FEEEEEL, it may have NOTHING
to do with reality.)
Also, don’t try to be a THERAPIST to a woman
who you are pursuing romantically, because
you will be setting yourself up for disappointment.
If you genuinely just want to HELP a woman,
and you truly are not pursuing her romantically,
then fine, help her all you want, if you think you
can.
By the way, I am not judging anyone here, and
I myself have had to learn how to calm down,
but in different ways, and for very different reasons,
than most of the chaotic party chicks out there.
But even with the chaotic party chicks, I’m not
blaming them for being who they are, as human
beings are so complicated and most people never
understand themselves, never mind others. This
is why I focus on SELF-DEVELOPMENT,
rather than trying to change anyone ELSE.
The REAL BUTTONS we must push are on
OURSELVES, not on WOMEN, because the
SMARTER and MORE empowered we are ourselves,
the greater positive effect we can have
on EVERYONE, including of course women,
and of course the more you can attract women,
but also the more you can quickly DETERMINE
about a woman to see if she is truly COMPATIBLE
with you on the most important levels.
Yes, physical attraction IS key, but so is
personality, and the more wise you become,
and the more you develop yourself in the ways
I teach, the more you can spot the RIGHT women,
and the more easily you can avoid the WRONG
women.
Anyway, my point is that if you are looking for
a quality woman for a great relationship without
HEAD-GAMES and endless conflict and endless
negative drama and chaos, then giving off vibes
of CALM, and actually BEING CALM become
SUPER IMPORTANT.
In general, this calm vibe tends to push AWAY the
women who will bring MISERY and DRAMA
into your life and will ATTRACT the kind of
women who will increase the genuine joy and
PEACE in your life.
A woman who is great for a long-term
relationship is investing a MASSIVE
amount of emotion and time if she
decides to pursue a life with you,
so there is a LOT at stake not
just for you, but for her as well.
She needs to know that with you,
no matter how crazy life gets, that
she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.
CALM.
ACHIEVING this goal, and being able
to convey this in SECONDS to a woman
you just met, takes some insight into
psychology, culture, and evolution.
And not the “dime store psychology” or
“pseudo-science” or other gimmicks that
unfortunately are so prevalent in our society.
Please allow me to make one thing clear:
I never started out with the goal of TEACHING
any of the things I learned about getting a
quality woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend.
I honestly did it all because I needed to
learn all this for MYSELF.
One of the most DISASTROUS steps I took
on my path to learning how to attract a truly
quality woman was that I tried to learn from
the “pick up artist” community.
I had to spend YEARS actually UNLEARNING
all the things they taught me, because those
things actually REPELLED the very BEST
kinds of women.
Those things ATTRACTED the women of CHAOS, and
REPELLED the women of SERENITY, ORDER, AND PEACE.
In case you don’t know about the pick up
artist community, there is a book called
“The Game” that really captures the overall
spirit of the “seduction community” as it was
and in many circles still is.
In the book, it’s clear that the main strategies
for getting a woman involved just about
anything BESIDES being ethical, honest and
up-front, and it's also clear that it largely
revolves around getting women into bed as QUICKLY
as possible. Women that aren't willing to
get into bed quickly are labelled as having
"psychological issues".
Regarding unethical strategies, is the
strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem
in subtle ways so that she feels LESS about
herself and now supposedly she will feel the
guy has more value than her. These ‘experts’
vow that the solution to attracting a ‘hard to get’
woman is to ‘slam’ her self-esteem.
So this involves the use of thinly veiled
insults, the “nice” name for this is
“backhanded compliments” but really
it’s just an insult. i.e. Telling a woman
she looks just like some celebrity named
x.y, or z, but the thing is that the named
celebrity is clearly NOT the most attractive.
Now, as you may know from my programs,
since day ONE I have been against these
kinds of things for about a MILLION
reasons, including the fact that this kind
of strategy not only is not NECESSARY
but in fact will BACKFIRE because it
makes a man think lower of himself,
because it reinforces in a man the feeling
that he does NOT have the value to get the
woman so he must resort to these kinds of
sleazy tactics.
And when your “INNER GAME” i.e.
the way you feel about yourself, is this
weak, it always ends up showing in tiny
little subtleties through your tonality,
expression, body language, etc. So a
woman ends up detecting a weak inner
game, and the more a guy uses these
self-esteem destroying strategies, the more a guy
will weaken his inner game.
It ALSO backfires because a woman who
is truly the total package is both emotionally
strong enough, plus intelligent enough to
not only sense that this guy has a weak
inner game, but she will ALSO detect that
this guy is DOING THIS nasty stuff to
her INTENTIONALLY, that he is knowingly
trying to lower her self-esteem!!!!
So she will REJECT the guy before he can
even finish his attack on her self-esteem.
But, a woman who is unfortunately plagued
by the CHAOS mind-set may very well BE
attracted to such a guy, because she
IS SO INSECURE that this tactic DOES
work on her.
And THAT is truly sad, and it is truly the wrong thing to do, especially to a woman who already is so plagued with issues.
But, I can see how many men are confused.
It's HARD to know, if you haven't spent
years learning this stuff, that NOT ALL
WOMEN ARE THE SAME, especially if you have
been hanging out in the SAME WRONG PLACES
all the time to meet women, so you keep
on meeting the same types of women from the
same pools of women.
It's easy to start to think that all women are the same, that all women are nasty, that all women are liars, etc. And the truth is, we are living in a crazy society that confuses a lot of women, because women are told contradictory messages by our insane society:
Women are told that they should be kissing other women and how fun and hilarious that is thanks to Katy Perry, Madonna, and Miley Cyrus, (who have talent in varying degrees but sometimes abuse their power and talent ).
Then, on the other hand, women are told they should be loyal to one man.
Then are also told to be good mothers, but then they are told they should be career women. They are told they should be "liberated" and promiscuous, but then they are told they should view sex as sacred, and to be faithful and loving, etc.
Tons of contradictory messages.
So trust me, I realize how hard it is to
be a MAN in a world where men these days
are given a very hard time by a lot of
politically correct B.S. when they just
want to meet women!
At the same time, it is ABSOLUTELY VITAL to realize there are DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN, there are still women out there who are NOT ATTRACTED TO THE CHAOS, women who DO want PEACE, women who are loyal and faithful.
Since I’ve been teaching my programs,
the entire FIELD of “dating strategies”
and “pick up artists” has been MASSIVELY
IMPACTED by what I teach.
These days, the pick up artists are using a lot less of the strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem as a method of attracting her.
These days, there is suddenly a lot more talk
about getting a “quality girlfriend”.
Now, I am going to venture forth here
and say it, because obviously none of
these guys will, that it was ME who
brought dating strategies for getting
a great girl into the MODERN AGE
and out of the STONE AGE of pick
up artist advice that they themselves
agree was just about ALL WRONG
before!
So what I’m saying is, I have ALWAYS
been about getting a QUALITY woman.
I have NEVER been about gimmicks.
In fact, when you finish my programs,
you actually can be very UPFRONT
AND HONEST with women, because
you have become such a strong person
that you convey to her all the right things
from your tonality, expression, warmth,
and inner strength so that EVERYTHING
you do with her becomes attractive.
There are no gimmicks to use, because it's
YOU who has now become attractive,
not some "gimmick" to use on her.
I have ALWAYS been against GIMMICKS
and immature trends that come and go.
I could have easily jumped on the bandwagon
of trends if all I cared about was money.
I could have easily been a part of the
book “The Game” as I was actually
contacted about it, but I wanted nothing
to do with it then, even when the pick
up artist industry was at its ZENITH of
popularity.
That should give you an idea of just how
important the TRUTH is to me, and how
important it is to me to give you TRUTH
on how to get a quality woman.
My concepts have literally changed the
entire FIELD of dating.
To me, getting a great girl who is the total
package isn’t just “nice”.
It’s the ULTIMATE.
It’s what I have DEVOTED myself to teaching since day ONE. And I do this because I know just how IMPORTANT it is to have a quality woman at your side, and how this improves your entire LIFE.
A great woman isn’t looking to see if
you are a look-a-like of George Clooney,
Brad Pitt, or any of the guys from
“Twilight”. And she isn’t looking for
GOLD or money from you either.
She’s looking to see if you have the
INNER strength.
The bottom line is this:
If you're interested in getting dates with
typical women, that's fine. It's not my
preference, but I don't judge others.
But if you're looking for the kind of
woman that ADDS to your life, doesn't
give you "drama", and makes life a
DREAM, then you need an EDGE over
other guys, you need the kind of
training from someone who SPECIALIZES
in getting the kinds of women who would
truly make for GREAT girlfriends.
One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.
The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.
And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???
So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that I
swear to it that everything I write here is
based on REAL INTERACTIONS WITH
WOMEN FROM YEARS OF BOOTCAMPS
WITH CLIENTS AND MY OWN
EXPERIENCES AS WELL.
In other words, this is not just made up or
something I came up with off the top of
my head, it’s all based in REALITY, and
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.
First off, I totally understand that most
guys are NOT Bill Gates, not models, and
not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.
And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.
Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.
Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?
And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.
The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.
I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.
The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.
If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.
But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.
You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.
The reasons for all this are subconscious:
By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:
1. INTEGRITY
Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.
You show that you stick to your principles.
2. CONFIDENCE
You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????
The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.
So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.
And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.
Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.
This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.
She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.
After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.
So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.
And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.
In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.
Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!
Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.
And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.
So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.
A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.
So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.
CONVEYING SEXUALITY
How about something like sexuality?
Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.
I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than nightclubs, simply because the most attractive women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need to go there to meet guys, so if they are there, chances are they feed off of the attention are not the kinds of women who would make for great long-term girlfriend.
Of course, there ARE great girls at nightclubs, but FINDING them is like finding a needle in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard to truly dig deeper into conversation to determine character.
However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.
How can you show more sexuality with a woman you happen to see at the coffee shop or supermarket?
Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.
Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very first days that
man and woman have walked the Earth.
Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.
And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force. (Another primal
chord is triggered through MUSIC, which
is another element you can incorporate later,
when lovemaking is in the air :) )........
So, stop worrying about being called a pervert and
look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN CONTACT.
And I’m talking FAST.
The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.
When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism, where
I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.
So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.
Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.
Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorrah BLUSH.
That made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED TO
BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED GETTING
PHYSICAL, probably even MORE SO than men.
Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.
Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.
It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as you’re first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!
If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.
I used to do it all WRONG, I was so pissed
off inside, that it was all coming from a
place of ANGER. An anger that stemmed
from feeling that somehow, things should
not be this way.
I was pissed off that my preconceived notions
of how things ARE was totally OFF! I was
upset that things were NOT the way I had
previously thought they were my whole
life, as this meant I had to change my
very PICTURE of reality!
My old beliefs were that women wanted and
appreciated a really SERIOUS approach to
dating, sexuality, and relationships.
This does NOT mean that women think relationships
are a JOKE, it just means that you can't START out
with a woman if you are operating on a very serious
level, as that overly serious vibe DESTROYS the
sexual, flirty VIBES that are so important for
sparking SEXUAL ATTRACTION.
In fact, being playful actually delivers the message
that you are MORE of A MAN who is "the rock",
than a man who seems all serious right away when
talking to her, because that "SERIOUSNESS" is
interpreted by her as NEEDINESS or some other
negative issue, which is understandable once you
adopt the frame of ABUNDANCE and the perspective
of having many CHOICES of who to date---just like
these attractive women do! :)
Playfulness shows STRENGTH, that you find all
this stuff so easy, that it's FUN.
So, once I finally ACCEPTED the way things
really ARE, I came to peace with it, and
THAT'S when I could stop PRETENDING
to be playful and actually BE playful.
And the reality is, that this is healthier way
to go about the whole dating process anyway!!!
It allows you to enjoy the process, and to NOT
fall into the needy and insecure zone, which
is where all the problems start, both in terms
of destroying attraction and also in terms of
destroying your own confidence.
You are as you think and do, so if you switch
the way you think, and if you take the ACTIONS
of a secure, playful, flirty person, you BECOME
that incredible man who really IS her "rock".
And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.
Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally, the best example I can think of
that resembles the REAL LIFE way of
doing it, is “Captain Kirk”, it’s a pretty
accurate of what I mean by playful
but strong and not needing a woman’s
approval, while still liking her nonetheless.
So let me tell you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this, you
are NOT harming your chances, you are only
finding out that she is a waste of your time.
Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.
There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.
Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:
GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF
Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.
Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.
After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.
In fact, I might even say these actual words:
“What’s YOUR Story?”
This has TONS of benefits for you:
It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.
It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.
It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are
actually RELEVANT.
It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.
The less you talk, the more cool you seem, as you might remember from my discussions on how less is more, and on how using less is the sign of a true master. A true master uses only what is required for each situation, and never more.
PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself, so
NOW when you talk to her, even about yourself,
you will NOT seem like you are qualifying
yourself!!!! You really WILL impress her.
As you can see, without me being arrogant,
the reality is I know what the heck I’m
talking about.
And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
ICEBERG of TONS of EASY-TO-APPLY
strategies for ATTRACTING A WOMAN
the moment you see her, all without being
hurtful or manipulative.
In my 'WARRIOR WITHIN' program, I show you
EXACT word-for-word examples of how to go
from the MOMENT you SEE a woman anywhere,
including “normal” places like a supermarket or mall,
all the way to getting her back to your place, with her
eagerly anticipating getting physical with you.
And this is not just about how to get
some kind of promiscuous woman- NOPE,
I’m talking about the kind of woman
that is the full package, which means
that I also show you how to make a
powerful CONNECTION with her
as WELL as igniting sexual attraction
in her.
Here is just SOME of what you’ll learn
in this incredible program:
*The BEST ways of approaching women in
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*The FULL PICTURE on how to “OWN” any
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it into an ATTRACTIVE part of your identity.
*TEN powerful ways to SIMULTANEOUSLY
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This will ACCELERATE your results, which
is crucial especially in those situations where
you don’t have much TIME to speak to a woman!
*Powerful ways to increase the EROTIC nature
of your interaction with a woman so that you
can SMOOTHLY escalate to getting PHYSICAL later.
There’s nothing worse than having a series
of dates with a woman where NOTHING
physical happened, as this makes it even
MORE awkward and less likely for anything
physical to occur. You’ll never have this
problem, by using THESE strategies revealed
in this program.
*I’ll show you the best ways to get a woman
talking about herself so that you can learn the
best way to connect with her!
*How to come across as far more INTERESTING,
without the use of ANY lies- in fact, you
will hardly have to even SPEAK at all!
*You’ll even discover a great way to use
any environment you meet a woman in,
to make her feel as if you two have known
each other a long time.
*And of course, as the name of the program
implies, you will also get all my most powerful
strategies and tools for SKYROCKETING your
"Inner Game", so that your NATURAL confidence
with women rises to INFINITELY high levels.
Women, especially the quality women who are
careful about who they date, can ALWAYS tell
if a guy is just FAKING confidence, or if he is
THE REAL DEAL- and this program will show
you how to BECOME the kind of man who can
be her "rock" for REAL.
*And much, MUCH more!
I can promise you one thing: These strategies
WORK to attract the women you WANT.
I wish I knew the things that I now teach,
long ago. I could have been enjoying life
rather than being in misery and being
jealous of the guys that HAD the girl.
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The only problem you'll ever have
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woman will be so crazy about you
that a lot of her friends are
going to want you as well!!!
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I look forward to hearing your success story.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
a woman who is truly the “total package”
of being not only beautiful, but also a
great person inside as well, is conveying
to her the following VIBE:
That with you, no matter how crazy life
gets, she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.
In fact, if there was just ONE word you
could remember, when approaching women,
seeing women, trying to attract women,
etc., it would be this:
CALM.
It’s a universally powerful step toward
attracting women, for many reasons.
First of all, staying calm allows YOU yourself
to think straight, it allows you easier access
to your subconscious mind that has a ton of
humorous/intriguing/ interesting things to
say in whatever particular moment you find
yourself in with a woman.
So if she’s in the snacks aisle in the grocery
store with you, and you see her grabbing a
party-size bag of chips, and you are feeling
calm, you are more likely to instinctively
come up with something like, “I hope those
aren’t all for you!” or “That’s what I like,
a girl who isn’t afraid to enjoy life”, etc.
Plus, of course, the TONE of your voice when
calm will CONVEY that you are calm more
effectively than just about anything else, as
voice tonality says a BILLION things about
what you are feeling internally, and a woman
subconsciously registers all that in her mind
and will, in response to YOUR CALM, she
will ALSO feel calm, which is a great thing
when you want a woman talking to you.
You don’t want her to be getting more nervous,
when you as a stranger approach her, you want
her to be getting more calm.
So that’s the second thing, not only does it
help YOU say and do the right things, it also
helps CALM DOWN A WOMAN in what might
be a slightly awkward moment, but is of course
WELL WORTH IT if you do it right.
Here’s another reason being calm is so
important: The more a woman is the kind
of woman who is looking for STABILITY
and a LONG TERM HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP,
the more she is the kind of person who values
CALM WATERS, PEACE, SERENITY, rather than
CHAOS AND INSTABILITY.
A lot of the “pick up artist” approaches a few
years ago when being a “pick up artist” was
trendy in many circles, the emphasis was on
getting women from night-clubs and trying to
get one night stands. A lot of the women in
these places, and a lot of the women who are
more into promiscuity, tend to be ATTRACTED
to the CHAOS rather than the SERENITY.
This is why I said even years ago, when I created "Get A Great Girl", that if you want to attract a quality woman for a great relationship, you can't use typical pick up artist strategies, and that in fact those strategies will PUSH HER AWAY.
Like attracts like. Chaos attracts Chaos. Calm attracts Calm. Personally, my passion was for the kind of woman who would make for a great long-term relationship.
There are also, to be honest, SOME women who
are not good for long-term relationships who
ALSO seem to be attracted to men who are CALM
and who give off vibes of stability, because
these women are sometimes looking for SOMETHING
CALM to help balance off the chaotic feelings
in their mind.
But these women will quickly do EVERYTHING
in their power to destroy yours sense of calm.
Sometimes, they do this because they believe
that EVERYTHING is chaos, and they will
believe that you cannot be trusted to be the
good guy you say you are, so they TRY to
bring out the worst in you, so they can DEAL
with it now, at a time of THEIR choosing, rather
than WAIT for you to be mean to them later.
(This is what they FEEEEEL, it may have NOTHING
to do with reality.)
Also, don’t try to be a THERAPIST to a woman
who you are pursuing romantically, because
you will be setting yourself up for disappointment.
If you genuinely just want to HELP a woman,
and you truly are not pursuing her romantically,
then fine, help her all you want, if you think you
can.
By the way, I am not judging anyone here, and
I myself have had to learn how to calm down,
but in different ways, and for very different reasons,
than most of the chaotic party chicks out there.
But even with the chaotic party chicks, I’m not
blaming them for being who they are, as human
beings are so complicated and most people never
understand themselves, never mind others. This
is why I focus on SELF-DEVELOPMENT,
rather than trying to change anyone ELSE.
The REAL BUTTONS we must push are on
OURSELVES, not on WOMEN, because the
SMARTER and MORE empowered we are ourselves,
the greater positive effect we can have
on EVERYONE, including of course women,
and of course the more you can attract women,
but also the more you can quickly DETERMINE
about a woman to see if she is truly COMPATIBLE
with you on the most important levels.
Yes, physical attraction IS key, but so is
personality, and the more wise you become,
and the more you develop yourself in the ways
I teach, the more you can spot the RIGHT women,
and the more easily you can avoid the WRONG
women.
Anyway, my point is that if you are looking for
a quality woman for a great relationship without
HEAD-GAMES and endless conflict and endless
negative drama and chaos, then giving off vibes
of CALM, and actually BEING CALM become
SUPER IMPORTANT.
In general, this calm vibe tends to push AWAY the
women who will bring MISERY and DRAMA
into your life and will ATTRACT the kind of
women who will increase the genuine joy and
PEACE in your life.
A woman who is great for a long-term
relationship is investing a MASSIVE
amount of emotion and time if she
decides to pursue a life with you,
so there is a LOT at stake not
just for you, but for her as well.
She needs to know that with you,
no matter how crazy life gets, that
she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.
CALM.
ACHIEVING this goal, and being able
to convey this in SECONDS to a woman
you just met, takes some insight into
psychology, culture, and evolution.
And not the “dime store psychology” or
“pseudo-science” or other gimmicks that
unfortunately are so prevalent in our society.
Please allow me to make one thing clear:
I never started out with the goal of TEACHING
any of the things I learned about getting a
quality woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend.
I honestly did it all because I needed to
learn all this for MYSELF.
One of the most DISASTROUS steps I took
on my path to learning how to attract a truly
quality woman was that I tried to learn from
the “pick up artist” community.
I had to spend YEARS actually UNLEARNING
all the things they taught me, because those
things actually REPELLED the very BEST
kinds of women.
Those things ATTRACTED the women of CHAOS, and
REPELLED the women of SERENITY, ORDER, AND PEACE.
In case you don’t know about the pick up
artist community, there is a book called
“The Game” that really captures the overall
spirit of the “seduction community” as it was
and in many circles still is.
In the book, it’s clear that the main strategies
for getting a woman involved just about
anything BESIDES being ethical, honest and
up-front, and it's also clear that it largely
revolves around getting women into bed as QUICKLY
as possible. Women that aren't willing to
get into bed quickly are labelled as having
"psychological issues".
Regarding unethical strategies, is the
strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem
in subtle ways so that she feels LESS about
herself and now supposedly she will feel the
guy has more value than her. These ‘experts’
vow that the solution to attracting a ‘hard to get’
woman is to ‘slam’ her self-esteem.
So this involves the use of thinly veiled
insults, the “nice” name for this is
“backhanded compliments” but really
it’s just an insult. i.e. Telling a woman
she looks just like some celebrity named
x.y, or z, but the thing is that the named
celebrity is clearly NOT the most attractive.
Now, as you may know from my programs,
since day ONE I have been against these
kinds of things for about a MILLION
reasons, including the fact that this kind
of strategy not only is not NECESSARY
but in fact will BACKFIRE because it
makes a man think lower of himself,
because it reinforces in a man the feeling
that he does NOT have the value to get the
woman so he must resort to these kinds of
sleazy tactics.
And when your “INNER GAME” i.e.
the way you feel about yourself, is this
weak, it always ends up showing in tiny
little subtleties through your tonality,
expression, body language, etc. So a
woman ends up detecting a weak inner
game, and the more a guy uses these
self-esteem destroying strategies, the more a guy
will weaken his inner game.
It ALSO backfires because a woman who
is truly the total package is both emotionally
strong enough, plus intelligent enough to
not only sense that this guy has a weak
inner game, but she will ALSO detect that
this guy is DOING THIS nasty stuff to
her INTENTIONALLY, that he is knowingly
trying to lower her self-esteem!!!!
So she will REJECT the guy before he can
even finish his attack on her self-esteem.
But, a woman who is unfortunately plagued
by the CHAOS mind-set may very well BE
attracted to such a guy, because she
IS SO INSECURE that this tactic DOES
work on her.
And THAT is truly sad, and it is truly the wrong thing to do, especially to a woman who already is so plagued with issues.
But, I can see how many men are confused.
It's HARD to know, if you haven't spent
years learning this stuff, that NOT ALL
WOMEN ARE THE SAME, especially if you have
been hanging out in the SAME WRONG PLACES
all the time to meet women, so you keep
on meeting the same types of women from the
same pools of women.
It's easy to start to think that all women are the same, that all women are nasty, that all women are liars, etc. And the truth is, we are living in a crazy society that confuses a lot of women, because women are told contradictory messages by our insane society:
Women are told that they should be kissing other women and how fun and hilarious that is thanks to Katy Perry, Madonna, and Miley Cyrus, (who have talent in varying degrees but sometimes abuse their power and talent ).
Then, on the other hand, women are told they should be loyal to one man.
Then are also told to be good mothers, but then they are told they should be career women. They are told they should be "liberated" and promiscuous, but then they are told they should view sex as sacred, and to be faithful and loving, etc.
Tons of contradictory messages.
So trust me, I realize how hard it is to
be a MAN in a world where men these days
are given a very hard time by a lot of
politically correct B.S. when they just
want to meet women!
At the same time, it is ABSOLUTELY VITAL to realize there are DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN, there are still women out there who are NOT ATTRACTED TO THE CHAOS, women who DO want PEACE, women who are loyal and faithful.
Since I’ve been teaching my programs,
the entire FIELD of “dating strategies”
and “pick up artists” has been MASSIVELY
IMPACTED by what I teach.
These days, the pick up artists are using a lot less of the strategy of attacking a woman's self-esteem as a method of attracting her.
These days, there is suddenly a lot more talk
about getting a “quality girlfriend”.
Now, I am going to venture forth here
and say it, because obviously none of
these guys will, that it was ME who
brought dating strategies for getting
a great girl into the MODERN AGE
and out of the STONE AGE of pick
up artist advice that they themselves
agree was just about ALL WRONG
before!
So what I’m saying is, I have ALWAYS
been about getting a QUALITY woman.
I have NEVER been about gimmicks.
In fact, when you finish my programs,
you actually can be very UPFRONT
AND HONEST with women, because
you have become such a strong person
that you convey to her all the right things
from your tonality, expression, warmth,
and inner strength so that EVERYTHING
you do with her becomes attractive.
There are no gimmicks to use, because it's
YOU who has now become attractive,
not some "gimmick" to use on her.
I have ALWAYS been against GIMMICKS
and immature trends that come and go.
I could have easily jumped on the bandwagon
of trends if all I cared about was money.
I could have easily been a part of the
book “The Game” as I was actually
contacted about it, but I wanted nothing
to do with it then, even when the pick
up artist industry was at its ZENITH of
popularity.
That should give you an idea of just how
important the TRUTH is to me, and how
important it is to me to give you TRUTH
on how to get a quality woman.
My concepts have literally changed the
entire FIELD of dating.
To me, getting a great girl who is the total
package isn’t just “nice”.
It’s the ULTIMATE.
It’s what I have DEVOTED myself to teaching since day ONE. And I do this because I know just how IMPORTANT it is to have a quality woman at your side, and how this improves your entire LIFE.
A great woman isn’t looking to see if
you are a look-a-like of George Clooney,
Brad Pitt, or any of the guys from
“Twilight”. And she isn’t looking for
GOLD or money from you either.
She’s looking to see if you have the
INNER strength.
The bottom line is this:
If you're interested in getting dates with
typical women, that's fine. It's not my
preference, but I don't judge others.
But if you're looking for the kind of
woman that ADDS to your life, doesn't
give you "drama", and makes life a
DREAM, then you need an EDGE over
other guys, you need the kind of
training from someone who SPECIALIZES
in getting the kinds of women who would
truly make for GREAT girlfriends.
One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.
The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.
And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???
So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that I
swear to it that everything I write here is
based on REAL INTERACTIONS WITH
WOMEN FROM YEARS OF BOOTCAMPS
WITH CLIENTS AND MY OWN
EXPERIENCES AS WELL.
In other words, this is not just made up or
something I came up with off the top of
my head, it’s all based in REALITY, and
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.
First off, I totally understand that most
guys are NOT Bill Gates, not models, and
not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.
And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.
Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.
Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?
And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.
The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.
I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.
The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.
If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.
But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.
You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.
The reasons for all this are subconscious:
By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:
1. INTEGRITY
Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.
You show that you stick to your principles.
2. CONFIDENCE
You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????
The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.
So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.
And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.
Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.
This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.
She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.
After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.
So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.
And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.
In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.
Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!
Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.
And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.
So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.
A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.
So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.
CONVEYING SEXUALITY
How about something like sexuality?
Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.
I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than nightclubs, simply because the most attractive women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need to go there to meet guys, so if they are there, chances are they feed off of the attention are not the kinds of women who would make for great long-term girlfriend.
Of course, there ARE great girls at nightclubs, but FINDING them is like finding a needle in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard to truly dig deeper into conversation to determine character.
However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.
How can you show more sexuality with a woman you happen to see at the coffee shop or supermarket?
Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.
Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very first days that
man and woman have walked the Earth.
Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.
And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force. (Another primal
chord is triggered through MUSIC, which
is another element you can incorporate later,
when lovemaking is in the air :) )........
So, stop worrying about being called a pervert and
look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN CONTACT.
And I’m talking FAST.
The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.
When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism, where
I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.
So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.
Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.
Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorrah BLUSH.
That made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED TO
BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED GETTING
PHYSICAL, probably even MORE SO than men.
Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.
Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.
It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as you’re first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!
If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.
I used to do it all WRONG, I was so pissed
off inside, that it was all coming from a
place of ANGER. An anger that stemmed
from feeling that somehow, things should
not be this way.
I was pissed off that my preconceived notions
of how things ARE was totally OFF! I was
upset that things were NOT the way I had
previously thought they were my whole
life, as this meant I had to change my
very PICTURE of reality!
My old beliefs were that women wanted and
appreciated a really SERIOUS approach to
dating, sexuality, and relationships.
This does NOT mean that women think relationships
are a JOKE, it just means that you can't START out
with a woman if you are operating on a very serious
level, as that overly serious vibe DESTROYS the
sexual, flirty VIBES that are so important for
sparking SEXUAL ATTRACTION.
In fact, being playful actually delivers the message
that you are MORE of A MAN who is "the rock",
than a man who seems all serious right away when
talking to her, because that "SERIOUSNESS" is
interpreted by her as NEEDINESS or some other
negative issue, which is understandable once you
adopt the frame of ABUNDANCE and the perspective
of having many CHOICES of who to date---just like
these attractive women do! :)
Playfulness shows STRENGTH, that you find all
this stuff so easy, that it's FUN.
So, once I finally ACCEPTED the way things
really ARE, I came to peace with it, and
THAT'S when I could stop PRETENDING
to be playful and actually BE playful.
And the reality is, that this is healthier way
to go about the whole dating process anyway!!!
It allows you to enjoy the process, and to NOT
fall into the needy and insecure zone, which
is where all the problems start, both in terms
of destroying attraction and also in terms of
destroying your own confidence.
You are as you think and do, so if you switch
the way you think, and if you take the ACTIONS
of a secure, playful, flirty person, you BECOME
that incredible man who really IS her "rock".
And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.
Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally, the best example I can think of
that resembles the REAL LIFE way of
doing it, is “Captain Kirk”, it’s a pretty
accurate of what I mean by playful
but strong and not needing a woman’s
approval, while still liking her nonetheless.
So let me tell you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this, you
are NOT harming your chances, you are only
finding out that she is a waste of your time.
Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.
There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.
Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:
GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF
Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.
Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.
After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.
In fact, I might even say these actual words:
“What’s YOUR Story?”
This has TONS of benefits for you:
It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.
It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.
It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are
actually RELEVANT.
It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.
The less you talk, the more cool you seem, as you might remember from my discussions on how less is more, and on how using less is the sign of a true master. A true master uses only what is required for each situation, and never more.
PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself, so
NOW when you talk to her, even about yourself,
you will NOT seem like you are qualifying
yourself!!!! You really WILL impress her.
As you can see, without me being arrogant,
the reality is I know what the heck I’m
talking about.
And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
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And this is not just about how to get
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you don’t have much TIME to speak to a woman!
*Powerful ways to increase the EROTIC nature
of your interaction with a woman so that you
can SMOOTHLY escalate to getting PHYSICAL later.
There’s nothing worse than having a series
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*And much, MUCH more!
I can promise you one thing: These strategies
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I wish I knew the things that I now teach,
long ago. I could have been enjoying life
rather than being in misery and being
jealous of the guys that HAD the girl.
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The only problem you'll ever have
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woman will be so crazy about you
that a lot of her friends are
going to want you as well!!!
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I look forward to hearing your success story.
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Friday, July 5, 2013
Do You Want A "Serious Relationship" With A Woman? If You Do, READ THIS NOW.
If you are the kind of man who is serious
about finding a woman who is loyal, not
promiscuous, who has the highest standards
of fidelity, who is truly loving, who is
not just into the superficial or into money,
you can start to really feel like things are
HOPELESS quite easily.
Take a quick look around and you know what
I mean.
Well, I want to help you see REALITY, which
is a little better than you might think.
It's certainly not all sunshine and rainbows,
to quote Rocky, but it's not all Sodom and
Gomorrah either.
Here's what I mean:
The truth is, when it comes to personalities,
people, both men and women, tend to fall into
DIFFERENT categories.
And not everyone is MOTIVATED by love.
Sure, just about every straight woman WANTS a
man to love her, and just about every straight
man WANTS a woman to love him, there are different
DEGREES to how IMPORTANT this is to each individual.
NOT KNOWING THIS CAUSES ALL SORTS OF TERRIBLE PROBLEMS.
So, for example, if you meet a woman, and she likes
you, and you like her, you might think all is great.
But then, pretty soon, you might start finding that
you are feeling she is not treating you the way
you thought she would, because when she told you
she liked you, or loved you, or was attracted
to you, you interpreted those words to mean
what YOU think those words mean to YOU.
But it's very possible a woman might be attracted
to you, but have a very different set of NEEDS
than you when it comes to relationships, and
more importantly, when it comes to what
MOTIVATES her in life.
People tend to give others what they themselves
appreciate, because often they don't even realize
that anyone else can BE different from them.
It is important not to make value judgements here
and to simply just see things for what they ARE.
So a woman who doesn't really need a really close
intimate relationship, but who DOES need a lot of
adventure, who is paired up with a man who DOES
want and need a really intimate relationship,
is not going to be happy for long.
Sure, she will enjoy the loyalty stuff, but not
so much that it's worth the cost of her having to
give back the same level of loyalty and seriousness.
This is not even so much a man woman thing as it is
a HUMAN thing.
People are different, and so it is important that
as a man you find a woman who SHARES the same
NEEDS as you to a large extent. You don't have
to be carbon copies of each other and that would
not even be fun or good, but you do have to share
CORE needs, so that you can passionately connect
to each other.
When you yourself really NEED something relationship wise,
you are PASSIONATE about it, you can understand it,
you can really RELATE, you can GIVE it.
When you yourself don't really need that thing, then
you can never be as passionate about that thing.
So you can't train a woman to give you what you need,
she has to NEED it herself, if you want her to be
PASSIONATE about it.
Are there exceptions to this rule? Yes, but I'm
trying to make life easy for you instead of you
having to reinvent the wheel.
You must date TONS OF WOMEN and find the women who
SHARE your PARTICULAR sense of what is a NEED
and not just a "nice" thing.
And if you want to date tons of women, you
better learn how to APPROACH tons of women
in the most effective way possible.
Life doesn't meet you half-way, to paraphrase
another line from a Stallone movie (Over the Top).
You want to meet the right woman? Then get out
there and meet TONS of women, and find the one
who is RIGHT FOR YOU.
And I can think of no better way for you to get
STARTED on that than by downloading my program
called ACING THE APPROACH, at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
about finding a woman who is loyal, not
promiscuous, who has the highest standards
of fidelity, who is truly loving, who is
not just into the superficial or into money,
you can start to really feel like things are
HOPELESS quite easily.
Take a quick look around and you know what
I mean.
Well, I want to help you see REALITY, which
is a little better than you might think.
It's certainly not all sunshine and rainbows,
to quote Rocky, but it's not all Sodom and
Gomorrah either.
Here's what I mean:
The truth is, when it comes to personalities,
people, both men and women, tend to fall into
DIFFERENT categories.
And not everyone is MOTIVATED by love.
Sure, just about every straight woman WANTS a
man to love her, and just about every straight
man WANTS a woman to love him, there are different
DEGREES to how IMPORTANT this is to each individual.
NOT KNOWING THIS CAUSES ALL SORTS OF TERRIBLE PROBLEMS.
So, for example, if you meet a woman, and she likes
you, and you like her, you might think all is great.
But then, pretty soon, you might start finding that
you are feeling she is not treating you the way
you thought she would, because when she told you
she liked you, or loved you, or was attracted
to you, you interpreted those words to mean
what YOU think those words mean to YOU.
But it's very possible a woman might be attracted
to you, but have a very different set of NEEDS
than you when it comes to relationships, and
more importantly, when it comes to what
MOTIVATES her in life.
People tend to give others what they themselves
appreciate, because often they don't even realize
that anyone else can BE different from them.
It is important not to make value judgements here
and to simply just see things for what they ARE.
So a woman who doesn't really need a really close
intimate relationship, but who DOES need a lot of
adventure, who is paired up with a man who DOES
want and need a really intimate relationship,
is not going to be happy for long.
Sure, she will enjoy the loyalty stuff, but not
so much that it's worth the cost of her having to
give back the same level of loyalty and seriousness.
This is not even so much a man woman thing as it is
a HUMAN thing.
People are different, and so it is important that
as a man you find a woman who SHARES the same
NEEDS as you to a large extent. You don't have
to be carbon copies of each other and that would
not even be fun or good, but you do have to share
CORE needs, so that you can passionately connect
to each other.
When you yourself really NEED something relationship wise,
you are PASSIONATE about it, you can understand it,
you can really RELATE, you can GIVE it.
When you yourself don't really need that thing, then
you can never be as passionate about that thing.
So you can't train a woman to give you what you need,
she has to NEED it herself, if you want her to be
PASSIONATE about it.
Are there exceptions to this rule? Yes, but I'm
trying to make life easy for you instead of you
having to reinvent the wheel.
You must date TONS OF WOMEN and find the women who
SHARE your PARTICULAR sense of what is a NEED
and not just a "nice" thing.
And if you want to date tons of women, you
better learn how to APPROACH tons of women
in the most effective way possible.
Life doesn't meet you half-way, to paraphrase
another line from a Stallone movie (Over the Top).
You want to meet the right woman? Then get out
there and meet TONS of women, and find the one
who is RIGHT FOR YOU.
And I can think of no better way for you to get
STARTED on that than by downloading my program
called ACING THE APPROACH, at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/acing-the-approach.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Actions For Getting The RIGHT Woman
This is going to be one of the most important
articles I have ever written on getting the
RIGHT woman. The article is comprised of
two very DIFFERENT yet VITAL aspects to
getting a quality woman.
The first part deals with how to properly
SCREEN a woman for the right values for
a great long-term relationship. The second
part deals with how to actually best approach
a woman who is a total stranger no matter
WHERE you see her or find her.
So, let’s get to the SCREENING part first,
because it is the only way to prevent wasting
years of your life on the wrong women who
will bring you misery, heartache, and who
may even drain you financially.
Now, remember, this is all about getting a
GREAT woman, a woman who is the kind
of woman who you can TRUST, who will
be there through hell and high water, who
will truly last the test of time, a woman who
is strong in her noble convictions and who
is a positive person and who is also wise and
not naïve.
And to find THIS kind of woman, you need to realize one thing: THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT GOING TO BE THE RIGHT ONES!
If you don’t believe me, just check out the
dating profiles of ANY random sampling
of 10, 20, 100, or even a THOUSAND
profiles of women on any internet dating
site.
I don’t even emphasize internet dating, I prefer
to approach women in real life, but still to just
get an idea of what is going on in the minds
of most women (and trust me, many men are
misguided as well) all you have to do is
see what women say about THEMSELVES
in their dating profiles.
They say things like “I like travelling and going out to
great restaurants. I LOVE funny movies and I have a
great sense of humor.
I am a wonderful/nice/great
person.”
And of course, if you look at what women are LOOKING
for in a guy, you will see SIMILAR things, such as
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys
“I’m looking for a guy who likes to travel, who enjoys
going out to restaurants, and who has a great sense of
humor.”
These things are so ARBITRARY and not truly VITAL
to relationships, these women may as well say that what
they are really looking for a guy in a relationship is for
him
to be able to stand on one foot while reciting the national
anthem backwards and wearing a polka-dot tutu.
WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????
Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT
WHAT THE *----* ??????????????????????
Remember, this is what women think is IMPORTANT
to tell men. Women
think THIS is what makes a woman
a great woman to date, to get into a relationship with,
to possibly consider as great girlfriend material, and
possibly WIFE material.
The freaking truth, though, is that if you are in a
RELATIONSHIP with someone, then aside from
physical chemistry,
the BIGGEST thing that matters
is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE
TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!
After all, a relationship is not a one-night stand. It is
a RELATIONSHIP. That
means you RELATE to
each other, you CONNECT on a regular basis.
If you get into a SERIOUS relationship, you might
even be moving in together. And of course, if you
get married you will interact a LOT with each other.
That is, if BOTH PEOPLE in the relationship KNOW
how to do relationships RIGHT. The truth is, most
relationships are headed toward DISINTEGRATION
because one or both parties are IGNORANT of how
to do relationships right, and most relationships will
end and ironically they will not be relating to each
other for very long.
So, back to the main point, which I need to repeat:
The BIGGEST thing that matters in relationships is how this person TREATS YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!
Instead of women looking for arbitrary qualities in men,
and instead of women trying to impress men by listing
the arbitrary qualities the women have, qualities that
have nothing to do with relationships, women SHOULD
be describing what DOES matter. (Men, of course, should
also be focusing on what DOES matter.)
A woman should go on to GREAT lengths to describe
the level of DEDICATION that she will give to the right
MAN in her life.
Women should describe in PAINSTAKING DETAIL
just how LOYAL they will be.
They should pour their heart out and write for DAYS
about their ability to LISTEN and to make you feel
UNDERSTOOD.
They should write POETRY on how intense their
love for you and your future family will be, and on
how that will be their greatest priority.
WHO GIVES A FLYING F--- ABOUT THE FACT THEY LIKE TO EAT IN RESTAURANTS AND TRAVEL?
Doesn’t EVERYBODY like these things?
It all boils down to one thing: Selfishness, which ironically, ROBS them of the joy of having ANY long-lasting love in their lives, thereby keeping their lives empty, thereby reinforcing MORE of the need for temporary distractions.
Don’t get me wrong. I
think a sense of humor is great. Restaurants, and travelling, all cool stuff. You just don’t need a RELATIONSHIP for that stuff.
What these women are saying, in effect, is that they
think THEY are the only things that are really important,
and also they are even saying that the MAIN thing in a guy
is his ability to participate in these NON-PARTICULARLY
RELATIONSHIP TYPE activities, such as traveling,
going out to dinner, and joking around.
But alas, the story does not end there. All you need to do is check out the dating profiles of women who have BABIES or small KIDS at home and who were also previously married and are now divorced.
What do you know? For some odd reason,
the profiles of THESE women tend to
(not always, but MOST of the time) be
VERY DIFFERENT.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
You will notice that these women seem to understand the importance of things like COMMITMENT, LOYALTY, and suddenly they are not so concerned about whether you are into travelling and restaurants and could really care less if you happen to be particularly funny or not.
You will suddenly see terms like KINDNESS
appearing with greater frequency.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
How INTERESTING.
So, basically, once women have been through the ringer, they find out that choosing a man based on STUPID REASONS does not work well, and they suddenly start to choose men based on criteria relevant to EVERY SINGLE DAY OF EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP!!!!
So, what I am SAYING here is that you need to STOP following the MASSES. You need to REALIZE what to look for in a woman.
And once you really KNOW what you are looking
for, it becomes EASIER to know if a woman is
right or not. She
will tell you ALL YOU NEED
TO KNOW ABOUT HER in just a few MINUTES,
because most women think they are actually on the
RIGHT path, so they feel they have nothing to hide!
So just let a woman wax on to you how she is really
into concerts, into restaurants, into traveling, and
if she never gets into how she is going to treat the
MAN in her life, then FORGET HER.
People tend to SPEAK about what is on their MINDS.
So if a woman isn’t REALLY looking for a man for
all the RIGHT reasons, you will KNOW from the
way she is talking and what she is talking about.
If a woman IS in the right head-space for a relationship,
if she DOES know what is important, if she really
CARES about the right things in a relationship,
if she really WANTS to
give and to get the right
dedication, kindness, loyalty, and wisdom, then
she will MAKE IT CLEAR through her words
AND her actions.
If she IS NOT DOING THIS, then DUMP HER,
AND DUMP HER FAST.
Your life is precious, you don’t get ONE second
back of it, EVER. Don’t
WASTE it on the
wrong women.
And if you happen to be WEALTHY, this is
even MORE important for you, as some women
will try harder to figure out what it is YOU care
about in order to try to make it seem like they
would be a good match for you when they really
are NOT.
You have to be careful not to FOOL yourself into
thinking this woman is SINCERELY dedicated
if she is NOT. ACTIONS
speak louder than words,
and CONSISTENCY is key. See if she is REALLY
consistent in her words and actions over the span
of TIME. And try to
HIDE THE FACT that you
have wealth. Don’t
act like a beggar, but don’t
try to get women through flaunting your wealth,
or you are REALLY going to make your life
difficult because you are going to invite the
greatest actresses of all time into your life and
I don’t mean that in a good way.
Don’t let wishful thinking fool you.
Remember, this company is called Get A GREAT Girl.
It isn’t called GET ALL THE GIRLS.
You are going to have to SCREEN like crazy.
Now, I want to make it CLEAR that I
am not telling guys to be so negative that
they don’t take POSITIVE action, as you
MUST get out there and in fact you may
have to meet even MORE women than
guys who are just looking for one-night
stands because you are looking for the
RIGHT traits that are harder to find.
And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.
Here’s what you do:
And I’d like to give you a GREAT method for how to approach women without relying on pick-up lines or anything else artificial.
Here’s what you do:
You FOCUS your attention on the woman you
are about to chat up. You OBSERVE her with
SHERLOCK HOLMES level observation skills.
I mean this figuratively, to say that you really
focus on observing her to your best ability,
and then you SAY something about what
you have observed.
The key is to try to find something that is not too easy for EVERYONE to see right away. So if she is
wearing a bright red hat, that’s a little too obvious to comment on, but even THAT is okay for STARTING the conversation.
Then, you wait to see if she RESPONDS with anything as a reply to you.
The greater your INITIAL observation, the
greater the chance she WILL respond, and
not only will she respond, but she will respond
with a great deal of CONTENT as her reply.
You then OBSERVE AND LISTEN TO HER REPLY super-keenly, and you focus on what you can DEDUCE from what she is saying, ESPECIALLY if you can deduce something about HER, thereby setting things up for her NEXT RICH REPLY to you, setting up a fantastic cycle for you.
Now, if you do this RIGHT, she will actually START TO OBSERVE THINGS ABOUT YOU.
Women are BETTER at this stuff than most
men, so they will APPRECIATE what you
are doing and do the same back for you,
giving HER a chance to also learn about you.
So for example, even if you remarked on her choice of magazine she is reading, and you said, “I can see you enjoy photography”, (or architecture, or poetry, or WHATEVER the magazine is about, i.e. fashion) she might say back to you something like, “Yeah, I’m thinking of getting a new camera”, to which you might reply, “So you already have a camera, but your skill has taken you to a higher level of camera”, etc, etc.
It’s about LISTENING, and it’s about FOCUS.
Women are GREAT at sizing up your
communication skills, and this will
make a GREAT impression, plus of course
it actually DOES allow you to create a
smooth flowing conversation.
After a few minutes of this, you are already
way past the stranger barrier, and just go
into “normal” conversation, so long as you
keep it chilled out, interesting and positive.
So, as you can see, I care about BOTH ends of the SPECTRUM: I care about making sure you know how to SCREEN for the RIGHT woman, and I also care about making sure you get the SKILL to actually MEET these women and make the best impression in the first place.
I suggest you take a BOOTCAMP with me where
you will get the skills to meet LOTS of women and
make the best impressions immediately, and where
you will also learn how to SCREEN women quickly.
Bootcamp is at:
I also have an entire ARMY of programs at your
disposal, and each and EVERY single one of them
is IMPORTANT. I’m not
here to make you panic,
BUT I can promise you these programs contain
PURE GOLD for getting SUCCESS with women.
If there are any of these programs that you don’t
own yet, this is the time to get them. Every second
you waste is a second that never comes back.
I personally wish I had learned all these things that
I now teach when I was back in HIGH SCHOOL,
but I’m still super thankful that I finally learned
them years later.
Get these skills and vital insights NOW by getting
these programs IMMEDIATELY.
They’re at:
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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