How To Get A Woman To CHASE You

If you get a woman to chase you, you know
she's attracted to you.

On the other hand, if you start to chase HER,
you usually tend to LOSE the woman, as she
loses the attraction she felt for you.

The question though, a question I spent YEARS
figuring out the hard way, is:

How do you START a conversation with a woman
WITHOUT making it obvious that you are “chasing her”?

After all, the fact you started talking to her
makes it clear you have at least some interest
in her!

Well, some people like to think the answer is
to give women a series of backhanded
compliments, which is really a series of subtle
insults.

For example, the guy will say something
nice to the woman, like “nice smile” and then say
something like “but you have weird hair” or
whatever other insult they could come up with.

The idea behind all this, is that this way supposedly
you don’t validate her, so now she will pursue you in
her quest to get validated.

Unfortunately, this is NOT ENOUGH, for the simple
reason that a woman has to feel some ATTRACTION
to begin with, before she will care about whether you
are validating her or not.

So the REAL ANSWER to, “How do I approach
a woman without making it seem that I am chasing her?”
is to get her MESMERIZED with you as fast
as possible so that she stops THINKING about
the fact you approached her, and is instead more
more concerned with her OWN interest in YOU
and how to ensure that she gets YOU!

If you do a GOOD JOB at the approach, then, 
in her mind, the fact you approached her
only means that you are CONSIDERING her,
not necessarily CHASING her.

Now, at that point, of course you can lean back and
chill out and let her chase you.

If she's attractive, you can be sure she will
enjoy chasing you, (don't go overboard, and
don't get abusive, ever, of course).

So, instead of looking at value from a negative standpoint,
and giving women insults and then hoping they
will want to get validated by you, the best way to
go is to actually CONVEY REAL VALUE –
so that she WANTS to chase you.

By “real value” I mean getting her FEELING
A SERIES OF INTOXICATING EMOTIONS
THAT GET HER HEART PUMPING.

From a chemistry/romance/attraction point of view,
that’s the highest form of value you can give a woman.

In fact, women will become ADDICTED to you
if you can do this, because emotions are addictive,
and the more you can give her, the more she will
become obsessed with you.

This is when a woman doesn't just want you,
but wants you BAD!

As the song goes, she will call you on the phone, and tell you
it's URGENT that you meet her right now:


So now, I’m going to give you some of the WAYS
to convey value and attract her, all of which have
nothing to do with harming her self-esteem or
any other negative stuff.

ONE: THE PARTY IS WITH YOU

This was one of the first “holy *sh%!” moments
for me when I discovered this. Basically, what this is,
is that you adopt the mentality that there IS
a party going on, a GREAT PARTY in fact, and
that you are the CENTER of this party!

And you do this no matter what the heck is
“really” going on- you behave like everyone
around you is VISITING this party or has
just arrived.

And, you behave as if they are all super-friendly
and admirers of you- wishing that you would chat
them up too, in addition to all the other cool people
who you were chatting to before them.

This means ANYWHERE you are, you now
have the LICENSE to do all kinds of fun
playful and even risqué stuff, because it’s
all perfectly fine in the name of the PARTY.

You could get away with more sexual comments,
you could make fun of anything, you could make
any joke, you could SAY anything, if you are really
FEEELING THIS PARTY VIBE.

The key to making this work, is to not even
leave your ROOM or the house or building
until you have gotten yourself into this PARTY
state of mind.

You need to do whatever it takes to get the
PARTY inspiration, but don’t use alcohol
or drugs obviously as that is not only not
healthy but will screw up your performance –
so I suggest you listen to PARTY MUSIC
that you love instead.

The other thing to making this work is that
you have to anticipate BEFOREHAND that
you might meet a woman ANYWHERE
and so this way you are READY for the
moment when the moment comes- whether
it be in the coffee shop, bookstore, elevator,
bus, or school, ANYWHERE.

You have to be ready BEFORE it happens,
not just when it happens, or it’s too late.

Say you’re getting off the elevator and a
gorgeous creature happens to be right in
front of you- you can do something like this:

Give her this look, up and down, and
DON’T DO IT WITH SHAME, do it
like a MAN, and then give her a bit of
a nod, as if you’ve just given her your
stamp that she qualifies, and you could
even say “the party is this way” and
gesture toward where you’re going,
or you could even say "The party is
HERE!" and point to yourself.

Again, this stuff requires you to be
in FULL party state, the reason it works
is because since YOU are in that state
and showing it, it makes it EASY for her
to join this state as well, because the reality
is that EVERYONE wants to be having
MORE FUN, no one wants to get more
depressed and formal and official, and
here you are having a great time ALREADY
and just inviting her to playfully join.

Again, the key is that you are ALREADY
in this state of mind BEFORE you meet her,
so this way she gets to actually feel MORE
comfortable to join your “party” since she
doesn’t have to feel it’s all about HER,
rather it’s about the chance to FEEL GOOD.

And guess what?
If a woman is feeling good and sexual around
you, and the other guys in her life are boring her,
guess who she’s going to BE with?

YOU.

This feeling GOOD stuff is so powerful, and
yet 99% of people prevent themselves from
feeling this by getting caught up in all kinds
of negative emotions.

Make yourself the one guy on earth who IS
her drug, the source of feeling intoxicatingly
awesome.

And the irony is that you will do this best by
NOT doing it for HER, but by already being
in this state BEFORE you bump into her.

Yeah, I know you might say it's the same
thing because you are doing it for her, but
once you do this, you will actually FEEL
way more awesome anyway, and you
really WON'T be doing it just for her!

This is why so many of the most beautiful
women in real life are with men who have
a LIFESTYLE that is compelling/fun/intriguing.

By LIFESTYLE, I mean they way they live
their lives from day to day, how much of that
time is spent feeling awesome emotions
compared to boring ones or negative ones.

You don’t have to be in this state 24/7, but you
definitely want to be in this state if you are out
trying to meet and attract women.

TWO: CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE

Clothing is something we all have to wear most
of the time – and it covers us from almost head
to toe- it’s LIKE AN ADVERTISING BILLBOARD,
but the “ad” that most guys are wearing is saying:

“I’m boring and not social and not looking to
have any fun, ever.”

So you should definitely be pushing the envelope
to find clothing that has STYLE, and that reflects
some of your OWN personality as well- whether
it’s leather with some shiny metallic on it,
whether it’s an unusual but cool denim,
you want to be STANDING OUT and not
wearing the thing that makes you blend in
as one of a billion other guys.

This is a huge topic in itself, but the key
is to remember that no matter what your
environment, whether it’s work or a club
or a party, you can always find the thing
that you can get away with that pushes
the envelope without being ridiculous
in each environment.

Another thing to remember is that most guys
tend to avoid upbeat colors, and it’s a good idea
to incorporate some more color, even if it’s just
a BIT of bright color to offset what is mostly
dark colors.

This was the hardest thing for me to do at first,
because I actually felt so gloomy and angry, I
liked dressing more like Batman, all brooding,
so it took a while for me to have some more range
with some color as well.

No one is saying you have to wear pink and yellow,
or look “gay”, there are a lot of other options besides
that.

You may want to ask the most attractive female
clerk at the clothing store for her help, and while
you’re at it, go for her number as well.

THREE: USE YOUR VOICE

Start things off RIGHT.

When you initially say the first WORD (and after
as well, but especially when you start, to get her
attention the first time) to a woman who is a total
stranger, it’s important that you don’t come across
as weak or without conviction in your decision to
talk to her.

Say it with FULL AUTHORITY in your voice,
whether it’s “Hi” or “Hey” or “I’m on my way to
the King Tut exhibit at the museum”, say it with
TOTAL AUTHORITY, and this way she won’t
question WHY you are talking to her and it will
also get her attention in a receptive way, so that
now you can actually get into the more juicy fun
or interesting stuff you were going to talk about
to her.

FOUR: THE WAY IT BEGINS IS THE WAY IT ENDS

Now, it’s important to realize regarding the above
things, that whatever you do in the beginning will
set up the DYNAMIC of how things will go till the
END.

If you set up the dynamic as highly sexual but without
any deeper connection going on, then your relationship
will likely become sexual but then explode and self-destruct
quickly.

If you tease a woman too much, she will end up
teasing you back hardcore as well, and this might
get out of hand and become annoying after a while.

If you keep the dynamic too “anti-septic” and safe
and free of sexual vibe, you will end up as friends only,
and you don’t want that.

If you play games too much in the beginning, the relationship
will end as a result of these games as well.

So you must strike the right BALANCE in your
interactions with women, and you must do this
right especially at the BEGINNING, so that
things are established immediately and flow
in the direction you want.

What you have read is just the tip of the
iceberg of ALL the things you can do to increase
your actual ATTRACTIVE POWER,  and if you
would like to get the FULL PICTURE, I suggest
you get my ATTRACTION MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program will show you in full detail
the MASTERY level for APPROACHING
WOMEN ANYWHERE and triggering
INTENSE ATTRACTION in women.

This program is a WORK-HORSE- for
TEN YEARS NOW, this program CONTINUES
to help men AROUND THE WORLD actually
GET the women they WANT.

And all in a way that involves ZERO manipulation.

There is no price you can put on the feeling of
having the woman you want, in your arms, in
your bed, in your LIFE.

Get this program NOW, at:     

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my book,
Get A Great Girl, do that now at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

This book will show you the way to get
a GREAT GIRLFRIEND for a LONG TERM relationship.

Most men out there would like to find
that one incredible woman and have a
fantastic relationship with her, and
this is definitely the book for that.

And if you are JUST STARTING out with
dating, then IMMEDIATELY download my
book, The Dating Wizard, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book is your FOUNDATION for success with women. 
It’s packed with dozens of PROVEN strategies for meeting 
and attracting women immediately.   

Till next time,

Michael Marks

What PUA Won't Tell You, And What You MUST KNOW If You Want A Great Girlfriend

If you want to get a GREAT GIRLFRIEND, then you can thank your lucky stars, because this is one place on the net that won't give you INSANELY BAD ADVICE, and instead will actually give you CRUCIAL insights for getting a fantastic woman.

The first thing to keep in mind is that a woman who is seriously looking for a real relationship, and who is a wise woman, understands just how much is at stake emotionally in a committed and exclusive relationship.

That means she is investing A LOT of her emotions, time, and energy, and of course she is hoping it will be amazing and worth it.  

When there is a LOT at stake with another person, people need to develop a CONNECTION to that person first before proceeding, and that connection takes TIME.

This applies to ALL human relationships, and it's ALL THE MORE TRUE when it comes to the most INTIMATE relationship of them all.  

This is TOTALLY DIFFERENT than the low-level connection of, "Hey we both are human and have a sex drive-let's mate!" level of connection that is sufficient for many women (and men) who are promiscuous, inebriated, and/or high on pot.

This kind of deeper level connection is simply NOT WORTH THE TIME or ENERGY of those who are obsessed with promiscuity and getting physical fast. 

And to a man who has no idea about the differences between women (a distinction that most PUAs try to pretend DOES NOT EXIST--that all women are exactly the same, that all women are promiscuous, etc.) it doesn't look as flashy as a YOUTUBE video with some guy making out with a woman really quickly, or getting her into bed quickly, etc. (Even if the video is fake!)

But make no mistake about it- if you want a great girlfriend for a real relationship, CONNECTION is vital.

This is just one of the many things I teach, in person and through my programs.

Now, don't get me wrong- you ALSO have to be a cool guy, which is a topic that I address in this video right here, along with a TON of other ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL ADVICE if you want success in approaching and attracting and keeping a GREAT girlfriend:



In addition to the important video above, I want to go further into the whole concept of women TESTING men, and how these tests are all about women wanting to make sure you ARE indeed emotionally secure.  

You'll learn how to pass these tests, and why it's so important that you do, and why women will SKYROCKET their attraction for you if you pass these tests.

 

Finally, I want to give you yet ANOTHER video on the importance of something known as sex-transmutation, a concept coined by Napoleon Hill.

This is a VITAL concept for men to understand, and it also is EXTREMELY relevant for any guys who have been misled to believe that somehow the speed at which a woman has sex with a man is indicative of her attraction to him, or that the more women a guy gets into bed, the more "skilled" he is at attracting women.

You will learn how chasing women wildly is destructive to you achieving your full potential in ALL areas of your life- which could actually HINDER your success with ALL women, and is yet ANOTHER reason why you should focus on getting a GREAT woman instead of falling into the trap that most men fall into. 



If you want the ULTIMATE training in how to meet, attract, and keep a fantastic woman, then take my BOOTCAMP program at: 

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Or visit my web page at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Get A Woman To Chase You

If you get a woman to chase you, you know
she's attracted to you.

On the other hand, if you start to chase HER,
you usually tend to LOSE the woman, as she
loses the attraction she felt for you.

The question though, a question I spent YEARS
figuring out the hard way, is:

How do you START a conversation with a woman
WITHOUT making it obvious that you are “chasing her”?

After all, the fact you started talking to her
makes it clear you have at least some interest
in her.

Well, some people like to think the answer is
to give women a series of backhanded
compliments, which is really a series of subtle
insults.

For example, the guy will say something
nice to the woman, like “nice smile” and then say
something like “but you have weird hair” or
whatever other insult they could come up with.

The idea behind all this, is that this way supposedly
you don’t validate her, so now she will pursue you in
her quest to get validated.

Unfortunately, this is NOT ENOUGH, for the simple
reason that a woman has to feel some ATTRACTION
to begin with, before she will care about whether you
are validating her or not.

So the REAL ANSWER to, “How do I approach
a woman without making it seem that I am chasing her?”
is to get her MESMERIZED with you as fast
as possible so that she stops THINKING about
the fact you approached her, and is instead more
more concerned with her OWN interest in YOU
and how to ensure that she gets YOU!

In her mind, the fact you approached her
only means that you are CONSIDERING her,
not necessarily CHASING her.

Now, at that point, of course you can lean back and
chill out and let her chase you.

If she's attractive, you can be sure she will
enjoy chasing you, (don't go overboard, and
don't get abusive, ever, of course) since she
usually gets things too easily and that bores her.

So, instead of looking at value from a negative standpoint,
and giving women insults and then hoping they
will want to get validated by you, the best way to
go is to actually CONVEY REAL VALUE –
so that she WANTS to chase you.

By “real value” I mean getting her FEELING
A SERIES OF INTOXICATING EMOTIONS
THAT GET HER HEART PUMPING.

From a chemistry/romance/attraction point of view,
that’s the highest form of value you can give a woman.
In fact, women will become ADDICTED to you
if you can do this, because emotions are addictive,
and the more you can give her, the more she will
become obsessed with you.

This is when a woman doesn't just want you,
but wants you BAD!

As the rock group "Foreigner" said, she will
call you on the phone and tell you it's URGENT
that you meet her right now:


   
So now, I’m going to give you some of the WAYS
to convey value and attract her, all of which have
nothing to do with harming her self-esteem or
any other negative stuff.

ONE: THE PARTY IS WITH YOU

This was one of the first “holy *&^%” moments
when I discovered this. Basically, what this is,
is that you adopt the mentality that there IS
a party going on, a GREAT PARTY in fact, and
that you are the CENTER of this party!

And you do this no matter what the heck is
“really” going on- you behave like everyone
around you is VISITING this party or has
just arrived.

And, you behave as if they are all super-friendly
and admirers of you- wishing that you would chat
them up too, in addition to all the other cool people
who you were chatting to before them.

This means ANYWHERE you are, you now
have the LICENSE to do all kinds of fun
playful and even risqué stuff, because it’s
all perfectly fine in the name of the PARTY.

You could get away with more sexual comments,
you could make fun of anything, you could make
any joke, you could SAY anything, if you are really
FEEELING THIS PARTY VIBE.

The key to making this work, is to not even
leave your ROOM or the house or building
until you have gotten yourself into this PARTY
state of mind.

You need to do whatever it takes to get the
PARTY inspiration, but don’t use alcohol
or drugs obviously as that is not only not
healthy but will screw up your performance –
so I suggest you listen to PARTY MUSIC
that you love instead.

The other thing to making this work is that
you have to anticipate BEFOREHAND that
you might meet a woman ANYWHERE
and so this way you are READY for the
moment when the moment comes- whether
it be in the coffee shop, bookstore, elevator,
bus, or school, ANYWHERE.

You have to be ready BEFORE it happens,
not just when it happens, or it’s too late.

Say you’re getting off the elevator and a
gorgeous creature happens to be right in
front of you- you can do something like this:

Give her this look, up and down, and
DON’T DO IT WITH SHAME, do it
like a MAN, and then give her a bit of
a nod, as if you’ve just given her your
stamp that she qualifies, and you could
even say “the party is this way” and
gesture toward where you’re going,
or you could even say "The party is
HERE!" and point to yourself.

Again, this stuff requires you to be
in FULL party state, the reason it works
is because since YOU are in that state
and showing it, it makes it EASY for her
to join this state as well, because the reality
is that EVERYONE wants to be having
MORE FUN, no one wants to get more
depressed and formal and official, and
here you are having a great time ALREADY
and just inviting her to playfully join.

Again, the key is that you are ALREADY
in this state of mind BEFORE you meet her,
so this way she gets to actually feel MORE
comfortable to join your “party” since she
doesn’t have to feel it’s all about HER,
rather it’s about the chance to FEEL GOOD.

And guess what?
If a woman is feeling good and sexual around
you, and the other guys in her life are boring her,
guess who she’s going to BE with?

YOU.

This feeling GOOD stuff is so powerful, and
yet 99% of people prevent themselves from
feeling this by getting caught up in all kinds
of negative emotions.

Make yourself the one guy on earth who IS
her drug, the source of feeling intoxicatingly
awesome.

And the irony is that you will do this best by
NOT doing it for HER, but by already being
in this state BEFORE you bump into her.

Yeah, I know you might say it's the same
thing because you are doing it for her, but
once you do this, you will actually FEEL
way more awesome anyway, and you
really WON'T be doing it just for her!

This is why so many of the most beautiful
women in real life are with men who have
a LIFESTYLE that is compelling/fun/intriguing.
By LIFESTYLE, I mean they way they live
their lives from day to day, how much of that
time is spent feeling awesome emotions
compared to boring ones or negative ones.

You don’t have to be in this state 24/7, but you
definitely want to be in this state if you are out
trying to meet and attract women.

TWO: CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE

Clothing is something we all have to wear most
of the time – and it covers us from almost head
to toe- it’s LIKE AN ADVERTISING BILLBOARD,
but the “ad” that most guys are wearing is saying:

“I’m boring and not social and not looking to
have any fun, ever.”

So you should definitely be pushing the envelope
to find clothing that has STYLE, and that reflects
some of your OWN personality as well- whether
it’s leather with some shiny metallic on it,
whether it’s an unusual but cool denim,
you want to be STANDING OUT and not
wearing the thing that makes you blend in
as one of a billion other guys.

This is a huge topic in itself, but the key
is to remember that no matter what your
environment, whether it’s work or a club
or a party, you can always find the thing
that you can get away with that pushes
the envelope without being ridiculous
in each environment.

Another thing to remember is that most guys
tend to avoid upbeat colors, and it’s a good idea
to incorporate some more color, even if it’s just
a BIT of bright color to offset what is mostly
dark colors.

This was the hardest thing for me to do at first,
because I actually felt so gloomy and angry, I
liked dressing more like Batman, all brooding,
so it took a while for me to have some more range
with some color as well.

No one is saying you have to wear pink and yellow,
or look “gay”, there are a lot of other options besides
that.

You may want to ask the most attractive female
clerk at the clothing store for her help, and while
you’re at it, go for her number as well.

THREE: USE YOUR VOICE

Start things off RIGHT.

When you initially say the first WORD (and after
as well, but especially when you start, to get her
attention the first time) to a woman who is a total
stranger, it’s important that you don’t come across
as weak or without conviction in your decision to
talk to her.

Say it with FULL AUTHORITY in your voice,
whether it’s “Hi” or “Hey” or “I’m on my way to
the King Tut exhibit at the museum”, say it with
TOTAL AUTHORITY, and this way she won’t
question WHY you are talking to her and it will
also get her attention in a receptive way, so that
now you can actually get into the more juicy fun
or interesting stuff you were going to talk about
to her.

FOUR: THE WAY IT BEGINS IS THE WAY IT ENDS

Now, it’s important to realize regarding the above
things, that whatever you do in the beginning will
set up the DYNAMIC of how things will go till the
END.

If you set up the dynamic as highly sexual but without
any deeper connection going on, then your relationship
will likely become sexual but then explode and self-destruct
quickly.

If you tease a woman too much, she will end up
teasing you back hardcore as well, and this might
get out of hand and become annoying after a while.

If you keep the dynamic too “anti-septic” and safe
and free of sexual vibe, you will end up as friends only,
and you don’t want that.

If you play games too much in the beginning, the relationship
will end as a result of these games as well.

So you must strike the right BALANCE in your
interactions with women, and you must do this
right especially at the BEGINNING, so that
things are established immediately and flow
in the direction you want.

What you have read is just the tip of the
iceberg of ALL the things you can do to increase
your actual ATTRACTIVE POWER,  and if you
would like to get the FULL PICTURE, I suggest
you get my MASTERY PROGRAM.

This program will show you in full detail
the MASTERY level for APPROACHING
WOMEN ANYWHERE and triggering
INTENSE ATTRACTION in women. 

This program is a WORK-HORSE- for
TEN YEARS NOW, this program CONTINUES
to help men AROUND THE WORLD actually
GET the women they WANT.

And all in a way that involves ZERO manipulation.


There is no price you can put on the feeling of
having the woman you want, in your arms, in
your bed, in your LIFE.

Get this program NOW, at:     

http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html

And if you haven’t yet downloaded my book
“Get A Great Girl”, do that now at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html

This book will show you the way to get
a GREAT GIRL for a LONG TERM relationship.

Most men out there would like to find
that one incredible woman and have a
fantastic relationship with her, and
this is definitely the book for that.

And if you are JUST STARTING out with
dating, then IMMEDIATELY download my
original book, “The Dating Wizard”, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html

This book is your FOUNDATION for attraction
and getting dates.  It’s packed with dozens
of ideas you can use to meet women the same
day you get the book!   

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Ensure A Woman Is LOYAL To You

One of the biggest things, obviously, about
having a great girlfriend, is that you can
truly TRUST her to be FAITHFUL to you no
matter WHAT. 

That she can  handle any temptation from any
man, anywhere, at any time.

You don't have to worry about her getting drunk
and losing control at some party, you don't
have to worry that she is going to lose
attraction for you, you don't have to worry
about her falling for some manipulative
tactics by someone else who is trying to
make you look bad, etc, etc.

Now the thing is, if you want a woman like this,
it's a very CAREFUL balance you have to find,
between being very SELECTIVE about what kind
of women you date, and it's ALSO important
that you show the RIGHT kind of behavior
that makes her WANT to STAY faithful to you.

And here is one of the BIGGEST IRONIES:

If you meet a really GREAT girl, a woman who
has all the qualities on the outside AND on
the inside, including her appreciation for
mutual LOYALTY,  one of the WORST things you
could do is to PUT PRESSURE ON HER from the
BEGINNING of your interaction and relationship
with her to be "faithful".

You must ABSOLUTELY PUT ZERO PRESSURE 
on a woman to be faithful.

Don't even bring up the subject unless YOU
are already feeling very confident and relaxed
and even playful, otherwise it's OBVIOUS to her
that you FEAR being cheated on, and the signal
being sent to a woman then is that you are
going to have this chip on your shoulder about
cheating, and that you are going to be suspicious
of her, and that she is going to feel pressure
to be CONTROLLED.

Plus, obsession with loyalty unfortunately IMPLIES
(whether it's true or not) that one doesn't feel
he has the VALUE to keep a woman attracted.

And if a woman thinks that a guy thinks this low
about HIMSELF, then why should she feel he is worth
MORE than he himself thinks?

ALL THIS STUFF IS THE ABSOLUTE OPPOSITE 
OF ATTRACTION!

By the way, I learned this stuff from WOMEN
who were smoking hot who would playfully
encourage me to chat up other women and
who NEVER showed signs of jealousy. 

When a woman feels TOTALLY FREE to do whatever
she wants, that in ITSELF takes care of 99 per
cent of any other DESIRE, and then when she
compares that one percent to the MASSIVE
desire she feels for you, you will TOTALLY
be the only man she obsesses about.

However, when you make a woman feel RESTRICTED,
then she suddenly wants to do one hundred percent of
what she is NOT 'supposed' to do!

NO ONE WANTS TO FEEL CONTROLLED.

The desire for freedom is the strongest human
desire in the world.  People will go through
just about ANYTHING to feel FREE.

So it's absolutely ESSENTIAL that all the
desire for being FAITHFUL to you that a
woman feels, she feels she is coming up
with HERSELF.

She CAN'T feel that any of this loyalty is
the result of some kind of FEAR or pressure.

So, ironically, by being too obsessed with
loyalty, you can actually drive a great
woman AWAY.

And here's the ULTIMATE KICKER:
By NOT pressuring a woman to be FAITHFUL at ALL,
what ends up happening is that she ends up KNOWING
on the deepest level that the ONLY reason she is with
you is because SHE wants to be with you.

This then SKYROCKETS her attraction even 
FURTHER, as she justifies the reason she has 
been loyal to you must be because she is 
NUTS ABOUT YOU.

So this makes her only want to be even MORE loyal to you.

And this of course starts a never-ending POSITIVE 
loop, where she keeps on being more loyal, keeps on
rationalizing that the reason is because SHE is nuts 
about you, which of course makes her even MORE 
loyal, etc, etc. 

HOWEVER....and this is a BIG however, you
must ALSO make sure to SCREEN for a woman
who is the RIGHT kind of woman in the FIRST
place, because some women WILL cheat no
matter WHAT.

And if you want to learn the FULL PICTURE
on getting a great girl (including how to
screen for the right woman) and how to KEEP
a great girl, then I suggest you get my
WARRIOR WITHIN program. This DVD Set
will show you all you need to know to ENSURE
you succeed with attracting and keeping a
fantastic quality woman.

It's at:

How To Get and Keep A Great Girlfriend

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Urgent Point On Getting The Right Woman And On Taking The Right Actions

Today is a bit unusual, as it's
bootcamp day, and normally
bootcamps begin on Friday,
so that means there's very little
time to write today- but there
was something on my mind that
I really wantedto share with you
that is crucial for getting the right
woman in your life.

And I really do mean getting the
RIGHT woman, not just how to
get a girlfriend, but how to get
a GREAT girlfriend.

There is something about the human
brain, and the way it works, that
is kind of FREAKY:

The more you do something, the more you
BELIEVE in what it is you are doing.

It does not MATTER what the heck it is
that you are doing.

Whether it is buying lottery tickets,
writing letters to Santa (which is why
it not only hurts the first time a kid
realizes the truth, but at first there
is going to be denial of reality),
eating potato chips, or spending energy
on the wrong woman.

The more you do something, the more
you will feel you MUST continue doing
that thing, and you will rationalize
it any way you must, in order to
feel that indeed you are doing the
right thing.

This is a HUGE thing to realize.

Even giant companies like COKE make
the mistake of underestimating how
powerful this is.

After giving people the message that
Coke is the original cola, and that
it is "it", and having people enjoy
the feeling of being part of a
tradition that they have been doing
non-stop for GENERATIONS, suddenly
they told people NOPE, no more
of that, now you must drink NEW COKE.

You see, in the taste tests, people
LIKED New Coke more than old Coke.

But those taste tests were blind taste tests
where the people had no clue that this was
actually going to be the beginning of the
END of the good old Coke they always knew.

In the 'clinical' world of the physical
scientists, it all made sense.

It TASTED better, that's what the taste buds
said when they didn't know about anything else.

But in the world of PSYCHOLOGY, we know
that it is the BRAIN that ultimately
affects ALL the physical senses.

And in people's MINDS, in the real world,
people couldn't give a rat's ass about
BETTER TASTING COKE.

They wanted to do what they had been
doing since they were BORN, and since
their parents were born, and their
GRANDPARENTS were born:

DRINK THE SAME COKE THEY HAVE ALWAYS
BEEN DRINKING SINCE THEY CAME OUT
OF THEIR MOTHER'S WOMB!

And of course, COKE itself fell for the
"momentum" disaster of KEEP ON DOING THE
SAME THING even when it doesn't make sense.

So, when Coke brought back CLASSIC Coke,
and everyone cheered "HURRAY!", the people
at Coke WERE STILL ADDICTED TO THEIR
BEHAVIOR OF THE PAST, they KEPT ON
TRYING TO PUSH NEW COKE in ADDITION
to the old Coke.

But NO ONE WANTED NEW COKE!!!

So, only when it became AS BRIGHT AND CLEAR
AS A SUPERNOVA, did Coke decide to get RID
of "New Coke".

By the way, I love the taste of Coke,
and I love the "vibe" of Coke, even
though I rarely drink soft drinks.

Hmmm, maybe I'm just a sucker for the
same thing!

Do you see my point?

THIS IS HOW POWERFUL THE MIND'S DESIRE TO
DO THE SAME OLD THING IS!

It OVER-RIDES all logic!
It over-rides even OTHER emotions and
physical sensations!!!

It DISTORTS perception!

It causes PAIN!

And people KEEP ON DOING IT!!!

The worst tragedy against yourself is to
not even REALIZE what you are doing or
what is happening to you.

So I am here to SCREAM IT OUT LOUD
to wake you UP:

If you don't CHANGE the path you are on,
you will ONLY GAIN MORE AND MORE MOMENTUM
TO STAY IN THE WRONG DIRECTION AND YOU
ARE GOING TO EVEN BELIEVE IT'S THE RIGHT
DIRECTION, SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU'VE BEEN
DOING IT FOR SO LONG.

There are many reasons for this, and
unfortunately there is no time right
now for me to explain it all in a
newsletter, but the point is this:

If you are currently taking the WRONG
actions to get the right woman in your
life, chances are you are going to
not only CONTINUE taking the wrong
actions, but to think that what you
are doing is in fact the RIGHT way
to go about it.

One of the most common, classic tragedies
of this situation is when a guy is pursuing
ONE woman who is not responding to his
interest in her, and he continues to pour
MORE into trying to get her.

The more energy and time he spends on
trying to get her, the more he feels
that this effort is WORTH it, that
ultimately there will be a big payoff
for all his efforts.

It has to do with many things, including
our own egos and the fact we want to
feel that we are not wasting our time.

But it also has to do with other complex
mechanisms of the human brain. Notice
how even some SUPER INTELLIGENT
people have joined crazy cults that thought
aliens were coming to take them to
another planet, etc, etc, etc.

These people were NOT crazy, and in
many ways ALL people do 'crazy' things
all the time, they just aren't aware
of how crazy it is.

And this irrational effect is even
STRONGER when it comes to getting
a woman, because on top of all the
REGULAR irrational forces that plague
the human mind, there is now also the
force of the HALO EFFECT as well,
which in brief means that the beauty
of a woman ends up making a guy
feel that she is somehow more noble
or virtuous or worthy than she
actually IS.

I'm not saying that there aren't worthy
beautiful women out there, there absolutely
ARE- that's part of the whole reason for
Get A Great Girl in the first place.

What I'm saying is that the beauty ends
up making a lot of the WRONG women seem
like the RIGHT ones.

If you don't STOP yourself, you just
dig yourself deeper and deeper into
a toxic emotional situation that ends
up taking over your entire life.

This is why almost every single man I have
ever spoken to, before he learns what is
happening to him and becomes aware, ALWAYS
has 'this one girl who is really special'
who he is really focused on getting, but
yet he can't give me ONE good reason why
SHE is more special than any of about a
MILLION other women.

He will say she is very intelligent, very nice,
very good, etc, etc, but when I ask for the
EVIDENCE for these things compared to how
plenty of other women are in respect to her,
she is actually NOT so special at all.

Worst of all, this focus on ONE woman
also starts to make him needy, which
ruins his charisma and ruins all the
attractive behavior he could show her.

This makes her even LESS interested, which
of course now makes her seem even MORE
OF A CHALLENGE, and more scarce, and
more precious, and more desirable,
so he gets even MORE obsessed with her,
and this negative cycle just keeps
digging a deeper and deeper hole
into an endless abyss of desperation,
misery and loneliness.

And it does NOT have to be this way at ALL.

There IS a choice!!!!

I'm telling you right here, right now, that
indeed your MIND is unintentionally playing
a 'dirty trick' on you if you are going
through ANYTHING like this.

You can CHANGE IT ALL by taking a NEW
behavior, a step in the RIGHT direction,
which will then make you want to take
another step in the right direction,
and start a whole PRODUCTIVE CHAIN OF
EVENTS TO QUICKLY GETTING YOURSELF
A GREAT GIRL.

I suggest you get my 'Warrior Within' program
on DVD immediately. It will FREE YOUR MIND
on all the areas that it is currently holding
you back on when it comes to your success
with women.

This program is not some 'hocus-pocus',
as you know I am not a fan of 'airy-fairy'
stuff, only CONCRETE STRATEGIES
THAT WORK FOR DEEP CHANGE
AND ACTUAL RESULTS WITH
GETTING THE KIND OF WOMAN
YOU WANT.

You don't have to be the TITANIC.
You CAN turn your ship around by taking ACTION
in the RIGHT direction NOW by getting and
using my program IMMEDIATELY.

It's at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you can make it, you will thank yourself
a million times for experiencing what BOOTCAMP
will do for you.

Bootcamp is a one-to-one, private, exclusive
program where you will be trained by me on
tons of women, so you can make the fastest
gains in learning and skill.

In Bootcamp, there is no way to come and NOT
grow MASSIVELY in your skills with women, it's
simply impossible to leave bootcamp the same
man you were before you came in, because
I am going to IMMERSE YOU in an experience
that FORCES you to change and to learn.

And you're going to thank me for it, in spades.

Bootcamp is at:

http://tinyurl.com/7bpm6sd

If you don't take action to change your life,
no one else will do it for you. Chances are,
they themselves are wrapped up in irrational
forces that they don't even realize, and
the truth is that very few people will EVER
'wake up' to what is REALLY happening so that
they can get the results they really WANT.

You, however, are now AWAKE.
You have a choice.

So let me ask you, what is holding you back
right now? Is it MONEY? Are you still not
a TRILLION per cent sure that my programs
are WORTH ten TIMES what they cost?

Hey, NO PROBLEM! I understand how hard
it is to change, so if you STILL aren't sure, then
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Seriously, not getting this program is
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This program is a great way to start getting
the results you want with women right NOW!
You can download it and use it in just
MOMENTS from now!

I look forward to hearing from you soon,
and I look even more forward to hearing
your success story.

Cheers for now...

Sincerely,

Michael Marks

The ONE Thing She's Looking For In You

The most important thing in attracting
a woman who is truly the “total package”
of being not only beautiful, but also a
great person inside as well, is conveying
to her the following VIBE:

That with you, no matter how crazy life
gets, she can depend on you to be her
ROCK. That you will be calm, strong,
and steadfast in the storms of life.

The goal is SIMPLE.

ACHIEVING this goal, and being able
to convey this in SECONDS to a woman
you just met, takes some insight into 
psychology, culture, and evolution.

And not the “dime store psychology” or
“pseudo-science” or other gimmicks that
unfortunately are so prevalent in our society.

Please allow me to make one thing clear:
I never started out with the goal of TEACHING
any of the things I learned about getting a
quality woman who would be a fantastic
girlfriend.

I honestly did it all because I needed to
learn all this for MYSELF.

One of the most DISASTROUS steps I took
on my path to learning how to attract a truly
quality woman was that I tried to learn from
the “pick up artist” community.

I had to spend YEARS actually UNLEARNING
all the things they taught me, because those
things actually REPELLED the very BEST
kinds of women.

In case you don’t know about the pick up
artist community, there is a book called
“The Game” that really sums up the entire
“seduction community”, in fact, its author
was practically worshipped by the majority
of pick up artists and their followers.

In the book, it’s clear that the main strategies
for getting a woman involved just about
anything BESIDES being honest and up-front.

For example, “negging” a woman is a
strategy where the main goal is to LOWER
a woman’s self-esteem so that she feels
LESS about herself and now supposedly
she will feel the guy has more value than
her. These ‘experts’ vow that the solution
to attracting a ‘hard to get’ woman is to
‘slam’ her self-esteem.

So this involves the use of thinly veiled
insults, the “nice” name for this is
“backhanded compliments” but really
it’s just an insult. i.e. Telling a woman
she looks just like some celebrity named
x.y, or z, but the thing is that the named
celebrity is clearly NOT the most attractive.

Now, as you may know from my programs,
since day ONE I have been against these
kinds of things for about a MILLION
reasons, including the fact that this kind
of strategy not only is not NECESSARY
but in fact will BACKFIRE because it
makes a man think lower of himself,
because it reinforces in a man the feeling
that he does NOT have the value to get the
woman so he must resort to these kinds of
sleazy tactics.

And when your “INNER GAME” i.e.
the way you feel about yourself, is this
weak, it always ends up showing in tiny
little subtleties through your tonality,
expression, body language, etc. So a
woman ends up detecting a weak inner
game, and the more a guy uses these
“negging” strategies, the more a guy
will weaken his inner game.

It ALSO backfires because a woman who
is truly the total package is both emotionally
strong enough, plus intelligent enough to
not only sense that this guy has a weak
inner game but she will ALSO detect that
this guy is DOING THIS nasty stuff to
her INTENTIONALLY, that he is knowingly
trying to lower her self-esteem!!!!

So she will reject the guy faster than he
can say “negging”.

Now, I believe in EVIDENCE before
coming to conclusions.

So let’s look at the EVIDENCE for
what I’m saying.

Since I’ve been teaching my programs,
the entire FIELD of “dating strategies”
and “pick up artists” has been MASSIVELY
IMPACTED by what I teach.

These days, the “neg” is hardly ever HEARD
of anymore even amongst the “die hard” pick
up artists.

These days, there is suddenly a lot more talk
about getting a “quality girlfriend”.

There’s a lot more talk about “Becoming
Mr. Right for Getting A Great Girl.”

In fact, the vast majority of the things that
supposedly were "GOD'S TRUTH" about
attracting a woman as written by the
“popular” dating coaches and pick up
artists is actually now considered
IMMATURE and SILLY.

And not just by some people, but by
the actual pick up artists themselves!!!

After it became painfully obvious, they
mostly AGREE now that those things
don't work!!! (What they do now is
try to create NEW gimmicks, that will
take a little while till everyone finds out
that TOO is just a gimmick.)

Now, I am going to venture forth here
and say it, because obviously none of
these guys will, that it was ME who
brought dating strategies for getting
a great girl into the MODERN AGE
and out of the STONE AGE of pick
up artist advice that they themselves
agree was just about ALL WRONG
before!

So what I’m saying is, I have ALWAYS
been about getting a QUALITY woman.

I have NEVER been about gimmicks.

In fact, when you finish my programs,
you actually can be very UPFRONT
AND HONEST with women, because
you have become such a strong person
that you convey to her all the right things
from your tonality, expression, warmth,
and inner strength so that EVERYTHING
you do with her becomes attractive.

There are no gimmicks to use, because it's
YOU who has now become attractive,
not some "gimmick" to use on her.
I have ALWAYS been against GIMMICKS
and immature trends that come and go.

I could have easily jumped on the bandwagon
of trends if all I cared about was money.

I could have easily been a part of the
book “The Game” as I was actually
contacted about it, but I wanted nothing
to do with it then, even when the pick
up artist industry was at it’s ZENITH of
popularity.

That should give you an idea of just how
important the TRUTH is to me, and how
important it is to me to give you TRUTH
on how to get a quality woman.

My concepts have literally changed the
entire FIELD of dating.

To me, getting a great girl who is the total
package isn’t just a “nice thing” to do. It’s
the ONLY thing I do, it’s what I have
DEVOTED myself to teaching since day
ONE. And I do this because I know just
how IMPORTANT it is to have a quality
woman at your side, and how this improves
your entire LIFE.

A great woman isn’t looking to see if
you are a look-a-like of George Clooney,
Brad Pitt, or any of the guys from
“Twilight”. And she isn’t looking for
GOLD or money from you either.

She’s looking to see if you have the
INNER strength.

The bottom line is this:

If you're interested in getting dates with
typical women, that's fine. It's not my
preference, but I don't judge others.

But if you're looking for the kind of
woman that ADDS to your life, doesn't
give you "drama", and makes life a
DREAM, then you need an EDGE over
other guys, you need the kind of
training from someone who SPECIALIZES
in getting the kinds of women who would
truly make for GREAT girlfriends.

One of the crazy things about attracting a woman
is that you probably already KNOW in your gut
what IS attractive- for examples, things like
CONFIDENCE, things like being more SEXUAL,
and things like being INTERESTING in general.

The REAL question is, how do you SHOW these
things to a woman? Sometimes a guy CAN be
confident in many OTHER areas of his life, but
not feel confident in approaching a woman who
is a total stranger. Sometimes a guy can be an
interesting person, but when he’s talking to
a woman, he doesn’t know how to show it.

And, how do you show more SEXUALITY to a
woman who is a total stranger???

So let me get into answering ALL this right
here, right now. Please keep in mind that I
swear to it that everything I write here is
based on REAL INTERACTIONS WITH
WOMEN FROM YEARS OF BOOTCAMPS
WITH CLIENTS AND MY OWN
EXPERIENCES AS WELL.

In other words, this is not just made up or
something I came up with off the top of
my head, it’s all based in REALITY, and
you can apply it all IMMEDIATELY and
see for yourself how quickly it works.

First off, I totally understand that most
guys are NOT Bill Gates, not models, and
not necessarily living an “Indiana Jones”
lifestyle.

And guess what? THAT’S NOT A PROBLEM.
Because the TRUTH is that, WHEREVER you
are in life, whatever your situation is, you can
STILL apply everything I’m talking about to
demonstrate all the cool things about yourself.

Let me give you an example: Let’s say you
have a really CRAPPY job, okay?

And you’re at that part of the conversation
where she’s talking about her stressful job or
whatever, and you know that if you don’t mention
what you do, it’s going to sound like you’re hiding
something.

The reality is, you’re FAR BETTER OFF
literally telling a woman “my job is crap”
than trying to DISGUISE it in any way.

I mean LITERALLY telling her those words.

The key though, is to say those words without
trying to be CUTE when you say it.

If you say it trying to be “cute” or smiling,
it almost seems as if you’re smiling out of
HOPE that she will “forgive” it.

But if you are totally OWNING it, and not
seeking to try to get her FORGIVENESS
for it, it makes a FREAKING HUMONGOUS
DIFFERENCE.

You can even be a bit PISSED OFF in your
tonality about the crappy job.

The reasons for all this are subconscious:

By NOT hiding it, you show the following
things, and I’ll explain why:

1. INTEGRITY

Most guys will sacrifice truth and anything else
if they think it will get them ahead, but here you
are clearly showing you are not affected by what
other people think, including HER.

You show that you stick to your principles.

2. CONFIDENCE

You are also demonstrating confidence because
you clearly think that you STILL have a chance
with this girl ANYWAY otherwise why would
you be talking to her, especially in this non-apologetic
and non-deceptive way?????

The other thing is that by OWNING up to your
reality, and not DENYING it, you are far more
likely to be the kind of guy who is going to
MAKE THE CHANGES IN HIS LIFE TO
IMPROVE HIS SITUATION.

So in a way you’re also showing AMBITION.
If you’re not SATISFIED with where you
are, and you want to move UP in the world.

And when a man of confidence puts his mind
to work and his body into action, he can achieve
a HECK of a lot, and he won’t be down in the
gutter for long.

Now, if you have INTEGRITY and you also
have CONFIDENCE, she realizes that you
probably ALSO have integrity in your other
connections with people, including relationships.

This translates into SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE
AND POWER WITH PEOPLE.

She also subconsciously realizes that if you
can handle THIS kind of awkward uncomfortable
situation, you can probably also handle the part
about you LEADING the interaction smoothly
to the SEXUAL with her.

After all, you don’t seem to be bogged down
by the OTHER things that most guys would be
bogged down by psychologically.

So that’s just ONE example of how you can
convey confidence as well as many other
attractive traits, even if your situation isn’t
that GREAT, and you might have previously
THOUGHT you don’t have anything to be
confident ABOUT.

And you can use this same principle to show
confidence in ANY situation where you think
you are LACKING or not doing so great compared
to other people.

In fact, that “lack” is your opportunity to show
that you WILL NOT BE CRUSHED by it,
that you will not lose integrity by it, and that
you will not lose confidence by it.

Remember, MOST of the guys she is going
to meet are going to do the OPPOSITE of
this, including even guys who you might think
on the surface HAVE SO MUCH GOING
FOR THEM!!

Yup, the vast majority of guys ALL end up
QUALIFYING themselves to a woman they
are attracted to. The guys, out of a desire to
impress the woman, quickly end up telling
her about their fancy job, their car, their
fancy trip, etc, etc, etc.

And the irony of all this is that this “impressive”
stuff, by being used as a crutch, shows INSECURITY
to a woman and is REPULSIVE.

So, now it’s almost as if the guy would be
better off NOT having the fancy stuff, since
he ends up just using it to convey insecurity.

A woman figures that such a guy actually
thinks that he should be with her because
of his CAR or JOB, and that’s not only
uncool, it’s the trademark of a real a-hole,
and trust me, THAT’S NOT the cool kind
of “jerk” at all.

So you can ALWAYS be showing confidence,
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS.

SEXUALITY

How about something like sexuality?

Well, here too, you can ALWAYS be more
sexual with a woman, it doesn’t have to JUST
be at a nightclub, where it’s easy to do this
because the women are there to meet guys.

I prefer to meet women in places OTHER than
nightclubs, simply because the most attractive
women at nightclubs definitely DON’T need
to go there to meet guys, so if they are there,
chances are they are just party girls.

Of course, there ARE great girl at nightclubs,
but FINDING them is like finding a needle
in a haystack, and the noise makes it hard
to truly dig deeper into conversation to
determine character.

However, all women need to do the everyday
things like shopping, grocery shopping, going
to the bank, etc, and so these “regular” places
are far better for actually meeting women with
more “long term girlfriend” potential.

How can you show more sexuality with a
woman you happen to see at the coffee
shop or supermarket?

Simple: Through using TOUCH AND TONALITY.

Words have been around for only a smidgeon
of human evolution, while TOUCH has been
around since the very first days that
man and woman have walked the Earth.

Human communication has been using
TOUCH since day one.

And it’s STILL AROUND, we just tend to
REPRESS this primal force. (Another primal
chord is triggered through MUSIC, which
is another element you can incorporate later,
when lovemaking is in the air :) )........

So, stop worrying about being called a pervert and
look for PLAYFUL ways to make HUMAN CONTACT.

And I’m talking FAST.

The reality is that women are FAR more
comfortable with this than you think.

When I was in university the first time, I
got BRAINWASHED by all these political
science courses including on feminism, where
I was taught how just about EVERYTHING
was a form of male harassment against women.

So I did everything I could when interacting
with women to NOT touch them, and to
NOT show dominance, and to just wait
for THEM to take all the action and to
get sexual.

Of course, that all led to ZERO results with women.

Then, I finally found out the TRUTH of
what was going on, on campus, and how
RAMPANT the sexuality was, and how
there were TWO realities, the one that
existed in the lecture hall, to which of
course NO ONE WOULD ARGUE lest
they be labeled EVIL CAVE-MEN, and
then there was the reality of what ACTUALLY
HAPPENED on a regular basis within just
METERS of these lectures halls, things that
would make Sodom and Gomorah BLUSH.

That made me FAR MORE COMFORTABLE
not only getting more “physical” with women,
but also being more PLAYFUL in general
with women, because I realized that women
were MOSTLY NOT like the stereotype
portrayed in my political science course
descriptions, in reality women LOVED TO
BE PLAYFUL AND ENJOYED GETTING
PHYSICAL, probably even MORE SO than men.

Have FUN with women, from the moment
you first see a woman you’d like to talk to.

Forget being serious, instead LIVE IT UP
and take “chances” with your sense of humor,
it’s BETTER than being too serious, FOR SURE.

It’s GOOD for a woman to think you
really want to get PHYSICAL with her
and that you have NO SHAME about it,
and that you LOVE the idea of physical
and you love having fun with women-
it’s just that socially, you can’t literally
SAY THIS as you’re first words to her,
but you CAN and SHOULD CONVEY
it through your MANNERISMS!

If you’re not having a good time doing this
with women, you’re doing it wrong.

I used to do it all WRONG, I was so pissed
off inside, that it was all coming from a
place of ANGER.  An anger that stemmed
from feeling that somehow, things should
not be this way.

I was pissed off that my preconceived notions
of how things ARE was totally OFF! I was
upset that things were NOT the way I had
previously thought they were my whole
life, as this meant I had to change my
very PICTURE of reality!

My old beliefs were that women wanted and
appreciated a really SERIOUS approach to
dating, sexuality, and relationships.

This does NOT mean that women think relationships
are a JOKE, it just means that you can't START out
with a woman if you are operating on a very serious
level, as that overly serious vibe DESTROYS the
sexual, flirty VIBES that are so important for
sparking SEXUAL ATTRACTION.

In fact, being playful actually delivers the message
that you are MORE of A MAN who is "the rock",
than a man who seems all serious right away when
talking to her, because that "SERIOUSNESS" is
interpreted by her as NEEDINESS or some other
negative issue, which is understandable once you
adopt the frame of ABUNDANCE and the perspective
of having many CHOICES of who to date---just like
these attractive women do! :)

Playfulness shows STRENGTH, that you find all
this stuff so easy, that it's FUN.

So, once I finally ACCEPTED the way things
really ARE, I came to peace with it, and
THAT'S when I could stop PRETENDING
to be playful and actually BE playful.

And the reality is, that this is healthier way
to go about the whole dating process anyway!!!

It allows you to enjoy the process, and to NOT
fall into the needy and insecure zone, which
is where all the problems start, both in terms
of destroying attraction and also in terms of
destroying your own confidence. 

You are as you think and do, so if you switch
the way you think, and if you take the ACTIONS
of a secure, playful, flirty person, you BECOME
that incredible man who really IS her "rock".

And when I say a “good time” I don’t mean
to act “cutesy” with women – a lot of times
“cutesy” is this kind of toothy smile that
is really a form of seeking rapport.

Instead, your “having a good time” while
interacting and approaching women should
be coming from a place of STRENGTH
internally, the best example I can think of
that resembles the REAL LIFE way of
doing it, is “Captain Kirk”, it’s a pretty
accurate of what I mean by playful
but strong and not needing a woman’s
approval, while still liking her nonetheless.

So let me tell you, you should go for playful
hugs, high-fives, taps on the shoulder, etc,
and if a woman has a problem with this, you
are NOT harming your chances, you are only
finding out that she is a waste of your time.

Now, you should ALSO be conveying
sexuality, by speaking to a woman in
the same kind of tonality that you would
have right after making passionate love
to a woman. Your voice would be calm,
comfortable, no more pretenses of
sounding like CLARK KENT instead
of the real SUPERMAN inside of you.

There’s also nothing wrong with a dirty
joke or two if they are actually FUNNY
and not GROSS. This helps establish
the right mentality that this is a male
female interaction and not just some
cerebral conversation between two men.

Here’s ANOTHER important strategy:

GET HER TALKING ABOUT HERSELF

Most guys are so caught up in trying to
impress a woman, that this very act of
trying to impress ends up causing the
OPPOSITE and repels her.

Instead, what I do and have clients do is
to focus on learning more about HER.

After a playful comment or two to get the
conversation started, I get into wanting to
know what HER STORY IS.

In fact, I might even say these actual words:

“What’s YOUR Story?”

This has TONS of benefits for you:

It shows her that you aren’t all arrogant
and don’t need to talk all about YOURSELF.

It allows her a chance to actually BOND with
you by talking to you about herself.

It teaches you more about her, so that you can
have the right things to say to her that are
actually RELEVANT.

It’s easier anyway, because instead of having
to be this big talker, you can chill out and
listen.

The less you talk, the more cool you seem,
as you might remember from my discussions on
“Minimum Game” and how less is more, the sign
of a true master. A true master uses only what
is required for each situation, and never more.

PLUS, after she has spoken to you about herself,
SHE HERSELF will ask you about yourself, so
NOW when you talk to her, even about yourself,
you will NOT seem like you are qualifying
yourself!!!! You really WILL impress her.

As you can see, without me being arrogant,
the reality is I know what the heck I’m
talking about.

And what you’ve just read is the TIP of the
ICEBERG of TONS of EASY-TO-APPLY
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There’s nothing worse than having a series
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I look forward to hearing your success story.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

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