What SCIENCE Says About Attracting Women

Some SUPER IMPORTANT news for you
today, which includes TWO new videos
as well.

The first is regarding a message I have
been teaching for many years, which is
now gathering even MORE MASSIVE evidence
for being absolutely true.

In a new article by Andrea Bartz, there
is a review of recent research in the
Journal of Social Psychology which examined
how women’s evolutionary drives might affect
how they respond to stereotypical pick-up
artist style approaches.

Here are some of the highlights of this article:

1. Women who were looking for love (or at least
a long-term relationship) favored MEANINGFUL
positive comments, or even something innocuous,
however, pushing the flirty too far “conveyed
lower trustworthiness and intelligence”.

This falls totally in line with what I have
been saying for years, because a woman who is
interested in something long-term needs to
feel TRUST.

But the reports gets even better:

2. Researchers from the University of Kansas
recently examined who follows pick up artist
methods, and which women actually like it.

“Turns out the offenders are men with a preference
for one-night stands and negative sexist attitudes
towards women. (Lovely.) In response, women
with a preference for no-strings-attached sex who
also have negative attitudes toward other women
tend to respond to dudes’ aggressive tendencies.
(Even lovelier.)

So now you know: So-called pick-up
artistry serves an important function. It helps
sexist men and women find each other in
dim and crowded bars.”

As I have been saying for years,
LIKE attracts LIKE.

If you want abusive, sexist women, just follow
the tactics of abusive, sexist men.

By the way, I truly DO believe that sexism
and abuse is a form of SICKNESS, that
stems from insecurities and anxieties, and
it’s not a SHAMEFUL thing to get HELP
to work on these areas of ourselves, but
rather getting help to work on ourselves
is a COURAGEOUS step that is actually
in ITSELF attractive, because it shows
the ability to overcome FEAR AND TO
OVERCOME OBSTACLES IN LIFE.

I have had to do this work on myself, I
am not ashamed to say that I myself used
to be very misguided, in part, due to the
messed up teachings of pick up artists,
but also due to my own self.

The study also shows that women who DO
only want one night stands are NOT attracted
to personality, which means that all the tactics
in the world taught by pick up artists “to be
able to get all those infinite women” don’t
even help, because the only thing that matters
to THOSE women is the PHYSICAL in terms
of what the guy LOOKS LIKE!

Sure, a woman who is only interested in the
physical might SETTLE for a guy she is
not that attracted to, for one night, but she
ain’t really FANTASIZING about being
with that guy at ALL.

Now, do I think that the article is PERFECT?
No, as I believe that a CERTAIN amount of
dominance IS important and is very attractive.

I also believe that what STARTS out as just
some mild interest in a man from a woman
can then be AMPLIFIED, even if a woman
is not that attracted from the start.

However, ALL this must be TEMPERED with
a massive emphasis on CONNECTION and
on being a genuinely confident man, and not
an insecure man who blames women for all
his suffering (which is what I USED to do
and caused me to FAIL with women in terms
of relationships) but rather a man who works
on overcoming his own insecurities and
anxieties and is TRULY comfortable with
women and with people in general.

THIS is the work that must be done on ourselves.
The battle is not with women, it’s with ourselves,
to make ourselves stronger, more secure, more
able to connect.

For an important video on the difference
between just getting “l-a-i-d”, and on actually
getting a great girlfriend for a fantastic long
term relationship, go here:



Now, I also want to give you ANOTHER important
video, that helps explain the real important part of
the approach when you see a woman you’d like to
meet and attract.

There has been this long debate out there on whether
the best way to go is “direct” or “indirect”.

Direct means you tell the woman right away that
you like her. Indirect means that you basically
try to chat to her without revealing your interest
in her DIRECTLY.

Well, the truth, it’s not so simple of it being one
or the other, and in fact the TRUTH is the most
important thing is conveying your personality
to her QUICKLY, and you convey this not
through a biography about yourself, but
rather through the VIBES you give off.

By VIBES, I mean the STATES OF MIND that
you are feeling are actually projected outward
and she FEELS what states of mind YOU feel.

If you feel secure, fun, upbeat, and kind of
sensual, it’s WAY EASIER for her to feel
that way around you too.

If you feel all nervous and uncomfortable, it
makes HER feel nervous and uncomfortable,
making it even HARDER for you.

At the same time, there is more about the
“direct” and “indirect” methods that is
important to understand, because there
are some women and situations that call
for a bit more of one method versus the
other method.

To learn more, check out this video:



And for my most powerful program on
how to get a girlfriend and how to 
KEEP a girlfriend, go here:

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For my powerful program on overcoming
“approach anxiety” go HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Talk To Women - Anytime, Anywhere!

Have you ever approached a woman,
managed to work up the guts to SAY
something, and then the conversation
didn't LAST?

Maybe you said some comment about
the book she was holding, or the drink
she was having, or maybe it was a
compliment.

She smiles, and then you have nothing
really POWERFUL to get her hooked
into wanting to talk to you more.

If this has happened to you, you are not
alone, it's one of the most common issues
when trying to approach a woman and get
her number, email, etc.

So let me show you how to solve this
problem.

Step One.
1. The first thing you want to do is to realize
that about 99% of the conversation material
can often come not from YOU but from HER!

Step Two.
2. Yes, and the way this works is by truly
LISTENING to what she says in REPLY to you.

Listening not only with open ears, but
also with an open heart, meaning that
you GENUINELY are listening to hear her.

Step Three.
3.Now, the thing is, in order to prompt
a meaningful reply from her to your
original statement, you want to make an
opening statement that actually has some
MEAT in it, something that is worthy of
actually getting a reply.

The key for this to work BEST is to NOT
be FAKE about the topic you choose to open.

Choose something that YOU are genuinely
interested in, that is also upbeat, inspiring,
or meaningful.

You can go in with MANY different angles,
and there is absolutely an angle that is
consistent with your personality so that
you are not acting like someone else.

So, for example, if you were the kind of guy
who is very interested in living an inspired
life, in feeling that your life has meaning,
in making the MOST of everyday, etc,
then you might say something like this
to a woman in a bookstore:

Hi there, can you answer this question:
What do you think of the phrase,
'Don't die with the song still in you'???

By the way, I don't tend to believe in pick-up
lines, I am giving you an EXAMPLE here,
from the real world, an example that has
been tested and that works particularly
well on the most fantastic women.

NOW, if she asks you what you mean,
this is FANTASTIC, because it gives
you another chance to talk MORE but
more importantly it is you giving value
to HER, which is the name of the game.

So, you can continue with something like
this: "What if we all spent our lives doing
things that we didn't really love but we
thought we had to do, and then right
at the end we found out that all those
things were just LIE and we never let
our "song" out, the thing we were meant
to do?"

Now, THIS is meaty stuff, it's got tons
of potential. She can not only reply to
this in detail, but you can LISTEN to
what she is saying and really pay
attention and then be able to give
BACK meaningful conversation as well.

The genius behind this is that now
you are LISTENING to HER, which
makes HER feel awesome, and yet
she is talking to you about something
that you care about, so none of this is
fake. You can can go on an on about
this for hours.

And this leads to DEEP connection, which
means mo more FLAKY number or emails- girls
only flake because they don't feel a sense
of connection.

That's why they don't answer emails
or phone calls or don't give out
numbers.

ANOTHER EXAMPLE WITH A 
DIFFERENT PERSONALITY:

Now, let's say you are more of just
a happy go lucky guy that isn't really
that "deep" at least not in that way.

That's fine, it's all good. You can
THEN go in with a more humorous angle,
i.e. if you are in the supermarket
and you notice the same woman twice,
i.e. let's say you saw her in the fish
dept., then you see her in the cereal
aisle, you can give her this mischievous
look and say:

"Hey, are you following me? I'm getting
nervous!"

And if she says something like:

"Noooo, what makes you say that??"

You can reply with:

"Well, for all I know you want to raid
my grocery cart here, I got all the
low-fat yogurt on special today and you
just want to take one out of my cart!"

Even here, in this situation though, the
key is to open with something that is
MEATY in the sense that you must light
the switches in her mind called
"INTERESTING and FEELS GOOD."

You can tell her that you bet she is one
of those healthy type women who is
all about good fitness and nutrition,
etc, which will either prompt her to
say that she IS or she ISN'T.

If she says she IS, then you can
now give her a sincere compliment for
that and tell her that with work or
school taking up so much time, it
takes a lot of discipline to do that.

And if she says she DOESN'T work
out or eat healthy, you can tease
her for not being honest, or you can
say she is being modest, and that she
can just open up with you, you are
just the official supermarket public
relations guy

And if she takes you SERIOUSLY on that,
that's even MORE reason for you to have
fun and then you can pretend you are
asking her a serious survey question,
and then let her know you are totally
joking.

And THEN you can both get into
a "normal" conversation about things
like "what's your name" what do
you do, etc, because NOW she is
interested and you are interested
in knowing more about her.

What you have read is just the TIP
of the ICEBERG. This stuff works,
and I want you to see the FULL power
of ALL the tools that can be at your
fingertips, from learning how to
fully tap into the power of your
INNER GAME so you can rise to the
next level of success with women,
to learning how to DETECT a quality
woman, to learning how to KEEP a
woman attracted to you long term,
and much, MUCH more.

To do that, I seriously suggest you get my
most advanced program on these skills,
and you can even check out some great
free samples of this program at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/warrior.html

And if you’re new here, remember you can
check out ALL my programs, from my books
to my real-life dating bootcamps, at:

http://www.getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php

Till next time,

Michael Marks