What if you could get as MANY women as
you want, who really are attracted to you for
who you are?
The truth is, this is VERY possible.
So the question is, why does it seem that
the vast majority of men on earth NEVER
get anything CLOSE to these results?
Why is it, that lack of options with women,
and lack of physical fun times with women,
is so ACCEPTED into our culture, that it
is practically the basis for every joke that
exists, and is the reason why strip clubs
get straight to the point: GIRLS! GIRLS! GIRLS!
The reality is, that LACK of most things is not
a GOOD thing. This is one thing that I agree
with Tony Robbins on, and I’m not a particularly
religious follower of him.
We seem to live in a culture that although
PRIZES the idea of getting the woman or
women you want, and PRIZES the idea of
getting other things like wealth, at the SAME
time also makes it seem like you are somehow
NOT A GOOD PERSON if you DO get lots
of women, if you DO get a beautiful woman,
if you DO have lots of wealth, etc.
So, what I am saying, is that it’s possible, that,
like me at one time, you may on a subconscious
level feel that there is VIRTUE in NOT getting
what you want in life. That somehow this makes
you a better, less corrupt person.
These kinds of thoughts DEFINITELY affected me,
as I was always suspicious of people who seemed
to have huge success.
And INDEED, there ARE many, MANY cases
of people who succeeded by cheating, stealing,
and in general screwing others in a bad way.
HOWEVER, this does NOT mean that getting
what you WANT in life has to corrupt you, and
in fact, LACK of options can sometimes embitter
you and the LACK of options also means that
you can’t help OTHERS either.
So, there’s no question that Bill Gates, for example,
helps more people NOW than he could BEFORE
he started Microsoft. His charitable foundation gives
away BILLIONS of dollars to help the world!
Similarly, if you are ALREADY a good person,
then having MORE of what you want in life, usually
enables you to GIVE MORE TO OTHERS as well.
It allows you to not only give them of your TIME,
but also of your wealth, your knowledge, your
friendship.
And when I say “to give to others” this is not only
about giving to complete STRANGERS, but also
about helping those you KNOW WELL and those
you deeply CARE about.
The bottom line is this:
When you have the one thing that mankind has
ALWAYS cherished throughout history, that
is CONSISTENT in every culture across the
GLOBE, that is more prized than even money,
that even KINGS have risked their kingdoms
for, you become extremely EMPOWERED.
And that thing is:
CHOICE WITH THE WOMEN OF YOUR CHOICE.
Now, because of the very FACT that this is so
highly cherished and prized, it is NEVER TAUGHT
in any school, because EVERY CULTURE has
sought to LIMIT access to women, and to KEEP
that access limited to those in POWER.
Have you ever thought about WHY kings could
have INFINITE women, but every other man
was only ALLOWED to have ONE, and that
he had to be MARRIED to her?
By the way, this is NOT an argument against
marriage, I love the idea of having a fantastic
relationship with a woman you love---rather,
what I am saying is notice how the person
in POWER made the rules, and the rules
just HAPPENED to limit access to women
for every man except the KING or whatever
the name for the ruler was.
This all boils down to POWER.
The kings controlled EVERYONE, and
the men, to a farrrrr lesser degree, had some
control over women. (This kind of control
over women is and was pathetic, and when
you can actually ATTRACT women, there's
no pathetic need to control them- in fact the
desire to control them is a sign of insecurity,
and insecurity is the great REPULSIVE force,
the opposite of attraction.)
And now, for the first time in HISTORY,
you can FINALLY have the SAME power,
as any KING, except for the fact that most
men will STILL be blinded to the reality
of that potential, since our CULTURE
is STILL clinging to many IDEAS that
are outdated and untrue, such as the
concept that somehow being great with
women is “dirty” or “wrong” or “impossible”.
No schoolteacher is going to TEACH you that
getting as many women as you want is NOT
dirty, is NOT wrong, is NOT impossible.
And no government is going to get involved in
this, they have enough on their plate and often
don’t even know themselves what to do.
Pretty much NO ONE is going to tell you the truth,
because they either don’t know, or they don’t want
you to know, and more and more it’s that they just
don’t know.
Now, there are, of course, the “dating gurus” and
pick up artists who are only too happy to promise you
THE WORLD when it comes to women.
But of those guys, how many actually prove
it in REAL LIFE?
I’m not talking about SELF-PROMOTION on their
own websites or their own books they wrote
or fake testimonials or testimonials from
friends.
I'm talking about independent, third party,
unbiased reporters who quote the results
from the ACTUAL participants themselves.
Very, VERY few "instructors" out there have
these kinds of credentials.
Since I started, there have been dozens
and dozens of guys who tried to imitate me and
copy my work, but very FEW who actually put
in the TIME to develop the skills themselves.
It’s easy to COPY WORDS with a word processor.
It’s NOT SO EASY to copy SKILL.
And learning from someone with SKILL,
is very different than learning from
someone withOUT skill- especially
when you are learning IN PERSON.
They didn’t care about their reputation
as instructors long term, just as long
as they sold something in the NOW.
On the other hand, I have done the OPPOSITE.
When the book ‘The Game’ came out and pick
up lines were so popular that gurus were born
out of nothing but their pick up lines, I stayed
OUT of that and intentionally sacrificed a TON
of easy dough by NOT jumping on the pick up
artist bandwagon.
That’s because I knew that relying on pick up lines
didn’t WORK very well.
And because I actually cared about getting men
RESULTS.
The fact that today the pick up artists themselves
don't use the pick up lines much is NOT a coincidence,
because they are learning from me and my programs.
I am the 'source material' they come to, however
as is always the case when important material is
handled by those who don't respect it, it gets
distorted.
Here’s the other thing- in BOOTCAMP, I have
to PROVE that what I teach WORKS, and I’ve
been doing this for TEN YEARS!
So what do I mean by ‘IT WORKS’?
What I mean is, that men who come to bootcamp
SEE AND EXPERIENCE A VERY OBVIOUS
IMPROVEMENT IN THEIR RESULS WITH
WOMEN.
This very much INCLUDES the ability to
COLD-APPROACH a beautiful woman who
is a complete stranger, and to do this not only
in places like clubs and lounges where women
are EXPECTING to be approached and it’s
‘NORMAL’ to approach them, but even in
places where you find women, and the women
are NOT expecting to be approached, and it’s
NOT part of normal social rules or acceptance
to ‘pick them up’.
The results VARY for men, but MOST men
really DO get RESULTS in only 2 DAYS.
I’m talking men who have never approached
a woman before, who then end up getting
numbers and dates and even getting women
to buy them dinner and go on a date off of a
FIRST COLD APPROACH. And I’m not talking
just any women, but really gorgeous creatures.
The realistic expectation is that wherever you
CURRENTLY are in terms of skill level, you
can expect to graduate to the NEXT level by
the end of Bootcamp.
So, a novice would graduate to decent skill level,
and a guy at decent skill level will graduate to
expertise.
This is the kind of thing that I can tell you for
REAL, since I have to do this for real all the time.
Now think about one final thing:
I have been doing this for ten YEARS.
That means my reputation COUNTS.
There’s a REASON the book “The Game” never
mentions me ONCE, even though I was doing
this LONG BEFORE the book ever came out.
I have a theory:
It’s because what I teach is NOT a game.
It’s the REAL THING.
What I teach goes against what is taught
in that book, and would make the whole book
obsolete before it even came out.
As you can see, I’m not in it for the quick buck.
You WILL get results from my bootcamp, and
you will get them FAST.
So it’s up to you, if you want CHOICE
with women, anytime, anywhere, it’s time
to sign up for BOOTCAMP.
It’s at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html
Here’s the other thing:
TIME is precious, it FLIES by. The sooner you
master these skills, the sooner you can get to
ENJOY them in your life. Don’t wait ten
years to get this done, get it done NOW when
you can truly ENJOY it!
To learn more about me and ALL my programs,
go here:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/
Till next time,
Michael Marks
Friday, September 9, 2011
Thursday, September 8, 2011
How To Get Your Dream Girl
Since day one, I have always been consistent-
getting that dream woman- this is what it's
all about.
I'm talking about the kind of fantastic
woman who is a total package and would
make for an incredible girlfriend.
This is very different than just getting
numbers of drunk girls at bars and clubs.
Whereas party girls are all about you
acting over the top, getting a quality
woman is all about you developing
deeper and deeper levels of connection,
starting from the light fluff stuff
and then working your way to a
deeper connection than anything she
has had with anyone before.
So let's cut straight to the chase on some
GOLDEN insights on how to get that dream woman.
ONE:
Have you ever heard that EYE CONTACT is important?
Well, it is, but if you don't understand the REASON
for why it's important, then you will not do it properly,
and when it comes to attracting a woman, HOW you
do something counts just as much as WHAT you do.
So the problem is that many men have heard that eye
contact with a woman is important, but they have
been told it's because this shows CONFIDENCE,
it shows that you are not afraid, etc, etc, etc.
Well, this is only the TIP of the iceberg actually.
The FULL TRUTH is that a woman wants to be
SEEN FOR WHO SHE REALLY IS, not just
for her superficial self. And the eyes are the
windows to the soul, so to speak. If you don't
look her in the eyes when you speak, you are
NEVER truly allowing yourself to see her
for who she is.
Before you think this is just a superficial thing,
think about this: Ever notice how hard it is to
LIE to someone when you are looking them
straight in the eyes?
There is a feeling of HONESTY when two people
are truly seeing "eye to eye" - this is why the
phrase "seeing eye to eye" to describe two people
in harmony, developed over the years.
So the reality is that by giving a woman eye contact,
and looking deep into her eyes, you are not just
SHOWING YOUR OWN value and confidence,
but you are also GIVING so much more as well.
See? You are actually GIVING in a way that
is SEXY and ATTRACTIVE and CHARISMATIC.
The OTHER element here that makes the eye
contact even MORE powerful is your ability to
be able to ABSORB the eye contact she is giving
YOU. When you feel unworthy, you tend to look
away, and yet that makes a woman feel that you
are somehow UNTRUSTWORTHY.
She is feeling "why is this guy looking away from me?"
and "What is he hiding?"
So lack of eye contact also disrupts the flow of
TRUST, which is sooo important in creating
that all important CONNECTION with a woman
so she can unleash her sexuality and let go with
you. Without that trust and connection, it's never
going to be a strong sexual connection, that's for
sure. She will be very limited, because she can't
truly let go of her inhibitions with you.
So, now that you understand the REAL reasons
for eye contact, you will do it not in a HARSH
way, but in a GIVING, and LOVING WAY.
Yes, this is TRULY the way of the confident,
MAN, the man who is flowing with ABUNDANCE
of charisma, confidence, who knows he has value.
THIS is the way to behave. Do NOT think of
eye contact just as some type of display of your
ability to show that you can confront her, eye
to eye. Instead, think of it as your ability to
show that you want to see DEEP INTO HER
IDENTITY, for who she really is.
Remember, emotions are not logical- and though
this looking into her eyes thing might not TOTALLY
seem logical, the reality is that it FEELS very
powerful, just think of how it feels when a woman
looks deep into YOUR eyes, and how hard it is
to not look away when she is sooooooo amazingly
beautiful, if you are not used to it. So get USED
to it, and start learning to keep eye contact.
If you are new to all this, practice when walking
on the street, keep eye contact with a woman,
and let HER be the first one to look away.
When you look into a woman's eyes, you make
her feel like you are looking into her for who
she really is, beyond just her body, and the
reality is that you will FEEL this way too,
so you really are helping BOTH of you
to see each other on an emotionally deep
level as well. So be a GIVER and do this.
In our crazy culture, we're conditioned to do
anything EXCEPT make eye contact, as if
was WRONG to develop this powerful of
an emotional connection to another person,
when in reality if we all did this we might
have a more CONNECTED society, but
you can take advantage of the fact that
no one ELSE does this and be the man who
is that much more SPECIAL and charismatic
with a woman because you are one of the
few men who actually DO make that eye
contact.
TWO:
BEING COCKY WITH WOMEN?
And here's ANOTHER important distinction
to make--the whole idea of making cocky
jokes with a woman, it's not necessary, and
when it DOES work, it ONLY works when
you are doing it through the FILTER of
being a GIVER, not a taker...A woman senses
this as TRUE confidence...
Let me give you an example- if I make fun
of a woman, I will do it in a way where it
is absolutely clear that what I am saying
CANNOT BE TRUE. So if she is an
A+ student and gorgeous, then I can tease
her for having no future, and she will
LAUGH and love it.
Because it shows that I am just playing with
her. But to actually say things that ENDANGER
a woman's sense of self-esteem is INSANE
and will ALWAYS lead to problems, because
even if a woman doesn't IMMEDIATELY
strike back at you for this, eventually she
WILL. GUARANTEED.
And the few times she doesn't strike back at you?
That's because she has already determined that
the "tactic" was a result of insecurity and low
self-esteem, that the guy felt he needed to do
that, so she ignores it, makes the guy feel
like he said something brilliant or she ignores
it, (out of pity for the guy with low self esteem)
then goes on to another man and forgets
the guy with the insult forever.
Having to resort to insults to a woman to show
that you are not "under her thumb" would be
a very PRIMITIVE way of showing that she
is not controlling your thoughts or emotions
and that she is not "all that"...
This is why I am totally against the idea of
doing this, contrary to dating television shows
that suggest that these insults are the way to
get a woman's interest. This kind of info
is almost like a conspiracy, as it SOUNDS
interesting, but actually HARMS guys'
results with women.
THREE:
And here's ANOTHER golden tip- the
whole idea of WOMEN TESTING MEN--
is completely misunderstood.
If women so naturally create tests, to determine
if you are "man enough", then does it make sense
to try to FAKE your way through her testing
system by learning "lines" or learning how
ACT arrogant or trying to be arrogant????
Well, that's what most "experts" suggest
You do, to act arrogant or to show you
are in power.
Do you really think that such a powerful primal
tool that has lasted for millions of years in a
woman's brain could so easily be overpowered??
NO, the REAL way to pass a woman's test is
to actually BE the man.. not how to PRETEND
to not be "under her spell" etc,
And how do you do this? You do this by
understanding first of all what REAL confidence is,
what the REAL reason behind all these
"attractive behaviors" is...so for example
the EYE contact for is not to so much to
show that you are NOT AFRAID of her,
but to show that you are confident enough
to want to TRULY UNDERSTAND her, that
you want to see her for who she really is...
and the eye contact is also extremely
impressive in a culture that says "no
eye contact" a culture that says you
should just "leave me ALONE..."
when deep down people CRAVE
a feeling of a special CONNECTION,
and almost NO ONE is getting that
connection!!!
So, when you actually DO all these things,
that are actually a form of GIVING, guess
what happens? You got it--a woman then
sees there is NO NEED to test you in the
FIRST place!!!!! If a woman is testing
You all the time, then either she is the
Wrong woman, or you are DOING things
to MAKE her need to test you!!!!!
And definitely, following the "give her
the arrogant behavior" and "sugar coated
insults" and other behaviors that show
untrustworthiness and shady character
will all make her feel the NEED to test
you for all sorts of things, from your
manliness to your sense of integrity
and honesty.
What you have just read is just a GLIMPSE
into a whole other dimension that you can
be living in with the woman of your dreams.
If you want the FASTEST way to actually
GET the kind of woman you want, I suggest
you take a private, 1-on-1 BOOTCAMP with me
where you will be IMMERSED in real world
interactions with tons of cream-of-the-crop
women, again and again and again - and
at all times, you will be getting my most
powerful coaching, the result of ten YEARS
of dedication to getting men the results
they want with women.
You can email with any questions at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com and
you can find full details at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html
Now, I realize not EVERYBODY can take the
bootcamp immediately, which is why I have
gone ALL OUT over the years to develop
the most effective programs on attracting
the best quality women.
These programs contain crucial information
for successfully approaching, attracting,
and keeping a quality woman, and also serve
as a fantastic foundation for guys who
want to come to bootcamp with their skills
as sharp as possible so that they aren't
starting out from scratch.
If you haven't yet downloaded my book,
'The Dating Wizard', then that is definitely
the place to start. It's packed with powerful
strategies you can use to start meeting
fantastic women IMMEDIATELY.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html
To find out about ALL my programs, including
coaching over the phone, go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael Marks
getting that dream woman- this is what it's
all about.
I'm talking about the kind of fantastic
woman who is a total package and would
make for an incredible girlfriend.
This is very different than just getting
numbers of drunk girls at bars and clubs.
Whereas party girls are all about you
acting over the top, getting a quality
woman is all about you developing
deeper and deeper levels of connection,
starting from the light fluff stuff
and then working your way to a
deeper connection than anything she
has had with anyone before.
So let's cut straight to the chase on some
GOLDEN insights on how to get that dream woman.
ONE:
Have you ever heard that EYE CONTACT is important?
Well, it is, but if you don't understand the REASON
for why it's important, then you will not do it properly,
and when it comes to attracting a woman, HOW you
do something counts just as much as WHAT you do.
So the problem is that many men have heard that eye
contact with a woman is important, but they have
been told it's because this shows CONFIDENCE,
it shows that you are not afraid, etc, etc, etc.
Well, this is only the TIP of the iceberg actually.
The FULL TRUTH is that a woman wants to be
SEEN FOR WHO SHE REALLY IS, not just
for her superficial self. And the eyes are the
windows to the soul, so to speak. If you don't
look her in the eyes when you speak, you are
NEVER truly allowing yourself to see her
for who she is.
Before you think this is just a superficial thing,
think about this: Ever notice how hard it is to
LIE to someone when you are looking them
straight in the eyes?
There is a feeling of HONESTY when two people
are truly seeing "eye to eye" - this is why the
phrase "seeing eye to eye" to describe two people
in harmony, developed over the years.
So the reality is that by giving a woman eye contact,
and looking deep into her eyes, you are not just
SHOWING YOUR OWN value and confidence,
but you are also GIVING so much more as well.
See? You are actually GIVING in a way that
is SEXY and ATTRACTIVE and CHARISMATIC.
The OTHER element here that makes the eye
contact even MORE powerful is your ability to
be able to ABSORB the eye contact she is giving
YOU. When you feel unworthy, you tend to look
away, and yet that makes a woman feel that you
are somehow UNTRUSTWORTHY.
She is feeling "why is this guy looking away from me?"
and "What is he hiding?"
So lack of eye contact also disrupts the flow of
TRUST, which is sooo important in creating
that all important CONNECTION with a woman
so she can unleash her sexuality and let go with
you. Without that trust and connection, it's never
going to be a strong sexual connection, that's for
sure. She will be very limited, because she can't
truly let go of her inhibitions with you.
So, now that you understand the REAL reasons
for eye contact, you will do it not in a HARSH
way, but in a GIVING, and LOVING WAY.
Yes, this is TRULY the way of the confident,
MAN, the man who is flowing with ABUNDANCE
of charisma, confidence, who knows he has value.
THIS is the way to behave. Do NOT think of
eye contact just as some type of display of your
ability to show that you can confront her, eye
to eye. Instead, think of it as your ability to
show that you want to see DEEP INTO HER
IDENTITY, for who she really is.
Remember, emotions are not logical- and though
this looking into her eyes thing might not TOTALLY
seem logical, the reality is that it FEELS very
powerful, just think of how it feels when a woman
looks deep into YOUR eyes, and how hard it is
to not look away when she is sooooooo amazingly
beautiful, if you are not used to it. So get USED
to it, and start learning to keep eye contact.
If you are new to all this, practice when walking
on the street, keep eye contact with a woman,
and let HER be the first one to look away.
When you look into a woman's eyes, you make
her feel like you are looking into her for who
she really is, beyond just her body, and the
reality is that you will FEEL this way too,
so you really are helping BOTH of you
to see each other on an emotionally deep
level as well. So be a GIVER and do this.
In our crazy culture, we're conditioned to do
anything EXCEPT make eye contact, as if
was WRONG to develop this powerful of
an emotional connection to another person,
when in reality if we all did this we might
have a more CONNECTED society, but
you can take advantage of the fact that
no one ELSE does this and be the man who
is that much more SPECIAL and charismatic
with a woman because you are one of the
few men who actually DO make that eye
contact.
TWO:
BEING COCKY WITH WOMEN?
And here's ANOTHER important distinction
to make--the whole idea of making cocky
jokes with a woman, it's not necessary, and
when it DOES work, it ONLY works when
you are doing it through the FILTER of
being a GIVER, not a taker...A woman senses
this as TRUE confidence...
Let me give you an example- if I make fun
of a woman, I will do it in a way where it
is absolutely clear that what I am saying
CANNOT BE TRUE. So if she is an
A+ student and gorgeous, then I can tease
her for having no future, and she will
LAUGH and love it.
Because it shows that I am just playing with
her. But to actually say things that ENDANGER
a woman's sense of self-esteem is INSANE
and will ALWAYS lead to problems, because
even if a woman doesn't IMMEDIATELY
strike back at you for this, eventually she
WILL. GUARANTEED.
And the few times she doesn't strike back at you?
That's because she has already determined that
the "tactic" was a result of insecurity and low
self-esteem, that the guy felt he needed to do
that, so she ignores it, makes the guy feel
like he said something brilliant or she ignores
it, (out of pity for the guy with low self esteem)
then goes on to another man and forgets
the guy with the insult forever.
Having to resort to insults to a woman to show
that you are not "under her thumb" would be
a very PRIMITIVE way of showing that she
is not controlling your thoughts or emotions
and that she is not "all that"...
This is why I am totally against the idea of
doing this, contrary to dating television shows
that suggest that these insults are the way to
get a woman's interest. This kind of info
is almost like a conspiracy, as it SOUNDS
interesting, but actually HARMS guys'
results with women.
THREE:
And here's ANOTHER golden tip- the
whole idea of WOMEN TESTING MEN--
is completely misunderstood.
If women so naturally create tests, to determine
if you are "man enough", then does it make sense
to try to FAKE your way through her testing
system by learning "lines" or learning how
ACT arrogant or trying to be arrogant????
Well, that's what most "experts" suggest
You do, to act arrogant or to show you
are in power.
Do you really think that such a powerful primal
tool that has lasted for millions of years in a
woman's brain could so easily be overpowered??
NO, the REAL way to pass a woman's test is
to actually BE the man.. not how to PRETEND
to not be "under her spell" etc,
And how do you do this? You do this by
understanding first of all what REAL confidence is,
what the REAL reason behind all these
"attractive behaviors" is...so for example
the EYE contact for is not to so much to
show that you are NOT AFRAID of her,
but to show that you are confident enough
to want to TRULY UNDERSTAND her, that
you want to see her for who she really is...
and the eye contact is also extremely
impressive in a culture that says "no
eye contact" a culture that says you
should just "leave me ALONE..."
when deep down people CRAVE
a feeling of a special CONNECTION,
and almost NO ONE is getting that
connection!!!
So, when you actually DO all these things,
that are actually a form of GIVING, guess
what happens? You got it--a woman then
sees there is NO NEED to test you in the
FIRST place!!!!! If a woman is testing
You all the time, then either she is the
Wrong woman, or you are DOING things
to MAKE her need to test you!!!!!
And definitely, following the "give her
the arrogant behavior" and "sugar coated
insults" and other behaviors that show
untrustworthiness and shady character
will all make her feel the NEED to test
you for all sorts of things, from your
manliness to your sense of integrity
and honesty.
What you have just read is just a GLIMPSE
into a whole other dimension that you can
be living in with the woman of your dreams.
If you want the FASTEST way to actually
GET the kind of woman you want, I suggest
you take a private, 1-on-1 BOOTCAMP with me
where you will be IMMERSED in real world
interactions with tons of cream-of-the-crop
women, again and again and again - and
at all times, you will be getting my most
powerful coaching, the result of ten YEARS
of dedication to getting men the results
they want with women.
You can email with any questions at
michaelmarks@getagreatgirl.com and
you can find full details at:
http://www.getagreatgirl.com/realworld.html
Now, I realize not EVERYBODY can take the
bootcamp immediately, which is why I have
gone ALL OUT over the years to develop
the most effective programs on attracting
the best quality women.
These programs contain crucial information
for successfully approaching, attracting,
and keeping a quality woman, and also serve
as a fantastic foundation for guys who
want to come to bootcamp with their skills
as sharp as possible so that they aren't
starting out from scratch.
If you haven't yet downloaded my book,
'The Dating Wizard', then that is definitely
the place to start. It's packed with powerful
strategies you can use to start meeting
fantastic women IMMEDIATELY.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Wizard.html
To find out about ALL my programs, including
coaching over the phone, go here:
http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.php
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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