How To Succeed & Why Most Guys FAIL

A quick important note on the process
of CHANGING yourself to become
STRONGER INTERNALLY:

At first, the learning actually HURTS,
(i.e. NOT giving in to your fears
or insecurities) the change feels
MORE uncomfortable than not changing
and just continuing what you
were doing before (i.e. giving in
to your insecurities or catering
to them) but if you just
STICK with the NEW PATTERN of
behavior, (i.e. NOT giving into
your insecurities) it, it gets BETTER,
WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY better, you
start to actually EMOTIONALLY
change and become stronger and
see how the insecurity was
HOGWASH.

You start to finally SEE the truth
that this stuff WORKS.

Most people QUIT because they think
the initial pain is a sign they are
doing it all wrong or that it doesn't
work- but this is the most important
time to STICK with it, because THIS
is where a MASSIVE change happens,
if you just STICK with it.

Many people make the mistake of making
a bit of a change, then feeling
uncomfortable they QUIT AFTER A COUPLE
OF DAYS, etc, then they go back and do
it again a few weeks later, then
QUIT after a couple of days, they
never stick with it for enough
CONSECUTIVE days so that they experience
the real CHANGE, all they experience is
the pain, so they figure it doesn't
work.

But if you just stick with it, through
the initial pain, THAT'S where the
REAL CHANGE happens.

Michael Marks
http://www.getagreatgirl.com